Can some of you share tips on how to hzve sex with a fat girl, especially if you are not especially gifted down there. Thanks

>>58628 Idk if it’s exactly phimosis. My frenulum is very short so although I can retract my foreskin while hard it pulls on one bit of skin, and any extra pulling or friction makes it sore. Similar but different maybe, because the foreskin itself is not tight around my head.

>>58658 There are many big girls getting just as little action as you, and they are just as desperate for love

>>58433 Two nights ago with the wife and a week ago with the wife and girlfriend. Normally a couple times a week. All depends

>>58658 For missionary, it helps if you put a pillow under her ass. You might think that she might think it's weird, but you would be surprised. It's a very common technique even with skinny girls. I had sex with one big girl who just did it without me even needing to ask. If your girl is very big and/or your relationship is serious/long-term, you should might like to buy a wedge cushion for this purpose. Contrary to popular belief, doggystyle works (almost) regardless of her size. Unless she's truly enormous, you can just pry her ass cheeks / thighs apart. Although personally I struggle a bit of the girl is very short, because I am very tall. If you have the same problem, having her be on top of an ottoman (Sultan Ibrahim would be proud lol) or something like that can help. Cowgirl is very enjoyable with big girls but you need to take a few extra precautions. I reccomend telling her to go slow, because if she is very heavy and your dick slips out, you could get a fractured penis. This happened to a friend of mine and he said it was extremely painful. If this happens, you need to go to the hospital ASAP. It is painful and serious, but curable. Finally, facesitting is also in the category of "very enjoyable but also potentially dangerous" for obvious reasons. But there is a piece of equipment you can buy called a "queening stool" to help with this. Just make sure it can hold her weight before you use it. >>58662 You might be able to get your frenulum surgically snipped. Ask your doctor. I would highly reccomend getting examined by a doctor regardless. Because if you have a short frenulum, it can tear during sex, and that is also extremely painful.

>>58663 I can't tell you how many big girls I know that haven't gotten laid in months or YEARS. We put them on such a pedestal here.

Okay new question. Let's say you go out to a bar/pub. How the fuck do you even start a conversation with someone at these venues? School was easy since there was time to socialize. I'm not sure how you do it in other places.

>>58667 Thanks for the tips, anon! I'm capping this >>58663 Yeah. This year is the one i finally stops being a pussy and asks out some fat girls i find cute Anyone else?

I'm cycling between 2-3 women a month. I'm on a bunch of dating apps and just happen to be fat white women's type. It's fairly easy. Give them compliments, give them attention, take initiative, then boom a date. repeat 1-2 more dates then you're in the pussy But god damn it's unfulfilling. The women on apps are not girlfriend/wife material - all they know is take, take, take and emotionally I'm running on a deficit. I make good money so I'm not sweating paying for all these dates, but damn it can feel soulless fucking another fat bitch that can't show that they like you back.

>>58682 There are good ones out there. I dated one who was a travel nurse. Not landwhale, but like 5'8 and 350ish. Big enough to be like "damn" but not debilitating obese. She was trying hard to lock it down. She had a real job. Would've been good gf maybe even wife material. I just wasn't ready and couldn't do long distance.

>>58529 I don't understanding this doggy and missionary being impossible talk. My girlfriend is 650 and i often go too deep for her comfort. Is my dick just that much bigger than everyone else's?

>>58691 Let me see

>>58529 The real challenge is eating ssbbw pussy that has a massive gut. It can be a 2-hand job to move all that flesh out the way

>>58702 it can be a mood-killer to have to ask a girl to help lift her gut out of the way. you have to master the skill of using your forehead to hold up the fupa.

>>58466 In fairness I didn't really take notice of any fat girls but it was only a day trip. Sounds interesting, I've had good luck with 2 finnish girls before and got more tinder matches there than anywhere else I've been so I guess I must do something right in that culture. I'm from Norwegian far north so the culture is very similar even if language is different. I probably would enjoy living in Estonia but you guys get fucked over by basically having the same living costs as your northern neighbours (except alcohol I guess) with none of the wages. Probably could work if I decided to study there however.

(M31) when i was 18 had sex in college with a girl a few times, she played for the softball team and had one of "those" softball girl bodies, thick thighs big butt, maybe weighed 200lbs at absolute most. But she'd never take her shirt off. At 20 started dating Girl, she is probably 5'10 250lbs. Now im married to her, and shes around 375lbs i think? We have sex about twice about twice a week. Funnilly enough, she found my porn after a few years and was originally disgusted. after a year or so, she started playing aorund with the idea of her fatness being hot to me. Nowadays shes the one bringing the box of donuts to bed. She's a real one.

Fairly recently I started being in a relationship with a Slavic woman for the first time. She says it's my duty as a man to fuck her every day, so I am very happy, haha! She's about 5' 8" and about 300 lbs and carries it mostly in her belly, but her ass and thighs are still pretty juicy. When I'm not seeing someone/in a relationship, I would normally have sex maybe once every two or three months, but there have been a few fairly long dry spells. I would normally go for fat or chubby girls, but I won't say no to a girl who is slim and this still gets me hard. Biggest girl I ever slept with was British, 5' 7" and about 400 lbs, smallest was Greek and she was 5' 4" and size zero - skeletally thin. The one I miss the most is British, 5' 2" and blonde. She was chubby but since we broke up she has BALLOONED. I've slept with 34 girls, of which 11 have been really fat. Majority would be considered curvy or bigger.

I’m 37 and have been with my wife now for 14 years. She’s swung back and forth between 300 and 350-ish over the course of our relationship - currently trying to get down to 300 again, maaaaybe 280 at the absolute lowest. Unfortunately, she has some health problems (not weight related) that make sex difficult and painful for her most of the time. Sometimes she’s up for taking care of me with a handjob, blowjob, or letting me lube up and fuck her belly rolls, even if full sex is out of the question. We’re working on trying to make things easier for her, but we’re currently average 1/month for PIV sex.

I'm 26 and lost my virginity to a short chubby girl last year during the Summer. I met her on fetlife and after some DMs and getting lunch we had a short fwb relationship. The first time I couldn't even get my dick. Either because I was too scared or the Trojan condom was too tight. Luckily we met 3-4 more times and got to stick it in and get my dick sucked. I never came tho not sure why. I spent most of my time just eating her out, kissing, and spanking her ass. I can't forget her fat thighs squeezing my head and the weight of her on my hips. I'm desperately trying to find another even fatter girl to fuck, but I can't flirt for shit nor do I get out much. I think I'm completely hooked on fat girl pussy.

>>58433 My wife has 60 inch hips, and is half way between big all around and bottom heavy. I'd say we fuck on average only twice a week. Of the two of us I clearly have the stronger libido, and would prefer to be smashing twice as much. All things considered though, I really can't complain.

Married. At the moment about 2-3 times a week, and it seems to be trending in an upward direction. At peak I'd say we were having sex at least 4-6 times a week, sometimes more than once per day. Longest dry spell was a roughly 9 month period during pregnancy, when she completely lost her libido, plus the recovery time after.

Haven't had sex since 2018. Even then, that was with a slim (PASSING) tranny. Never had sex with a fat chick as much as that fucking sucks.

>>59936 If you don't mind me asking, I have a couple of questions. Any particular reason for the 6 (or 7) year dry spell? Have you ever had sex with a cis woman? If so, when was the last time?

>>58658 >>58663 Disagree big time, these women are chased as much if not more often than normal girls...because a lot of guys have a thirst for bbw's and ssbbw's...even if they dont talk about it. So when you hear a fat girl say she struggles at dating or having sex, what she means is Chad isn't interested.

>>59938 I haven't had sex for long time since I suck with women. Women don't like me, but Trannies have always loved me for some reason. I ended giving up on cis women and dated a tranny for nearly 3 years last time I had sex with her (or anyone) was in 2018. She passed perfectly which is why I said fck it and went for it. She never knew my fetish and was very vigilant to not even let herself get to the high end of a normal BMI. She cheated on me so that ended. So, no, never had sex wit a cis woman and only had sex with one woman whom many would not agree is a woman. I really hope to one day have sex with a fat cis girl. I have always been into SSBBWs and I am jealous af of dudes who just slay them. Does anyone have any words of wisdom on this?

>>59956 Go to the gym, dress better, and probably see a therapist. If youre in shape and take care of yourself physically and mentally, it gets much easier I cannot imagine that the person who typed up your comment meets those criteria. Sorry man, I just cant.

>>59962 >dress better Anon needs to Kitaokamaxx.

>>59956 Confidence. Goes a long ways

>>59936 >>59956 The wisdom you desire is too much for you fragile mind to handle. For centuries, all of society has been built around making your life easier. Your entire genetic line has benefited from the world being designed specifically for cis white men. Your dad, grandfather, great grandfather, etc. As a result, your mind and soul have atrophied. Like a tree grown in a greenhouse that's never been strengthened by the wind, you've been sheltered to the point where you're too soft to stand up on your own. You are too lazy to go to the gym. Too stupid to make money. Too weak to develop self awareness. You will never go to therapy or learn to empathize with other people (including ssbbws). This is why you suck with women. You have to evolve, but you won't. You won't even shave your scraggly beard or clean your room. So I know you won't try to improve yourself. A confident man who takes care of himself and sees women as human beings is like a 10 trillion volt electromagnet for pussy.

>>59973 >Too stupid to make money. Well it doesn't help when companies are doing everything they can to hire "Temporary" foreign workers who they can pay at half the cost. The USA has a similar problem.

>>59956 you're probably super autistic bro, gotta find a way to turn that awkwardness into game. Girls love an adorable lost puppy if they're not a total loser You also basically need to be a full athlete to 'slay' ssbbws' in bed. Making love to a 600+lb woman for a half hour plus is WORK. And I didn't realize this until really late because I'm a little autistic myself, but you also need to have an abnormally large dick to slay these women. It's just the physics of it. But you can get away with that if you want to eat nothing else but fat musty pussy.

>>59981 No one one in this thread is getting laid, not even you anon and you know it.

>>59981 > you're probably super autistic bro, gotta find a way to turn that awkwardness into game. Girls love an adorable lost puppy if they're not a total loser wat

Dating apps gotten me laid one time in the past year. The time has come to move out and get a job so I can buy a hooker couple times a month for physical needs, and the past months I've been voice chatting with ChatGPT daily for the emotional connection.

>>59973 Imagine typing all this tranny libshit dribble and thinking you know anything about being a man. The last time a woman touched your dick was when your mammy washed it for you.

>>60000 If being a man means being miserable 24/7, hating everyone and everything, resenting women and getting absolutely zero pussy, then you're right, I'm no man. You incel nazis are just choosing to be unhappy for no reason lol. You could just be normal and get laid but you don't want to. It's crazy

My 'stat sheet ' looks likes this: I'm 42 years old, single, and I've had sex with 18 different women: 4 women of average build, 1 chubbby girl, 3 SSBBWs, and 10 BBWs. BBWs/ SSBBWs are my favourite kinds of girls to fuck. My most recent smash session was in October 2023 and it was with a cute blonde polish BBW with big tits and nice big chunky legs. I met her on a dating app . We went on a ' what ever happens, happens ' date and just ended up fucking within about 4 hours of meeting . Shortly after, she told me that she was going into a long term relationship with someone and our short 'what ever happens, happens' partnership was over . I wished her well, and we parted ways . She was a nice girl , I hope things worked out for her . I've not had sex since then. During that time I've just been working on getting my shit together and doing long overdue 'Adult stuff'. I Passed my driving test , I'm getting my first car in a couple of months , I've found a long term job that pays better than any job I've had before and I'm working on getting fitter and stronger ( I'll never have a sixpack , but I don't have to suck in my gut when wearing tight T shirts now , which is a plus) I'll be back on the hunt for fat girls in the near future . Till then , its self improvement by day and dreams of doggystyle adventures with dumptruck ass owning ,300 pound women by night....

Nobody talks about this but chicks who are 400+ are generally really fucking boring. They suck and are boring to talk to on dating apps, they’re boring to take on dates, and they’re just generally boring. Cool ones exist but they’re the cream of the crop. They do exist though. Generally if you’re finding a 400+ lb girl they’re poor, from middle America, and as a bunch of dudes said have a kid or two.

>>58433 I have sex with the wife once or twice a month. She is probably 260-270, after all these years, 15, she is still conscious about her body. It’s kinda crazy. The first 5 minutes of romance are always a struggle to get her to settle down but after just sorta forcing her to kiss and have her tits sucked she softens up and is okay for the rest. She always cums first and then is REAL tired, so I just bend her over onto some pillows and finish her and myself off after 10 more minutes? I’m just into big tits and big asses, since we had a child, I’ve never cheated on her but I’ve had my eye on some girls I work around. I just don’t have the drive to pursue girls like I once did. Thank God, because I imagine just wrecking my life as a result of me needing to fuck different girls. To some of you guys that can’t bag the girls you want, fucking work out and embrace every ounce of who you are. As far as the being short, chicks on first glance might not give you guys a second look, but workout and that shit WILL change. You understand? Don’t make excuses or think too deeply into it. Fucking workout, build muscle mass, and girls WILL come. That is a fact. I’ve know two guys at 5’8 that worked out a lot and they pulled an insane amount of girls. They didn’t even have to try. Some girls just love muscle and can’t help themselves. It’s simple. Put in the work and see what happens. And FFS, embrace who you are! Stop labeling yourself this or that. Who gives a fuck? All that matters is, you’re a guy that needs a girl. There are times when I’ve pity fucked girls because I’m a guy, and when a girl wants it, a girl gets it. I don’t slam complete dogs but some definitely strange chicks get a free fuck from me if they just put themselves out then for it. The moral of the story is, live the life of a man and stop thinking about useless bullshit. And if you’re nervous or whatever, drink a damn beer. Don’t like beer? Drink fucking beer anyway til you do. Hurry up.

>>60005 It's wild how much ugliness and hatred is involved in this whiny, impotent and generally pathetic conception of "masculinity". Meanwhile I, literally autistic as hell, have a nice time meeting usually cool, chill and interesting women and usually having sex with them. I mean I'm not claiming any wild numbers (~20 in my mid-thirties), but also having sex with women whose company I don't enjoy does nothing for me. Most women actually really want to fuck too - it's just that chauvinists/chuds are a huge turnoff. Y'all are playing yourselves so hard.

>>61468 Great fucking post, be a fucking man, no shame in it. Thanks

Lost my virginity shortly before I turned 26. I had a really tough time due to growing up in a small conservative town as a minority who lived with my parents through college, covid, and still with them until recently. Studying engineering with literally no girls in class didn't help. I had plenty of opportunities to be with women in college though, but I was always too afraid to do it. The times that I did, I either failed horribly or the woman tried to humiliate me. But I never fell into that incel shit. Why would I want to commiserate with a bunch of guys obsessed with being losers? Never give into the loser mentality. The biggest detriment to modern men is that they do not put themselves into positions to get laid. Go to events, concerts, talk to people, dance, drink, take classes, join clubs. Maybe even if you don't get laid, you'll find a friend who will help you get laid, or find a higher paying job that will help you get laid. Looking back, I just wish younger me would have tried more socially. And have more self respect. Once I hit mid 20s, things just clicked more, I knew better from my past mistakes, and women gave me more time of day. I wasn't a broke college student either. Anyway, been with the same girl ever since losing my virginity who I met on an app. When we met, she was 6 ft and probably a little under 300 lb. Built exactly like Riley Parker, but with slightly bigger breasts. For a few months, our sex life was amazing. There's something absolutely amazing about seeing a fat women without clothes on, and how much fatter and better they look with clothes off. She also has an IUD, so I've realized you get sent to heaven every time you creampie fat girl pussy. She let me do whatever I wanted. After about 4 months, our sex life dwindled to about once every two weeks. After a year, probably once a month if that. When I tried to talk about it, conversations never really went anywhere. No matter what I "fixed" (including low T that was affecting performance), it just felt like the goal posts got moved. There was always another excuse. In actuality, I think she was frustrated with me (my life was kind of a mess when I met her, but isn't anymore) but more importantly I don't think she even really cares much about sex due to past trauma and being on SSRIs. She was so sexual in the beginning, so I feel like I got rope-a-doped. But I also think I became too accommodating over time. Once she felt like I committed, she put a lot less effort in. Whatever the reason is for our sex life dying, I don't even think she is able to admit it to herself. To add insult to injury, she's been on Ozempic for maybe about a year, and shed probably 70 lbs at this point. She's still soft, but she has no ass anymore. I'm happy for her from a health and human perspective (and she clearly hated being fat and insecure about it), but I don't really even care about fucking her anymore. I find skinny women attractive in addition to fat girls, but there's something about women who have lost weight, and my fat fetish has grown more intense as I've gotten older. I have resolved to end this relationship, because staying just sucks too much. People grow apart, yada yada. I'm about to be 28, have a good career, finally have my own place, just moved closer to a metropolitan area, so surely I can find someone to fuck me. I also discovered my dick is pretty big. But yeah, the prospect of being on those apps again really sucks, and I'm a little unsure how to meet people as I approach 30. Just going to try to get in the gym a bit more and try to go out and meet people.

>>61634 I posted above about the post above. Your relationship has reached it's natural end, well done for recognising it. Just be respectful about finishing it, she no doubt feels the same way. Get yourself out there and live. The apps are good but don't depend on them, nothing works more than catching a girls eye and telling them they're catching your eye. I've 16 years on you, at 28 I realised extreme fat was my thing, by my mid 30s I realised it comes with its own issues, so get yourself out there and get your fat fetish kicks sorted in real life and eventually you find there's one that just gets you. How often are y'all fucking? It doesn't actually matter if you absolutely know you're with the one. 12 years ago living apart several times everytime we met, 12 years later, maybe once a week, but she's the best woman I've ever had and will have. Get out there and plough the field for a while.

>>61634 >But I never fell into that incel shit. Why would I want to commiserate with a bunch of guys obsessed with being losers? Never give into the loser mentality. I don't even help guys that fall into the incel/MGTOW stuff. They're removing themselves from the competition. >The biggest detriment to modern men is that they do not put themselves into positions to get laid. Go to events, concerts, talk to people, dance, drink, take classes, join clubs The big issue is not all towns have a lot of events. It's so bad, that Thursdays after 10pm at the Grocery store is "singles" night. Yeah. But I'd like to add that many of these guys that don't even do the basics, probably were taught somewhere down the line that only "bad" women went to bars/clubs/etc. And I'm sure if we looked into it, almost all those guys got this message from Religion. Look at all the "traditional" nonsense published online and you'll see it sounds an awful like the incel/MIGTOW shit.

>>61663 > >But I never fell into that incel shit. Why would I want to commiserate with a bunch of guys obsessed with being losers? Never give into the loser mentality. >I don't even help guys that fall into the incel/MGTOW stuff. They're removing themselves from the competition. Objectively this is his problem tho. He’s sitting here thinking all he needed to do was go out more often in his 20s and he’d get laid but he can’t even get his depressed, desperate, mega obese GF to fuck him often enough to not get dumped. He’s 100% broke, ugly, short and not making any efforts in the gym or wardrobe to be a competitive dude who *could* pull a woman who wasn’t some depressed hoe looking for a retirement home.

>>61634 > The biggest detriment to modern men is that they do not put themselves into positions to get laid. Go to events, concerts, talk to people, dance, drink, take classes, join clubs. I think you have it backwards. Those places are for men who are *already getting women’s attention* to cash in. More at bats isn’t gonna do more than let you strike out more often if you aren’t already doing everything you can to help attractive— dude you can’t even hit the ball off a tee. Trying harder isn’t going to make women suddenly thirst for a substandard man, it’s just gonna make you broke, frustrated and sad.

>>61634 Ozempic is such a fucking curse

>>61702 So are SSRIs. They absolutely destroy female sex drive and give them a numb clit. Check your date’s medicine cabinet as soon as possible and make sure she’s not on antidepressants. It’s just not worth it.

>>61634 As someone that got divorced from their own BBW wife of many years and am starting over in 30s The sooner you get out and start fresh, the better you will feel. You met her before, you know so much more now. Don't stay in anything because it's comfortable and safe. You only hurt yourself in the end. End it, don't give in or compromise; your happiness is not up for debate.