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Guys in long term relationships - how the fuck do you not let this fetish ruin your life Anonymous 05/12/2026 (Tue) 00:43:47 Id:10ec5b No. 85499
100% serious question. How do you have normal relationships while having this fetish? I was dating a girl for almost 5 years - amazing face, great personality, very smart and capable, great partner. And I loved her. She started thin, and intentionally got chubby while we were dating (like 180lbs, but very very short), but I always thought about being with bigger girls like I had been before we met, and I could never stop thinking about it when we were out and a bigger girl walked by or something like that. I got her to let me fuck a bigger girl once every 6 months, and ended up meeting this perfectly proportioned, very pretty 380lb girl - like the hottest hourglass build I'd ever seen in my life but bigger tits, plus a thin, pretty face, and also very well adjusted for a girl that size. She went to college and had a real job, had a real personality with common interests and all that. She also let me do some fetish stuff like go to movie theater and see how she couldn't fit or see how her hips touched both side of my bathroom doorway at the same time. We didn't click quite the same as with the smaller girl, but it felt like winning the lottery for us to get along pretty well and I couldn't stop thinking about how fucking perfect she was physically. It felt like a perfect situation so I broke up the girl I was dating, but then every time I would fuck the big girl, I would get crazy post nut clarity and go into a doom spiral for giving up the emotional connection with the smaller girl. So I'd end it with the big girl and go back to the smaller girl. But then every time I went back to the smaller girl, I thought about bigger girls. I went back and forth a few times and now I think I blew it up with them both, and I also feel like a total asshole for doing it to them. I feel like such an idiot for ending it with the smaller girl, but I just can't fucking stop thinking about this stuff and the idea that I'd never fuck another really fat girl for the rest of my life was giving me insane anxiety. This situation has been a complete nightmare for everyone involved, and it's totally my fault, and it's basically ruining my life. What the fuck do you do? Can you really expect to find a well adjusted, smart, life partner quality girl at >300 pounds? Are you guys optimizing for sex first and emotional connection later? Are you meeting thinner girls you really connect with and helping them gain weight? What about the fact that being >300 pounds is inherently unhealthy - do you just accept the risk? Do you feel guilty for encouraging something against your life partner's health? If I somehow repair the relationship, the smaller girl could maybe get to like 200, but that's still not that big and I feel sorta bad for convincing her to do it, even if I think that she would be willing to. I don't know what the fuck to do.
Anonymous 05/13/2026 (Wed) 01:02:47 Id:d4a944 No. 85590
>>85499 By not being autistic, its that fucking simple you retard gorilla nigger
Anonymous 05/13/2026 (Wed) 03:44:59 Id:afeeac No. 85599
>>85499 Dude, you honestly sound like a manipulative asshole. Stay single, because right now, you deserve NO ONE. All you're doing is putting your ex through hell because you can't figure out what the fuck you want. Get help.
Anonymous 05/13/2026 (Wed) 04:34:51 Id:eb19ec No. 85600
>>85566 >>but some women are useful for more than just sex: housework, companionship, raising kids, caring for sick parents etc. So a nanny, maid, and nurse? Not everyone wants kids and I can clean up after myself unlike some slobs. Plus I can get companionship from anyone while dumping grandma at the nursing home , so your examples suck.
Boberry shitposter (v3.0) 05/13/2026 (Wed) 09:45:37 Id:5b86a6 No. 85606
(>>85590, >>85599) WOW I didn't expect soo much effort into random trollers, bloggers and lazy people!! Damn, you really care.
Anonymous 05/13/2026 (Wed) 10:41:04 Id:513303 No. 85610
>>85600 Autism. This is why my kids are unvaccinated so they don’t sound like this retard.
Anonymous 05/13/2026 (Wed) 14:07:49 Id:d4a944 No. 85620
>>85606 Sick bantz anon I'm sure the rest of the redditors are applauding your wit right now
Anonymous 05/13/2026 (Wed) 21:06:03 Id:f98c9e No. 85656
>>85503 >>85512 >>85537 >>85567 >>85599 Thanks guys. I'm already in therapy about it. We all agree I'm the bad guy here, I'm not going to dispute that. I appreciate the perspective from history as well. >>85559 Companionship and a deep emotional connection matter to me. Obviously dopamine feels good, but actually bonding with someone and getting Serotonin and Vasopressin and getting value from relationships beyond the same feeling you get from jerking off or eating good food. I get your point, but you literally compare it to a slot machine. It's like an addiction to fat girls. >>85560 >>85567 >>85585 Thank you, this is really what I was asking about. I think I could enjoy being with a really huge girl for the long term and taking care of her later on if I really loved her, but there seems to be a huge correlation between being massive and trauma/depression/addiction, which aren't typically good traits for a long term partner. It just seems like it would be really hard to find a girl that big where the emotional connection really gets that deep. I don't want kids so that's not a factor. But it does seem like the ideal scenario is to settle down with a girl in the 30-40 BMI range rather than anything beyond that, where it's realistically something she can maintain without insane health problems.
Í 05/13/2026 (Wed) 22:23:19 Id:263e62 No. 85667
>>85656 >It just seems like it would be really hard to find a girl that big where the emotional connection really gets that deep You aren't wrong. If you're looking for a truly super sized woman who is sexually active and an emotionally compatible match with you and isn't a complete insane person... Your dating pool in the entire USA is like... 2. 2 women.
Anonymous 05/14/2026 (Thu) 00:33:36 Id:b6b34b No. 85674
>>85610 Stop lying nigger. No one who visits here has the social skills to even talk to a woman, let alone knock one up.
Anonymous 05/14/2026 (Thu) 14:23:59 Id:a91e91 No. 85709
>>85656 Everyone has mental health issues. It might be less visible on the chubby ones, but I guarantee they're dealing with shit too. Chasing that perfectly sane unicorn unnecessarily constrains your search. You'll have to give up on all sorts of other criteria keep a viable dating pool. Instead consider what you can work with. Depression is an enormous headache, agree there. A trauma history or anxiety - if you are the safe person, the need to people please can make for an incredibly accommodating partner. Working with the associated anxiety or rejection sensitivity can take some experience, but it's highly surmountable. These are women who will stay home and eat. There's also a high prevalence of ADHD among the biggest girls. It leads to binge eating disorder. The chaos can be fun if you can embrace it. Think someone like Miley. Huge and exciting. It's gonna be unpredictable but could be worth it. Truthfully, a woman with secure attachment and minimal mental health challenges, isn't getting to the exciting sizes. With this fetish, size preferences trend to increase over time too. With no desire for children, I don't see a reason to pursue mother material. Not worth the trade offs. Playing over, I'd probably explore until my early thirties. Build my resource pool to the point where I didn't need a working partner. Then assuming a big girl was still the preference, find someone about ten years younger who wants to lean into things. Give her the space to go for it, with the age gap making the inevitable capacity loss less disruptive. If she's forced to shrink in my early fifties, well my dick probably isn't working that great by then anyways. GLPs are only getting cheaper and more effective. So wifing up someone who's going to stay big means choosing carefully. I think the anxious attachment that comes with certain mental health flavors becomes essential here. Everyone's clear on what the relationship is and how it works. She gets safety and stability, you get to live your fantasy. Even better if it's hers too. Though that is extremely rare.
Anonymous 05/14/2026 (Thu) 18:15:27 Id:263e62 No. 85730
>>85709 Based.
Anonymous 05/14/2026 (Thu) 18:26:13 Id:c7a2c6 No. 85733
>>85499 >100% serious question. How do you have normal relationships while having this fetish? By compromising. Yes, my sexual fantasy is to be with a 500lb girl, but that is just the sexual part. I also want to live a normal life, with a mentally stable partner, be able to be active together, have children and a partner that is "socially acceptable" fat. Thus after a gf that had BPD, one that was depressed and meeting someone who was a complete lunatic, I settled for a nice, smart, stable 300lb women. Not my sexually ideal fat, but stil fat enough to get me going. And although 8+ hour hikes in the mountains are not an option, she is still active enough for me.
Anonymous 05/14/2026 (Thu) 21:16:36 Id:68191d No. 85739
>>85709 Retarded advice unless you’re ugly. Have had plenty of fat girlfriends who were totally sane, employed, had friends and hobbies. Women who just like food. They were people who tried to be skinny, didn’t care about it enough to diet. They started in the 100-200 range and happily gained once they felt secure and happy in a relationship. They felt hot having a fat ass and getting good dick helped make it worth it.
Anonymous 05/14/2026 (Thu) 22:17:33 Id:c5db66 No. 85745
>>85739 >Have had plenty of fat girlfriends who were totally sane, employed, had friends and hobbies. Where are you meeting these girls? I've met some on dating apps or bars, but wondering if I'm ignoring other good channels
Anonymous 05/14/2026 (Thu) 22:26:30 Id:0de515 No. 85747
>>85745 Im not the guy ur replying to but I meet them at Walmart all the time. Specifically the grocery section. Many fatties grocery shop at Walmart and if a girl is shopping alone while fat enough to need to waddle or use a scooter she is definitely looking for someone to take care of her. This does not get you sane women tho.
Anonymous 05/14/2026 (Thu) 22:58:17 Id:c5db66 No. 85756
>>85747 Is this a larp or are you saying there are multiple times that you've met women in the walmart grocery section and later had sex with them? It is interesting. For conventionally attractive women your best odds are in cities, but fat women seem so spread out in random rural areas.
Anonymous 05/14/2026 (Thu) 23:07:40 Id:0de515 No. 85757
>>85756 This isnt larp. I didnt fuck but ive gotten a couple dates/numbers out of it. I live in the Midwest where theres nothing to do but eat and drink so its fairly common to see giant lonely chicks out and about. There are cathedrals everywhere for those with eyes to see
Anonymous 05/15/2026 (Fri) 00:06:10 Id:7e3f65 No. 85764
>>85747 You (and others) highlight the problem. You can find these women, but realistically, any woman who wants to stay 500+ lbs long term is going to have some sort of mental issues. They may not care while they are young and have few health issues and remain mobile, but eventually their body is going to start breaking down and they'll have blook sugar and/or high blood pressure and/or joint problems that make getting around difficult if not impossible (and probably all three). First off, a woman really does have to have something wrong with her to allow herself to get so huge that she has mobility problems in her 20s. I love a woman that large, but you just don't get that big by genetic factors and modest overeating alone. That might get you in the 300s, but you have to be WAY overeating to get into the 500s. And even a couple years ago you could say that a lot of "sane" women could easily be lazy and not do anything much about this - and while some would go under the knife and get WLS, that scared a lot of others into remaining extraordinarily obese - but not today. GLPs are so easy to get that women who lazy can easily take them in order to lose weight and deal with their health issues. I mean, they are not cheap, but they are not prohibitively expensive, and they are super easy to take, esp. now that you can get them in pill form. From an FA perspective, they truly are a terrible game changer. So that really leaves women who are too poor to afford GLPs (and they probably are not top-tier intellects in the first place - not saying poor people are dumb, but if you are super fat and poor, chances are you are not a MENSA member...) and women who are honestly too stupid to do anything about the disease ravaging them. Are there women out there who actually want to gain and stay super fat in spite of what their size is doing to them? Yes, but they are few and far between. And even fewer will be actually pretty smart women. I mean, Boberry is one of the few models out there who I actually wonder why she is staying so fat for so long. She seems really smart and has made a good living at being hot and huge, but I think she has passed the point where this is not going to take a pretty good toll on her long-term health and longevity. So I guess there might be the odd smart one who chooses to stay fat, though even Boberry is not a good example as she makes her living from being fat, where very few smart women do that. So by all means listen to these young dudes with next to zero life experience tell you it is easy to find great fatties who are intelligent and fun to be with, but believe me you are not going to find a woman like that who will long-term stay fat, so you have to decide do you want the smarts or the fats long term and then choose accordingly.
Anonymous 05/15/2026 (Fri) 00:22:01 Id:c5db66 No. 85765
>>85764 Yeah I'm finally seeing how bad ozempic can be. This girl I was talking to said she was up to 410 at one point, then went on it and lost 80 pounds in a year and wants to go until she's under 300. She clearly has a food addiction but is pretty smart and sane otherwise. 10 years ago she'd probably be up to like 450 by now. But like you said any girl who's even medium sane will see that the GLP is worth it, which only leaves super dumb / super poor / genuinely into the fetish themselves girls who will be over 350 beyond like age 24. Really sad.
Anonymous 05/15/2026 (Fri) 11:48:13 Id:c1f474 No. 85801
>>85747 I call bullshit. I've approached dozens of scooter fats in my day. Only 1 of them ever wanted to have anything to do with a man appreciating their body or seeing them as a potential romantic partner
Anonymous 05/15/2026 (Fri) 11:58:50 Id:5111f0 No. 85802
>>85801 You’re ugly, a loser and/or short
Anonymous 05/15/2026 (Fri) 13:30:04 Id:a91e91 No. 85808
>>85739 Happy for you bro. In my experience (mid 40's) the mental health issues can remain undiagnosed for years. The behaviors will be a headache and inexplicable, until you understand what is happening. Have to get past all her walls, get her doing enough work to explain what's going on. Of course once you have the experience, it's easier to spot and navigable. For me, the sweet spot is someone around a 50bmi, for decades. A 5' 7" girl gaining to 220 isn't it. That's what you settle for when her body can't support the weight anymore. Between the glps, associated death of body positivity, and haes becoming a trans movement - scaffolding is needed. Otherwise when the body starts collecting, those health scares are going to knock the weight right off. Dunno about the mid 20's, but within 5-10 years of that for sure. All the progress on weight as something a woman can't choose, treating it as a protected class, has been lost. Making fun of fat people is cool again. It's even greater downward pressure on a woman's size. Countering all that long term, is going to take some codependence. A lock and key between whatever is broken in their brain and this honestly burdensome fetish most of us have been saddled with. I want my partner to carry two hundred plus pounds of fat. I also want her to have a good life with me. It doesn't reconcile cleanly. This is the best answer I've figured it out over the decades. My own partner is on the downward leg of her path. It's tough at times. I naturally wonder about how things would look, had I been mentored through this kink starting on my late teens. Instead of stumbling through like our OP. In my more depraved moments, I imagine the might have been as an experienced and unrestrained feeder. What I spelled out above, is also how one would be best positioned to blow their partner up. The line crosses to predatory and dubious consent pretty easily. I think the test is can you offer a better life than she would have otherwise had. Hard to answer though.
Anonymous 05/15/2026 (Fri) 13:39:10 Id:b3ee73 No. 85809
>>85808 Unless you’re Stefan and willing to kill and replace girlfriends every 5 years it’s hard to keep a woman above 350 pounds long term. It’s just not realistic.
Anonymous 05/15/2026 (Fri) 16:12:47 Id:e278f4 No. 85817
>>85808 > Making fun of fat people is cool again. When was it not cool? Turn off your Internet.
Anonymous 05/15/2026 (Fri) 19:30:07 Id:d890b7 No. 85827
>>85809 True that. When the weight starts making them miserable, the fun stops. Keeping my wife in the low threes through her thirties was expensive and time consuming. No work, monthly and then near weekly doctors, expensive prescriptions, unlimited cannabis, high quality food, cute clothes, plus size friendly travel, housekeeper, pool access, the list goes on and on. Even with the support, she has some regrets. The shit part is most of those needs don't go away when the body forces a hundred pounds to fall off. The damage is already done, her capacity is lost, and you're a caretaker permanently. It's part of the deal these young guys might but fully appreciate.
Anonymous 05/15/2026 (Fri) 19:43:49 Id:263e62 No. 85828
>>85827 Damn bros. Making me feel like I won't the lottery over here. My girl is in the upper 500s and we go traveling together and she basically pays all my bills. We're almost 40. Maybe the time bomb just hasn't gone off yet idk... Enjoying it while I can
Anonymous 05/15/2026 (Fri) 19:44:49 Id:263e62 No. 85829
Won*... Lol
Anonymous 05/15/2026 (Fri) 19:52:52 Id:5eadfb No. 85833
>>85828 How'd you guys meet
Anonymous 05/15/2026 (Fri) 20:02:40 Id:263e62 No. 85839
>>85833 Tumblr.
Anonymous 05/15/2026 (Fri) 21:10:13 Id:e278f4 No. 85846
>>85828 What's her job?
Anonymous 05/15/2026 (Fri) 21:12:59 Id:8e3d21 No. 85847
>>85846 Being a fat bitch. And no I won't say who. Claim larp all you want, but part of being with a professional fat bitch is keeping her secrets.
Anonymous 05/15/2026 (Fri) 21:34:55 Id:acc244 No. 85853
>>85828 > My girl is in the upper 500s and we go traveling together and she basically pays all my bills LARP or bait hoping to be called out for LARPing.
Anonymous 05/16/2026 (Sat) 05:31:22 Id:67a0ee No. 85870
>>85499 I wish I had a better answer than “you gotta just be honest”. I’m married, she’s hefty, but not like, alarmingly fat to anyone who walks past us. She wasn’t always though, when we got together I was attracted to her. I think she’s beautiful, back then she was just kinda…I dunno stocky I guess, pretty normal looking with a bigger lower half than you’d expect from the way the top half looked, she was fun to hang out with and - crucially - she liked me too. She gained maybe 60-70 lbs over the first 3-4 years we were together, it was like a (realistic) fantasy come to life, I made sure I let her know that I found her hot when she was down on herself, tried to make her feel comfortable with being noticeably heavier than the last time she saw a friend of ours, being the “fat friend”, all that stuff. Eventually I just caved after a few beers and spilled my guts, I told her that it upset me how much she hated being bigger because it was such a turn on for me and that caused some major cognitive dissonance in my brain because a person I loved hated something I loved about them. It will always be risky because it’s a hot-button issue for a lot of women, for me (and for her I think) it got better though. It’s one thing to talk shit about a random model you like losing weight or being abrasive and annoying but truly there is a lot of trust in this when you find someone you care about, trust that you won’t foist this fetish on them at every possible opportunity and trust that they won’t resent you or shame you in return. I think I got extremely lucky, but even then when I first came clean I had made the deal with myself, I was ready for it to backfire hard and maybe end the relationship on a potentially humiliating note, but I’d still recommend it because it beats spinning your wheels and trying to break yourself of something you’re not fully in control of to look normal. You sound young, if that’s the case then give it some time. That’s not what anyone wants to hear at any age but I think it’s worth holding out for someone you can just be open with.
Anonymous 05/16/2026 (Sat) 13:07:19 Id:fab3ce No. 85888
>>85870 A mature take on things. Denying this aspect of yourself is torture. Whether it's hiding it from a partner. Or even worse they know and hate it or shame you for it. The only thing that disrupts the sexual wiring is repeated experiences of disgust, and even that's not durable. So we have to make the best of living with it. It isn't going away. Someone who joyfully indulges it is going to offer a much more fulfilling life, even if they don't get huge. What does life look like when her size isn't changing? You want a day to day experience that honors your sexuality. That's tough if she's not accommodating.
Anonymous 05/17/2026 (Sun) 15:19:53 Id:71dead No. 85958
>>85870 Mature post. Since when are well-adjusted adults allowed to post in the chan? lol
Anonymous 05/17/2026 (Sun) 16:31:14 Id:8a3b1a No. 85966
>>85499 By not being a weak bitch
Anonymous 05/18/2026 (Mon) 07:11:52 Id:650840 No. 86051
>>85847 I know who you are, lol. Enjoy my sloppy seconds. And get a job, loser.
Anonymous 05/18/2026 (Mon) 17:29:51 Id:921e84 No. 86111
>>85870 Wow that might be the most sane post I have read on here.
Anonymous 05/18/2026 (Mon) 23:09:16 Id:7bcdbb No. 86135
(Re-posting here as maybe it is a better place to get some advice than in the fat shit our partners do thread) Not sure where to ask this, as there are no active threads (as in with messages in the last month or so) for discussion of WL by partners at the moment. My question is: how do you tell your partner you no longer find her attractive? That you still love HER, but you no longer lust after her? My wife is looking saggy after losing 100 lbs, and she probably is still losing. She is still ok looking, from certain viewpoints, particularly when I don't clearly see the sag (like standing up, her legs don't look a lot thinner, but sitting down, you can really see the fat loss). So I am not grossed out by her naked (yet), but it also REALLY depresses me seeing her nude, cause it makes me confront the loss and potential future loss. Like hurts me to my core. But I don't know how to tell her that in a nice way. I am frankly surprised she has never asked me about it - I previously was all about feeling her up (so much so that she used to sometimes complain about it) and wanting to see her nude, but I have not done any of that in a couple months. Also, she is a very nosy person - one of the traits I don't like about her - which adds to my wondering why she is not asking, unless she thinks she knows the answer but for some reason (again, she is normally not shy to confront me about things she doesn't like) she does not want to ask. She told me this morning she was going to take a bath, which previously would have caused me to beat feet to the bathroom. Heck, just hearing the bathwater running would do that. I told her that's fine, and left it at that. She came to tell me that I was confusing since sometimes I complain about her not telling me she was taking a bath (which I have done, but not in several months) but then sometimes I seem to not care (which at this point I do not, as it is a measure of self-preservation so that I don't spiral into depression). What is surprising is that she did not ask the obvious question, namely, why did I no longer want to see her naked (or have any other sexual contact with her). I assume that is coming at some point, but I wonder how others might handle the issue when it is forced.
Anonymous 05/18/2026 (Mon) 23:56:09 Id:b6101b No. 86138
>>86135 >My question is: how do you tell your partner you no longer find her attractive? That you still love HER, but you no longer lust after her? >partner Answer: you don’t. Either suck it up or break up. Unless you think she’d be happy to try swinging. What you’re suggesting. That would destroy most people. Your autism induced lack of empathy is terrifying good sir.
Anonymous 05/19/2026 (Tue) 08:16:33 Id:fd1e44 No. 86157
>>86138 Women do this all the time with their husbands but whenever a man does it it's hell on earth. Fuck off with this bullshit >>86135 What triggered her weight loss? Why isn't she bothered that you aren't feeling her up anymore? Consider that she might not find you attractive either or might be actively cheating. Either way she might not care if her provider husband no longer fucks her
Anonymous 05/19/2026 (Tue) 17:40:41 Id:289d65 No. 86182
>>86135 This is stupid, my wife knows exactly who I'm and she chooses WL due to health issues. I was always open about who I'm and about what I find exclusively attractive. Now I'm just looking around for fatties and that's it - there is no other option. Be honest. If she is smart enough that's okay, if this is beyond her capability of understanding... then you are fucked. Today I would not choose any long term relationship due to this unfortunate reality.
Anonymous 05/19/2026 (Tue) 21:39:14 Id:7bcdbb No. 86206
>>86157 Two things triggered the weight loss: health issues and what she feels is fat prejudice. The former is the more immediate. She was pre-diabetic, and she took tirzepatide to reduce her blood glucose level and also with high blood pressure. And it definitely helped with that. To a lesser extent, from a health perspective, she wanted it to help with joint pain as well. She says the weight loss is incidental, but I frankly don't believe her on that one. I suppose it is true insofar as if GLPs did not exist, I don't think she would have done anything to lose weight. Maybe if she kept gaining - on the one hand I wanted her to keep gaining, as she was pushing 400 lbs and I would have loved her to gain another 25-50 lbs, but I also feared her gaining as if she had gotten any bigger, that might have made her heavy enough to decide she needed to do something drastic (like major diet or WLS). But while she claims not to be doing it for weight loss, she also seems pretty pleased with it and fitting into smaller sizes. She has told me she wishes that I would celebrate those "victories" with her, but I told her that was a bridge too far and there was no way I would do that (best she should expect is that I remain silent in the face of her losing, as this was meeting her half-way and only way I could deal with something that hurt me to my core). I have heard how the GLPs can affect the user's personalities (makes them kind of feel less), and I wonder if that is what is going on here, as it is totally uncharacteristic of her to not say something about this. Then again, it took a lot more than I would have expected for her to blow up about me not talking about her weight loss or asking about her health improvements on tirzepatide (I don't know why I said it, but she asked what I was looking at one night and I flippantly - and honestly, as it happens - answered that I was looking at her flat thighs, and that lit the dynamite on that conversation). At least we have a pretty loving relationship outside the sexual part of it, and I am grateful for that. Maybe it is better for me/us, as my lust for her was probably greater than it should have been (at least from her perspective). So maybe she is grateful for that. (Though she is taking hormone treatments as part of her "health journey", so maybe at some point she'll actually want sex and then wonder why I am disinterested...)
Anonymous 05/19/2026 (Tue) 22:11:23 Id:cbc689 No. 86212
>>86157 > Women do this all the time with their husbands but whenever a man does it it's hell on earth. You got a source for that claim buddy? >>86182 > This is stupid, my wife knows exactly who I'm and she chooses WL due to health issues. I was always open about who I'm and about what I find exclusively attractive. I forgot that when you inform your wife about your fetish she’s legally obligated to let you feed her to death. Silly me. >Now I'm just looking around for fatties and that's it - there is no other option. Totally fine if you want to break up. Just be honest with yourself, it’d be weird if your entire family and friends see you as an autistic people user who throws away the people closest to him when they can’t sustain his impossible demands to kill herself for your boner. >>86206 > At least we have a pretty loving relationship outside the sexual part of it, and I am grateful for that. This is the right answer and anyone saying otherwise is too autistic or psychopathic to understand human relationships. Sorry if I’m mixed up on whose OP…
Anonymous 05/19/2026 (Tue) 22:36:00 Id:7740c6 No. 86219
I'll just say it from a guy of a 10 year relationship, you have to be okay with this stuff being largely fantasy. I have a GF/Wife she's pudgy she likes having her fat squished that's all I need. I don't need 4-600 pound women nor do I need gaining to be a part of my life. If you're miserable with your partner and it's really not working out, get a fatter one FFS. The main caveat I usually add is that if you MUST have gaining be prepared to be miserable as even among fat women that is rare. That's kinda my thought in it. Guys who are okay with gaining being a fantasy with a fat wife are far more likely to end up happy than guys who NEED Feederism as a part of their relationship. If you NEED Feederism as part of the dynamic you're going to suffer otherwise just get a fat wife who's okay with having her bits squished.
Anonymous 05/19/2026 (Tue) 22:54:34 Id:f42797 No. 86222
>>86206 Brother that's a bullshit reason for the GLP. First line interventions for diabetes is metformin, a little movement and dietary change. Maybe a continuous glucose monitor to see what is or is not working on real time. She picked a nuclear option specifically for weight loss. The good news is when she comes off, every indicator is the weight returns. And then some. So make the med unavailable. Change your insurance. Help her decide the side effects are too severe. Get her nervous about muscle and bone loss. It's a problem waiting to be solved. When the weight comes back, make her life better than ever.
Anonymous 05/19/2026 (Tue) 22:58:25 Id:cbc689 No. 86223
>>86222 > So make the med unavailable. Change your insurance. Help her decide the side effects are too severe. Get her nervous about muscle and bone loss. Fucking faggot stop pussyfooting about the issue and just sabotage her doses like the rest of us are doing with hot water.
Anonymous 05/20/2026 (Wed) 14:04:59 Id:3719e3 No. 86254
>>86223 Fuck that. She needs to know without a question of a doubt that I control her body and actions. The dance offers her a performance of autonomy, but ultimately we both know I decide. Secretly sabotaging the meds is weak. Lead by defining her environment and shaping her thoughts. There will always be another weight loss temptation. We are making this body permanent. When someone like genetic modification arrives, she won't even consider trying it.
Anonymous 05/20/2026 (Wed) 14:09:23 Id:f6ddaa No. 86255
>>86206 Obviously don’t listen to the degenerates suggesting to do things that would merit a restraining order. Her body, her choice. Even if that sucks. On a related note, I’ve read about lower cognitive performance for people on GLP-1. I think it has to do with lower nutritional intake over all, since it doesn’t necessarily improve the quality of foods or exercise but simply tricks the body into staying in a post-meal state. As a result, the brain in reality goes malnourished and begins to underperform.
Anonymous 05/22/2026 (Fri) 10:12:35 Id:c1f474 No. 86379
>>86255 My wife is on glp1. She was never that smart, and I can't say if the glp1 has made it worse... But I do know this shit ain't making her any smarter. Lmao
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