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Bigger girls on vanilla dating apps? Anonymous 01/05/2025 (Sun) 20:53:48 Id:728b35 No. 58535
Alright lads, I'm just coming off a long-term relationship with a skinny girl. I thought she was my everything -- we'd been friends a long time, got along well, and the sex was great, even though she was a lot thinner than I preferred -- but I guess she didn't feel the same way. Now I'm trying to get back into the dating scene, and this time, I want to pursue girls who fit my preference. Only thing is, I've been out of the scene long enough that I don't really know where to find chubby/fat/BBW/SSBBW girls anymore. I have a Feabie but I also find the pickings pretty slim around where I live, not to mention the toxicity of that site. I regularly see complaints from non-fat fetishists about matching with a lot of bigger girls on sites like Tinder and Hinge, but I don't see a lot of obviously thick girls, let alone match with them. I admit I'm not a crazy looker but I take reasonable care of myself and make good money. I'm also not specifically looking for body-positive girls, but even just from the pictures I seem to consistently find twigs. Does anyone have any tips for manipulating the algorithm to find these mythical bigger girls? Am I stuck endlessly swiping or trying my luck on Feabie? Also general dating app tips, esp. as a feeder/fat fetishist, may be helpful too. I don't know if this matters but I'm based on the East Coast in a college town, although I don't go to school anymore. I'm 26M and looking for anyone 18-40, with a preference of 24-30.
Anonymous 01/06/2025 (Mon) 00:54:19 Id:8d020d No. 58540
>>58535 Hinge is the best for matching with fatties because after a few days of using it, it figures out what you like and shows that that. i.e. if you like a lot of fatties then it will show you mostly fatties or in my case showing mostly Asians because my yellow fever is much stronger than my fat fetish. Also general tip, if you play guitar, get a photo of you playing and set it as your main photo you will get WAY more matches. After I got a photo of me playing on stage I maxed out the tinder likes in like 2 hours. Before I didn't get many matches
Anonymous 01/06/2025 (Mon) 02:26:13 Id:728b35 No. 58543
>>58540 Hmm this helps a lot, thanks! I play keyboard but not guitar and haven't done a live show in ages, but maybe I can have a friend get a good pic of me! Do you use hinge for casual hookups, long-term dating, or a mix?
Anonymous 01/06/2025 (Mon) 11:00:34 Id:ed24e2 No. 58554
Never used Hinge but I found a lot of fatties on tinder. Buy tinder gold, crank up the distance, super like the fat girls. It's rare for them to not like you back. Unless your profile is a mess, I guess.
Anonymous 01/06/2025 (Mon) 15:50:17 Id:d32720 No. 58562
>>58540 Yeah, +1 this, whenever I get bored and make a new Hinge account, it starts by showing me a ton of skinny traditionally attractive women on day 1, and the first fat chick I find, I like her. The next day... more fat chicks... Then by a certain point my "Top Picks" or whatever is just all chubby women. I am not ashamed to admit I will like a woman on Hinge solely because she is obese. Sacrificial for the algorithm even if I'm not interested. It's still hard to find gargantuan women outside of spaces like Feabie (cesspool)
Anonymous 01/07/2025 (Tue) 01:51:47 Id:8d020d No. 58598
>>58543 Keyboard would be fine. It's just about playing an instrument that women find hot cause they want to be serenaded and shit. As for the photo getting one of you playing whilst looking good would be enough just make sure your face is clearly visible and also make sure it's obvious what you look like. People on dating apps don't like it when it isn't obvious what you look like. I'm a bit autistic so I used it to improve my social skills which worked and I used it to look for a long term partner. I haven't had much luck in that but have made a few friends. Most women on hinge seem to looking for a long term partner but you could hook up if you try hard enough. I'm not interested in hooking up so I haven't before. The best way to get matches is when sending a like say something related to their prompt or funny. Just sending a like can work it you're 10/10 Chad but the success is better. On your profile also make sure that the photos are good and your prompts are unique/funny. One of the prompts I have is "Growing up is watching your favourite Minecraft YouTuber go to prison" and have legit gotten 50+ people either like the prompt or ask about in our messages (I'm 21 so might not work for you). And probably don't mention that you're into fatties cause objectification or some shit
Anonymous 01/07/2025 (Tue) 22:24:51 Id:d6b8fc No. 58657
>>58562 >It's still hard to find gargantuan women outside of spaces like Feabie (cesspool) The lack of "gargantuan women" is my biggest issue. slightly-fatter-than-average girls don't do anything special to me, I'm into 450lb+ beasts who seemingly don't exist on dating apps or social media Liking the rare ultra-massive girl who appears on my Tinder/Hinge/etc. feed doesn't seem to pay off -- I assume the app's algorithm places an invisible "plus-sized" tag on any fat girl's profile, whether she's 200 or 500, so it can't distinguish that I'm swiping on SSBBW+ tier girls in particular I live in the deep south, I can't go on a grocery run without seeing a girl the size of a car. am I getting cockblocked by the algo or girls like this just generally not use dating apps for whatever reason?
Anonymous 01/08/2025 (Wed) 02:27:52 Id:b7fbd1 No. 58671
>>58657 > am I getting cockblocked by the algo or girls like this just generally not use dating apps for whatever reason? Yea
Anonymous 01/08/2025 (Wed) 07:54:54 Id:01fa28 No. 58687
>>58671 bro responded "yea" to a question with two options lmao
Anonymous 01/08/2025 (Wed) 14:48:15 Id:73adeb No. 58692
>>58657 I think the algo is cockblocking us for sure. Think of how many reddit posts there are of huge girls who are asking where all the FA's are... and how many FA's asking where all the huge girls are. And contrast that to how many non FA"s around the internet complain about being flooded with fatties. The algos, all owned by Match Group at this point, exist to make money and they've realized the best way to do that is to quite literally actually cockblock you into paying for their shit That said, I also think they're just really rare. There's just not that many women out there who are 500lbs, and of those, few want to date, and of those, few will be compatible with you. Especially if you're a little weird, it just narrows it down that much more. There is this huge girl in my old area, and she doesn't model or anything, actively avoids social media... but I've seen people obsessively talking about like 3 pics of hers that have leaked for years, all over these fat loving spaces... people who don't even live on my side of the country, let alone city. It's cuz there's like 20 of them in the whole country and being 1 of them automatically makes you a legend The numbers are just really, really stack against us, even for chads who really want to proudly take care of a huge disabled fat girl
Anonymous 01/08/2025 (Wed) 15:14:33 Id:e4d450 No. 58694
>>58692 Which pics are you talking about? I know someone else from my area who has pics of her leaked and she's not in the community at all. Something we're not accounting for is a fair amount of these SSBBWs are reclusive, some bordering on hermits. They don't wanna show off online, they want to be left alone and not sexualized or fetishized for something they've been demonized for growing up. Sure, they'll own up to it if their ideal physical match shows up, but otherwise they hate being reminded they're fat and would rather stay home in sweats over accepted as they are.
Anonymous 01/08/2025 (Wed) 16:43:28 Id:4bacd9 No. 58698
Also +1 for Hinge for showing you exactly what you want after a couple days FB Dating has the most straightforward algorithm in my opinion. It will start off showing you the most attractive users and then dwindle down to the least attractive before telling you you've run out of profiles. When you start consistently seeing fat/ugly/black/trans/disabled women that means you're about to run out. >>58692 The tricky thing for FA wanting to see fatties is that sometimes they are punching below their weight class, no pun intended. They may be more attractive than the women they want. Fat women are seen as less desirable and are the least swiped on, so most dating app algos have to balance out what they show you to keep (typically male) users engaged so that they don’t leave. As much as men try to tweak their profiles for visibility and matches, they may be working against getting to see the fat women they want
Anonymous 01/08/2025 (Wed) 19:47:58 Id:b22958 No. 58707
Many people of seemingly ambiguous ancestry are actually Philistina. And that is great for the internet quality big businesses owned by sane folk
Anonymous 01/09/2025 (Thu) 07:44:45 Id:893c3e No. 58752
Just pay the monthly subscription on an app and filter for curvy, the fat label the proud ones use whatever it is or “prefer not to say” and you’ll find them. See if you can’t find what you like, if not cancel sub another month, look for same thing on another app. Look for the fat faces too. I landed lots of face only bbws and a few massive girls who only had fat faces in their profile pics but turned out to be 400+ beware they occasionally they’ll have a fat face and oddly skinny body on rare occasion.
Anonymous 01/21/2025 (Tue) 20:05:21 Id:b1701b No. 59647
>>58752 but what app has a preference indicator for body weight? none of the dating apps that i'm aware of even ask someone if they prefer fat or skinny girls, let alone asking someone to be honest about their weight in the first place
Daisaku_Kuze 01/30/2025 (Thu) 05:31:47 Id:5a4587 No. 59991
Personally, I'd have to recommend WooPlus. It's marketed towards plus size/heavier women, and I went out with a few women on there before I met my current girlfriend. Tips: List some interesting/funny stories or things you've done in your "other" section or somewhere else. Whenever I'd ask about why I got matched with they'd always mention "my stories". Treat people like normal human beings. Don't "fetishize" them right off the bat. Sex isn't everything to most people and it'd be wise to remember that. Buy premium. If you want something out of the app I'd recommend it. Helps with chatting, algo, and search functions. I'm still getting matches on there and should really go back and cancel my subscription. Have been taken for over a year now. Don't be afraid to list your political affiliation as Conservative if you are one. You don't want someone wasting your time if you're ultimately not compatible with them and there are women who feel the same way. If you're not seeking something serious I'd mention that and honestly you can find a bit of everything on there.
Daisaku_Kuze 01/30/2025 (Thu) 05:36:54 Id:5a4587 No. 59992
Also, feabie and fetish sites suck ass. If sex is what instigated the convo, then the quality of your convo and partner is probably gonna reflect that. Women have all the power in that regard and trust me, the ones on fetish sites will wield it. If you're seeking something long-term, then you're probably gonna want a normal person to spend time with. Like the person first and be a good partner. Let the rest come later
Daisaku_Kuze 01/30/2025 (Thu) 05:45:25 Id:5a4587 No. 59993
Rant wa1s meant for the more schizo dating adjacent board I came from. Everyone here seems pretty reasonable. My bad y'all
Anonymous 02/17/2025 (Mon) 22:39:02 Id:7609e6 No. 60740
i have a hinge account that i use mostly to windowshop (a few people have made it out onto socials or even into my text messages, but not many) and even though i swear i only ever "like" fat women, the app just doesn't seem to get it. that said, after a few months off and on the app, i've finally come across/matched with some really fat women. black woman a few weeks ago who spends all her time doing school or work in her organizations, probably 5'5 300. things didn't really work out though because i could tell she was in it for more than a hookup and our conversations weren't interesting enough for me to do that. similar thing a few days ago. match with a super fat women with a bizarre case of skinny-face, but she lives a few hours away and i'm not sure if it's worth it for a hookup. her physique isn't terrible but it is incredibly belly-heavy (which i am a fan of to an extent) and she really doesn't have much else going on. fatter in the front by a *long* shot and her boobs are pretty puny too. idk. found a few other huge ones but gg go next because they never matched w me
Anonymous 02/18/2025 (Tue) 00:27:25 Id:08ef10 No. 60743
I've never had any luck on dating sites, fat or thin. I swore them off years ago because no one everathed me and when I made an effort to start a convo using a topic in their profile they never got back to me. I'm about average looking, so always assumed my pictures were awful since women don't read profiles so much. Worst one was a fatty with a skinny face who matches me and six months later gets back saying "sorry I didn't see this at the time! Ended upeeting someone irl, Good luck dating". Which was kind of the furthest I got with a girl online. She was really good looking too. Killed the concept for me and I could never go back now I'm balding before 30.
Anonymous 02/18/2025 (Tue) 02:57:17 Id:486b36 No. 60747
In my personal experience, Bumble. Been dating a plus size latina for almost two years now. Things are pretty good and we're planning on moving after graduation this spring. I was getting matches with bigger girls on other apps but I generally found that women were more likely to be engaged, so long as I was quick to respond. I would just say that it might be tricky to get matches if you're in a small city. I'm very average looking, not really muscular. If you like girls of a certain type, you will start getting said type in your top pics. Top picks are probably mutual, as we both ended up in each other's list. Just be very food-forward with prompts, mine was literally "My Ideal First Date is [all you can eat restaurant]." I probably could've been more successful with matches if I improved my photos though.
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