I’ve done it a few times. It’s important to understand the limitations and embarrassments that can come from a home that’s not fat friendly. Hold her hand walking up the steps into your house, make sure she has a seat that can fit 2 people at once, make sure the toilet on the first floor isn’t some tight cramped space. That last point is tricky and you may need to plan a failover option like the tub if it’s not tenable. Unless your parents are some kind of fat phobic bigots it’s no big deal to bring home a fat woman. They’ll understand that you like fat chocks unless your mom thinks you’re a loser who doesn’t know “he could do better”. Fuck my sister in law, yuppy bitch.

>>57609 Good advice. Thanks. Just nervous she might get spooked by my dick family. Bringing home a huge girl for christmas... first time for everything

Your family is either going to be open to it or not. Mine had no problem with it, although my mother did hint not so subtly to me in private that I would break up with her because I was going to the gym and getting in shape. Once I assured her it wasn’t just a passing fling she was very welcoming. Only time I ever heard anything negative about any woman I’ve ever dated is from my now deceased republican uncle on a different occasion when I didn’t bring a girl, but that’s more because he heard I was banging a black girl. Dropped the hard R. Little did he know it wasn’t an interracial thing! She was 300+ lbs Bushwick blue hair art hoe with a shelf ass, back when Brooklyn was still actually cool.

My family has never indicated that they care about her size other than some comments from my gym going mum, "I know they're fat over there (she's American) but she should watch her weight", nothing concerning and nothing ever said to her. Even when my girlfriend brings up her size herself. The only issue is that my parents collect rare mid-century furniture that was produced in a time when it was unusual for anyone to be obese let alone as big as her. So whenever she's at their house they make sure to bring out a much sturdier seat to the dining table from another room for her.

Biggest i ever actually brought home to the family was maybe 250. They never said anything till I dumped her, but that's because she was crazy. My college buddies were real assholes and would seize every opportunity to fuck with me for liking fat girls, but even they were respectful when I introduced her as the girl I'd been dating. If you like her and you guys seem happy together it's gonna take a real asshole to say something that will embarrass her

Don't surprise your parents with it. You don't have to come out and say she's big, but maybe send a pic of you and her together so they get the idea. They won't want to be embarrassed, so they'll know to ensure the chairs are sturdy, etc. Is she sleeping over? Have a backup plan in case the bed won't hold her. My wife was 200lb when she met my family (chubby), but over the next decade grew to 340lb with mobility issues. My family adapted -- they knew to let her have the loveseat, and the dinner chair at the end of the table for less maneuvering. Your family will adapt to make it work if they love you.

My parents insisted it was a phase for like 10 years, and when they finally accepted it wasn't, they decided to remodel their entire home with furniture that seemed to be to be specifically chosen to not be fat friendly. I don't visit them.

>>57964 > If you like her and you guys seem happy together it's gonna take a real asshole to say something that will embarrass her Yes, but don’t make their house your house. No one, not your parents or your brothers should have to pay wonder why the bathroom reeks and it seems to be coming from the shower drain. That’s barely acceptable in your own home. I shouldn’t have to say this but I’ve been let down by a his community.

>>57609 > make sure the toilet on the first floor isn’t some tight cramped space. That last point is tricky and you may need to plan a failover option like the tub if it’s not tenable. This is fucked logic you retard. You people disgust me. I’d make up an excuse to leave in a hurry and if she shits her pants in the car that’s a better Plan B. Drive to the local supermarket and find a disabled bathroom. Anything else.

>>57976 I'd go so far as to say that if your partner is too large to use a conventional toilet they probably should not be travelling to visit people. You'd need to be 500lbs+ to not be able to shit on a regular toilet. You've now got yourself a homebound person.

>>57975 No shit. Having your woman shit in someone's bath tub when visiting is a ridiculous concept. If shes really that big, or your family's bathroom is some 1950's broom closet, plan accordingly.

Yes, several. Both parents were really fatphobic when I was growing up so I really sweated it but it turned out they were pretty cool IRL. Though there were subtle comments and such from my mom til I put a stop to it. Stuff like bringing up diet and nutrition conversations out of the blue, suggesting "healthy" options at a restaurant, or serving my wife a notably smaller portion at dinner.

>>57993 > your family's bathroom is some 1950's broom closet, plan accordingly. Are you Midwestern? In the northeast and Europe older building than 1950 are common and the “powder rooms” and “water closets” aren’t all built for modern women.

>>57609 > plan a failover option like the tub if it’s not tenable…Unless your parents are some kind of fat phobic bigots What sort of woke bullshit is it to call someone a bigot because they don’t want their in-laws popping into any hole her ass fits over.