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Anonymous 10/06/2025 (Mon) 05:53:07 Id:5d7a58 No. 71548
My gf was 80 lbs when we started dating at 18 years old. Told her about my fetish and she gained up to 130 in the next 5 years. We had good sex and she would play into it. Last year she stopped wanting to fuck and stopped acting like she was into it, but denied being turned off when asked about it. Last month she finally tells me she really isn't into gaining and wants to lose weight. I respect that, no problem. The thing is I'm not attracted to skinny girls at all. Normally, this would be fine, except sex was pretty much the only thing holding our relationship together. We have very little in common, and, aside from knowing that she would make a good mother for my kids someday, there's almost nothing that is making our company worthwhile for each other. So what's the problem? Just dump her right? In the past when I have tried to do this she has attempted suicide over the phone and told me stories of her uncles and grandfathers breaking people's legs who have "dun their daughters wrong". Should I just kill myself? Thanks
she sounds crazy and her random threats are obviously just bullshit to make you stay around. i've been there and it just isn't worth staying. you want to deal with a crazy bitch for the rest of your life? it only gets worse the more locked down they think you are. on the other hand, it is very hard to get a girlfriend these days so up to you. 80lbs is really slim though.
Leave her ass and get yourself a real bbw whos confident in herself. Easier said than done but would you rather stay with someone you don't love, aren't attracted to, and have kids with?
>>71548 So, you've got nothing in common, you're not attracted to her, you want different things, and she threatens you when you disagree with her. Your choices are either: a) just end it b) mentally end it, but keep banging her for as long as possible while you mentally move on Either way, what you have isn't really a gf, it sounds more like it was always kind of a high maintenance fuck buddy.
>My gf was 80 lbs when we started dating at 18 years old. >The thing is I'm not attracted to skinny girls at all. >We have very little in common So, why are you together? Makes no sense to me at all
>>71557 Sounds like man literally just went for the first girl that ever showed him any interest.
Just dump her. Most of the time when someone threatens suicide over ending a relationship they don't mean it. If she actually wanted to kill herself she would have by now. As for her family members, you're American so buy a gun or go to the cops. Also if someone threatens to kill themselves over something as normal as a breakup, they won't be a good parent so stop lying to yourself. Go fuck some bbws after you break up with her to remind yourself what yoh missed out on
Never take the 1st girl. You can probably do better. Work on your game and get out there
>>71548 if sex was all that was holding it together than it wasn't meant to last to begin with. Sure the sex should be good, but you need a connection that can weather the BS of life
>>71548 i feel like people are being pretty harsh here, suicidal threats are obviously wrong and bad, but i can understand where they are coming from, if you've been dating for 5 years since u were 18, it can sometimes feel like u have to go through with it, because its all you guys know. so especially if it feels like its not by choice it can really hurt to lose someone u thought was guaranteed, like losing your safe person. but if we just forget about this being about feederism this kind of stuff happens all the time, u can love and care about someone and realise that the things you want in life dont line up, whether its about having kids or where you want to live or even sexual chemistry if thats something u deem important enough in a relationship which i'd say the majority of happy relationships do. like i've been through it, and heard these stories many times before, i really dont think she will end up ending herself, but equally wouldnt forcing a relationship that both of u know isnt really what u want really living either. like obviously think about it a lot but i promise given time that you will both be better in the future. she young and scared and it seems like u are too, i hope u both develop healthy ways to deal with this
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