So, my fiancée has been putting on some weight. Probably gained 25-30lbs since I met her 4yrs ago but most of it has been in the last 6-7 months. I can mostly get away with telling her I like how she looks because a lot of it has gone to her ass, but she is getting a belly and she no longer wants to be on top during sex because of it. I tried the usual stuff, oh babe youre still hot, I love how you look, etc etc but she is stubborn and just won't do something that makes her uncomfortable. So I try to lean into it a little more. What could go wrong? I tell her that I'm basically obsessed with her body now. We could do any position and id still enjoy it. I love that her ass is bigger now. I love her curves. I tell her all that stuff. Now, she knows I used to fuck fatties. She stumbled on some saved pics on my phone when we first started dating, of a pretty massive girl thst I used to bang. So when I told her I like her body now, she said that doesnt make her feel.better at all, because she feels like she fits more into the fat girl body type that I "used to" go for. Which is correct, but not how I wanted her to take it. She then starts making jokes like "so what are you gonna start force feeding me milk shakes and putting extra frosting on all my desserts and making me have 2 desserts every night?" Which i have to admit, is pretty funny because its dead-on what i would be doing if she actually wanted to get fatter. I chose to deny that I was trying to make her fatter. Anyway, what the fuck do I do now? She does not want to be fat, and its messing with her confidence and what she's comfortable doing in bed. She works a lot and is too tired/lazy to go to the gym. She doesnt have enough self discipline to not snack at night. Last night I said I'd make myself a quick dinner at home but she took me to wawa for a sandwich because she wanted to get herself ice cream too. I am at a loss. The only good thing about this situation is that she has hypoglycemia and is convinced she will die if she takes a GLP-1.