>>73719 This is different for everyone is am sure, but she didn't start gaining weight until after I did and saw how much I was into it and then she got into me and then did it herself. Plus when youre eating to gain and a partner is there with you, its really easy to encourage her to join in. Remember it takes time and its not like flipping a switch. It's something intimate to share and that trust has to be built. In my opinion its worth a shot.

>>73665 How much is it that you weigh, if I may ask?

>>73796 Lol when the larper comes back with some ludicrously unrealistic number.

>>73663 I've known my wife for over 20 years. When we met, she was about 215 and I was about 155. I've always liked big girls and I've always wanted to be big myself. Between the time we met and got married I gained a bit and then lost back to about my original weight. She lost down to about 160. I'm a serial yo-yo dieter. Up as high as 275 and as low as 170 and every where in between. But always wanting to get fatter. She, however, hates being big, but got as high as 330. I've never pushed one way or the other. Always supporting her choices. She had enough and got WLS earlier this year and is currently sitting around 230. I am currently in a gaining phase and hoping to break my record before the end of the year. As far as being fat goes, there are numerous issues thst arise. Obviously the possibility of health problems. But aside from that, I have to shop at a big boy store for my clothes. I can't do many amusement rides or waterslides. Among other activities. And yes, walking does become more difficult. Especially if you don't keep up with it. Sex becomes difficult too. When you're both big, manoeuvering becomes an issue as well as, um, reaching. Stamina is a problem too. In the end, though, I love being fat. I want to be fatter than I am. I love food, eating and gaining. I'm also okay with my wife losing weight. It was awesome when she was 330lbs - I would love to see her that size again. But being big is not what our relationship is all about. We have other connections.

My girlfriend has gain d a lot of weight and she is actually quite upset that she struggles to do much during sex. Sometimes she'll be on top and she just doesn't have the stamina anymore to finish either of us. It's insanely hot and led to a bout of yoyo dieting and a short lived exercise routine that had a wonderful rebound. It's definitely a difficulty and requires some management but I'm enjoying it.

My wife is around 425# or so if I had to guess and she is really fuckin lazy. I do the vast majority of the housework, but she does help out. She also asks me constantly to get things out of the basement. She snores like a freight train, but then again so do I at 240# or so. She takes up wayyyyy more space on the bed but part of that is how she lays but I find myself crammed in the corner. Overall I deal with this stuff because I love her but also I love her big fat body. Working on getting her physical health in a bit better shape but theres a lot of baggage holding her back.

My wife just hit 500lbs few weeks ago while being 5’6 . As for daily life: we basically stay home. She is either on the couch or bed. When she needs food she calls me and I get it for her. She needs help getting dressed and putting shoes on. She also needs help showering and sometimes getting up. There are entire weekends when she just chills in bed and has be bring her food and ice cream. Family reactions were mostly neutral. One time a family member got alarmed when she could not get up from the couch by herself and needed help. He confronted me about that and told me I have to get her to be more healthy. People saw me hand feeding her in public and mostly just thought it was sweet.

My wife just hit 500lbs few weeks ago while being 5’6 . As for daily life: we basically stay home. She is either on the couch or bed. When she needs food she calls me and I get it for her. She needs help getting dressed and putting shoes on. She also needs help showering and sometimes getting up. Family reactions were mostly neutral. One time a family member got alarmed when she could not get up from the couch by herself and needed help. He confronted me about that and told me I have to get her to be more healthy. People saw me hand feeding her in public and mostly just thought it was sweet.

>>73807 >I want to be fatter than I am I know this is my 2nd time saying this, but I'm early 40s. It NEVER goes away. If youre in a good relationship then do it. Losing weight is always easier when you get big. Plus there's all sorts of treatments now. Just being up front with you - dont waste your life wondering what if.

A little ahead of Thanksgiving, but putting thanks here for the effort that goes into keeping this going Thanks again!!

>>73877 Sold. Hahaha. My short term goal is to get back to 275lbs. My longer term goal is to finally get to 300. We'll see what happens from there.

>>73868 Does she just never do any chores at all, what does she do all day?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for two years. When we met both of us weighed 230lbs, now I weigh 340lbs and she 315lbs. This wasn’t an intentional gain but both of us seriously enabled each other. We both are big foodies and as we dated together our diets have just gotten crazy. A normal dinner date once a week with maybe an appetizer has turned into several times a week with each of us eating several entrees worth of food and getting desert afterward. We’re just now hitting the point where we feel the impacts of our weights. Huffing and puffing climbing up stairs, bursting out clothes. When we have sex we have to fight past each others bellies. She’s always been pear shaped but not her ass is absolutely massive. When we do it doggy style I have to put my belly on top of her ass.

>>73663 GF is only 270 but it kinda sucks if you arent horny, and I'm not horny more than I am horny. She's extremely out of shape and refuses to exercises at all, ever. She cant hike without stopping every 30 seconds, she cant ride a bike without her thighs chafing so much that she needs constant breaks. Forget about anything like skiing or snowboard. She cant ride roller coasters (we experienced the whole not fitting thing which traumatized her), she cant walk around the apartment without shaking the entire building and knocking things over, or getting winded from doing virtually anything. There are other little things like reminding her to pull her shirt down when it rides up in public and starts showing her belly. All of these things that are hot in my head are the opposite in practice. My family are all normal sized people and they have invited her repeatedly to do things that she obviously cant do. I'm guessing they are just being polite but its awkward having to make excuses for her constantly so she isn't put in an awkward position where she ruins the activity for everyone else. I wish I could love my partner in totality as it sounds many others here do, but its really difficult.

>>73897 She watches her shows. Sleeps, eats. I work from home so I can always be there for her if she needs stuff.

>>73897 She can really bend down so these isn’t too much she can do without help.

My wife is currently about 130 kg/285 lbs. Highest weight was 150 kg/330 lbs, lowest on record was about 118 kg/260 lbs, although I think she was even less when we met. She is a bit above 1m70 / 5'7", very pear shape and spreads to about 60 cm/24" wide (side to side) when she is sitting down, but has only a small belly that only started to hang a little after we got our kids. I would have loved less itghs and more belly. She also has quite sever lipidema in her legs, so also her lower legs are huge. We met when she was 30, now she is in her 40's. Daily fat life was nothing special when we met, she was getting around quite ok. Just going on uphill hikes was a problem. I used to love hiking in the mountains, but that is obviously not possible at her size. If the hike is too steep or too long uphill, she started hyperventilating. I think about 200-250m/700-800' is the highest elevation change she has managed. Also uneven terrain is difficult for her, as it is difficult to find good balance. She did manage to hike to Delicate Arch in Arches NP, so that was nice. Family did not react much to her size, but that is also because they were already used that I like bigger girls :-) And she is also very educated, highly respected, good paying job etc., so these are things that family use like. Even with her wide hips, she has never knocked anything over, so I take all these stories of women knocking over things with their hips with a grain of salt. Her hips are something to take into account when we go to a restaurant or so. Small seats with armrests can be painful. On a plane I let her spill over into my seat, and now with the kids it is even easier and she can take part of their seat. For intercontinental, we travel in premium economy. Finding clothes is difficult, because of the size difference between top and bottom. Finding jeans that accomodate her huge calves is also very difficult. At her highest weight, she started to develop a noticeable belly. She was clearly struggling more, getting winded going upstairs, so I often had to do that. Could also not hike that far anymore and started to have more problems wth her knees. She was clearly lazier, because everything was harder. Other than that, she is fine health-wise: no high blood pressure, diabetes, sleep apnoe or anything like that. Probably due to her genetic constitution where she carries most of her weight in the healthy places. In general, I notice that even despite loosing weight since her highest, she is still struggling a bit, but that is probably also the toll of her age, now that she is in her 40's. She does want to loose more weight, but is doing it all by herself and despite very carefully watching what she eats, it is very difficult to loose more weight. She is very much against WLS. Currently also not in favour of GLP-1's due to the side effects, although she does a lot of research on it and talks a lot about it. I think at some point she might jump on that wagon though, if she has difficuties keeping the weight off or starts to struggle more. That is why I support her with the weight loss on her own. So overall I would say that her daily fat life is not that special. Seating options and clothes shopping is probably what impacts her the most. Mobility is ok for day-to-day life, but there are limitations for long/uphill walks and she has to be careful with what she eats, because dropping her guard on that means that she immediately gains, and most goes to her legs where it is difficult to get rid of it again.

>>73912 does she not have a job? What is her attitude like?

>>73937 Lol huge women aren't holding down jobs. The weight disables them. They aren't doing shit. Their body starts declining after thirty. Around 35-40, health issues get too hard. The choice becomes deflate or die. It's not an easy path.

>>73937 Not right down. I met her before she finished school and she went right into being home full time. Honestly working a daily job is harder at this size too. Especially with how much help she needs to even get ready and out of bed.

>>73937 As for her attitude- she is very Princessy. She is used to everything being done for her. She is also very confident about being a BBW and her looks. A very rare combo. I consider myself very lucky:.

I’m (25m, 180lbs) currently dating my super fat crush (24f, 450-500lbs?) for the past month or so, and she’s absolutely gorgeous, endearing, and adorable. She’s everything I could ask for in a woman (insatiably horny, chubby stoner, bratty but charming demeanor). I have a knack for cooking, I run errands and chores for her so she doesn’t have to lift a finger, and I love to have my princess spoiled rotten to the core, so I’m kind of a soft caregiver for her in a way. She’s quite capable of handling herself on her own, she works a busy desk job as a secretary/receptionist for a local doctor, and looks after her elderly mother in her own apartment before I met her. She’s perfect in every way imaginable to my eyes, but there’s just one thing that’s been giving me second thoughts about continuing dating this girl and eventually tying the knot down the road. The smell… I guess it kind of comes with the territory, who would’ve thought? But I’ve wanted to learn more about looking after my girlfriend and helping her out more and seeing what else I can help fix or amend for her. Her health is not stellar, not quite into feedism, but is is quite the binge eater with an insatiable sweet tooth, very inactive and sedentary, and she’s a heavy sleeper, I’m talking sleeps at minimum 12hrs/day before she met me, and snores like a boat horn. She’s as decent and courteous as she can be with her hygiene, deodorant here and there, morning and evening showers, it’s just that when we are in the act there’s this lingering musty, sickly sweet, almost cheesy smell that permeates from her as we have sex. I quite honestly didn’t expect to live the plapjak experience myself. For context, I don’t think it’s a lack of hygiene from her part as she showers frequently, and again, the deodorant part. I’ve done some research regarding the subject and it could be for a variety of reasons, possibly type 2 diabetes, bacteria and/or fungus lingering in the moisture of her folds while she sweats, tight clothing? Should I assist in bathing her and drying her off while applying body powder, wardrobe change and possibly bed replacement? Or what else can be done for someone in my situation? I do want to assist her in possibly improving her diet, getting her more active, and getting her to better health since the possibility of her having undiagnosed and unmanaged diabetes is quite high. She means the world to me, and honestly I want to do everything I can to improve her quality of life and well-being.

>>74113 Jesus fuck, dude. If you're not trolling, definitely get her checked out for yeast/fungal infections or BV. Fat girls do *not* have to stink. Aside from that, evaluate her performance on some basic hygiene practices. So many people who otherwise try hard to get clean stink because they overlook easy stuff like this: 1.Drying off *completely* and quickly after every shower. Use more than one towel if needed. 2. Make sure towels and rags don't stay wet after showers. Give them a good place to actually air out and dry 3. Rotate towels/rags on at a least a weekly basis. Same with bedsheets. If you can rotate washcloths more often, great. 4. Use bleach and hot water to actually kill bacteria when washing your towels and rags. 5. Wash with an antibacterial soap every now and then. My girlfriend has had a lot of luck with hibiclens around her folds and intimate areas in particular. Absolutely no smell downstairs and she barely even has any blemishes or ingrowns around her butt, underbelly, or thighs. I'm sure genetics plays some part, but I also truly think big girls just need some extra care and maintenance to keep them smelling and looking fresh.

>>74159 >>74113 I disagree with the whole notion you have to clean a fat girl off or it’s a fungal infection. Sometimes I clean my wife all day every day like she’s a figure in my case of collectibles other days I like to let her rot a bit, just ferment in the fat girl juices and smells and it really turns into something fragrant fast, especially in hot weather. She’s on disability for an unrelated issue so we aren’t living high on the hog but it’s not impossible to balance cleaning and not turn into a neurotic neatnick like this dude freaking out about a “fungal infection”

>>73940 Bullshit. Both are 43. She makes 375k a year and I make 300k. Lazy fucks are lazy. Being fat has zero to do with it. Don't fool yourself.

>>74161 Skill issue. Your bitch is dirty

>>74163 Very sexy woman. Living the dream, for now. She's well below the 500lbs at 5' 6" size the original point was referring to though. Low to mid 3's, would be my guess. With that said, the surgical scar implicates something. Obesity accelerates aging. Mid 40's at that size is entering geriatric territory. When something serious hits, it's going to cascade. The time to act was ten years ago, but now is the next best time. With incomes like that, you can take a medicine 3.0 strategy. Comprehensive labs, annual galleri screen, continuous glucose monitoring, Carol bike, sauna, the full don't die mindset. You've been fortunate to date. Take the W and get your head out of the sand. At the very least, do it yourself. One of your needs to be in shape to do caretaking when the inevitable happens. I wish it wasn't the case. Fat and healthy forever would be incredible. But it's not what happens.

>>74163 >>74165 >With incomes like that, you can take a medicine 3.0 strategy. Seconding this. You should try out novel medications and document how it affects your bodies. There was a thread on /sci/ where this guys was trying different medications to find the best way to gain weight without any health issues.

>>73663 >>74159 >>74113 I don't know how they cope in real life, and I don't know why I like it. I wouldn't pass up the chance with a chubby girl, but obesity really is a disease. Sad, expensive, and from developed countries.

>>74169 Obesity is more common in Latin America than Europe.

>>74169 What does any of this mean

>>74161 >other days I like to let her rot a bit, just ferment in the fat girl juices and smells and it really turns into something fragrant fast, especially in hot weather Bro I feel this. There's nothing more intimate than letting your fat girl get a little ripe. Have her wallow in her own fat smells that get trapped in those deep heavy permanently sweaty folds. Really pig out, you know? You don't truly love super sized women if you don't at least like a little bit of musk, if not a lot of it. My girl is in the 500s and she goes weeks without showering for me and I can't even begin to describe the intoxicating intimacy of being the only person in her life not repelled by it.

>>74185 Quality post. I swear since my girl started having trouble making the toilet situation work it’s been lights out the best sex and feeding we’ve ever had. I can appreciate that letting her get a bit stinky before cleaning her up good is a great way to emphasize your value as her partner and make her appreciate all you do.

>>74211 All about that stenchmaxxing

>>74185 The folds hold smells like my grandma’s cigarette smoke still is coming out of her old couch I’m sitting on and bro, it’s been years since she here smoking palmalls.

>>74163 Any more of her?

>>74211 My dream is having my girl at this level of dependency. The dedication on both ends is just absolute peak for me.

>>74598 It's hot, to be sure; but it does get normalized eventually. Eventually it's just a responsibility. The sex is still great of course but like, when you wanna do some normal people stuff but your girl needs you to shower her and dry her and dress her and turn the heat on because shes cold and then turn it off because she's hot now and she needs wiping now and she's frustrated and you're exhausted... it's not hot. It's just a chore. That's why people say this kink is also a lifestyle decision. You're dedicating yourself to not just the sexy moments when you're aroused, but the entire time your partner is super obese. Which is literally 24/7. Constant, inescapable unending obesity. Not a single moment of relief.

Dating an ussbbw is not easy work.. they are just simply too big for this world and everything is a struggle. Mine is around 500lbs and I live in a city but you can't just assume they can get anywhere, they can't fit in seats, can't go up stairs. They just take up so much more room. I echo whats been said about hygiene and they are constantly worried and anxious about being sweaty, but usually it's in their head and I personally don't think it's that bad. Sex is amazing, needless to say, giant belly thighs and ass, too much that I don't know what to do with it. That all being said, my kink is that I love to see them struggle and see people notice and I think she kind of knows it too. It's pretty crazy how theyve allowed their body to get in such a way, and it can be because they love it, which is great but also can be deeply set in underlying issues and illness, which ain't as fun. She's got a number of different issues she battles, can't work etc. Dating an ussbbw is definitely dating a dependent

>>74599 Shacking up with a monstrously obese woman is the worst thing you can do to your social life. Yes there’s the smell, but that can be kinda worked around with enough perfume and baby powder. Are you ready for embarrassing gross things? Like getting sweat stains on furniture and room clearing flatulence. I’m talking about shit that makes your siblings stop talking to you, like can you imagine having to explain why someone took a shit in your bathtub and stomped it down the drain? I haven’t seen my ex wife in years and me and my brother still are too embarrassed to talk to each other face to face.

>>74536 Nta but I think this is also her. She's hot I agree

Sometimes it's expensive. About 3 months ago I took my girlfriend to buy some new jeans and convinced her to get them just a single size up for comfort. She has gained about 20 pounds and no longer fits in any of them and is back to yoga pants. Obviously I love fatties but it is difficult when the wardrobe is spread across a 60+ pound weight gain. Nothing ever really fits her and no girl feels good with that. It just means I buy new clothes. Often.

>>74739 She’s got a phenomenal looking belly

>>74823 I feel like when a lady needs you to wipe her ass you’ve got her wrapped around your finger. What can she say no to at that point?

>>74599 realest post on this site.

>>74599 I can second this. And it’s not like it’s that bad. I dont have a social life, this isn’t killing my vibe to have a bedbound girlfriend living in my bedroom while I sleep on the couch and play video games while she sleeps all day. The worst is she is going to get sick, pr shes going to have a depression or crazies episode going to get weird skin infections that aren’t pleasant or at all sexy. This stuff is gross and emotionally taxing and it’s like she needs me to much for me to think about it, I can’t just dump her, she’d die without the help and all.

>>74872 In the guy you're replying to. I agree, it's not that bad. My main point is that the initial stage of being with a partner who is 600 pounds where you're intoxicated with lust and affection constantly eventually wears off and it's just a part of every day life. It's how imagine dudes who date top models feel eventually. It's not this unobtainable rare person you never see in real life you're next to all day anymore, but your partner. It's kind of a freeing feeling. It comes in waves too. Sometimes it gets normalized, and then sometimes I am hard literally all day and all night just because I get to sleep enveloped in this massive inhuman mishapen blob that I get to call my girlfriend every night. It's so intimate when we hold hands because I know the hand that's holding me trapped by 6 skinny girls with of fat and she's as turned on by it as I am And It's super validating to live with a woman who is super sized. Even if she can't do all the fun stuff I could do with someone my size. Being in a romantic relationship with a woman this size who is genuinely into being a fat useless smelly pig is the greatest feeling I've ever felt. There's bad days yes, days when I wish I had more balance in our relationship... But it's pretty unlikely I'm in this relationship in the first place, so I'm gonna ride it out to the end TLDR if you're actually into this shit and ever are lucky enough to live out the fantasy in real life, fucking do it. Get weird with it. Blow up your whole life for it. Sure, every single person you meet, you'll be faced with the reality that they're gonna judge for you dating a woman that size. Fuck em though. If you're weird enough to like these kinds of work, you're probably too weird in other ways that they'd find to reject you as well. This isn't really a good thing for your social life unless you're trying to be a god among men at the bashes. Which, I will say, is also super validating and worth the cost of admission Time stops for no one. Do you really want to let it pass without really knowing what this shit is like ? With knowing there's a lonely super fat blob girl out there who might remain single forever if you just don't grow a pair and date the women you're into

>>74887 Hell yeah man. I wish you and your girl all the happiness in the world. How much does she weigh and how old are you guys?

>>74113 >snores like a boat horn You should get her checked for sleep apnea. >>74872 Are you a different anon? If so how much does your gf weigh?