I understand you, I have a different but similar problem with my girlfriend, she wants to be small but she cannot control her self with the munchies. On a daily basis, she is eating atleast 5000 calories everyday and some weekend when I’m home and feeding like 10-15k per day. But I can’t keep up with the money and need tips or help because her appetite is on a 300-400 kg women right know. I think if we can give her with she wants that we can get the same thing back

>>58018 I'm in the exact same boat. I love my fiance to death, but she weighs 130 lbs soaking wet and we only have sex occasionally because I very much prefer bbw's. I've subtly joked about making her fatter before, but she is adamant that she never wants to gain weight, and she barely has an appetite. She has very little self control though so I'm kind of working the slow game trying to encourage her to eat more and keep more desserts around, but in the 4 years we've been together she's really never gained much of anything. I have been tempted at times to make a feabie account and find myself a side chick but I just can't betray her like that. So for now I just kind of jack off to bbw's in secret and hope that she's gaining slowly and that it'll pay off in the long run. I don't even need her to be bbw category, but like 20 more pounds would make me so much more attracted to her. Idk man it's a rough life.

>>58307 Barely having sex with a fiancé who looked different than your preference tells all of us you are only settling and not actually in love. Better end this relationship before the marriage stage, gets expensive afterwards.

>>58307 You sure you wanna marry this girl? That sounds like you're setting yourself up for misery for a long long time.

>>58307 You are torturing yourself for no reason at all, and wasting your fiance's time while you're at it. Life is too short to be this retarded.

I got a similar situation. I married my wife when she had a teenage daughter. Now my wife’s gotten WLS and is constantly fat shaming her morbidly obese daughter. It’s kinda horrible annd their both toxic as fuck and kinda just the best.

>>58331 >divorce This is such a naive answer. It’s not like good relationships with women are easy to come by and you don’t know my financials. Anyway even if she’s skinnier now and working long hours she’s still a decent wife. Plus she’d 100% take the kids if she left so id lose pretty much all my outlets for cooking and feeding and all.

>>58018 Bro, if you believe married couples, even just long relationships, are attracted to each other physically the same way they were when they first got together you havent been paying attention. At least not to this world. Most couples end up being attracted to the person theyre with, not because they have the physique they like but because of who they are. If the body of your partner is all you care about, then youre losing both hers and your time, leave her and go chase that whale Capn Ahab! Also, if you really only care about the body of your partner, i'd suggest you get some help because thats not what sane ppl do bro, we all love big tits/asses but theres a line between liking and insanity.