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Manlets and dating Anonymous 11/23/2025 (Sun) 13:30:58 Id:ed9ca5 No. 74102
Hey guys, just curious...any manlets here actually find success with bigger women? We all know the data on how shorter men struggle in the dating world, but I find it even more difficult with BBW/SSBBW's because the vast majority of them have major insecurity issues. For context, I'm 5'6 and about 145 lbs, and the few bigger girls I have pursued always tell me that being with a smaller guy makes them feel even worse about their body, and they're looking for someone bigger. It really sucks, cause part of the fetish for me is the huge differences in size. I would ideally like a girl 250 to 300+ and maybe even a bit taller so I could be engulfed in her body when she lay down on me. I know this is an obscure weird fetish for most people, but I imagine the majority of you guys get what I'm craving. So how have you guys navigated it? Any success? I'm getting real discouraged lately and it just doesn't look like it's ever going to happen. Pics attached is kinda what I'm looking for, although obviously exaggerated some.
>>74102 5'5", bagged girls from 200 to 650. Most were taller some were my height. It's possible just be handsome and not a creep. Be prepared for them to have issues and don't be a dick.
The dude who is dating Sadie Summers is short as fuck. But he's an OG from Oakland. It just goes to show you: you can be tall with no game and do ok, but if you're short and you do got game you can also do ok. The issue here is short dudes with no game. Get good y'all. Get some skills, get some life experience. Touch grass. Quietly crying to yourselves in your deep dark troll hole isn't helping at all.
Also, sometimes it has nothing to do with you. Some of these women just have shit to work through. I'm a 6'2" with an athletic build and decently attractive, and I've also dealt with being rejected by ssbbw sized women only for them to go on to date older fat dudes who absolutely are not attractive in the classic good looks department. Maybe they don't think they're good enough to be with a man they are attracted to. Or perceive as above their league. Maybe they think you're pulling a prank on them. Maybe they think you'll have too much power in the relationship. Maybe they think you won't be proud to be around them in public. Maybe they just didn't like you.
>>74103 >650 How was the 650 lb one? also how are you meeting these women?
I'm 6'2" and I train a lot at the gym. I also have a very good job, and I've been rejected many times by overweight women, but at the same time, I've slept with beautiful, thin or average-weight women that every man would want. It makes you question a lot of things, that rejection isn't necessarily related to a woman's weight; you just have to keep looking, and that's it.
Easily my biggest qualm with being kind of tall. You think it’s tough finding a willing chick to dwarf you??? I’m like 6’4. There’s no way this shit will ever happen to me. Anyways I know multiple guys who are like 5’8 who have taller/bigger gfs and wives. They are all incredibly socially adept. At the end of the day, that’s what a decent person is probably going to care the most about. Good luck out there.
Sometimes it's not you. Sometimes it's her. Maybe she's not looking for a short guy. Maybe she's not looking for a guy at all. Maybe she just wants attention, or somebody to talk to, and that's it. But with whoever you meet, you have to go in knowing that you are likely not going to get laid. So you have to increases your chances. Talk more. Talk more often. Introduce yourself to more girls. End your conversation on a high note. And one more underrated suggestion. BE SEEN talking with more girls. BE SEEN making them smile, laugh, and having a good time. Jealousy and competition between women will work to your advantage.
>>74104 >The dude who is dating Sadie Summers is short as fuck. I mean to be fair, Sadie is also short as fuck.
>>74152 I'm gunna sound jealous as fuck but Sadie is insecure as hell and tofu got in on the ground floor. And for someone who specializes in photography & video he doesn't do her justice.
5'4" here Married to an ssbbw of 420 at her highest, now dropping (recently got wls, but still counts as having success I'd say ^^..) Actually, I'd say 95% of the girls that where attracted to me, even tho it mighg be less jn total compared to taller guys, where fat for some reason Like at least midsize bbw fat and more The one thing I was wrong at was not being confident enough to go for it when I was much younger, school age and stuff like that could've had some more relationships than I thought to put it short It all worked out in the end obviously, but I can assure you there's bbws and ssbbws out there who will think you're attractive despite or even because you're short Just don't be that victim card kind of short guy who gives off that I hate my height, myself, people and no one will ever fall for me vibe and you're good Maybe takes a bit longer compared to taller guys, but it's everything but impossible And I'm not that super attractive, muscular or rich or whatever kind of person Just an average dude who happens to be really short ;)
I found a pretty hot bbw but I’m not sure if she’s into the size contrast in it like I am. She’s really into roleplaying where she’s the teacher and I’m the student. Always wearing this preschool outfit that she bought before we fucking met. Making me say lines like “buttttt Mrs S that’s not allowed”. Huge ass tho. And tits like a fountain.
>>74156 Except you’re in Germany and it’s not 1943, you misunderstand confidence with real loyalty: the motherfucking reason why you found a girlfriend is not because she’s FAT, but because Germany doesn’t give a shit about being fat. If you lived in a stupid country where ALL THE FUCKING WOMEN were focused on diet, being nazi-psychopath, trying to reach “perfection” YOU WILL BE COOKED: which is why I keep suggesting Vladimir Putin to blow up everything, cause Italy is completely fucked up with old grannies and pdfs!
>>74105 Solid facts right here. Girls insecurities are what get them to be single and not get the guys they want.
>>74156 I hope I dont end up with a bbw that gets wls. Accepting a girl that wants to lose weight and be small when she knows I love ssbbw’s is a giant L in my book.
>>74162 Had this happen once before where she wanted me to be extra twinkish saying she liked it but it was clearly a male Lolita thing.
>>74549 Then move to Germany and find a fat girl instead of automatically screeching here dumdum
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>>74602 Then why not going here and you will do JACKPOT, you know?! Afterall it's "SOO EASY" to do it.
>>74603 You're a train ticket away from the land of milk and honey. Go and do something about it yourself instead of being a jealous retard towards someone that has succeeded.

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