Being morbidly obese has it's pros and cons. Obviously being fat is really hot and super cute. It makes anything involving intimacy that much better. It does suck when you have to be active though. I'm easily winded walking a small distance and often have to stop and take a break while going up stairs. You can really feel how fat and heavy you've gotten when you need to grip your knees and push hard just to stand up from sitting down. I always feel my cheeks get red and warm when I plop down into any vehicle knowing people saw the whole car tilt and trucks?! I need a little boost climbing into those damn things. I found that out the other day when my Lyft driver drove a nice pickup truck! And if it isn't obvious by now, I most definitely use a CPAP to help me breathe while I sleep. I personally don't have any other health issues but obviously, I do have fears about my health in the long run. But for now? I'm enjoying being a fat babe 🖤

Also, I was raised in a very fat friendly family. My brothers and my cousins have definitely teased each other and myself for being chubby (I'm obv way fucking fatter than them though) and it's always in light hearted fun. I'm often called things like "chungus" "fat baby" and even "little debbie". My sister has a different mom though and she's a Doctor. She's literally the only person that suggests dieting and weight loss. I usually giggle and shrug off her suggestions because NO THANKS but also I know it's coming from a place of love. She's a sweetheart and one of the kindest people I know! Aside from that though? I've never really had anyone comment on my weight.

My wife isn't huge but she is still classed as severely obese. In the last few years since we got married she has gone from about 55kg to 125kg at only 157cm tall. I can say a lot of things have changed in that time which ill try to describe in detail. Firstly, since gaining all this weight she has started to snore loudly when she sleeps, she has done a sleep study which found that there was no obstructive sleep apnoea and the snoring was likely just a result of of her weight. Its hot to think about her weight affecting her like this but a real curse when trying to sleep at night. Finding good earplugs for me has been a lifesaver when trying to sleep together. Secondly, her overall stamina has decreased massively. Her walking pace has decreased and her ability to walk longer distances has dropped off. Before we could spend entire days walking around cities and on forest trails without issue but now it's rare to go for one hour without having to find a place to sit and rest for a while. Even when she is walking her pace has slowed massively. I sometimes find myself accidentally walking ahead before realising I have to slow down and wait for her to catch up. She's not bothered by it as we both find it amusing. It definitely took a while to adjust my brain into thinking that anywhere we walk will take 2 - 3 times longer. Thirdly, her physical size has affected a lot of things we do daily. Getting into cars and using public transport has become less comfortable for her as she normally spills into the adjacent seats a little bit. Its not too bad on short journeys but I can see she definitely becomes uncomfortable after a while traveling. We are actually looking into getting a bigger car for ourselves so she can have some more interior space while traveling. This comes with additional costs especially in the UK where larger cars are generally more expensive to buy, are taxed more, and use more fuel. Another thing is clothing, a lot of her favourite clothes no longer fit which is definitely a downer for her, and buying quality clothes in larger sizes definitely has its drawbacks. They usually are not very stylish or good looking and cost far more than the regular sizes, and that's assuming you can find many stores that sell them in larger sizes at all. It's super hot to think about her growing body squeezing into clothes that don't fit anymore, but not as practical as it used to be. Fourthly, gaining weight comes with a larger appetite. I love to cook and do 90% of the cooking for us. It takes a small mental shift to start making portions that will actually fill her up, without accidentally giving yourself the same portion size. The amount of food that is consume in the house is crazy too, we have gone from a big shopping trip every 2 or 3 weeks with small essential runs every few days to a big shop weekly with almost daily essential runs for snacks and supplies. A multipack of crisps that would have lasted a week or more, my wife will now consume in one evening along with other snacks. As for the friends and family side, its not been mentioned a lot. I think mostly because our families are quite chill and respectful. There was one occasion though that we were visiting some of her extended family at a wedding, her auntie seemed quite shocked to see my wife at her current size and almost didn't recognise her. She actually pulled me aside later in the day and mentioned her weight and how much thinner she used to be. I was trying to downplay it and act casual as I didn't know this auntie very well. Then she started showing me pictures on her phone of my wife when she was a teenager and was really quite thin. I'm not sure if she was genuinely concerned but it definitely came across as her trying to make fun of my own wife. I don't remember her exact words but she mentioned something a long the lines of "Look how pretty she used to be". I ended up saying to her that I found my wife very beautiful every shape she has. It seemed to shock her a bit and shut her up. I think the bottom line for a lot of this is that gaining weight is taxing in a lot of ways: Emotionally its hard to go from being a socially acceptable size to a lot bigger and not being able to enjoy the physical activities you once did. Financially its more expensive to buy food, clothes, and furniture that will survive. And physically it changes your body in ways that will impact your quality of life. I'm not saying many of these things are not a massive turn on for us, but beyond the bedroom it can become a slog.

Since being together over 14 years, I've gained around 150 pounds, my wife has gained around 100 pounds and both of us would of been considered as fat when we met. She's in the ballpark of 400 whereas I'm closing in on 500. We are both active people - unless we're working we are always doing something. Yardwork, housework, chores, fixing stuff. We stay busy. Maybe that's why there's not really any mobility issues. Being up and walking though, maybe like 2.5 hours at a street fair or museum or something- we are ready to sit down and rest a little bit. Only in the last 20-30 pounds for me there seems to be a few more mobility issues where id only want to walk around an hour - 90 minutes and I'll need a good 15min to recover. Some stooping and working on the floor I avoid because its an inconvenience, she's probably the same way but we work around it. Her family is full of fat people, but she's the largest one so nothing really gets said. I used to get hounded by my folks but they eventually quit saying anything about it because they know its my preference and that's that. See was not difficult when we met. Only limitation was doggy because of the soze of her ass and my belly together was just too much. At this weight some positions work better than others. To be fair though, as you both are gaining on purpose and you start having intimate struggles because you actually ARE getting too fat - holy shit that's hot as fuck. That much fat clashing together, being begged to fatten her while she grabs your love handles as youre fucking... It's literally achieving the pinnacle of the fetish and letting it consume you - its worth the struggles.

All these posts sound incredibly hot I just recently opened up to my gf about the whole fat thing and she didn’t directly say she’s going to purposely gain and I don’t wanna ask cuz it can be a tough topic but I’ve noticed since i’ve told her she’s been eating more and also letting me touch her stomach when getting intimate. I’m curious on how things will change IF she ends up gaining weight which would obviously be extremely hot but I’d feel rude directly asking her to do that. I’ve always had the thought of wanting to be fat myself too like reading about getting tired easily and the idea of feeling heavy and feeling those movements feels like it would be incredible. So I have these moments where I feel like it would be hot if I gained weight, but at the same time I have these moments where at the same time I don’t wanna gain the weight and since i’m a guy and not a girl, I would rather my gf gain then weight since i’d be more into that. Not sure if that makes sense but it’s been a back and forth for. Hopes to the future for a gain so I can add my own experiences!

>>73719 This is different for everyone is am sure, but she didn't start gaining weight until after I did and saw how much I was into it and then she got into me and then did it herself. Plus when youre eating to gain and a partner is there with you, its really easy to encourage her to join in. Remember it takes time and its not like flipping a switch. It's something intimate to share and that trust has to be built. In my opinion its worth a shot.

>>73665 How much is it that you weigh, if I may ask?

>>73796 Lol when the larper comes back with some ludicrously unrealistic number.

>>73663 I've known my wife for over 20 years. When we met, she was about 215 and I was about 155. I've always liked big girls and I've always wanted to be big myself. Between the time we met and got married I gained a bit and then lost back to about my original weight. She lost down to about 160. I'm a serial yo-yo dieter. Up as high as 275 and as low as 170 and every where in between. But always wanting to get fatter. She, however, hates being big, but got as high as 330. I've never pushed one way or the other. Always supporting her choices. She had enough and got WLS earlier this year and is currently sitting around 230. I am currently in a gaining phase and hoping to break my record before the end of the year. As far as being fat goes, there are numerous issues thst arise. Obviously the possibility of health problems. But aside from that, I have to shop at a big boy store for my clothes. I can't do many amusement rides or waterslides. Among other activities. And yes, walking does become more difficult. Especially if you don't keep up with it. Sex becomes difficult too. When you're both big, manoeuvering becomes an issue as well as, um, reaching. Stamina is a problem too. In the end, though, I love being fat. I want to be fatter than I am. I love food, eating and gaining. I'm also okay with my wife losing weight. It was awesome when she was 330lbs - I would love to see her that size again. But being big is not what our relationship is all about. We have other connections.

My girlfriend has gain d a lot of weight and she is actually quite upset that she struggles to do much during sex. Sometimes she'll be on top and she just doesn't have the stamina anymore to finish either of us. It's insanely hot and led to a bout of yoyo dieting and a short lived exercise routine that had a wonderful rebound. It's definitely a difficulty and requires some management but I'm enjoying it.

My wife is around 425# or so if I had to guess and she is really fuckin lazy. I do the vast majority of the housework, but she does help out. She also asks me constantly to get things out of the basement. She snores like a freight train, but then again so do I at 240# or so. She takes up wayyyyy more space on the bed but part of that is how she lays but I find myself crammed in the corner. Overall I deal with this stuff because I love her but also I love her big fat body. Working on getting her physical health in a bit better shape but theres a lot of baggage holding her back.

My wife just hit 500lbs few weeks ago while being 5’6 . As for daily life: we basically stay home. She is either on the couch or bed. When she needs food she calls me and I get it for her. She needs help getting dressed and putting shoes on. She also needs help showering and sometimes getting up. There are entire weekends when she just chills in bed and has be bring her food and ice cream. Family reactions were mostly neutral. One time a family member got alarmed when she could not get up from the couch by herself and needed help. He confronted me about that and told me I have to get her to be more healthy. People saw me hand feeding her in public and mostly just thought it was sweet.

My wife just hit 500lbs few weeks ago while being 5’6 . As for daily life: we basically stay home. She is either on the couch or bed. When she needs food she calls me and I get it for her. She needs help getting dressed and putting shoes on. She also needs help showering and sometimes getting up. Family reactions were mostly neutral. One time a family member got alarmed when she could not get up from the couch by herself and needed help. He confronted me about that and told me I have to get her to be more healthy. People saw me hand feeding her in public and mostly just thought it was sweet.

>>73807 >I want to be fatter than I am I know this is my 2nd time saying this, but I'm early 40s. It NEVER goes away. If youre in a good relationship then do it. Losing weight is always easier when you get big. Plus there's all sorts of treatments now. Just being up front with you - dont waste your life wondering what if.

A little ahead of Thanksgiving, but putting thanks here for the effort that goes into keeping this going Thanks again!!

>>73877 Sold. Hahaha. My short term goal is to get back to 275lbs. My longer term goal is to finally get to 300. We'll see what happens from there.

>>73868 Does she just never do any chores at all, what does she do all day?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for two years. When we met both of us weighed 230lbs, now I weigh 340lbs and she 315lbs. This wasn’t an intentional gain but both of us seriously enabled each other. We both are big foodies and as we dated together our diets have just gotten crazy. A normal dinner date once a week with maybe an appetizer has turned into several times a week with each of us eating several entrees worth of food and getting desert afterward. We’re just now hitting the point where we feel the impacts of our weights. Huffing and puffing climbing up stairs, bursting out clothes. When we have sex we have to fight past each others bellies. She’s always been pear shaped but not her ass is absolutely massive. When we do it doggy style I have to put my belly on top of her ass.

>>73663 GF is only 270 but it kinda sucks if you arent horny, and I'm not horny more than I am horny. She's extremely out of shape and refuses to exercises at all, ever. She cant hike without stopping every 30 seconds, she cant ride a bike without her thighs chafing so much that she needs constant breaks. Forget about anything like skiing or snowboard. She cant ride roller coasters (we experienced the whole not fitting thing which traumatized her), she cant walk around the apartment without shaking the entire building and knocking things over, or getting winded from doing virtually anything. There are other little things like reminding her to pull her shirt down when it rides up in public and starts showing her belly. All of these things that are hot in my head are the opposite in practice. My family are all normal sized people and they have invited her repeatedly to do things that she obviously cant do. I'm guessing they are just being polite but its awkward having to make excuses for her constantly so she isn't put in an awkward position where she ruins the activity for everyone else. I wish I could love my partner in totality as it sounds many others here do, but its really difficult.

>>73897 She watches her shows. Sleeps, eats. I work from home so I can always be there for her if she needs stuff.

>>73897 She can really bend down so these isn’t too much she can do without help.

My wife is currently about 130 kg/285 lbs. Highest weight was 150 kg/330 lbs, lowest on record was about 118 kg/260 lbs, although I think she was even less when we met. She is a bit above 1m70 / 5'7", very pear shape and spreads to about 60 cm/24" wide (side to side) when she is sitting down, but has only a small belly that only started to hang a little after we got our kids. I would have loved less itghs and more belly. She also has quite sever lipidema in her legs, so also her lower legs are huge. We met when she was 30, now she is in her 40's. Daily fat life was nothing special when we met, she was getting around quite ok. Just going on uphill hikes was a problem. I used to love hiking in the mountains, but that is obviously not possible at her size. If the hike is too steep or too long uphill, she started hyperventilating. I think about 200-250m/700-800' is the highest elevation change she has managed. Also uneven terrain is difficult for her, as it is difficult to find good balance. She did manage to hike to Delicate Arch in Arches NP, so that was nice. Family did not react much to her size, but that is also because they were already used that I like bigger girls :-) And she is also very educated, highly respected, good paying job etc., so these are things that family use like. Even with her wide hips, she has never knocked anything over, so I take all these stories of women knocking over things with their hips with a grain of salt. Her hips are something to take into account when we go to a restaurant or so. Small seats with armrests can be painful. On a plane I let her spill over into my seat, and now with the kids it is even easier and she can take part of their seat. For intercontinental, we travel in premium economy. Finding clothes is difficult, because of the size difference between top and bottom. Finding jeans that accomodate her huge calves is also very difficult. At her highest weight, she started to develop a noticeable belly. She was clearly struggling more, getting winded going upstairs, so I often had to do that. Could also not hike that far anymore and started to have more problems wth her knees. She was clearly lazier, because everything was harder. Other than that, she is fine health-wise: no high blood pressure, diabetes, sleep apnoe or anything like that. Probably due to her genetic constitution where she carries most of her weight in the healthy places. In general, I notice that even despite loosing weight since her highest, she is still struggling a bit, but that is probably also the toll of her age, now that she is in her 40's. She does want to loose more weight, but is doing it all by herself and despite very carefully watching what she eats, it is very difficult to loose more weight. She is very much against WLS. Currently also not in favour of GLP-1's due to the side effects, although she does a lot of research on it and talks a lot about it. I think at some point she might jump on that wagon though, if she has difficuties keeping the weight off or starts to struggle more. That is why I support her with the weight loss on her own. So overall I would say that her daily fat life is not that special. Seating options and clothes shopping is probably what impacts her the most. Mobility is ok for day-to-day life, but there are limitations for long/uphill walks and she has to be careful with what she eats, because dropping her guard on that means that she immediately gains, and most goes to her legs where it is difficult to get rid of it again.

>>73912 does she not have a job? What is her attitude like?

>>73937 Lol huge women aren't holding down jobs. The weight disables them. They aren't doing shit. Their body starts declining after thirty. Around 35-40, health issues get too hard. The choice becomes deflate or die. It's not an easy path.

>>73937 Not right down. I met her before she finished school and she went right into being home full time. Honestly working a daily job is harder at this size too. Especially with how much help she needs to even get ready and out of bed.

>>73937 As for her attitude- she is very Princessy. She is used to everything being done for her. She is also very confident about being a BBW and her looks. A very rare combo. I consider myself very lucky:.

I’m (25m, 180lbs) currently dating my super fat crush (24f, 450-500lbs?) for the past month or so, and she’s absolutely gorgeous, endearing, and adorable. She’s everything I could ask for in a woman (insatiably horny, chubby stoner, bratty but charming demeanor). I have a knack for cooking, I run errands and chores for her so she doesn’t have to lift a finger, and I love to have my princess spoiled rotten to the core, so I’m kind of a soft caregiver for her in a way. She’s quite capable of handling herself on her own, she works a busy desk job as a secretary/receptionist for a local doctor, and looks after her elderly mother in her own apartment before I met her. She’s perfect in every way imaginable to my eyes, but there’s just one thing that’s been giving me second thoughts about continuing dating this girl and eventually tying the knot down the road. The smell… I guess it kind of comes with the territory, who would’ve thought? But I’ve wanted to learn more about looking after my girlfriend and helping her out more and seeing what else I can help fix or amend for her. Her health is not stellar, not quite into feedism, but is is quite the binge eater with an insatiable sweet tooth, very inactive and sedentary, and she’s a heavy sleeper, I’m talking sleeps at minimum 12hrs/day before she met me, and snores like a boat horn. She’s as decent and courteous as she can be with her hygiene, deodorant here and there, morning and evening showers, it’s just that when we are in the act there’s this lingering musty, sickly sweet, almost cheesy smell that permeates from her as we have sex. I quite honestly didn’t expect to live the plapjak experience myself. For context, I don’t think it’s a lack of hygiene from her part as she showers frequently, and again, the deodorant part. I’ve done some research regarding the subject and it could be for a variety of reasons, possibly type 2 diabetes, bacteria and/or fungus lingering in the moisture of her folds while she sweats, tight clothing? Should I assist in bathing her and drying her off while applying body powder, wardrobe change and possibly bed replacement? Or what else can be done for someone in my situation? I do want to assist her in possibly improving her diet, getting her more active, and getting her to better health since the possibility of her having undiagnosed and unmanaged diabetes is quite high. She means the world to me, and honestly I want to do everything I can to improve her quality of life and well-being.

>>74113 Jesus fuck, dude. If you're not trolling, definitely get her checked out for yeast/fungal infections or BV. Fat girls do *not* have to stink. Aside from that, evaluate her performance on some basic hygiene practices. So many people who otherwise try hard to get clean stink because they overlook easy stuff like this: 1.Drying off *completely* and quickly after every shower. Use more than one towel if needed. 2. Make sure towels and rags don't stay wet after showers. Give them a good place to actually air out and dry 3. Rotate towels/rags on at a least a weekly basis. Same with bedsheets. If you can rotate washcloths more often, great. 4. Use bleach and hot water to actually kill bacteria when washing your towels and rags. 5. Wash with an antibacterial soap every now and then. My girlfriend has had a lot of luck with hibiclens around her folds and intimate areas in particular. Absolutely no smell downstairs and she barely even has any blemishes or ingrowns around her butt, underbelly, or thighs. I'm sure genetics plays some part, but I also truly think big girls just need some extra care and maintenance to keep them smelling and looking fresh.

>>74159 >>74113 I disagree with the whole notion you have to clean a fat girl off or it’s a fungal infection. Sometimes I clean my wife all day every day like she’s a figure in my case of collectibles other days I like to let her rot a bit, just ferment in the fat girl juices and smells and it really turns into something fragrant fast, especially in hot weather. She’s on disability for an unrelated issue so we aren’t living high on the hog but it’s not impossible to balance cleaning and not turn into a neurotic neatnick like this dude freaking out about a “fungal infection”

>>73940 Bullshit. Both are 43. She makes 375k a year and I make 300k. Lazy fucks are lazy. Being fat has zero to do with it. Don't fool yourself.

>>74161 Skill issue. Your bitch is dirty

>>74163 Very sexy woman. Living the dream, for now. She's well below the 500lbs at 5' 6" size the original point was referring to though. Low to mid 3's, would be my guess. With that said, the surgical scar implicates something. Obesity accelerates aging. Mid 40's at that size is entering geriatric territory. When something serious hits, it's going to cascade. The time to act was ten years ago, but now is the next best time. With incomes like that, you can take a medicine 3.0 strategy. Comprehensive labs, annual galleri screen, continuous glucose monitoring, Carol bike, sauna, the full don't die mindset. You've been fortunate to date. Take the W and get your head out of the sand. At the very least, do it yourself. One of your needs to be in shape to do caretaking when the inevitable happens. I wish it wasn't the case. Fat and healthy forever would be incredible. But it's not what happens.

>>74163 >>74165 >With incomes like that, you can take a medicine 3.0 strategy. Seconding this. You should try out novel medications and document how it affects your bodies. There was a thread on /sci/ where this guys was trying different medications to find the best way to gain weight without any health issues.

>>73663 >>74159 >>74113 I don't know how they cope in real life, and I don't know why I like it. I wouldn't pass up the chance with a chubby girl, but obesity really is a disease. Sad, expensive, and from developed countries.

>>74169 Obesity is more common in Latin America than Europe.

>>74169 What does any of this mean

>>74161 >other days I like to let her rot a bit, just ferment in the fat girl juices and smells and it really turns into something fragrant fast, especially in hot weather Bro I feel this. There's nothing more intimate than letting your fat girl get a little ripe. Have her wallow in her own fat smells that get trapped in those deep heavy permanently sweaty folds. Really pig out, you know? You don't truly love super sized women if you don't at least like a little bit of musk, if not a lot of it. My girl is in the 500s and she goes weeks without showering for me and I can't even begin to describe the intoxicating intimacy of being the only person in her life not repelled by it.

>>74185 Quality post. I swear since my girl started having trouble making the toilet situation work it’s been lights out the best sex and feeding we’ve ever had. I can appreciate that letting her get a bit stinky before cleaning her up good is a great way to emphasize your value as her partner and make her appreciate all you do.

>>74211 All about that stenchmaxxing

>>74185 The folds hold smells like my grandma’s cigarette smoke still is coming out of her old couch I’m sitting on and bro, it’s been years since she here smoking palmalls.

>>74163 Any more of her?

>>74211 My dream is having my girl at this level of dependency. The dedication on both ends is just absolute peak for me.

>>74598 It's hot, to be sure; but it does get normalized eventually. Eventually it's just a responsibility. The sex is still great of course but like, when you wanna do some normal people stuff but your girl needs you to shower her and dry her and dress her and turn the heat on because shes cold and then turn it off because she's hot now and she needs wiping now and she's frustrated and you're exhausted... it's not hot. It's just a chore. That's why people say this kink is also a lifestyle decision. You're dedicating yourself to not just the sexy moments when you're aroused, but the entire time your partner is super obese. Which is literally 24/7. Constant, inescapable unending obesity. Not a single moment of relief.

Dating an ussbbw is not easy work.. they are just simply too big for this world and everything is a struggle. Mine is around 500lbs and I live in a city but you can't just assume they can get anywhere, they can't fit in seats, can't go up stairs. They just take up so much more room. I echo whats been said about hygiene and they are constantly worried and anxious about being sweaty, but usually it's in their head and I personally don't think it's that bad. Sex is amazing, needless to say, giant belly thighs and ass, too much that I don't know what to do with it. That all being said, my kink is that I love to see them struggle and see people notice and I think she kind of knows it too. It's pretty crazy how theyve allowed their body to get in such a way, and it can be because they love it, which is great but also can be deeply set in underlying issues and illness, which ain't as fun. She's got a number of different issues she battles, can't work etc. Dating an ussbbw is definitely dating a dependent

>>74599 Shacking up with a monstrously obese woman is the worst thing you can do to your social life. Yes there’s the smell, but that can be kinda worked around with enough perfume and baby powder. Are you ready for embarrassing gross things? Like getting sweat stains on furniture and room clearing flatulence. I’m talking about shit that makes your siblings stop talking to you, like can you imagine having to explain why someone took a shit in your bathtub and stomped it down the drain? I haven’t seen my ex wife in years and me and my brother still are too embarrassed to talk to each other face to face.

>>74536 Nta but I think this is also her. She's hot I agree