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USSBBW Dating Advice Wanted Anonymous 09/30/2025 (Tue) 09:39:18 Id:4c0388 No. 71245
Does anyone have any advice for dating USSBBWs? I have a few concerns but could appreciate general advice. I know the idea with dating anyone is to just think of them as a person first and foremost, and I already do that, but I still have some concerns. One, do you have any advice for the smell? It stays in my nostrils for literal days and I don't like it. I'm worried that we'd have to date for months before I can bring up the idea of helping her bathe. I'm really autistic and it really seems to bring down my quality of life. Any bandaid solutions in the meantime? Two, what do you do when a USSBBW asks if you're a "chubby chaser?" I don't really understand the question; no guy without a preference for hyper obese partners would ever want to date her, so why is she asking? What's the answer she wants from me? Three, and I guess this goes with the previous question, do you hide any of your sexual preferences? Should you mostly just touch her boobs when you make out with her the first few days? Should I be cautious in revealing that I'd like her to sit on my lap? I'm not normallu a dishonest but I also don't know what to do about all the preconceived stigmas, so maybe it's the kind of thing that's best introduced gradually? Four, should I deny being a feeder? I hate that some girls have this idea that feeders are inherently selfish and that I couldn't possibly support her weight loss goals if it's not what my dick wants. Five, any advice for introducing her to people? I'm not some piece of shit that wants to hide her from the world, but it's still extremely awkward. Finally, and this ties into the previous question, what do I do about furniture? I'm scared to have her visit my own house, let alone the houses of my friends, because I'm worried she'll feel bad if she breaks something. Any and all advice is appreciated. I realized I asked a lot of questions, so please don't feel like I won't appreciate your time if you just answer one or give me an unrelated piece of advice or something. Pic unrelated
No experience with SSBBW or USBBW, but I will give my thoughts on some of the more general questions. >Two, what do you do when a USSBBW asks if you're a "chubby chaser?" When asked, I always said that personality is the most important, but that there must also be some sexual attraction and that I prefer bigger girls. I usually add that everyone finds it normal that men are attracted to skinny women and big breasts, so why should it be any different if someone happens to be attracted to women who are a bit bigger. These days you can also add something about body positivity. The point is that you need to make it sound almost normal and don’t come across like a freak. With the sexual preferences: take it easy. Start very vanilla. You can let her know you like a big belly, but be normal about it. Don’t go full fetish on it immediately. Same with being a feeder. I would be even more careful about bringing that one up. But it al depends on the woman as well. Some are very open minded, others might be more conservative.
Take showers together before intimate times don't mention hygiene just say you want to be closer. She may have had a bad experience with a fa before or she could be trying to see what your into id say just play it cool.
>>71254 >. I usually add that everyone finds it normal that men are attracted to skinny women and big breasts, so why should it be any different if someone happens to be attracted to women who are a bit bigger. Exactly. We don't call men who like thin women only "thin chasers", and we don't call men who date only fit women "fit chasers". We just say those guys are attracted to those women. I honestly wonder if the term Chubby Chaser was invented to make BBWs feel bad about themselves. Women almost always have a friend that is doing worse than them to make themselves feel better. Maybe the BBW in the friend group was the one the thin/fit ones used to feel better about themselves, so they knock them down like that because they themselves are not happy.
Does anyone have any advice for dating USSBBWs? Yes, if that's what makes your dick rockhard and that's your ultimate preference, chase them and date them. That said it comes with certain challenges and restrictions. I've had a few 500lbs girlfriends, and honestly as much as the sight of extreme fatness gets me, I wouldn't go choosing to have a relationship with one if i were single. (I ultimately married a woman who was 450 at her heaviest, was maybe 330 when we married and is currently about 280 in her early 40s) 1. Smell? Don't date them. Don't put your dick in crazy, and don't put your dick in a woman who doesn't care for her hygiene. If it's a one night stand fuck your mileage may vary, but I only did it once. My wife is incredibly clean. She changes when she comes in if she's been in the office, she'll have a baby wipe clean whenever she feels she wants to if it's the hottest summer days, she always smells nice 2. They know you're a chubby chaser, they fucking well already know you are, they just want to know how confident you will be to be seen with them. My general line 'label me if you need to, i know i fancy you like crazy'. In all honesty, they're looking for someone who isn't a fucking creep and who isn't wanting to fuck a fat girl to tick it off their list. Let her know you like her and you're not afraid to be seen with her. 3.Yes, hide it at first, don't make it obvious. Don't go straight in grabbing her fat rolls, she likely won't like it, plenty of places to touch instead. You might get lucky and once you've been intimate and she gets it, this guy really likes all my fat, she might invite you there. Plenty to touch elsewhere, she'll thank you for it. 4. Are you actually a feeder, or do you just have aspirations of? Change it back to her, ask whether they're saying they get off on getting fatter. Then you can be a bit coy, 'i like your body, so if you were bigger, fuck, i guess I must be at least an an enabler if i say you'd look hotter even bigger' 5. Introduce her to people who you know aren't gonna be judgemental assholes. Also, be polite enough to forewarn who you are introducing her to , it will probably help you get them on your side. Your parents will always likely be a hard sell. You just gotta let them know this is who you really like. Lastly furniture, you best get your A game on. 500lbs? They never broke a sofa, we broke a few bed legs on vacation, but the bed was pretty shitty. Trust me, they already know and are looking out for it, they don't want to embarrass themselves. If the girl you posted is what you're after, you've no problems, she's no SSBBW let alone USSBBW. Good luck if that's what you're after, but go find some hot girl in the mid 300s before you go diving in at the deep end.
>>71666 Thanks for the advice, Satan. You took a long time off from your busy schedule of ruling Hell to reply to me and I really appreciate it. 1) I've never dated a girl over 600 pounds that didn't smell. I think at a certain point it just becomes impossible for them to clean themselves absolutely. 2) I think I've been nixed for answering yes to that question though. Some of them see us as sociopaths for some reason if we admit to a preference. Maybe it's a Leftist thing. 4) Yes, I'm actually a feeder, but that doesn't mean I couldn't support her in moderate weight loss goals or be content with her not gaining. When I said the picture was unrelated, I meant completely unrelated.
>>74616 > Some of them see us as sociopaths for some reason if we admit to a preference. Maybe it's a Leftist thing Bruh. What a braindead ass take. Such a retarded thing to genuinely think lol My advice to you for ussbbw dating is to quit being a fucking faggot

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