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Advice needed: Relationship or dive into the fetish Anonymous 01/08/2025 (Wed) 23:20:08 Id:1a4675 No. 58720
Need some advice from those that have been in similar situations. I'm in my early 30s been with my gf for nearly 2 yrs, she's gained like 20kg taking her up to ~300lbs while we've been together. She's just decided to go on weight loss meds and wants to get down to like 200lbs, for her health and cause she doesn't like how she looks. I'm super torn, I want to support her and help her lose weight and have a future with her like marriage and kids and buy a house, but the other part of me wants to end it and fully embrace this fetish and fuck really big women and even end up dating a feedee and helping her gain weight. I wasted the majority of my 20s dating skinny women and have only fucked 2 fat women (inclufing my gf) but none have been into the fetish. my gf lets me grab her belly when we fuck and we have played around with whipped cream a bit, so I kind of get that outlet for the fetish, but I find myself still wanting more. I'm feeling old though and think this is my opportunity to have a family and kids, and if I go chase feedees I'm giving that up. I'm in Australia so the feedee scence is a bit average but may have an opportunity to move to the USA for work which would make finding feedees a bit easier. Any advice? Pic for attention and the type of woman I'd love to be with haha
Anonymous 01/09/2025 (Thu) 00:07:11 Id:15da7b No. 58726
Don’t have kids with some 300 pound women. She’s proven she can’t even take care of herself, she won’t take care of your kids well. > she's gained like 20kg taking her up to ~300lbs What kind of bot mixed units like this? It’s indicative of a serious bug in your programming buddy.
Anonymous 01/09/2025 (Thu) 00:48:14 Id:1a4675 No. 58732
because freedom units. she's gained 20kg, she's like 135kg ish. Happy?
Anonymous 01/09/2025 (Thu) 00:53:05 Id:1b2fd9 No. 58735
>>58732 Ok. Still strange, why not report in stone since your from that retard island full of uggos that we’re gonna own soon enough thanks to Donny. Anyway, you’re in your 30s and after TWO FUCKING YEARS are talking about wife/kids for some slack-jawed potatoe shaped nugget of pub food and ale. If you have so little life experience to be asking this question, you should settle down with her because you ain’t pulling better faggot.
Anonymous 01/09/2025 (Thu) 01:44:12 Id:c82c0f No. 58742
>>58720 Not sure what's going on with the Americans today, but to answer your question: I think it's good you're doing some serious soul searching before diving into having a family. If you stayed with her how do you think you'd feel in 5 years? 10 years? 20 years? Your gut will probably tell you the answer. Having someone you connect with sexually is pretty important, imo.
Anonymous 01/09/2025 (Thu) 01:57:33 Id:1a4675 No. 58743
>>58742 Cheers for an actual decent response! Yeah I'm conflicted both ways, I think I'll regret not chasing this fetish if i stay with her but I also think I'd regret not haing a family, which seems likely if I break off a long term relationship now. Definitely think I just need a year or two of engaging in this fetish and having casual sex that I missed out on, at least just to confirm to myself if this fetish is important to me in a relationship. I'm just struggling with the feeling that if I do that I'm giving up having a family.
Anonymous 01/09/2025 (Thu) 02:25:07 Id:15da7b No. 58744
>>58742 > not sure what's going on with the Americans today Maybe you should shut the fuck I’m until you earn your free speech by paying the IRS like the rest of us Americans.
Anonymous 01/09/2025 (Thu) 02:25:44 Id:15da7b No. 58745
>>58742 EHHH?
Anonymous 01/09/2025 (Thu) 07:46:43 Id:6c4498 No. 58753
If you truly love her and want this family, wife her up and start that journey. However, you may be torn down the road even more and do you have a plan for that? Divorce would be terrible for everyone and your mental health could decline to being in a souless marriage. Have the talk with her if need be. My advice, live your life and if you want to find a feedee that will satisfy that craving with a perfect life balance go for it.
Anonymous 01/09/2025 (Thu) 12:00:50 Id:96387b No. 58761
You have plenty of time to have a family dude. You dint wanna go through life feeling like you missed out in something. You also can't change how she feels about her body. Some guys might say you can, but clearly you've been supportive and she still doesn't wanna be fat, so... There are other women out there and it's only been 2 years with a woman that it seems you have no real attachments to.
Anonymous 01/09/2025 (Thu) 12:55:40 Id:4e1e90 No. 58764
>>58720 When my wife and I met (on Tumblr of all places), she knew very early on that I liked fat chicks, so that hurdle was already cleared. We’ve been together 11 years now and, whiles she’s not into it, she knows what I like and she plays into it. She has no issues with me touching her fat, she sits in my lap, and she knows that she can get me to do almost anything if she asks me to grab her a snack while I’m up. Over time, she’s gone from 315-430, with some gains and loses. We have two kids (6 years apart), both of which she conceived at 400. My point with all of this is that, you really need to find someone that accepts all of you and will at least play to your needs. Doesn’t mean she needs to be a feedee (mine’s not), but she needs to know that you need that outlet.
Anonymous 01/09/2025 (Thu) 19:56:22 Id:411df3 No. 58780
This is one of those things you need to get out of your system, to fully indulge in it in its entirety, to then realize it's really not what you ultimately need at all. But until you do it, it will eat you alive.
Anonymous 01/09/2025 (Thu) 21:38:25 Id:aa63ce No. 58783
You wouldnt have posted this if she was the long term answer. When they stop growing, they going.
Anonymous 01/10/2025 (Fri) 04:45:03 Id:369294 No. 58793
I’m 19 and in my freshman year of college. My plan is to fuck as many fat girls next fall semester when I transfer schools and nobody will know me. In my senior year I will start dating for marriage and hopefully find a skinnier girl. My logic is that the skinnier girl will be able to have children easier and provide for them. So I’m having fun now and then I’ll lock in when it’s time to get serious. I hope this makes sense
Anonymous 01/11/2025 (Sat) 18:58:56 Id:632188 No. 59084
>>58780 God this is so true.
Anonymous 01/11/2025 (Sat) 19:00:22 Id:632188 No. 59085
>>58793 Don't go for skinny. If you really love her then ok but if you can just go for a woman with some chub who doesn't hate herself. I'm talking 190-230 range.
Anonymous 01/11/2025 (Sat) 21:22:16 Id:8896fd No. 59096
>>58780 This is how I feel. I know rationally that it's not ultimately what I need, but I'm going to be mad as hell on my deathbed if I didn't at least try to have sex with some for 4 to 5 hundred lb women in my life.
Anonymous 01/11/2025 (Sat) 21:44:04 Id:d7c8fa No. 59097
>>58793 Don't start dating for marriage until your late 20s, hell even your early 30s depending how it goes. be young and stupid while you can. I promise you have more time than you think.
Anonymous 01/12/2025 (Sun) 01:14:59 Id:24430b No. 59106
>>59096 Same, man. However at this point I'm not even worried about trying to have sex with a 4 to 5 hundred lb woman, as long as she's slightly chubby, ranging from the 160 to 300 range (I wouldn't mind having it with a heavier woman though, if given the opportunity) it could feel like pure bliss, I'm in my mid 20s and about to graduate, I want to get on the grind and have this experience at least until I'm in my early 30s
Anonymous 01/12/2025 (Sun) 05:00:17 Id:8896fd No. 59114
>>59106 200 to 300 range I've had and that's much more ideal in terms of a partner. But I'd still like to bag and absolute unit, like Roxxie or Plump Princess sized just to see what it's like.
Anonymous 01/12/2025 (Sun) 19:59:11 Id:458948 No. 59132
>>58780 Yeah, it's one of those things which is true but which you'll never believe until you find out for yourself. I prefer sex with 200-250lb women. And I prefer dating them for lifestyle reasons - hiking, travel etc. are still realistic/uncomplicated, weight-related health/longevity problems far rarer. But if I'd never had sex with 350lb+ women, I never could have gotten over the fantasy.
Anonymous 01/12/2025 (Sun) 21:31:21 Id:8896fd No. 59133
>>59132 What about experiencing 350+ helped you get over the fantasy? Like was it satisfying but not something you feel like you HAD to have again?
Anonymous 01/14/2025 (Tue) 03:07:24 Id:4eadb4 No. 59187
>>59133 In my experience when they get to a certain size its just not as fun. This is when WHERE the fat goes matters. Sex with a 250 pound woman with fat ass and big tits is better than with a 350 pound woman. ESPECIALLY if that 350 pounder has a small chest or butt. They just dont have the stamina for good sex and its a little more like fucking a passive object. When they're a bit smaller they can actually fuck YOU too instead of just kind of laying there wheezing like a pathetic hog. You also may grow to resent them for demanding princess treatment when theyre kind of repulsive to fuck. Its the equivalent of simp ass women who fuck their unwashed boyfriend who lasts for 5 minutes and doesnt give head then expects her to be his Mom/bangmaid. Shit gets old fast and you realize you have more self respect than that and deserve more.
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