>>177264
The only way she's getting any bigger is if she learns to hold down a man. She seems to have this cognitive dissonance where she wants to do it all herself and be completely independent but at the same time wants to be immobile which is definitionally dependent. Maybe that makes perfect sense to the armchair psychologists, maybe not.
Either way, at 430 she's at a fork in the road and needs to pick between pros and cons. Cons of being with a feeder is that, dealing with a man 24/7 is exhausting, and I say this as a married man. (My wife and I are both cis.) But it is THE only way she's getting any bigger.
So she needs to just accept that, OR she needs to accept, she's not getting any bigger on her own. It's just not gonna happen. The calories of day-to-day tasks like going to the fridge, locking the front door at night, getting delivery, taking the trash out, all the teeny little things, at 450+ pounds (give or take), are impossible to overcome by eating more. You have to simply, rely on someone else to do all those things for you, so you don't have the calorie expenditure in the first place.
Maybe the live in couple thing could work out but that kinda sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. Of like epic proportions lol. Mary, the guy is gonna want you more than his wife and she's gonna hate you, the only outcome of that is nightmare.