So, Let me start by saying I am definitely not one of those pick up artists, or some disillusioned fake alpha male incel or anything like that. I'm a fairly socially normal guy that has had a pretty good track record when it came to dating fat girls(feedees and non) and fit girls alike. Having dated quite a good amount of both. If I had to pick one, id probably choose fat girls. There is more to grab onto, more surface area to admire and the fatter they get the more pronounced and bigger their feminine, curvaceous features become. also, they have a tendency to be an all around better partner and most have a kickass personality that doesnt revolve around self-egostical hot fit girl shit that some skinny girls posses. The only thing fit girls ever brought to the table (for me atleast) was A.) They have a higher stamina than fat girls during sex and can ride the fuck out of you longer and faster. B) They have potential to be future fatties and need you to help make it happen. :P One of many issues I see being made by dudes is they come right out the gate swinging and messaging over-bearing, overly sexual fat fetish shit(and non fetish shit) to women an 95% of them(especially the ones wortha damn) wont give them the time of day. Like hitting up fat girls(some not even aware of feederism) on Wooplus and opening with comments about their weight and getting fatter will immediately get you written off as a creep and blocked, consider yourself luck to even get a response. instead start off casually, be humorous, be friendly and you can make even stupid comments to open with like "should i consider myself lucky for matching with you? ive always wanted to date a runway model". Again, this is dumb and basic but its an improvement. Next is to make sure you do not overly text or message, two(in some instances three) back to back messages completing the same thought is acceptable but if you send a message, after a back and fourth for about 20 minutes, and you dont receive a response in the same amount of time as you were earlier, dont you fucking dare send a message. you let her reply, id say let the 60% of the conversation be her messages and the other 40% be yours. Give off the vibe that you any type of relationship or friendship with her can be taken or left by you, like regardless if she blocks you and doesnt wanna talk to you again, give off the vibe that it would have zero effect on you, your life or your feelings. Notice i said "Act like" and "give off the vibe", it is important that you take note of that and dont confuse me with telling you to say this or anything similar to her. do not tell her this shit but simply act like youre a guy of some social status and have options. After messaging, some facetiming and or phone calls for about one week(MINIMUM) then you should ask about meeting up. I advise to not suggest netflix and chill as your first meet up despite some girls being down for it, just in the likely scenario that she wont like the idea. instead suggest getting coffee together, grabbing lunch, or grabbing dinner at a not too fancy, but over casual restaurant and then maybe toss in like a movie, putt putt golf, etc before or after those. When going on your date, you need to take your stank, basement dwelling ass into your moms pool room shower and actually use hygeine products(I suggest old spice body wash, the intense fragrance will assault your repulsive odor and head shoulders or selsun blue will start a genocide against that dandruff that has infested your scalp. Make sure you dress correctly. Im not telling you to conform but a nice Tommy Hillfiger or Ralph Lauren collard shirt, some khakis, or levi jeans, a nice belt, and some Nike Dunks with a neutral color way, some tan sperrys, shit even some vans(whiteboy). If you are big into fashion and can afford it , rock some off-white sneakers or whatever is a highly sought after fashion items you like. Its important that you do not over do wearing designer, you will look like an absolute dickhead, keep it subtle. If you feel like, invest in yourself and work on your body/looks, if youre not motivated enough to do it out of self-respect, do it for the pussy atleast. Date goes good, at the end of it its okay to ask if she wants to come over and "watch a movie" at your place as long as its evident the date went well. Its okay if she tells you no, infact if long term is what youre seeking, her telling you no to sex on your first date is a nice green flag but with that said, if she does have sex with you on the first date, im not saying that its a redflag. Just approach cautiously, fat bitches in mirror may be sluttier than they appear. You been dating for a month and some change, whenever hanging out with her, if shes fat and she makes comments about her size that are disrespectful to herself, assure her that there is nothing wrong with her and even so that you find her size attractive. keep it at that, but reassure her that, if she asks if you have a fat fetish or whatever, admit it but dont divulge everything and anything youre into. Anytime she comes over, go out of your way to cook for her or constantly have snacks she likes ready to give to her, eventually she will ask you if youre trying to make her fatter on purpose. Anytime she makes comments about starting to hit the gym and work out, re-assure her that you dont think she needs to do that at all and that shes hot how she is Reply with "That wouldnt be a bad thing at all. why? you planning on gaining more weight?" If the girl is fit/skinny, obviously you cannot say you like how fat looks on her if she isnt fat, but basically same strategy as above but when encountered by her and shes ask if youre purposely trying to make her fat, you tell her that youre into "thiccc" girls and think shed look sexy if she got a little thicc. She may be into it, she may be too shy or nervous to unpack that, or she may not be a fan of it. shit will snowball and progress more and more from this point on and its important to understand what she is comfortable with and what she isnt and discuss sexually your kinks and inquire about any of hers with the goal being to experiment with eachother. Congrats, you now have a fat gf that will probably let you make her bigger or at the very least, let you play with her belly or fuck her fat rolls or some shit. feel free to ask any questions or to talk your shit, whatever