Ok anons, I have a bit of experience here. As someone based in NYC, we got 'em big time (pun half intended lol). It's as blue as it gets, sure, but we got the most diverse food scene there is so there's never a restaurant or type of restaurant you can say you've already tried. There is ALWAYS something new or someone making a new recipe/fusion place/bringing deeply local shit over here to the Five Boros. Fatties are absolutely here, they're sprinkled more in certain areas. It's admittedly hard to go online, so it's more of an irl search/dating app filter game, but it's more than achievable. If you're looking for a fat finance girl, no lol. 50/50 on grabbing a fat teacher, but damn you're lucky if you do, the top 5 fattest women I've ever seen in person were all teachers. Size is the name of the game there, but lurking around a school for a partner gets you in all the trouble so go on a teacher dating site or something, DON'T LURK AROUND SCHOOLS. If you're looking for a fat artsy/nerdy girl, you're gonna have a good selection. We got fat normies too, but mainly look beyond trad white women. Doesn't mean go for a trans person, just means don't go for the Jay Tee actress morph looking ones, they're not worth it. Too stuck up half the time. The brown and black girls out here know they're fat, like that they're fat, and want you to like their fat. Treat 'em like people and you're bagging often. Philly has some really nice one-night stands if you're looking for that, but one day I'm taking the pilgrimage to Ohio/Michigan/The 'Soda Pop' Belt for the legendary fatty stories that come out of there.
PS we have 2 of the 3 biggest Chinatowns in the US, and I've seen a metric fuckton of Asian girls that should be sumo stars instead of whatever the fuck else they're doing. The fat Asians are here, that's a promise anons