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It's because women are taught that appearance is everything. They think that if they are 'pretty' (by 'normal' standards) then they can get away with murder and deserve a man who will wait on them hand and foot, and that if they are 'ugly' (by 'normal' standards) or fear that they are 'ugly' (by 'normal' standards) then they are not worthy of existance.
It takes a lot of power to undo that kind of brainwashing and get them to realise that A) beauty is in the eye of the beholder, not an absolute thing that holds true for everyone and B) there's more to a person than these gangly skin-sacks we walk around in.
Social media didn't invent this problem, but it magnified it tenfold by giving the narcisistic ones an outlet to signal how beautiful and how virtuous they are, and the ones with low self esteem an outlet to attract attention by telling everyone how awful their self esteem is. It also ends up creating echo chambers, so those behaviours are reinforced on a daily basis. That's partly why so many women think those awful fake eyebrows and pumped up lips are attractive.
The problem has spread to men too, so you end up with the musclebound meatheads who think they're top-shit and the preening metrosexuals.
People really need to stop caring how 'beautiful' or 'ugly' they are and worry about whether they're a decent and/or interesting person, with an array of skills and interests.