>>73302 You can be attracted to fat and skinny girls. I am. They still got the same parts. Maybe it’s that you just like big boobs and big butts, and fat girls tend to have those.

Bro I think you are chilling. There is no issue here. You are just attracted to both. I wish I was because slimmer girls don’t really do it for so my options are much slimmer. Cause there are a lot of ugly fatties

>>73364 That's another major problem. I live in the southern US, and a lot of the fatties here can be butt ugly. Sure, there are more of them compared to other areas, but it's still a problem. I also think it's due to the fact that I find it hard to attract them compared to regular or skinnier women in my dating experience.

>>73365 bruh, u'll realize fat girls here in midwest are uglier than in the south. I miss NC.

>>76468 BBW Models from Midwest straight up look like Scandinavian blondes while southern ones look like somehow even more inbred brits

Chill bro, you can like both skinny and fat

The term I heard thrown around was bisizual. Kinda dumb but it makes sense. I'm similar; prefer big girls but I like to spice it up with slimmer ones here and there. Current GF is slim and I adore her body.

>>73302 My wet dreams involve fat women so maybe

>73302 Most wet dreams are related to stuff you see constantly, and not necessarily things you like For instance, I rebember when I had wet dreams related to ads in porn sites

>>73302 I thought I was only attracted to fat girls. Slept with a skinny girl recently(like so thin her ribs are visible and her hip bones are very defined although her ass is fatter than most average weight girls) and I'm now questioning if I'm even attracted to fat girls anymore because the sex is so much better than any fat girl I've slept with

Adding to the convo, idk. Before my current feedee relationship, I've only dated fit & skinny women. Sometimes I look at the girls my friends date, or movies & shows with petite & pretty women and reminisce about the days of being with someone that was seen as traditionally attractive. Love my gf, can't help but feel like a dick because she's the only one I revealed this secret to & she was nice enough to gain for my pleasure. Idk though, I think it's normal for people in this community to appreciate skinny women & absolute fatties. Both have their advantages.

>>77306 What you get with both... Absolute fatties: super id sexual satisfaction, intense self validation, living true self Skinny women: social capital generators The choice should be clear. But it's not. Social capital is a hell of a drug.

that’s like the life of the mind; the imagination or something like that

>>77306 >I think it's normal for people in this community to appreciate skinny women & absolute fatties. No, it's not. I don't like skinny women. The only time a miss a skinny woman, is when I want to go on a hike in the mountains.

From what I remember, since I was young I've felt an attraction to bellies. I remember seeing it in some cartoon episodes and things like that. I didn't exactly understand what I was feeling, but today I know it's a kind of attraction. But my biggest interest is knowing what triggered this fetish in me, if I was born this way, if something affected me and made me like this. Does anyone know anything about it? The strangest thing is that in real life, when I'm out of the house, I don't feel exactly this kind of attraction. I like other types of girls, usually thinner ones. It's only when I'm alone and have some trigger that I feel this urge to see this kind of content, and it's really something I enjoy. Does anyone else have this feeling? It's very strange to have this weird kind of fetish. Anyone I know who I've ever talked to about the existence of the fetish thought I was psychopathic, but I didn't say I have it. It's really funny to think that this is a secret I'll take to the grave with me. And excuse my English, it's not my native language.

I’m more conflicted on the guilt of preying on people who aren’t self aware or lack self control. Totally disgusted by non very obese women so I’m stuck but honestly I’m disgusted with myself for some of the women I’ve dated and been a feeder to because they’ve been a mixed bag of ultra fats due to being depressed, poor, kinda slow and poorly educated, rape ptsd/compulsive eating and I’m no Casanova or anything so I can’t imagine the stories other men on here have about dating fatties. The lore behind why they’re fat is never because things are good up top.

>>77712 I was either born this way, or something in my very early childhood (from before I remember it) triggered it. In real life I can also like skinny girls, but that is liking because I like their personality, or perhaps because they have a cute face, but not liking in a sexual way.

>>77782 This feels so weird, I wish I could understand it someday.

I can't speak for anyone else but my first and only wet dream was at 11 years old and the blast-off moment was when I was poking a fat woman's belly with my finger. I've been attracted to fat women for as long as I was aware of gender, so if I wasn't born this way it happened in the first 3 or 4 years.

>>77713 Is this really something to feel bad about? You’re making their lives happier and more full of love. Everyone deserves love.

>>77713 >>77880 You can’t control the whole world, plus it’s all a dumpster fire. Just get yours and try to enjoy it.

Sometimes I feel kinda an asceticism sorta guilt. Like when a model says she has no regrets ever and that’s she’s the happiest anybody’s has ever been, it makes me think their either lying for the vid, or that they’ve put all their eggs in a basket that will eventually break. Like your sex drive will probably crash eventually, and then you’ll might be old and depressed cause you’re too fat to move good and go out. Maybe I’m just projecting or anxious, but there’s something really wrong about this fetish and that if you need thousands of dollars and constant encouragement to do something without it ruining you, maybe don’t do that thing as much. IDK

I think that is the problem with calling feederism a fetish. Fetish by definition means you cannot get aroused by things that do not involve the fetish. But I think feederism is not a fetish per se. It can get into a fetish, and that would be bad. But in general it is just a preference or a roll-play-thing. You fantasize about women stuffing themselves and getting fatter and fatter, filling out more and more, but in reality, the roleplay is just as fine. Even if she did not get bigger, it is arousing for example when she "admits" and asks, "honey, do you think I overdid it lately, look how pudgy I have become!" That works in real life, it is roleplaying, but it doesn't work in fantasy, because there you wanna see visual results, hence the numbers game, and the clothes-try-ons. To visualze the results of indulging. But in my experience all that is not really needed in real life, when there is the roleplay going on, the teasing and stuff. So most the times, or for most peopke it is not really a fetish, it is a kink, or a preference of women "bigger" than the norm, but the norm still does it. Normalize feederism! :-)