>>You also shouldn't be asking about feeding in person off rip. These women don't know the difference between you and the Zodiac Killer.
This is bullshit. Even in normie circles, the standard way for a guy to get to know a girl is to offer to take her out for a meal or a few drinks. Imagine if every girl said, "Euurgghh, no, you might be a serial killer." Procreation would end.
I get that feeding and going out for dinner aren't strictly the same thing. Feeding usually means a private affair, say in a hotel room, where the girl could conceivably be a rape target. Dinner in a restaurant involves immersing yourself in a public setting where you couldn't do anything untoward without at least half a dozen witnesses.
That's why I always introduce myself with an offer of dinner, and guess what? Without fail, the response is always the same: online feeding first.
My boys, ignore this simp and accept that the facts are these. No women are on feederism-related websites because they want to get to know you. They're there because it pays them to be there. Plenty of them openly ask for money, plenty of them don't. Of the ones who appear 'genuine', why is it many of them are conventionally attractive (besides fatness) and yet have had an account for a few years without managing to find a cosy bf. Bear in mind sites like Fantasy Feeder and Feabie are probably 95 per cent male, so it should be easy. I acknowledge that a large number of said males are fat/weedy autistic creeps with all the social skills of anthrax, but that's just a reason why no serious woman would keep an account for so long - unless she was milking them for cash.
Assuming they're not old and droopy or an absolute whale, it really isn't that hard for young fat women to get together with men, even if they have to settle for 5/10s, who will take them out and buy them food, even if they aren't expressly into the fetish.
Moral of the story: turn your internet off and talk to real people.