I think you did the right thing admitting it right away. I didn't with my girlfriend, it's been 10 years and she's probably gained about 20 pounds. Really wish it was more, but she's made it very clear she doesn't want to gain weight. Can't help but wonder if I had mentioned it a lot earlier if she would have been slightly more open to it. Most girls won't be in to it. Maybe try finding someone on a fetish specific site, but I think most people who find what you're looking for get lucky. Best I can say is find someone who is in the right environment to get fat. Fat friends, fat family members, likes sweet or greasey foods, isn't ashamed of their body. These things can play a big role over time.

>>72468 I actually disagree partially about mentioning it to them. Unless they are actual feedees, that usually scares them off. Just say you like big/chubby/thick girls and leave it at that. They may have suspicions, but most won't directly ask it. This way they can rationalize it better for themselves as well when they gain weight. But i do agree with the searching for girls with fat friends, family etc... Would be easier to just get a chubby girl and fatten her up, but since you stated you like thin girls that is the best way. Maybe you can also check out girls who played sports out of parental expectations / duty around 20-25 years old. When they quit sports they tend to gain quite a bit of weight. And finally, when trying to get them to eat more it helps if you have a decent amount of money to take them out, order take-away etc often.

Since you actually like to find them slim and corrupt them, play the long game as arduous as that sounds. Find a stable relationship with someone who’s naturally thin without working out or watching what she eats that much. Also see if you can get a look at her mom. If her mom is large, things are pointing in your direction. She never comes to know any need to cut her portions back or pick up a gym routine. Over the course of a long relationship you can make it extremely obvious what your preferences are without having some big reveal day where you do so super abruptly and freak her out. Like a year in she’ll know, but there won’t be this obvious conversation she can exactly point to where you dropped the bomb. All those factors will eventually play into each other where she will gain, she’ll know you like it, and even if she isn’t into it, doesn’t really know any other way. After her habits are built the idea of cutting back and getting in shape will feel like an irritating limitation. Again the long game is kind of boring answer, but it works if you’re OK with the longer timeline of her being fat by the time you’re settled but not necessarily before.

Never hide what you like. Most of the girlfriends and hookups I've had have been a direct result of my open reputation as a fat girl lover. If you're a decent, normal man, it's like shooting fish in a barrel. Your odds of finding a thin girl to 'corrupt' into an overfed landwhale are ZERO unless you find her online with a compatible fetish. Other option is find a girl who's at least chubby and comfortable with her chubby body, and plump her up from there. I personally recommend meeting feedees online. You can work out all the mental, emotional, political and sexual compatibility etc. from the beginning, instead of wasting your time and hers.

My now wife gained about 30 lbs 2 years into our relationship going from 110 to 140. Was a real noticeable thing when her now fattened thighs ripped her jeans open. She was embarrassed, and I was immediately turned on. Fast forward to that night and during sex I felt how much softer her belly had gotten, but it made her uncomfortable. This is when I finally confessed my attraction to fatter girls. She took it well and was happy she didn't have to go to the gym anymore. Now today, 5 years later, were married, and she's 190 and looking forward to her stopping point of 250. As for any tips for this? I can't say. Some girls really take to the laziness factor, and others take to the eating what they want whenever they want factor. It's mostly just a matter of timing and trying not to make the whole relationship about the fetish. You have to remember, women across the world are hard encoded from a young age to look a certain way, depending on culture. Even already fat women can be turned away from this admission. Making it apparent too soon can scare them off. Not telling them is also not a good option either.

I met mine when she was 19 at 140ish. She put on 20lbs pretty quick just spoiling her and then I showed her curvage and all that. She was open to it as long as I provided for it she’s now 230 at 24 . There’s been some plateau’s here and there but I’m sure she’ll hit 250 by next year and 300 in her 30’s. My advice is don’t get into a relationship you want to be a feeder in unless you are ready to financially.

I would say to just be honest if you're in it for the long haul. I've been with my gf for 2 years now and she's 5'11 and I met her at 275lbs. I told her about my interests about a month or two into the relationship when we talked about our weird kinks. She didn't really think much of it, but she loves how much she turns me on by just existing. Due to comfort and the fact I'll do anything I can for her, she's around 320lbs now (it's all gone to her belly and ass). One thing I have learned that helps is to find their guilty pleasure snack and just keep it stocked. My gf likes Sam's club croutons with teriyaki sauce from her favorite yakitori place (and thankfully they sell bottles of the sauce) and cheese if we have it, and she'll have a bowl of it like it's cereal. Last night I watched her eat 2 bowls of the croutons, almost half the bottle of teriyaki, and almost all the cheese (and this was a couple hours after she had dinner). While she's not necessarily into this stuff, she loves being pampered and likes when I rub her belly. Also she knows how to get me going by messing with her belly or walking up to me with it out and pushes it against me, and always tells me to make her bigger while we fuck (which she has said she likes to do in the moment cause I love to hear it so much). Sorry for the rambling, I almost never comment/post and thought I'd throw my 1.5 cents in

>>72422 You can try what this guy did: https://bbw-chan.xyz/gen/res/71052.html#q73080 Or you can look up NLP, neurolinguistic programming. Study it and get good at mind f**king people. 2 very different approaches.