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When does Reality Start to Kick in Anonymous 10/15/2025 (Wed) 03:19:32 Id:01434b No. 71935
When I met my girlfriend several years ago she weighed 220lbs. I was never open about the fetish, but she was one of those social media/tumblr "fat acceptance, fat is beautiful" types so she was pretty comfortable with her size and even with grabbing her belly during sex. She had bad eating habits when we met but I think being with me, despite me not forcing her really enabled things. All of a sudden she's built up to eating massive portions nearly every single night and having fast food for lunch almost every day at work. Not to mention a constant stream of snacks throughout the day. She's blown up to 315lbs in just a couple years. She hit a wall briefly around 280-290lbs where the fat acceptance stuff seemed to wear off. I think going from the lower end of fat to very fat, jarred her a little. She started to question her comfort of her weight and size, even bought a gym membership which she didn't use one time. She plateaued for a bit. However, the poor eating didn't completely stop just slowed down and a few months ago she weighed in at 300lbs. I thought this might really effect her but somehow it did the opposite, she texted me right after "All my life I worried about hitting 300lbs but now that I have I realized I'm fat as hell but still sexy as hell." All of a sudden the eating picks right back up and within just a few months she gains another 15 lbs. However, now theres been another mentality change, she hasn't slowed down her eating or had issues with her appearance (quite the opposite still) but she has started to bring up fears of developing health issues. I was hoping that I'd see her blow up to massive proportions, however, now I'm wondering if she's hitting the point where the reality begins to set in. Right now she gets winded going up the stairs and when we have sex and she's burst out of all her clothes but that's the only real consequence. She's pretty smart and I'm sure she realizes that if she continues down this path she'll soon hit the extreme side of obesity and that's when the actual real issues come in. However, luckily due to her fat acceptance ideology stuff she is extremely anti-weight loss drugs. She also has no real concept of actual dieting, when she brings up eating healthier she only thinks of stopping eating take out/fast food she still plans to eat massive meals, just ones that she cooks. Am I cooked? What is the point when reality starts to set in for these fatties.
Anonymous 10/15/2025 (Wed) 05:41:19 Id:c0c091 No. 71939
Doesn’t sound like you are cooked to me. Just make sure she doesn’t have too much sugar and just eats a shit ton of savory food mostly. You should show us some before and after pictures of her. Would love to see a good comparison.
Anonymous 10/15/2025 (Wed) 09:03:14 Id:16dbbd No. 71944
The weight takes its toll over time and they all have dke it differently. If you really want her to be able to handle her size long term she needs to be somewhat active and have some more balanced nutritional intake.
Anonymous 10/15/2025 (Wed) 15:33:01 Id:18253e No. 71950
>>71935 Actions speak louder than words. For now, you aren't cooked. If she starts to actually do the actions that would lose weight, like eat way less and consistently exercise, then yeah you're cooked. But if she's still just eating and not working out, it doesn't matter what she's saying while she's doing it. The weight's gonna go up.
Anonymous 10/15/2025 (Wed) 15:56:33 Id:30cdea No. 71951
>>71935 Remember that from her perspective it's all reality. When she wasn't 300 lbs she thought that she would look worse at 300 lbs, when she got there she realized that that wasn't reality. But at the time she thought it was. Same situation now, she thinks that she'll develop health issues, and her mindset now is her reality. The only difference is that this time the reality is real objectively, instead of subjectively. What comes next is living with those health issues and her deciding whether she prefers to accept life with those issues or to change her life to avoid them. The important part is for you not to be passive, whatever issues you want her to be okay with, you have to help alleviate as much as you can. It'll be less of an issue if she's receiving help from you. How big you want her to be or how many issues you're okay with tending to I don't know, but the important part is that you need to put some work into making her life comfortable if you want her to be comfortable with the issues she's going to face at bigger sizes.
Anonymous 10/15/2025 (Wed) 16:01:05 Id:30cdea No. 71952
>>71935 >she's built up to eating massive portions nearly every single night >she still plans to eat massive meals How big are these meals, I ask not just out of curiosity, but because I wonder what your definition of being "cooked" is here? Do you want her to keep gaining weight fast? Or just to keep gaining at any pace? Or just to maintain a weight that you find her attractive at? Because unless she starts actively exercising she's not going to lose much weight off of diet alone, especially if she still plans to eat massive meals.
Anonymous 10/15/2025 (Wed) 18:15:12 Id:9471ac No. 71958
>>71951 This did a good job putting it in perspective. Her biggest concern at the moment is if she keeps gaining weight and eating this way that’ll she get diabetes. I think because we’re relatively young other health issues aren’t as concerning to her. >>71952 Currently she usually gets fast food or takeout for dinner. She’ll usually get two combo meals worth of food and a large soda. When she does cook for herself it’s kinda can swing both directions. She’ll sometimes eat half to a whole box of pasta, breadsticks, salad, and 2-3 cinnamon rolls. But she’ll also sometimes eat a large plate of salmon and rice with vegetables and desert. She will openly admit she’s a food addict and is unwilling to stop eating good food and large portions. However, she wants to eat less fast food and takeout not for weight loss but for health reasons. I’m not actively pushing her to gain weight, I’m more of just an enabler. When she spends the day with me, she’ll typically eat two 2-3k calorie meals. Plus desert of some sort. However, this is all on her own desires with me just nudging her in that direction. I would love to see her hit 400lbs but I’d be happy if she just stayed around 300lbs.
Anonymous 10/16/2025 (Thu) 21:58:39 Id:30cdea No. 71991
>>71958 It'll be more expensive, but you could float the idea of healthier alternatives. Gluten-free food, vegan chocolates, low-sugar options from places that still taste good (taste being subjective it'll be on her to taste-test). If you get a kick out of her eating specifically unhealthy things then I suppose this isn't something you'd want to do, but if you're into pretty much any other part of the fetish you don't lose anything other than money by making the switch. You haven't mentioned your money status but it could be something to help her maintain/gain weight and eat more good food without worrying about health issues as fast (most noticeably health issues that have less to do with just numbers on the scale like diabetes). I fully recognize the irony of telling you that she should eat healthier on bbwchan of all websites, but for your situation specifically it seems like it could be a good solution.
Anonymous 10/16/2025 (Thu) 22:54:04 Id:01434b No. 71993
So I had forgotten she had a doctors appointment scheduled for this week because she hadn't had her period for almost half a year. She went today and said she is going to be prescribed insulin assistant medicine that is supposed to help her have a regular period again. She said the doctor told her the medicine will make her sensitive to very greasy foods. Does anyone know anything about these sorts of medications? Obviously knowing the name of it would be a lot more helpful.
Anonymous 10/17/2025 (Fri) 11:49:00 Id:1cd8e9 No. 72007
>>71993 My girl got put on that sorta thing and unless you have a serious slob/scar fetishes careful with the feedings. It’s not like some of the guys here where were regularly cleaning out the tub or other things but she was LEAKING like when I housed a bag of sugar free cough drops, I mean stains on a couch we had to throw away level of gross.
Anonymous 10/17/2025 (Fri) 15:03:23 Id:953712 No. 72013
>>71958 I think you’re fine, especially because you’ve taken the approach of being supportive no matter where she’s at with all this. That lets her food and weight ultimately be her choice. That’s that freeing part she’s after in the relationship. I don’t think there it’s possible to be an SSBBW without some lingering concerns about the risks. Totally normal and reasonable. Especially if she used to be much smaller, the shift in lifestyle to this size is going to be more notable to her. That said, if you keep making her life great, there really won’t be much need to “change” the way things are going.
Anonymous 10/17/2025 (Fri) 23:29:48 Id:f79a8e No. 72029
>>71958 If you want her to still gain weight, cut out the sugars and saturated fats and instead focus on unsaturated fats. Massively more healthy way to live.
Anonymous 10/18/2025 (Sat) 00:20:27 Id:c0c091 No. 72030
>>72029 Bingo
Anonymous 10/18/2025 (Sat) 21:25:39 Id:01434b No. 72074
>>72013 With her now being about to be on this insulin assistant medicine to induce regular periods, I suspect that she'll lose some weight even if she's not trying due to the changes in her diet it will force. Unless she starts to just starts to eat like crazy on some of the foods she is able to eat. It would of been nice to see her hit on the SSBBW trajectory she was rapidly heading towards. At the end of the day, I really care about this girl and she's more than just a sack of fat. Plus on the bright side she's so sucked into the fat acceptance ideology she herself says she never wants to be skinny even if she does lose weight. So unless she has a drastic change of heart even if she has significant weight loss she'll likely always atleast be pretty thick. But who knows maybe she'll find ways to eat to her hearts content on these new drugs.
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