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I'm falling for a slim girl Anonymous

09/26/2025 (Fri) 07:46:12 Id:ea3866 No. 70997

So, I'm the guy that posted how he feared he'll never find love due to this preference and the lack of bigger women in the area/interested. Something incredible has happened. I'd consider myself a 4.5 or 5/6 on the Kinsey scale of fat admiration, 0 being skinny only, 6 being fat only. It's not impossible for me to feel attraction to slim women but it is very rare, and typically attraction would only start at the thicker end of average (think Christina Hendricks, who is far and away one of the sexiest women alive as far as I'm concerned), and even then it's once in a blue moon unless she's at least 15-20 lbs overweight. This girl is not the slimmest I've been attracted to, but definitely on the slimmer end, and I like everything about her: her smile, her hair, her smooth skin, and yes, her body. What's more is that we've connected on a personal level: We love the same music, artists, films and even values (curiosity, imagination and creativity being big ones). I felt similar to a gorgeous BBW I met last year, but that didn't work for a number of reasons (I self isolated following a manic episode, and she moved back to Egypt. Considering she was an exchange student, it wouldn't have worked out anyway, but I suppose a fuck wouldn't have been out of the question) Would I be more attracted to this girl if she were heavier? Maybe, maybe not. I think I'm genuinely excited to see where this goes. I have her social media and I'll talk to her soon about going out. Excuse my rambling, I just wanted to share the great news.

Anonymous

09/26/2025 (Fri) 08:12:46 Id:781af3 No. 70998

When I was in my 20’s, there were absolutely no bbw’s in my circle. Not even someone a bit overweight. I fell a few times in love with a slim girl because I liked their personality. Luckily it never worked out. And I say luckily because this falling in love was purely platonic. There was absolutely no sexual attraction. I was in love with them, but I would never have been able to have sex with them, or if I had, it would have been very unsatisfactory, fantasising about bigger girls. Once I realised that, I have gone exclusively for big girls. I hope it is different for you, but take some time to think about it. A true relationship is not just about sex, but it should also not just be platonic. Sex is an important aspect of it, so make sure that that sexual chemistry is also present.

Anonymous

09/27/2025 (Sat) 06:51:08 Id:ea3866 No. 71061

>>70998 Appreciate the concern but I want you to know your fears are allayed. She gave me a rageing hardon when I got home and when I was talking with her, she made my heart skip several beats. It's very rare I'm attracted to a thin girl but not impossible. She's not even stick-thin like a model, she's got curves.

Anonymous

09/27/2025 (Sat) 13:53:52 Id:0acc5d No. 71075

>>71061 Dude we’ve all been there… you’re young, get the experience, learn about what gets you going. I’d bet half of it is your neuroticism and desire to fit in socially, or to have the romantic attention of a normatively attractive woman… but you will never be satisfied sexually, and as you get older and get more life experience around opportunities with women you’d be a better match with you will die a thousand deaths until you are truly ready to accept yourself and own your preferences. Dating fat women is the best gift a man can give themselves, they take care of you for real, they want to fuck and like sex more, they suck a mean dick and give back rubs after, they can cook and want to please… dating thin women just hurts emotionally and financially, which is the draw to some guys with self esteem issues or are submissive subs.

Anonymous

09/27/2025 (Sat) 14:36:07 Id:df0ebd No. 71077

He already has said he can feel aroused for this woman, how’s that sexually unsatisfying? If you can love and feel sexually attracted to a woman with a regular weight, good for you OP, it’s a great way to broaden your tastes and see if you really need the fetish in a relationship to feel fulfilled. Good luck

Anonymous

09/30/2025 (Tue) 08:23:12 Id:ea3866 No. 71241

I know this is soon to say but I think I love her. How did I get so lucky? I'm surprised, turns out my tastes were more expansive than I'd thought. It's like a whole new world has opened up.

Anonymous

09/30/2025 (Tue) 10:15:48 Id:4a8299 No. 71247

I kinda feel inhibited when I see a cute fit girl that I could shoot my shot at because i'm slighty chubby. It wouldn't suprise me if there some anons here who think their preference is unwaverable are skinny fat to chubby themselves and feel inadequate to get with a girl that very actively takes care of her body (not saying fat girls don't do that). In North America you probably don't have to compromise but everywhere else you got to be a bit practial with your preferences tbh.

Anonymous

09/30/2025 (Tue) 20:34:26 Id:ea3866 No. 71275

I think it also helps that she's genuinely attracted to me, which in my experience makes anyone infinitely more attractive (almost) regardless of looks.

Anonymous

10/01/2025 (Wed) 05:35:28 Id:24fdc2 No. 71328

Do you not take her slim physique as a challenge? It's about the journey and love of the game to me. Girl I am seeing now is a recovering anorexic with and ED and she actually wants to get fat and I want to see her fat I had no idea about this when we met (well obviously the skinny part, she was very obviously stick thin) we were originally friends, then ended up catching feelings. Started dropping some hints about what I was into and eventually we talked about it and she decided to she wanted to see what she looked like chubby. She has gained 30lbs since then, went from abs, pencil thighs and a flat booty to a soft starter tummy, curvy thighs that touch and a growing booty I can grab handfuls of. Just saying OP it may be worth a shot you never know where life will take you. I never expect this to happen to me or for her to embrace it like this.

Anonymous

10/01/2025 (Wed) 11:42:55 Id:226c7f No. 71340

>>71275 > I think it also helps that she's genuinely attracted to me, which in my experience makes anyone infinitely more attractive (almost) regardless of looks. As I said he hates himself more than he likes her. You will outgrow this if you heal whatever broke your ego and self esteem.

Anonymous

10/01/2025 (Wed) 11:50:02 Id:226c7f No. 71341

>>71075 > I’d bet half of it is your neuroticism and desire to fit in socially, or to have the romantic attention of a normatively attractive woman

Anonymous

10/02/2025 (Thu) 00:47:43 Id:ea3866 No. 71368

>>71341 Nice try. I've always been an outcast by choice until relatively recently so I don't really give a fuck what people could think of me. Some people are just attracted to a wide range of types. It's okay that you guys only want BBWs but I've found that isn't something I'm limited to. Why is that hard to believe?

Anonymous

10/02/2025 (Thu) 07:15:14 Id:247ae4 No. 71378

>>71368 I have no doubt that there are lots of people who can be attracted to both skinny and bbw. But if bbw is not your fetish, I just would not expect them to be on here. It is not like you stumble on this website by accident. >>71328 >I had no idea about this when we met (well obviously the skinny part, she was very obviously stick thin) we were originally friends, then ended up catching feelings. Started dropping some hints about what I was into and eventually we talked about it and she decided to she wanted to see what she looked like chubby. What I always genuinely wonder in such case: how do you even bring up this topic. What makes you think that she might be in to getting chubby? Also, since she was stick thin to start with, I suppose that for you it is more about the journey (aka the gaining) than the end result? For me it is the opposite: fat is the main driver. The gaining itself can also be hot, mainly from a “numbers” perspective, but I am most interested in what it results to: more fat

Anonymous

10/11/2025 (Sat) 21:41:47 Id:24fdc2 No. 71821

>>71378 >What I always genuinely wonder in such case: how do you even bring up this topic. What makes you think that she might be in to getting chubby? Well obviously don't be a sperg about it and don't force it. But in my case she flat out told me that she wanted to gain weight but it was really hard for her when we were hanging out. It's one of the things that really made me peruse her despite her being stick thin and wearing a size 0 when we met. She already had the desire, all I did was convince her to make her goal higher ("to make it stick") and kept her well fed by cooking, buying her lots of snacks or taking her out. She has put on about 30lbs so far and lately has been getting even more into it, she will take my hand and put it on her belly when she overeats and teases me about not fitting into her old pants while making me promise to buy her new ones. She also now calls herself "fatty" a lot and will say things like "fatty is hungry" or "fatty gotta eat" after eating a big meal/snack. She always used to draw and frequently used to draw women with super wide thick hips/thighs (something she did not have at the time), I swear she is getting into this more than I am, I catch her looking at her growing butt/hips/thighs in the mirror a lot and know that part of the gain really turns her on. I'd say that was half of the motivation for gaining, just her long term desire for more booty. I think a lot of women are like that in some respect and would be more okay with weight gain as long as they see themselves growing more attractive to you, just give them some positive reinforcement, treat them like princesses and the weight will naturally keep piling on.