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Real Life Social Consequences Anonymous 10/20/2024 (Sun) 03:24:20 Id:a8f8cd No. 55530
I (Male 19) know this is in the territory because of how people see this stuff. I need to preface that I have never formally admitted to anything regarding this fetish but my friends and family have been observant to the women I had been bringing around the past couple years. They all happen to have been 200 and above so it’s pretty obvious. I’ve been a ridicule before and I used to not care. People would point it out and I would just deny, plausibly deniability is wonderful. Now the ante has been upped and now people are call me a “degenerate who blows up women to kill them”. Now people are starting to to spread that around and avoid me. Even my family have been asking me why my last two gfs were above 200 pounds and that “I know you can do better so there must be a reason you like to date them.” I don’t know I’ve been called a degenerate on the internet a lot but now that it’s becoming a part of my real life I don’t know what to do. I just like fat women but I just want to keep my head down and not get singled out for it. I just needed to rant somewhere.
>>55530 >now people are call me a “degenerate who blows up women to kill them” You blow them up?!
>>55531 They said it not me man. Bombs or food I don’t do that.
>>55533 You can't pull the wool over my eyes. You're a practitioner of the dark Dobson arts! A permapopper!
>>55530 >>55534 That disgusting blue bear has no place in my heart. He is evil.
You're cooked. Either you somehow embrace that figure ironically (requires 999 anti-autism level) or you're fucked.
>>55536 You see that’s the bad thing how the fuck does a relatively sane person just embrace that with a straight face. I think I can wait for it to dial down a bit.
I resonate with you
>>55530 How many girls are we talking about, like 5? 200 pounds isn't even all that much especially not in US. I guess people would notice if they were pushing 300+ That's actually wild that people care so much lol. I'm not the one to deny my preference, but it's never even been topic of discussion. But yeah I dunno how I'd react if people started acting that way towards me. Borrowing a comment about my experience I put in a similar thread here: Most people are too busy with their own lives to care too much about you anyways. The previous 3 girls I've dated have all been short, fat blondes my own age & ethnicity, then one of my closest friends who knows my dating history wants to introduce me to this girl who he thinks I'm gonna like.. she's a significantly younger tall skinny American girl with dyed read hair???
>>55536 >>55541 Like 3. The problem is that there aren’t that many fat girls around here. Most of them are into that purging stuff.
>>55543 Purging stuff? Even at 19 there were plenty of big girls around here, and I lived in a small town. Can't imagine it being worse in America.
>>55541 >>55547 Small town. Women a practically starving themselves to be beautiful. It’s not that I’m good looking or anything it’s just that fat women are so few in number it’s weird it happened three times.
>>55531 I APPROVE! but seriously, you need to A: draw boundaries with parents, your sex life is not their business B: lean into the chubby chaser stuff with friends, the leaning away from it is clearly not working
>>55530 how did you come across the mucho texto meme lmao? it's been a long time since I last saw it, but it's funny af and very passive-aggressive. 200 lb isn't that much as others pointed out. would you be willing to date a skinny girl who's compatible with you? imho that would be positive for you if you like skinny girls and if you find a girl that's worth it. I assume some people around you act like you're too young and stupid and you need to change your taste. I guess it's possible that other people may accept it when you get older. Partially because you may have grown the guts to say fuck off to anyone who bothers you.
>>55548 It's your type, just embrace it. I'm in my mid-40s now but same things apply I guess. As a teenager I loved big tits, I still do, just as I got older so my desire for the whole of the woman to be bigger did too. Use that, if you like a big ass, use that. Whatever gives you the confidence to tell friends/family/parents to match their disapproving curiosity back with positive confidence will see you the better man for justifying it. As for your parents, yes, I've had that one a few times. 'I think you can do better than that son....' If you have that kind of relationship with your dad (or any male in your family) tell them you like big tits and he'll probably want to crack a beer open. Eventually it will come out. As for your friends, same thing, but don't be shy about ripping them back, they're mates, if they're giving you it, give them it back, drop the big ass / big tits in conversation and you'll find there'll be some common ground there for sure. As for the internet? Fucking cess pit of vile fucks out there. Ignore a keyboard warrior. Just keep being you, date who you want to date based on your attraction to them, not for anyone else's. I dated a US dress size 6 in my 20s for a year. Not my type at all, but there was an attraction there and we were pretty much at it all the time .You'll look back in 5 years and think what was the fuss about.
22M here, for the last couple years I have been entirely open about liking fat girls to my friends and family. They all think it’s funny, and there really wasn’t that much awkwardness at all (pretty much none with my friends, a little with my dad at first but he is cool with it now). It was weird because in my head it would be a big deal, especially since I live in a conservative area, but it really isn’t a problem at all. Everyone finds it amusing, some of my friends make fun of it lightly just like they would for anything else, and it actually just makes me happy since it’s true and it feels good to be authentic to myself. Just be natural about it, don’t make it your whole personality but if anyone is talking with you about dating then bring it up and be confident. Liking 200 lb girls is pretty normal and it’s not some degenerate thing, it’s only going to feel like that if you are being weird and hiding it, letting other people’s imagination run wild. Obviously I don’t ever bring up feedism or ssbbw’s, I’m not into that in real life anyways, a couple people have asked if bigger is always better and I just say around 200 lb is ideal. It’s 2024, there is so much weird stuff out there nowadays that most people don’t bat an eye at liking big girls. I’m honestly surprised how many people in my social circles know, and how little of a deal it is.
My girlfriend was probably 220 when we started dating, she’s fluctuated all the way up to 290 on and off. Spent all of my teen years feeling embarrassed for liking fat girls, then in my 20’s I realized I didn’t care. During our eight years together, we’ve gotten maybe three comments about our appearance (not only is she big, but I’m also thin) and they were from drunk strangers / homeless people on public transportation. Never, in all eight years of my relationship, has any friend or family member ever made rude comments to either of us. And if that ever did happen, that would be the end of it— someone that doesn’t respect me or my partner doesn’t deserve to be in my life. If people want to give you a hard time for your preference in women, draw a line in the sand and move on from them. They will eventually apologize, and if they don’t, why would you want to talk to someone that looks down on you anyways?
>>55530 My mom has made similar comments in the past and that she hoped that my next gf would not be as big. I told her at some point that I just like girls who are, that there is nothing wrong with that and that I didn’t appreciate her commenting on that. She never made such comments again.
>>55530 lol what a fucking little bitch grow the fuck up. >I've been called a degenerate on the internet grow a fucking pair. you're young i know you think everyone thinks about you but they dont, and they dont care. other than growing up, the only advice i have is to lean into your preferences. i opened up to my friend group in college when i was about your age. I was the butt of a lot of jokes, mostly tasteful, but i got over it and got to be more comfortable being myself and pursuing the women i wanted. when you're with your women dont be a shy little bitch, HOLD HER FUCKING HAND or reach around her back, kiss her. BE A FUCKING CHAD. My wife is an almost 400lb pear and i know dudes be jealous when we're walking around. Tracksuit on, chain out, were going to the fucking buffet. King shit, catch up little boy.
>>55557 This is it OP, this is the answer. Just own your shit. Don't shout it from the mountain tops but if anyone asks just tell them you like fat girls. Anyone that gives even a remote shit isn't worth your time.
>>55602 "other than growing up, the only advice i have is to lean into your preferences." YOU'RE RIGHT!!!! Starting tomorrow I'm gonna start grooming me some fat preteen girls to fuck! In fact, that short pudgy butterball with the sprouting tits down the street is looking pretty good to me. Can't wait to fuck her. Maybe I'll strangle her after I have her suck my dick. That's one of my preferences too.
>>55621 wow you're actually retarded lmao
>2014 >15yo. me >Confess I have an attraction to big girls to my (now ex) GF >Tease her and ask her if she could maybe put on some weight. (We were teen idiots) >"Haha! Why would I do that anon?" >She mysteriously gets extremely slim, svelte, FLAT and petite the following years. >2023 >24yo. me >Confess I have an attraction to big girls to my best friend. >"That's nice anon, I never thought I'd meet a man who likes big girls." >She mysteriously gets fit the following months. I even came up with a TIP for those who have a GF that are gaining weight. Just tell them you love big girls.
>>55706 > I even came up with a TIP for those who have a GF that are gaining weight. Just tell them you love big girls. Really? Ive only had the opposite. Is there some reason these women don’t want to have you attracted to them?
>>55530 it gets easier as you get older. just stopped caring
>>55710 > Is there some reason these women don’t want to have you attracted to them? Well, he’s posting here and this question shut him up so we got the answer. Imagine being such a loser that your girlfriend only suddenly starts to lose weight because you’re into her.
>>57545 Did not realize he was an Israeli. Did NYC ever do anything about that Orthodox Jew Rape Tunnel?
What do you do when it happens in public, like ill be walking with my 350 gf and like 18-22yo men will dog on her and laugh and we pass by. one time it happened in a book store and i didnt catch it until she told me after they passed. i didnt know what to do so i just dogged them and they looked down at their shoes. idk what to do in these situations its happened like 3-4 times in the 3 years ive dated her. i could just like go schizo and cuss them out but then id just look worse. lol
>>57704 What the fuck does dog mean in this context
Just had sex with the class fat girl at our Christmas party. Wonder what societal consequences this will have on me lol.
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>>55530 I think >>55541 is based. Also if you treat everyone like human beings. and exists people who like tall women or black people. I also admire female beauty in all its forms and there must be chemistry. >I'm terrible at meeting women that I like >I was an inceel (crashed My brain) and an idiot with some women. My main doubt Anons: will it affect that I have an ig with fat models of all kinds, and the same amount of pages of history, politics, science, news, etc. >Should I delete ig? >Sometimes I like to leave my number to chubby classmates or work or the street. >I've thought about someone similar to OP. Also: OP if you're not a harmful stalker and you can have real conversations with who you like and others. There you will see your true friends or you can move. You live in Fattyland🇺🇸 I liked a thin little "white pretty" punk woman. She had rings like picture.
I wonder what the consequences are in France or Italy.
>>57792 can't imagine france is very forgiving lol

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