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Need relationship advice Anonymous

01/10/2025 (Fri) 10:43:46 Id:e68096 No. 58797

Been in a relationship with my gf for some months now. We came together with some good chemistry but with one big issue, she's really thin. I let her know early on I had an attraction to fat and it was a big thing for me, and she seemed cool with it. She's really not into any of it lately and seems to have sorta grown to hate when I show love to her belly which in turn has kinda killed my attraction to her but she doesn't want me to leave and begged for me to stay after we nearly broke up. What should I do?

Anonymous

01/10/2025 (Fri) 13:38:59 Id:5bcf7e No. 58803

Call it quits. At some point you're gonna cheat or pick up a porn addiction because you're not getting what you need. Unfair to both of you to keep it going.

Anonymous

01/10/2025 (Fri) 14:54:32 Id:ef96c7 No. 58806

>>58797 Sounds like a problem. Get out. If you like fat girls, date a fat girl. Especially if you are having any sort of fantasies of her getting fat, and she's very clearly against it... yeah. Get out. You're attracted to the idea of her getting fat, not her.

Anonymous

01/10/2025 (Fri) 15:08:02 Id:43773c No. 58807

This shit will ruin your life brother. Obesity is a burden. Every day. Take the partner who is capable with less risk of health problems. Have a future together. Don't live for your dick, making her fat a third wheel. It's not worth the constant overhead. Fat bitches be crazy too.

Anonymous

01/10/2025 (Fri) 20:31:57 Id:0f58ba No. 58809

Not sure why you would even want to entertain a skinny chick with just her personality. A relationship is a healthy mixture of both physical and personality. If she doesn't want this to end there needs to be some compromises and if she refuses she isn't ready for a relationship unfortunately.

Anonymous

01/18/2025 (Sat) 04:57:47 Id:d4af83 No. 59403

Go "all in" for this one. Tell her that her sour reaction to the belly stuff is making you want to break up with her and you've had it. It made you realize more what you like and she's gotta get on board with this now. Eating more, belly rubs, etc. If not, she's done. You two were going to break up anyway, so shoot for the stars