It really surprises me that y'all complain about such a small bit of trash. I've known people that are at a much smaller size that are incredibly worse. And it also shows that most of y'all don't understand the responsibilities he has being with someone her size. If she is that heavy mobility is defenitly a challenge and she probably isn't very active. Most likely he has to work, shop, pay bills, clean the entire house, do dishes, laundry, cook, help her with bathing, ect. Being a feeder, especially if you are in a relationship with the feedee. Not certain if he is or not. But either way is more than just making sure they have food. Especially if she's reaching the point of immobility or experiencing challenged mobility of any kind.