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Need advice Anonymous 02/02/2026 (Mon) 16:47:39 Id:ac7715 No. 78709
For reference, this is the guy who’s wife when we met was over 600 lbs, had gastric bypass and got down to 370 before gaining back the past couple years to over 500. For those who saw my posts, you know she gained back because she stretched out her stomach, has zero will power and is a voracious snacker. Well, she started a GLP1 in December to hopefully curb her snacking. Starting this week I think it started working, as she gets full VERY easy now and can’t even finish a regular meal. She still snacks but it’s probably half what it was. My dilemma is, the GLP1 pens are here in my fridge. She works in an office all day and I work from home. The devil on my shoulder is telling me to heat the pens up to above 86 degrees while she is gone (I’ve researched that it makes the proteins in them ineffective, but not unsafe to use). We got them covered by insurance so costed us $25. Someone talk me off the ledge please. Or convince me it’s a good idea. 🤣
>>78709 Yeah dude dont accidentally kill your wife just talk to her
>>78709 Remove yourself from your fetish and genuinely from an outside perspective consider what you were about to do.
>>78723 Thanks for the perspective guys. I probably won’t do it.
>>78728 Wuss
How would she react if she found out? Pretty negatively, right? Are you willing to do something that she'd feel like that about? How do you think the police would react? How do you think a regular random person would react? What you're suggesting only makes sense if your fetish is so important that you would do things for it that would horrify nearly everyone else.
>>78756 I mean, no one would know if I did it or it was heated in shipping. Or was a faulty batch. Or just isn’t working with her (as I’ve read a lot of women GLP1’s don’t have a huge effect on). I was hoping on the latter being true…until this week she is definitely showing side effects. She threw up her lunch which was a normal amount of food. Either way, I’m not going to do it. I’ve loved that she’s gained so much back, but I know she needs to make some changes or will be either immobile or worse in the near future. It’s hard to keep the fetish in check though. 🤣
>>78709 Dear God please tell me this cunt LARPing
>>78760 Damn. She's huge. Whatever you decide to do, please post more pictures of her at her high weights here.
Don't sweat it dude. The glp1 is gonna go the same route as the bypass: it's gonna work for a little while but the fat will win out
>>78709 If you were/are seriously considering this, get help for yourself. That is a terrible idea to execute on someone you supposedly love simply for your own gratification. Get off this site and go talk to her or a professional
To be real, I kinda get the temptation OP, my girl is much smaller she weighs around 320lbs but I often find myself sweating over everything she eats or every lb she gains/loses. Like last week she told me she hadn't eaten all day and of course as her boyfriend I was concerned for how she's feeling, but also as someone with this fetish I started having a mini-panic in the back of my mind about how I hope this doesn't become a trend.
dude your wife is already a fat fuck and will still be a fat fuck even with glp1. you're fucking with her health behind her back just to satisfy your dick, which is pretty shitty. do you see her as a person or as a sack of lard with a little fuckhole for you?
>>78779 In case you didn’t see my replies I’m not doing it. I had an intrusive thought that I didn’t act upon. I’ve seen plenty of guys on here have panic attacks when their favorite model loses 10-20 lbs. I’ve already seen my wife go from 640 to 370 and am struggling with realizing I might have to go through that again. It’s miserable fucks like you that made me stop posting about her on here.
Holy tism. These poor unfortunate people who are partnered with scheming psychopaths. Please do not tamper with your wife's medication ffs just jerk off or take viagra and fuck her or something jfc
>>78785 You whiny fucks ruined it and now I don't get to see more pictures of this guy's fatass wife. Damn whiny bitches on here
>>78709 >I had an intrusive thought that I didn’t act upon. No, you created a thread on a website and attached a pic of your actual wife to it. I get where you're coming from with your struggle to reconcile your sexual preferences with your wife quite rationally not wanting to be 500+. Except for the incels we all deal with some version of it. But don't fucking pout when people act like human beings and steer you away from your darker impulses.
Best thing to is divorce her because you clearly don't respect her and maybe get some therapy to help with your thoughts
>>78709 >GLP-1s I cannot fucking wait for every doctor that has suggested this to have their medical license suspended. GLP-1s are ABSOLUTELY dangerous, I mean it comes from a literal fucking toxin! I also hate how "Doctors" are down playing the very SERIOUS side effects of shit like Ozempic. Did your doctor let you know that: She's at risk of Thyroid Tumors? Especially if Dr. Dumbfuck didn't check her for pre-existing thyroid conditions? Kidney injury because it causes dehydration? (Ever wonder why the look like they age 20 years after being on it? There are tons of cases of it causing permanent Pancreas damage? That it has been recently liked to Vision lost, specially NAION? That is has been liked to Gall Bladder disease? That is has definitely been liked to Hypoglycimia, and the risk is higher than other diabetes medications? You're wife is playing with her life here. If weight is a problem, she needs to fight her urge to snack, and drink more green tea which has been linked to PROPER weight loss. Every wonder why Asians are rail thin? It's all the ketones the pass from drinking green tea all day.
>>78799 What this guy said. Its not a miracle drug Just injecting lizard venom to make yourself sick. Will either damage your health or not help you lose weight. And the effects are not much different than if you just made yourself smell something gross when you got hungry. Nicotine would legit be a better way to make yourself nauseous. That being said messing around with something already dangerous wouldnt be a good idea
>>78799 And the docs will argue any side effects are negligible compared to what obesity does to peoples' bodies. My big reservation (besides being an FA who selfishly wants women to be as big as possible) is that you have to stay on this shit forever. No one knows what it does after 5, 10, 20 years and the sociopathic US Govt has immunized (npi) drug companies against lawsuits. So there's little incentive for them to grab all the cash and worry about mass disasters later. The stop snacking/green tea stuff is bunk tho. If it were that easy GLP-1s wouldn't be 60% of Denmark's GDP right now. I reccommend keeping that shit to yourself if you want to be an effective anti-GLP-1 advocate.
>>78793 On the contrary, he may actually be protecting her by nullifying the drugs. They're dangerous, untested products designed to extract even more wealth from us.
>>78804 >Untested They were first approved 20 years and ago testing has been happening for at least 30 years
>>78785 im certainly not miserable enough to want to fuck up my wife's health against her wishes just to get hard. go fuck yourself, hope she finds a better man
>>78808 Oh. Nvm they're tested
As someone on a GLP-1: i lost 70 lbs, then my body got used to it and i've gained back 20. She isn't going to drop much weight from it and eventually her body will get used to it and she'll gain some back. She won't be at her max weight ever again probably but she's not going to slim back down nearly as much as she did when she had the surgery. Oh, also what you're suggesting is a felony. Don't do it.
>>78812 I’m not, but thank you for the possible light at the end of the tunnel.
>>78802 >green tea stuff is bunk tho idk Gym rats drink tons of it to burn off fat ketones all the time. Helps with thyroid too I'm told. Just reporting what I've learned. But I will add the NPI drug company lawsuit stuff to my notes on this. Thanks!
>>78808 What was the sample size? Who was tested? What was the alpha value of the test data? Testing a drug doesn't mean shit. People's body chemistry varies to a degree that it's hard to determine anything. We've had Flu shots in the past that were tested to be safe, and had to get pulled after 10 people ended up with adverse reactions (I think it was the first time H1N1 hit in the 80s), and thankfully the second time around it was much safer. A study over in Britain even showed that eating ice cream put on weight and spiked glucose levels in some people in Britain, and not others. They study was talked about by Dr. Mosley.
I have enjoyed OP’s previous posts and definitely fapped to pics of his wife before but lmaoooo @ him being a weirdo in here In all seriousness my wife is also on one of these and it is working but the side effects are taking a serious toll. Does anyone has any advice for combating the constant nausea and fatigue she’s been dealing with?
>>78908 Just pray that she decides the side effects are too much and taps out haha
C'mon you fuckers, it's not an actual extracted venom, it's a synthetic re-creation based on what they saw in the saliva of a Lizard. And yeah, to the OP, don't be a cunt. Looking at your photo, she's quite tall, if she's 370, she'll probably get back to 450 before she wants to lose again. I get it, my wife is 5"5 and got to 440 before losing down to about 280, which she seems happy with, though 250 is her goal to realistically stay at. Your wife has got enough going on, she knows it's impacting her health , she doesn't need you being a feeder fag and sabotaging. You really should go get help, even if you just go and have a chat with grok, as grok will talk to you straight and tell you to nut one out to superfats online and appreciate you still have a 400lbs trophy wife.
>>78802 I know 2 people who took it for a while to lose some weight,stopped, and they're fine. neither gained the weight back yet.
>>78908 OP here. I admit I had a bad day with the reality of the GLP1 side effects starting and as others said I probably could use some therapy. Hoping to enjoy her at her current size as much as I can. It’s crazy how much less she can do for herself at 500 compared to 400. Like use toilet paper (luckily we have a bidet), wash herself in the shower, or even put on socks and shoes. I’m sure subconsciously I’m loving how dependent she is on me now.
>>78914 >>recommends using Grok as a therapist You have invalidated everything else you said, and everything else you ever will say. Jesus fucking christ the west is cooked
>>78920 Direct us to those links or post more content of her. No one gives a shit about this depraved Ozempic denaturing scheme.
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>>78929 Not a lot I can post that I already haven’t. Here’s one with her ass and back fat hanging out.
>>78954 Geeeeeezz that back fat is beautiful
Can you just kill her already and let me fuck her corpse?
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>>78954 You forgot to blur out the photo of you two. And what I said yesterday still stands. Get your wife off that shit. If she really wants to lose weight though, tell her she should do the low glucose diet. It's healthier and it won't poison her. GLP-1s are poisoning her. This isn't even about liking fat women anymore, this about the fact that GLPs are literally made from a Toxin that kills you. Why do you think people don't want to eat and the feel like shit? Because they're body is fighting off a foreign invader that is trying to kill them.
>>78979 Mild Norwood but mid to high tier normie for sure. Brought to chad from the confidence in having a gigantic wife.
>>78979 Why would I blur an already blurry photo in the background. It’s not like I’m embarrassed to be married to her or something. Trust me, if I could talk her out of taking it I would dude.
>>78986 We will find her. I’ve been saving the photos and as soon as AI hits its next breakthrough I’ll be at your doorstep with dominos.
>>78979 Can confirm this is true no lie detected
>>78987 If you’re bringing Dominos I’ll invite you, no AI or detective needed 🤣
I can see the desire and I get it but when the fetish has pushed you to be so selfish and destructive it reminds me more of addict robbing houses to get next fix…. Wanting your partner to stay over 500 pounds—and actively interfering with medication so she can’t lose weight—is not just a fetish. It has real, permanent consequences. At that size, every extra year carries serious risk: heart failure, infections, loss of mobility, and early death. As she gets older, pushing her toward 600+ pounds doesn’t just shorten her life—it can end it. You also need to think beyond the fantasy. If she realizes her medication was tampered with, screenshots it, or tells a doctor, that’s not just betrayal—it’s evidence. And if something happens to her, you don’t just “lose the relationship.” You live with the fact that your actions played a role, and your children grow up without their mother. Desire doesn’t erase responsibility. There’s no scenario where this ends well.
>>79000 You type like chatgpt
I went to college and beyond.
>>78954 Do you have any pic of her with any normal sized person where we can see her body compared in real life ??
>>78954 Off topic but the fuck happened to the wall? Is she so fat that everytime she sits on the sofa it damages the paint?
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>>79006 The couch she’s sitting on used to be against that wall and she plops on it full weight. Sort of surprised it’s still standing but it’s pretty collapsed in the middle. When she’d plop on it the couch would ram against the wall. Haven’t gotten around to fixing it yet. >>79003 Honestly almost all my pics of her with other people have kids in them. Here’s one from Disney I’ve posted her before that shows people in the background.
>>79000 Thank you, I’ve come to most of those conclusions and came to my senses.
>>79024 Please do post her pics regularly your wife looks cute as well Btw do u have any pic of her standing like from the front side one the back one is already there I know if yeah please do post it Thanks for all of this though
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>>79026 Don’t have much just straight on standing from the front. Posting these for those who haven’t seen them (sorry they’re dups for those who have)
>>78986 >Trust me, if I could talk her out of taking it I would dude. What a limp wristed pussy you are. Quit nursing your fucking pussy, and tell you wife this shit. You're in a marriage, put your fucking foot down. This is how you sound to everyone: "Hi! I'm a limp wristed pussy who has no balls and would rather let my wife literally inject poison into herself that will shorten her life instead of acting like a man, and if her still wants weight loss, to do it the healthy and smart way by changing her diet." Bro, I'm going to tell you something, she might die from being obese, yeah we know that, but GLP1s? She WILL die young from this shit. Put your foot down, tell her if she still wants it, change to a low glucose diet. And if she still says no? You leave for awhile. Stay in a hotel for a few days, don't answer your phone. That's not being emotionally distant or abusive, that's being a man. I can't believe how far you Americans have fallen. 250 years ago, you would have gone full "WHAT THE FUCK DID YOU SAY TO ME YOU LITTLE BITCH!?", and now it's "OH NO SHE MIGHT NOT HAVE SEX WITH ME IF I SAY SOMETHING!"
>>79030 Jesus Christ, it’s 2026 not 1826. Let me guess, single?
>>79030 >>least brainwashed westerner Not to derail the thread completely, but 250 years ago Americans would have done nothing. I know this because that's exactly what happened. Other than a few temper tantrums, the American colonists did nothing and would the revolutionary war would have been a genocide, IF the other european powers didn't intervene. France and spain saved our ass. They fought off the british while we took all the credit. Americans have been pussies since the beginning, we don't have a revolutionary bone in us, we're just descendants of the inbreds from across the pond but without the accent.
>>79027 Thanks man really appreciate for your uploads if u have some more interesting ones then please do reups since I haven't seen previous ones as I'm new Thanks again
>>79027 And yk if u have some SFW (in a normal dress)ones as well then I would appreciate as well I usually prefer those cause I want to fantasize in that way first and then something else Really appreciate for your uploads thanks again
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>>79042 Here’s some clothed ones from before she had WLS.
>>79043 Damn she looks so different back then
>>79043 Btw do u have instagram where I could ask u something
>>79035 America is the only place you can carry a gun. End of argument.
>>79035 > France and spain saved our ass. They fought off the british while we took all the credit I think the ocean may have helped.
>>79043 Do you have any recent pics of her like literally the most recent ones and some sizzling hot ones too
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>>79071 As you mentioned she goes to office , in which sector is she currently working in and what's her job there Do you have any pics of her in office dress , if yes then please do share it up here and it would be great if u have it in multiple dresses
>>79071 Do u have any more pics or video of her to share up here??
>>79103 I don’t have much more than what I’ve posted. I’ll try to take some new pics of her soon.
>>79071 Love these photos with her face clearly visible and both eyes facing the camera. Need maybe. 2 or 3 more please.
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>>79105 Here’s a good one of mostly her face
>>79106 You lucked out with her. Absolute knockout. Here's hoping she embraces a much fatter future again.
>>79105 >face clearly visible and both eyes facing the camera. >*Need* maybe 2 or 3 more. Yeah that's creepy. Could just be some schizo shit but someone could use those photos to make a fake profile with your wife. Take that with however many grains of salt you want, you've posted her body and stories of her here before, but maybe be careful with posting her face on here.
>>79147 Yeah good point, thanks.
>>79147 >>79027 There seems to be a frame of your children in the third photo. We have a lot of sociopaths on here. You do not want the same thing to happen to you which happened to housecow a while back
>>79158 Never hurts to censor shit like that out with black boxes or a select + blur filter. Takes less than five minutes in Gimp. If you're on a phone, you can either scribble the photo out or crop it. No need for AI, just the human drive for self-preservation on the interwebs.
>>79158 >>79159 Embarrassed I missed that, thanks for the tips
>>79161 Yep you should blur the face 'cause identity theft is much common up Here and it might affect your real life too . Be careful with what you post do blur the unnecessary Infos like face , any pic of somebody or any item which is of personal use or something like that
>>78824 I don't sit around reading research papers all day so I have no idea what alpha value of the test data is, nor I don't pretend to be a pseudointellectual on the internet like because I heard that term mentioned on the Joe Roan experience once and know exactly what it means so I can't answer that question. As for the test size, a quick Google search shows that for drugs to pass FDA approval they have to go through 4 stages all include an increasing amount of participants who all have the 'disease/condition' (diabetes) by the final stage. The amount of people in the final stages is only listed as several thousand so through all the stages it's safe to assume that at least 5,000 participants were apart of the trials for diabetes management. As for GLP-1 drugs for weight loss, they also undergo trials so again we can assume that at least 5,000 people have been tested and every time they make a new variant of the drug it is tested. For example, a pill version was approved by the FDA in December and it would have gone through the same amount of testing as other forms of the medication. Hope this helped
>>79104 Did you got some new photos of her??
>>79182 Kisame here, MAHA is recruiting Mike Tyson to tell fatties to lose weight. To be fair, he's traumatized by the slate of bad fat women like Mo'nique and Norbit and Tyler Perry so I don't blame him.
>>79172 >>Yep you should blur the face 'cause identity theft is much common up Here and it might affect your real life too . Dude already showed his wife's face 11 times. He doesn't care if her identity's stolen. He could've have taken the 5 seconds to blur out her face before posting. Just straight up recklessness.
>>79043 You are so lucky to have ever had that, my friend! But I hear you about the weight loss on GLP. My wife is on a health kick and taken terzepatide, and she has gone from 375 down to 330, and I hate it. Every fucking pound. So I can only imagine how much it hurts going from the height of her weight down to 370, seen it go back up a bit, and now she wants to put you through that heartache again. Frankly, I wish we could have an open marriage. I love my wife and am generally ok with what she is doing for her health. But for sex, I really do need a huge woman. I would be ok if she wanted to look around too. if it was reciprocal. That to me seems like the best outcome - i.e., I get a fat chick, she gets to lose weight - but I also know there is no way I could raise it with her, as that would be a deal breaker. But if looked at objectively, it would solve everybody's problems.
>>79316 Give it a rest
>>79289 No no no no no! Take my advice do not do this. Learn from me, I did, ruined my marriage. I was the one who found another and it became a nasty disaster after disaster. Find ways to make sec work, trust me you do not want to lose your marriage based on this.
>>79327 The marriage was long gone the moment he chose a fetish of his wife's health.
>>79327 His girl injecting herself with concentrated toxins. These GLP shots are experimental rat poop.I mean anyone who knows how to use reverse AI face search. She needs to know. OP do you have the balls to denature some proteins? 84 decrees g oughta do it.
Stop being a terminal fucking cumbrain and cope with the situation instead of fishing for confirmation biased responses on a porn board. Seriously man, get some self awareness and realize that you are scheming like a fucking addict to sabotage your wife's agency over her own health and body. Get professional help immediately.
>>78709 I only see one reasonable thing to do here, destroy the pens and tell her she's only ment to get fatter and she'll never loose weight again
>>78709 You partially answered your self in own post. 1.) She eat herslef up to 600 lbs (no one does this, if they are not actively feeding themself, either with help or not.) 2.) She had a WLS and it STILL WASNT enough and probably regardles of WLS or GLP she would end up on 600 mark. 3.) Whether you broke them or not, she wont be skinny. Ever. She can only get sick as bonus from this and you should confront her about it.
>>79456 It's these kinds of rambling pointless drug addled brain rot takes that keeps me coming back to bbwchan. Bro what the fuck is you even talking about yo. Take your meds homie!
Glad you decided not to fuck with her meds. Truth is she's still going to be super fucking fat. If it makes you feel better, I'm bummed out because my girlfriend is trying to lose weight. She's 5'4 probably 160 lbs. I've tried best I can for years to get her to gain but I think she probably peaked at 165. Your wife on GLP-1s will still be twice the weight of my gf lol.
>>79538 I think getting a second chance at having her mega huge again was just messing with my head the day I made this post. While I love her at this size (and even more when she was over 600), I know how much she hates it. Her mom is over 500 and is pretty much immobile and I think it terrifies her. She’s already to the point she needs scooters everywhere. I know I’m lucky I still get a huge wife who’s 2-3 times the size of most girls, even after WLS and GLP1’s. Hope you are able to get yours to gain more.
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>>79538 Her trying to lose weight at 160 is rough, that's not even close to an obese bmi. Does she know you're into her being a bit bigger?
Mine was 370 at her peak and we’re both on the shot. Do I see a difference? Yes. Is it drastic? Not when they start that high. The shots work, but there’s also habits, exercise, and actual choice of food to consider. If she started at 500, I’ll bet she settles around where mine was. Besides, if you love her, that’s the main thing to focus on. Being a size king works better for hookups than a marriage
>>79539 Did you have any more pics please? like its been so long since you last posted it
>>79613 I wish the British still had a presence in India so we could make you lick cow fat off bullets and then shoot you with them.
>>79614 No wonder you all don't have any glorious past and you all just suck other countries wealth and bring in your museum and be proud of your theft Lol country with no glory is trying to glorify their sins , damn such an irony of you shitty Britishers Haha lol😂😂
>>79620 You guys can't even win Governor of Ohio, run South Carolina, or even the FBI despite it easy to do with tons of meathead
>>79614 Oh dear god. I think I just ruptured my optic nerve from rolling my eyes so hard. The irony of someone from a country so sad, so ruined, so disgusting, reminiscing on the days of colonization when you yourself have been ruined by it. Have you nothing else to identify with? Nothing else to think or care about? Your cities are filthy outdoor pig dens and you countryside is a wasteland. You apparently don't have building codes, as all your buildings are moldy and rotting to the ground, which is uniquely british as all the other Europeans figured that out centuries ago. It never occurred to you people to try to keep the moisture OUT, I guess, and the mold seems to have rotted your minds. Putting every single one of you down would be a courtesy to the rest of the world, just for the accent alone, let alone having to see any of your revolting inbred faces anymore. Jesus Christ, I think the british are actually starting to have LESS self respect as time goes on, if such a thing were possible. I haven't seen anything so sad in a long time, and the empire I live in is collapsing all around me as we speak.
>>79621 Well if you dont know the top most companies are led by current Indian CEOs itself so atleast you dont tell me what we can do or not Just have some actual knowledge instead of blabbering around
Hello people, in a situation and i dont know what cards to play tbh. I need somone to be my jiminy cricket. Recently met and have been talking to a local girl i met off of feabie, we havent met in person yet but weve been texting frequently, calling every night, and plan to meet up very soon. For hindsight, shes over 400 pounds and just VERY recently found out about feedism and has some interest in the kink but it doesn't come to her naturally. Im the first feeder shes ever really engaged wirh and she is frequently still unbelieving that i actually like fat girls lmao. Shes just shy or whatever and wants to take it slow so obv im going along with that whatever. Shes sweet, and has a nice personality but to be entirely honest, aside from some similar video game interests, were like polar opposites. Shes about to be 26, (im younger) shes unemployed and still lives with her parents. Her everyday consists of her waking up at 2-3pm, then just playing video games or mozing around in her pajamas. This is really fucking hot to me, but on one end, the moral implications start to sit in. Because as we get to know eachother more, shes been sharing her childhood traumas and her health conditions etc, basically the reason she is a huge shut in. My brain is telling me im horrible for enabling her to get fatter and maybe take advantage of the situation shes in? Im not doing it on purpose but i cant help but think it to be manipulative to sort of.. keep her where she is? If that makes sense? Ive never been with a feedee and ive wanted to my entire life. This girls appetite is fucking INHUMAN and this is her not even trying. Shes showed interest in gaining but like, this is wrong if i continue to engage right? Idk
>>79629 Bro she's a fucking wet dream of a feedee, you'd be doing a huge disservice to this community if you don't make her gigantic! She's fucking bread to grow, every part of her, and her life, her personality has led up to her gaining, she sounds like feedee grade A prime, think with your dick and make her fucking gigantic
>>79629 I'm in a very similar scenario, my girl is she's well over 400 but very much in denial about how much she enjoys the lifestyle If I were you I'd go for it, realistically if there aren't many people who're that size and open to gaining more, so I would take the opportunity while it's there
>>79631 Alright maybe i needed to hear this... lmfao. A little more context, she got a bad knee injury in highschool because of an accident and its permanently damaged so she literally could not run even if she was thin. She was diagnosed with binge eating disorder at a very young age and just generally has a lot of emotional baggage. Shes like 405ish rn and She has playfully indulged me and said that shed gain to 500, but then shed want to lose the weight. But like, lets be honest, someone like this does not lose the weight. They are unfortunately (not unfortunately) setup to be fat their entire lives unless someone in their life actively takes action to intervene. Idk, my dick is definitely telling me to just stop fucking thinking about it and go along with it, but the more i get to actually know her personally the more i feel like a fucking devil entering her life 😭
>>79634 You're better off letting her enable herself, man. You don't want to get tangled up in her baggage. Leave out snacks and stock her surroundings with sodas & shit, but don't show up with enough fast food to feed a family. She'll get to 500 without your help and you get to enjoy the show.
>>79634 Go be the devil, regardless she's going to blow up, so enjoy your self and held the situation along what else dose she have in her life aside from you and getting fatter for you, don't pay any mind to her just focus on fattening her
>>79629 >>79634 Dude, it really depends on how you feel about her/about how far the relationship is going to go, but you don't need to keep her where she is if it's fucking with you mentally to do so. You said they're set up to be fat their entire lives unless someone in their life intervenes, if you're fucked up about being "a devil entering her life" just don't be that. Get her to walk around at least once every few days and take her to some fast food restaurants to get her a minimum wage job (with discounts on said fast food). You can still be physically active enough to be mobile and gain weight, we've seen it with boberry. Judging by the answers you've already gotten the coombrains here will disagree, but being a feeder doesn't mean you have to be a bad person, a feeder/feedee relationship can still be a relationship with all of the helping each other that signifies. Of course, all of this depends on how much you want to put in the relationship, you've yet to meet each other in person, so you don't even know if the chemistry is going to be there irl like it is over the phone. However if you want to be in her life while having her life be a feedee one, there's ways to do it. It takes work, and how much work it's going to take depends on how much you want to put in, just like any other relationship. Oh right, people come here to jerk off. >This girls appetite is fucking INHUMAN and this is her not even trying. What does that look like? How much does she eat? Go into obscene detail I don't want to annoy the original guy with the wife that made this thread.
>>79641 Finally a rational fucking comment. Dude feed her if it makes you happy and she is cool with it but find ways to help her move around. If there is a pool take her to it. Just take her out get some air, some healthier sleep patterns light exercises. Literally anything. You are not an asshole for your desires but if those desires override her agency then your going too far. Since your so concerned unlike some of the fucking coombrains I would say your fine. At least help her.
>>79620 Yeah, a guy who goes onto a chan to harrass a stranger for pictures of his wife's face is hardly in a position to lecture about fallen glory...
>>79654 >>79625 >>79620 >>79614 Both of you should go fuck yourselves.
>>79654 First of all , you dumb ass i wasn't harassing and i wasn't asking for her face and mind it if u dont that this site is made for these things and ofc not only me but the whole world knows about your thefts and fake glories
It’s funny how much people overthink this stuff. Just be fair, open, and respectful of the person you’re dating. Just because you have a sexual connection over food or fat doesn’t mean all the normal rules about how sex works in a relationship go away.
>>79665 DO NOT REDEEM SAAR
>>79681 Yes saaar
>>79665 We’ve got enough face photos to use ai to fill in any details needed. Hope homeboy lays the pipe because I don’t know how many men are ready for the competition that comes with your 500+ pound hog getting found by feeders.
>>79744 > how many men are ready for the competition that comes with your 500+ pound hog getting found by feeders. It’s absurd that you have to be 6 feet tall with a six pack and a trust fund to date fat women with a mild case of Down’s syndrome. And people will judge you for it here like you’re the bad guy.
>>79752 My girls cuckoo for coco puffs and someone here told me I’m preying on the mentally incapacitated
Just wanted to throw a few words of praise to the OP. I always think your posts are so hot, no matter what anyone else thinks. I dated a girl in the high 500s and you really capture the dangerous little thrills that accompany dating someone so huge. With my ex there was always the push and pull between pleasure and health, and she knew this. The classic example is gorging herself, knowing it’s unhealthy but giving into the pleasure of it and eating even more. Or sitting on me until it really felt like she might damage my internal organs and feeling the squash for a week after. We would both have the biggest orgasms centered around that. The danger is part of it.
>>79634 Kinda sounds like she's going to 500 no matter whar you do. Just keep talking to her, be nice to her all the time and bring her food whenever she asks you to.... she will ask you to eventually. Give it time. You have to mentally let go of the destination in order to reach it. The more you push for it the farther away it will get. Just let her be and she'll be 500 before you know it
>>79788 Idk. Dudes showing her face and trying to tamper with her medication. The moral thing to do is reach out to her in case she’s experiencing any health effects from this sick fucks felony level medical tampering.
Does anybody know if it's possible to reverse diabetes without significant weight loss? Google always equates the two. My gf's A1C indicates diabetes but she's not even 300lbs. It would really suck if she ended up back at 200lb or lower.
>>79634 This genuinely sounds like my ex, I'm almost curious. Southeast US?
>>79806 I had a friend get type 2 diabetes and they didn’t even get past 150. It’s from all the sugar intake with no breaks. You don’t get type 2 from being massive you get it from over indulgence with sugar. Because my girlfriend is passed 300 and has no issues with diabetes like my friend got who never really got that fat. I make sure she eats a lot of savory foods and avoids really ever eating deserts or sweets with lots of sugar.
Not sure if this is the right thread but I’m not sure where else to ask for advice. I don’t have any FA friends to talk to about this IRL. I met my wife in high school and she was a beautiful girl, 5’2” and about 150 lb. She was just a little chubby at that weight. Over the next 8 years or so she got up to about 275. She was actually at her fattest on our wedding night which was extremely hot. About 2 years ago she started on a GLP-1 and it didn’t bother me. I think I was in denial. Shes now at just under 200 and plateauing a bit but still shrinking slowly. I’m ashamed to admit that I am not nearly as aroused by her as I used to be. I think it’s a combo of her being smaller and also the idea of her continuing to lose weight and wanting to be smaller. I love her dearly and I’m not sure what to do. I’ve never explicitly told her about feedism because honestly I’m more into just fat girls and weight gain. Breaking up is off the table. This is the woman I want to grow old with. Wtf do I do?
>>80374 I have no idea wha this means friend
>>79634 > she got a bad knee injury in highschool because of an accident and its permanently damaged so she literally could not run even if she was thin. She was diagnosed with binge eating disorder at a very young age and just generally has a lot of emotional baggage I think this dude and the guy dating the retard with Willis leader syndrome need evil feeder faceoff.
>>80373 Does she know you like her fat body? I assume she must've at least figured that out, right?
>>80382 That’s been no secret. I’ve always regularly told her how beautiful she is. I’ve straight up told her I love her belly specifically. When it was big enough she used to let me fuck under her belly hang and really seemed to enjoy it in the moment at least.
>>80376 >Willis prader syndrome No idea what this is, half these girls look at least a little downsy, Foxy roxxy being the most famous example. Which model are you referring to
Apropos of the subject, everyone here is fucking retarded. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prader%E2%80%93Willi_syndrome
>>80415 I mean, compared this this guys retarded freak eating herself to death to deal with “childhood trauma” is it really that wrong to date someone with PWS?
>>80382 Unfortunately, hearing it from us is not the same thing as believing and internalizing it. My wife has 30 years of me telling her how hot she is and how much I love her being fat and that I wish she were fatter. She knew that before she became my wife, and I have not changed since. Yet she still shocked me the other day with how traumatized she is from being fat. We bought one of those small trampolines to help her do some exercising. I don't love that - she's also on tirzepatide, which I hate, and has been losing weight - but she does need to work on her balance, and it will help with that. So we were having some sexy time til I made the mistake of asking her to jump naked on the trampoline. That set her off and she became like a mad woman. She was bawling and saying how could I ask her to do something like that. Now, in my defense, I had talked about liking that previously - so it was not like it was a total surprise - and she had always just playfully called me a perv (which I get called a lot, which I both mind and don't mind - I am a perv, it's true and I don't mind admitting it, but what bothers me is that she thinks I am a perv for liking her fat). So I was not at all prepared for the waterworks coming on and her sobbing about how terrible it was for me to ask her to do something like that, and then all the fat shaming trauma came out. It is terrible that she ever was fat shamed, but what gets me is that it seems to matter not one little bit that her husband thinks she is hot; it is the opinion of others that matters most to her. That is another bone of contention of ours: I would do pretty much anything for her. I don't mean that in the romantic way, so much as if she wanted me to gain weight, I would, or if she wanted me to engage in threesome (I mean two dudes and her, not two chicks plus me - latter is kinda obvious, so I mean it in the way that would be all for her and not for me) or whatever, I would. And if she told me she liked me a particular way, I would do my darndest to make that happen, and would be happy to do it. I don't expect her to change herself physically for me, no matter how much I want that, but I would like her to at least value my opinion sufficiently that it offsets all the crap others have given her about her weight, and at a minimum in our bedroom if not elsewhere. Sorry for venting, but it is nice to be able to at least tell someone who would understand me what I am going through. It really is frustrating to effectively have your views totally ignored by someone who is supposed to love you fully and completely. And back to the original message: just cause you tell your wife/gf that you find her attractive, it does not mean that she will internalize that and believe you.
>>79807 This is either an insane fucking coincidence or youre too close for my own comfort lmfao. She told me shes only dated 2 other guys before in her life and neither were into feedism. (That she knows of ofc)
>>78709 You should file for a fucking divorce if you cant control your fetish and actually want to sabotage your partner.
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>>80470 >What is it with you people and this obsession with consent?
>>80470 You sounds like a creep and an idiot. I literally can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic or not.
>>80429 >but I would like her to at least value my opinion sufficiently that it offsets all the crap others have given her about her weight, and at a minimum in our bedroom if not elsewhere. If you lived on a deserted island, she would probably not mind, but now she has to go out of the safe haven to go to work, visit friends and family, go to the store etc. As FAs, we only see the beauty of fat, but we have not lived in a fat body and have not grown up fat, so it is diffcult to understand what that fatphobia does to someone. My wife also knows and loves that I love her big body, but I keep my fantasies in check. Sometimes I just want to say how big and fat she looks, but I don't because I know she cannot see it as a compliment. She also wants to loose some weight. She is down from 330 to 285 already and wants to loose some more but assures me she never will be skinny. In my ideal world she would be much bigger, but I try to enjoy what I have, and I don't worry about the weight loss because there is still some margin for her to loose some weight and there still be enough for me.
>>80376 Yo chill 😭😭 im the dude who posted that. Not that it was solicited, but we just met up recently for the first time and thought that id maybe come back to update for anyone who cares. TL;DR: she is a walking weight gain deviantart story and ill prob be breaking things off soon because i cannot deal with the guilt or resist the urge to enable her. Ik im shitty im dealing with it. So, our first "date" was to go see avatar fire and ash per her request. She really insisted on this because she said shes been wanting to see the movie but to be honest, i could tell she just wanted an activity where we were in the dark and didnt have to talk or look at eachother the whole time because shes shy. Didnt bother me to be honest i love the movies. When i go to pick her up, i ring the doorbell and her grandma opens the door (owner of the house) we meet and have small talk and then she tells me that shes waiting for me in the living room. When i go to finally meet her im actually fucking shocked. Shes fucking enormous i couldn't believe my eyes. She told me she was 405 but there was just 0 way. After some small talk we got in the car. I drive an SUV and i had made sure the passenger seat was as far back as possible before i picked her up. Still wasnt enough room and i could tell she was cramped. Shes genuinely heaving out of breath and sweaty just from this short walk and maneuver. Then asks if i had a seatbelt extender and when i said no she said she was too lazy to get hers from her car and that we can just go without it. Fumble on my part i know. Im in fucking awe. I genuinely could not believe this was real life. Otw to the movies she tells me that shes sorry and she lied about her weight because she was afraid tbat if she was too big she would scare me away and admitted that shes actually pushing 490ish. Of course i expressed that it was all a good thing lmao. Anyway, were talking but the entire time i can tell shes super nervous and insecure and constantly trying to hide her stomach with her hoodie and shit yadda yadda. She doesn't get out much. We got to the movies and before i could park she had me drop her off at the door because she said walking too much would make her sweaty. Adorable. Anyway, i implore her to order whatever shr wants from ghe concession stand. 2 beers, large caramel popcorn, mozzarella sticks and m&ms. We make it to the theater and its completely EMPTY, we were the only 2 in there. Shes completely overflowing in the seat next to me pounding back the concessions while we have casual conversation since nobody else was there. After it was over, i pulled the car around, and then she very reluctantly asked if she could actually sit in the back seat for space reasons because she was uncomfortable on the drive over. To be honest, this put me off at first. Idk, we were kind of on a date and just starting to really warm up with eachother and then i was gonna like, uber her. But ofc i accommodated and said yes. But to be honest? It ended up being kinda fucking hot. We still had great conversation. She was a little tipsy and hungry so we went to a steak n shake. She orders huge and was telling me that we can eat the food when we get back to her place. I hand her the food in the back, we start driving back. Im talking to her, then i start to realize that shes picking at a fry or 2. Then more. Then taking the carton out of the bag and eating it. Then its gone. Its like she didnt even realize it?? She then apologizes for eating in my car, when i told her it was 100% okay, she said "okay!" And then finished literally everything else before we even got back. We smoked a joint, talked some more, and really got to know eachother. But even after all this, she still tells me that she sincerely does want to get thin for her health but "isnt motivated right now" and "wants to have fun" but like. This is a slippery fucking slope?? You dont start having fun at nearly 500 idk 😭 her weight is literally the turn back before its too late red flag. And as much as i want to be with her i just dont know if i can win the battle of brain vs dick. I dont want to fuckup this girls life. I feel awful enough already but we genuinely did have an amazing time. Havent done anything yet but well see what happens
>>81017 Also, i had never hugged a girl that i couldnt fully wrap my arms around. That shit hit like a fucking drug. I got a rush like crack you guys have no idea. God bless obesity
>>81017 You need to think about whether her losing weight would make you hate the relationship. If she would lose the weight but you would still want to be with her, than just stay with her and help her lose the weight. Otherwise, just break it off in a way that's as close to "normal person breaking off" as you can manage. You really don't need to go all in on enabling her gain, just like you don't need to go all in on hardcore weight loss. She "she sincerely does want to get thin for her health", so ask her when she would want to do that. Once she wants to do it, just do light shit like swimming or walking, if you want to be with her enough buy her a treadmill/walking pad so she can walk and still be a neet. Same in the other direction, you don't need to be giving her 20,000 calories a day, just keep getting her the food she was getting anyway. You never elaborated on how much she can eat re: "This girls appetite is fucking INHUMAN and this is her not even trying.", (I still want you to elaborate) but no matter how much she can eat, if you both start to care about her weight you can have her just switch out some food for healthier alternatives to eat alongside her main meals, just for starters. I think you really just have to ask her more questions dude, what weight does she want to be for her health? Does she kinda know when she's gonna want to start? How much effort is she willing to put into it? And you gotta ask yourself some questions, because you pretty clearly think "If I'm not her angelic weight loss savior I'm the devil from the bible", when you can realistically be somewhere in the middle, step up when the time calls and don't when it doesn't. If you think the time should call sooner than make it, if not don't.
>>81020 Yeahhh youre honestly completely right man. Tbh, i really did have a great time and ive been thinking more and more about just manning the fuck up and doing the right thing. Which is essentially what you said. Sucking it up and supporting her on either side of the spectrum etc. Also, you wanted me to elaborate on her appetite. I can talk about that rq. Leading up to us meeting i had been pretty frequently buying her meals and restocking her snack drawer in her room (all per her request). At first she was really bashful about it but once we warmed up she was pretty much asking me everyday. Typical meal for her is like 45-60 dollars depending where its from. For some examples, i remember one meal she ordered was from a Japanese place. She got 6 rolls of sushi, 20 teriyaki wings, a miso soup and 2 slices of fried cheesecake. This is like, normal filling meal for her. One night we were up all night playing games together vis discord. I ordered her a pizza and cheese bread around 12:45ish-1am, then around 3-4am she was sheepishly hinting that she was hungry and asking if she could maybe get something else. McDonald's. 2 double cheese, 2 mcchickens, 40 piece nugget, large fry, drink, and 4 pies. Then she falls asleep on mic almost immediately after and snores. Like this is my fucking dream girl?? 😭 i hate being so conflicted about this relationship because this is EVERYTHING my 14 year old brain was wanting. Idk, those were 2 instances off the top of my head but tbh ive fed her online so many times atp they blur together. Really waiting for the IRL feeding opportunity ngl. Thats gonna be my lebron moment fr
>>81017 Nah you're fumbling the bag. Your story comes off that you aren't prepared to date obese women. This is a feedee in the making who is so close to 500lbs. Let her be with a real feeder if you can't understand and be prepared to date ssbbw's. Always always have a car large enough and a seatbelt extender.
>>81044 Well he said he's never hugged a girl he couldn't fully wrap his arms around, this was his first time dating obese women. You can prepare as much as you want beforehand, but you're also allowed to learn as you go. He can buy an extender now. The backseat is fine for someone he just met, and if he wants to upgrade the relationship he can upgrade the car when he pleases. Not everyone is born with the knowledge of ssbbw dating, everyone's got a first time and he can learn as he goes. Besides she "VERY recently found out about feedism". This is two people new to the life experiences that they're participating in. If he can get through this without abusing her, moderation and all that, it'll be fine, and we'll get some fun stories out of it.

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