i get that fetishes can be weird and even degenerate, and this is kinda throwing stones in a glass house, but i think that someone has to have enough self awareness to see how retarded some fetishes are like the inanimate objects posted in this thread or stuff like a fat fetish bundled with an attraction to ridiculous looking body shapes, and that self awareness SHOULD cause enough self reflection to make a person think "maybe even though part of my brain finds this attractive, i can override those thoughts with my rational thinking, and maybe i dont have to indulge in some hyper specific subfetish and instead i can go with a regular fat character instead of AN INANIMATE OBJECT"