If there's any reason why women into body positivity look down on us, it may be because they are people who don't want to just be our sex toy but a human being. They may be into us if find them hot, not fattening them up into immobility, or wanting to control their lives 100%. If we want to have dates, we should stop blaming new ideologies for being the reason why we are dateless. We are becoming incels when we say that feminism/body positivity is why we can't date anymore instead of acknowledging that women are people and have a choice with who they want to go out with. Body positivity can be good for us, we just have to treat them better and be nicer and then we can get laid.