>>71548
i feel like people are being pretty harsh here, suicidal threats are obviously wrong and bad, but i can understand where they are coming from, if you've been dating for 5 years since u were 18, it can sometimes feel like u have to go through with it, because its all you guys know.
so especially if it feels like its not by choice it can really hurt to lose someone u thought was guaranteed, like losing your safe person.
but if we just forget about this being about feederism this kind of stuff happens all the time, u can love and care about someone and realise that the things you want in life dont line up, whether its about having kids or where you want to live or even sexual chemistry if thats something u deem important enough in a relationship which i'd say the majority of happy relationships do.
like i've been through it, and heard these stories many times before, i really dont think she will end up ending herself, but equally wouldnt forcing a relationship that both of u know isnt really what u want really living either.
like obviously think about it a lot but i promise given time that you will both be better in the future.
she young and scared and it seems like u are too, i hope u both develop healthy ways to deal with this