When I lived in student accomodation a long time ago, there was a girl who I found very attractive. She was very thin, somewhat athletic and we vibed massively. She wasn't very intelligent, but not stupid either
Anyway, somehow we became unseperable. We spent every day together pretty much. I was a very bad influence
I didn't really mean to be. I wasn't trying to fatten her up or anything. But she loved my cooking, and I was trying to gain weight, so all my cooking was full of cream and butter and incredibly bad for you
She was a very athletic person, but she spent most of her time hanging out with me. I'm not a very athletic person at all. I guess she stopped excercising, because I never saw her excercise once after we became friends.
There's a time I remember at the shops, she was craving chocolate. She told me she had already gained 10 lbs and knew she shouldn't have it. I *really* wasn't trying to make her gain weight, but I pointed out the nutritional information, how it said it's only 7% of the daily intake per serving, how she could eat it responsibly and it would be perfectly healthy. 7% isn't very much at all. I guess that math worked for her. She also ended up getting the family sized one, because I told her it was cheaper per 100g. She seemed to think that was a bad idea, but I said if she is only going to be having one serving per day, she could keep it in her fridge as a treat.
You can see where this is going. Every time I encouraged her to eat, it wasn't really based on anything other than I like people to be happy. She enjoyed eating, so I gave her the excuses she wanted. In my mind, if she didn't want me to talk her into it, why would she be complaining to be that she shouldn't? I never made her eat anything
Anyway, she started making comments as she got bigger. Saying stuff like "I feel like you're trying to make me fat". "Why are you always trying to make me eat that stuff" etc. It didn't stop her eating it though.
I wish I could tell you she ballooned into a massive 800 lb immobile blob, but the sad truth is she barely hit obese. She never told me how much she weighed, but she was noticeably fatter. People around us mentioned it. Said I was a bad influence on her. I guess they got bad vibes from me pushing food on her. I didn't think I was doing anything wrong at the time. Maybe I was, though, thinking back. I didn't intend it to be. I genuinely thought she wanted to be talked into it.
We drifted away after that. I left the student accomodation. We met a few times after, but not many. She became friends with my ex (who WAS massive, but not by my doing) and I didn't really want to hang out with them. I have no idea what happened to her. They invited me to an all you can eat buffet a few times. I kind of hope she kept getting bigger with a fat friends influence