I'm 28. The last time I had sex was almost exactly a year ago. I have had sex with 6 women, with long dry spells between each one. Two of those dry spells were just shy of 3 years. I don't know if I'd qualify as an "incel"; I don't hate women or anything. But I am very lonely and sexually frustrated. I've never had a serious romantic relationship. I think the longest relationship I've had was probably about 4 months, and that was about 5 years ago. All of the women I've had sex with were fat, and I met all of them online. I used to use dating apps and had some success with them, but they seem to be getting worse and worse as time goes on. I just don't get matches anymore so I've given up on the apps. In all honesty, I greatly lowered my standards for the last two women I slept with. I'm no good at flirting IRL (although I can talk to women platonically just fine). I think it's a combination of autism (diagnosed) and low self esteem. I think there's a bit of anxiety there as well. I've always been self conscious about my lack of success/experience with women, and that's getting worse as I get older. The last woman I had sex with asked me about my body count and laughed at me when I said it was 6 including her. I don't expect my situation to change soon as I've recently become unemployed. But I am planning on emigrating soon so I have a vain hope that things might be better for me in a new country. Irish women can be very standoffish, to put it kindly.

>>58433 Pretty good, 3x a week, I guess. I have a gf (been together for a year), she isn't bbw, but somewhere between chubby and a fatty (75kg, short). I introduced this kink to her and she was careful at first but now she is wilder sometimes then I am lol

>>58433 >How often do you, you who frequent this fat fetish board, have sex with fat women? As often as I could but I am trying to re-prioritise what I want out of relationships I'm not really an incel because I have been with 5 people but I do subscribe a bit to the blackpill, only I don’t blame women for everything. I just have shit genetics and the longer my dry spells are, the more I get into those ways of thinking, affecting my confidence (what little I have) etc It sometimes feels like a double blow to one's ego when fat women are the ones often deemed the least desirable of the women in society and then to be rejected by them is like damn 💀 However I know it's a bit narcissistic to think that way. No one is ‘entitled’ to anyone regardless of how they look or how ‘undesirable’ they are in society’s eyes. Rejection still hurts regardless of "how good" the other person is. You’re just ridiculed harder the "less desirable" the woman is in their eyes if she rejects you I am just bitter at myself for not fitting the mold of how an attractive man should be. As a short man (5'6") I share many of the same struggles of women who can't find relationships due to their size but I get none of the sympathy. While being fat can often be a positive and desirable trait for women, being short is always a negative for a guy. It’s not that I am necessarily repulsive to women or that they hate me in some way, I’m just invisible to them. It is what it is >>58440 I’m nearly the exact same as you, almost word for word, just a bit younger I’m not autistic but I do have anxiety and I tend to be very self critical and like you said the longer time goes on the more it gets worse You mentioned you greatly lowered your standards for the last two women you slept with. This combined with the fact she thought 6 was a laughably low body count tells you everything you need to know about her character. Bin her off I have actually been thinking a lot about my body count for the past few weeks. 5 doesn’t seem like a lot but at the end of the day I want a family, with a loving, committed wife who isn’t a complete slag. It would be hypocritical of me to want someone with a low body count if I myself do not also have one Everyone seems to be a slag nowadays (men and women). There is a proven increased probability of cheating, dissatisfaction and lack of commitment in relationships where the individuals have higher body counts for both men AND women. I will admit that maybe because I have never had pussy thrown at my feet like some of you seem to have, that I felt I was left out of being able to sleep with whoever and whenever I want made me a bit bitter and envious. Maybe there is some truth to that, but seeing so many people throw it away so ‘willy nilly’, especially when I never got so many opportunities, (to me) devalues sex and its meaning. And clearly this attitude towards sex being so casual is making people miserable. Ask the average person about dating and they tell you it sucks, no one wants commitment, no one wants to put any work in and everybody is sleeping with someone else while dating so why put in any effort anymore? I’m not religious, nor a conservative by any means but at the end of the day, I just want one solid partner. I just don’t see the appeal of 40 plus bodies, 5 ‘baby mommas’ and 3+ divorces. Sure I want to get groomed by Sasha, have a threesome with Boberry and Roxxie and smash every model on the /ssbbw board but even if I could pull something like that off in the long run it would just fuck up future relationships. I would just be constantly comparing my partner to my previous ones. ‘This other girl’s ass was rounder’ ‘her thighs were softer’ etc. Whatever my opinion, live your life however you want On the topic of high body counts though, what do you (chan board) consider a high body count for men and women? Do you think fat women have more of a tendency to have higher body counts on average? I think they might because Nearly all of them are heavily into left/progressive stuff so they wouldn’t see what all the fuss is about and might instead see it as ‘empowering.’ I mean there is good reason for this, they may have felt ostracised their entire life for being fat so naturally they would gravitate (pun not intended) to other marginalised groups and may have found belonging in such spaces Due to weight stigma they might seek more validation than others from lots of different men to confirm they are attractive due to insecurity. I am not an attractive guy but nearly all of the women who slept with me did so on the first or second date. I am bitching on a chan board so clearly it was not due to me being charming in any way, it must be something else Nearly all of them have some sort of parental issues or psychological issues like BPD or depression which usually correlates with higher sexual partners. Very few fat women are fat because they just like food and don’t care about being big, there is usually a reason why they are fat Do you think there is any truth to these? If I am wrong I want to le

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Around twice a week with my SSBBW wife.

I’m in my early 20s, fooled around with 3 girls in my life but only had sex a couple times with one of them and couldn’t cum. There’s something wrong with my foreskin that causes issues, but too embarrassed to go to the doctor about it. Discovered fetish porn at ten years old so I didn’t bother with women until very recently. I’ve been told I’m quite good looking, but I’m not the tallest and I’m not the best at presenting myself all the time. Last spring, I started hanging out with a group of very promiscuous people, rich hedonist types. The guys were constantly showing me girls they were texting on apps and telling me to make a profile, so eventually, during the comedown of an acid trip, I painstakingly crafted a tinder profile. I was a clueless virgin at this point and I was in a foreign country without a word of the local language so I got zero pussy for 2 months (not that I was keen on anyone I saw - no hot fatties in my area). Finally matched with this cute chubby girl from London with a magnificent ass and posh accent who made every move that I was to scared to. She made things very easy for me, I barely had to lift a finger. Unfortunately, as I mentioned above, I have dick issues and only discovered this when we tried to fuck so I ended things out of embarrassment after a short while. The experience though put me in a bit of a frenzy and I spent the entire summer chasing girls to no success. I’m sure they could smell the desperation from a mile away, plus I moved back in with family so all I could do was date and pray she had her own place. Also was trying to explore and see if I could get myself to feel attracted to skinny girls, to no avail. Right at the tail end of my tinder adventures, I matched with a girl and said, “this is the last one. If I don’t get this, I’m giving up.” We hit it off (same autism vibe) and have been seeing each other for a few months. Had dick issues again when we tried to fuck and now I’m trying really hard not to repeat myself. Never been with a fat girl, I find very few really big women attractive in real life. Maybe that’s just because Irish girls often hold weight badly, but regardless I’m not sure I’ll ever be seriously interested in a girl over 100kg.

>>58441 Is Estonia good for fat girls? In Tallinn I noticed way more girls looking at me compared to anywhere else, although I have no idea if they find me so much more handsome than girls elsewhere do, or if Estonians just stare without shame.

>>58433 I moved from a large city to a small town in the middle of nowhere about 1 and a half years ago. After moving I moved I have not smashed once. Small town means there are more overweight women but they all completely lack confidence or social skills, and 90% of them in my age range (24-37) have kids. I am decently attractive, dress well, and keep fit, mildly autistic but fine social skills. Sometimes a nice looking pear shaped woman will catch my eye when out grocery shopping or at walmart, but I'm not confident enough to approach strangers. When I did live in the city, I did consistently find women but would go through 3-6 month dry spells also. Actually the last time I visited I was meeting with someone new for fun and she took me home to her place which was a disgusting mess, her living room was full of dirty dishes and something smelled like it was rotting. In my experience all the women I've been with, even ones over 400 lbs have had quite nice homes, but this one was the exception. While we were making out I started to feel sick and told her I don't usually hook up on first dates, then left lol.

Unfortunately I'm a virgin

I'm still quite young but I sometimes wonder if it's even on the cards for me at all. I just don't connect with people and they stress me out to no end. Hookups just seem completely out of reach with my social skills and even then like I said people barely interest me on a platonic level as it stands enough to want something like that in the first place. Whenever I get close I usually just end up pushing away. On a semi related note, BBWs don't seem interested in me despite getting decent attention from skinny girls, being 6ft 2 and apparently having a decent face. Sorry if this turned into a ventpost.

I'm 30. Had sex with either 29 or 30 different women, I forget the exact number. Usually end up dating a conventionally attractive girl, banging 4 to 6 fat girls after the relationship ends, entering another relationship, and then repeating. I'd say 2/3rds of the women I've fucked have been over 200lbs. One in the mid to high 500's, 3 or 4 over 400, and a handful over 300. Fortunately never really had an issue finding fat girls that were pretty and took care of their hygiene. NJ and the surrounding areas seem to be very good for this. The times when I was single and had a rotation of fatties were some very very good times indeed. Currently date a girl who is conventionally attractive, 5'7 and 200ish. Been with her 3 years and shes put on about 10lbs a year, which she isnt happy about but i sure am. We fuck once or twice a month. She has anxiety and had recently had extra anxiety because of our new state's retarded anti-abortion laws. I could definitely put in more effort myself but half the time I'm so tired that I don't care that much. Getting back in the gym recently so hopefully that gets me hornier.

>>58456 Hmm, it depends a lot by region imo. In rural places (read outside of Tallinn) there use to be more big girls, but recently there seems to me more of them in Tallinn too. All this body positivity is making its way here finally. How it seemed to you while being in Tallinn? I guess Estonians are a similar to Finns in that we are quiet and shy af.

>>58433 I sleep with my wife 3-5 times per week. She's about 440/450 now, gained 100 or so pounds since we met. We've been together almost 10 years. She's into gaining and being fed, but she isn't that passionate about it, which I don't mind at all. I'm just happy she likes to eat. I dated a few fat girls in college who hated their bodies and were constantly obsessing about food, which left a big impact on me. I'm glad I found a woman who never stresses about food and just eats what she wants.

>>58458 > Small town means there are more overweight women but they all completely lack confidence or social skills, Yep, this has been my experience. I've lived in a small town all my life, and it's hell trying to get them to talk. I'm kicking myself for ditching my last ex because of how fucking hard it is to talk to women in small towns. >>58461 >On a semi related note, BBWs don't seem interested in me despite getting decent attention from skinny girls I know that feel bro.

I had a gf for six years and we fucked like weekly, after break up I have had three encounters with men, women, and enbies including one threesome. It’s pretty infrequent since becoming single because getting cock and pussy takes time and effort.

I'm well into my 30s, and I've only fucked one fat girl, or girl in general. I fucked said girl a few times since we were together at the time, and while I enjoyed the sex for what it was, it all but dissuaded me from having sex outside of longer-term relationships. I don't foresee myself being in one again anytime soon, between not really having a burning desire to pursue another one, and really not being much of a catch in terms of tangible attributes. Me being attracted to a girl on that level is rare, and it being mutual is highly improbable. Going back to the subject of sex, I would absolutely gravitate towards fat again. A sizable amount of the pleasure I got from the sex I had was interconnected with my partner's weight. Even if it made Doggy difficult and Missionary effectively impossible.

>>58452 Tight foreskin when erect behind the head? So tight that it makes it near impossible to cum when its back? This is a form of Phimosis. If this sound familiar, I have the same issue. I saw a doctor about it and he told me there was little he could do except give me steroid cream to maybe loosen the skin. Basically you have 2 options, get it cut or stretch it out. To stretch it out you can get phimosis rings or you can manually do it every day for like 20mins. Keep doing it until it isn't painful when it is pulled back while you have an erection Hope this helps

I'm >>58440 (just clarifying because my ID has probably changed. I don't change it deliberately but it seems to change a lot, idk why) >>58447 That "blackpill" shit is just pure mental poison, big time. You can't be thinking like that. It seems like you've had a lot of issues with rejection. I have been rejected a few times but for me it's more of an issue of just not trying due to anxiety / low self esteem, I guess. And some issues with my dick, more on that later. I have friends who are the same height as you and they do just fine with women, so don't let that get you down. >You mentioned you greatly lowered your standards for the last two women you slept with. This combined with the fact she thought 6 was a laughably low body count tells you everything you need to know about her character. Bin her off Ah listen man, I know, believe me. I'm actually a bit embarrassed / pissed off / disappointed with myself for dating her in the first place. But her body count comment still fucked with my head. I think you might be even more preoccupied with your body count than I am, though. I get where you're coming from to an extent; you see everyone else getting the ride all the time and you feel like you're being gypped out of something. It sounds like you've reached the conclusion that you just put a higher value on sex than most people do; there's nothing wrong with that necessarily, but you just need to either try to look for someone with that same outlook (much easier said than done) or be realistic and try not to be too judgemental if you meet someone you like and she doesn't meet that standard. If that makes any sense. >>58452 >only had sex a couple times [...] and couldn’t cum. There’s something wrong with my foreskin that causes issues, but too embarrassed to go to the doctor about it. Man, I had exactly the same problem. This is a big missing piece of the puzzle from my earlier post, but a big part of the reason why I basically gave up on pursuing women is that I have a lot of anxiety around sex and relationships for this exact reason. I actually had to have corrective surgery on my genitals twice. Orchiopexy (to treat bilateral cryptorchidism) when I was 8 and circumcision (to treat phimosis) when I was 23. As for the foreskin thing: I don't know exactly what the problem with yours is, but I had a condition called phimosis. I was able to pull back my foreskin when I was soft, but not when I was hard. 2 of the 6 women I had sex with were pre-circumcision. I had to use a lot of lube, couldn't use a condom, and wasn't able to cum. I really should have seen a doctor after the 1st time, but I didn't bother mostly out of laziness, and because I wasn't having any luck with girls anyway, so why bother? And also because that girl was a virgin so she didn't realise there was a problem. The 2nd woman, my gf at the time, urged me to go to the doctor. The GP correctly identified the problem and referred me to a urologist. The urologist said I needed a circumcision and that the stretching stuff (suggested by >>58545) wouldn't work in my case. I would recommend checking with the doctor before trying the stretching because you might be wasting your time otherwise. I went private for the procedure so I was seen quickly, it would've cost me €700 but my health insurance covered it. After getting circumcised, sex is significantly easier and more comfortable (and I can use a condom now); the only real downside is that I need lube to masturbate now. However, even after getting the surgery, I still can't cum from sex but I can cum from solo masturbation no problem. I think the problem is psychological. I'm basically too nervous to cum during sex, because there's another person involved. During sex, I need to pull out and finish with my hand, which usually takes an embarrassingly long time (if it even works at all) because (like I said) I'm too nervous. I think it wouldn't be an issue if I had a partner who was more understanding and/or if I could hold down a girlfriend long enough to develop more of a sexual rapport with her. But unfortunately the women I have been with haven't been very understanding about this at all. They tend to take it VERY personally that I can't cum, which only adds more pressure/nervousness/anxiety.

Can some of you share tips on how to hzve sex with a fat girl, especially if you are not especially gifted down there. Thanks

>>58628 Idk if it’s exactly phimosis. My frenulum is very short so although I can retract my foreskin while hard it pulls on one bit of skin, and any extra pulling or friction makes it sore. Similar but different maybe, because the foreskin itself is not tight around my head.

>>58658 There are many big girls getting just as little action as you, and they are just as desperate for love

>>58433 Two nights ago with the wife and a week ago with the wife and girlfriend. Normally a couple times a week. All depends

>>58658 For missionary, it helps if you put a pillow under her ass. You might think that she might think it's weird, but you would be surprised. It's a very common technique even with skinny girls. I had sex with one big girl who just did it without me even needing to ask. If your girl is very big and/or your relationship is serious/long-term, you should might like to buy a wedge cushion for this purpose. Contrary to popular belief, doggystyle works (almost) regardless of her size. Unless she's truly enormous, you can just pry her ass cheeks / thighs apart. Although personally I struggle a bit of the girl is very short, because I am very tall. If you have the same problem, having her be on top of an ottoman (Sultan Ibrahim would be proud lol) or something like that can help. Cowgirl is very enjoyable with big girls but you need to take a few extra precautions. I reccomend telling her to go slow, because if she is very heavy and your dick slips out, you could get a fractured penis. This happened to a friend of mine and he said it was extremely painful. If this happens, you need to go to the hospital ASAP. It is painful and serious, but curable. Finally, facesitting is also in the category of "very enjoyable but also potentially dangerous" for obvious reasons. But there is a piece of equipment you can buy called a "queening stool" to help with this. Just make sure it can hold her weight before you use it. >>58662 You might be able to get your frenulum surgically snipped. Ask your doctor. I would highly reccomend getting examined by a doctor regardless. Because if you have a short frenulum, it can tear during sex, and that is also extremely painful.

>>58663 I can't tell you how many big girls I know that haven't gotten laid in months or YEARS. We put them on such a pedestal here.

Okay new question. Let's say you go out to a bar/pub. How the fuck do you even start a conversation with someone at these venues? School was easy since there was time to socialize. I'm not sure how you do it in other places.

>>58667 Thanks for the tips, anon! I'm capping this >>58663 Yeah. This year is the one i finally stops being a pussy and asks out some fat girls i find cute Anyone else?

I'm cycling between 2-3 women a month. I'm on a bunch of dating apps and just happen to be fat white women's type. It's fairly easy. Give them compliments, give them attention, take initiative, then boom a date. repeat 1-2 more dates then you're in the pussy But god damn it's unfulfilling. The women on apps are not girlfriend/wife material - all they know is take, take, take and emotionally I'm running on a deficit. I make good money so I'm not sweating paying for all these dates, but damn it can feel soulless fucking another fat bitch that can't show that they like you back.

>>58682 There are good ones out there. I dated one who was a travel nurse. Not landwhale, but like 5'8 and 350ish. Big enough to be like "damn" but not debilitating obese. She was trying hard to lock it down. She had a real job. Would've been good gf maybe even wife material. I just wasn't ready and couldn't do long distance.

>>58529 I don't understanding this doggy and missionary being impossible talk. My girlfriend is 650 and i often go too deep for her comfort. Is my dick just that much bigger than everyone else's?

>>58691 Let me see

>>58529 The real challenge is eating ssbbw pussy that has a massive gut. It can be a 2-hand job to move all that flesh out the way

>>58702 it can be a mood-killer to have to ask a girl to help lift her gut out of the way. you have to master the skill of using your forehead to hold up the fupa.

>>58466 In fairness I didn't really take notice of any fat girls but it was only a day trip. Sounds interesting, I've had good luck with 2 finnish girls before and got more tinder matches there than anywhere else I've been so I guess I must do something right in that culture. I'm from Norwegian far north so the culture is very similar even if language is different. I probably would enjoy living in Estonia but you guys get fucked over by basically having the same living costs as your northern neighbours (except alcohol I guess) with none of the wages. Probably could work if I decided to study there however.

(M31) when i was 18 had sex in college with a girl a few times, she played for the softball team and had one of "those" softball girl bodies, thick thighs big butt, maybe weighed 200lbs at absolute most. But she'd never take her shirt off. At 20 started dating Girl, she is probably 5'10 250lbs. Now im married to her, and shes around 375lbs i think? We have sex about twice about twice a week. Funnilly enough, she found my porn after a few years and was originally disgusted. after a year or so, she started playing aorund with the idea of her fatness being hot to me. Nowadays shes the one bringing the box of donuts to bed. She's a real one.

Fairly recently I started being in a relationship with a Slavic woman for the first time. She says it's my duty as a man to fuck her every day, so I am very happy, haha! She's about 5' 8" and about 300 lbs and carries it mostly in her belly, but her ass and thighs are still pretty juicy. When I'm not seeing someone/in a relationship, I would normally have sex maybe once every two or three months, but there have been a few fairly long dry spells. I would normally go for fat or chubby girls, but I won't say no to a girl who is slim and this still gets me hard. Biggest girl I ever slept with was British, 5' 7" and about 400 lbs, smallest was Greek and she was 5' 4" and size zero - skeletally thin. The one I miss the most is British, 5' 2" and blonde. She was chubby but since we broke up she has BALLOONED. I've slept with 34 girls, of which 11 have been really fat. Majority would be considered curvy or bigger.

I’m 37 and have been with my wife now for 14 years. She’s swung back and forth between 300 and 350-ish over the course of our relationship - currently trying to get down to 300 again, maaaaybe 280 at the absolute lowest. Unfortunately, she has some health problems (not weight related) that make sex difficult and painful for her most of the time. Sometimes she’s up for taking care of me with a handjob, blowjob, or letting me lube up and fuck her belly rolls, even if full sex is out of the question. We’re working on trying to make things easier for her, but we’re currently average 1/month for PIV sex.

I'm 26 and lost my virginity to a short chubby girl last year during the Summer. I met her on fetlife and after some DMs and getting lunch we had a short fwb relationship. The first time I couldn't even get my dick. Either because I was too scared or the Trojan condom was too tight. Luckily we met 3-4 more times and got to stick it in and get my dick sucked. I never came tho not sure why. I spent most of my time just eating her out, kissing, and spanking her ass. I can't forget her fat thighs squeezing my head and the weight of her on my hips. I'm desperately trying to find another even fatter girl to fuck, but I can't flirt for shit nor do I get out much. I think I'm completely hooked on fat girl pussy.