/gen/ - General Discussion

>>82141 Igor Night is that you?

>>82142 LOL honestly you aren't far off that's pretty much how I look except I'm not bald. >>82016 Bruh I had an online thing fling with largenlovely for a bit (met her off feabie). Surreal experience talking to someone you nutted dozens of times to as a teenager.

>>77142 It's a shame, that we barely have any active accounts on there and most of them are either under 100kg or the fat ones are either not interested in the fetish or pretty old >>77143 Enlighten me. I don't know any german speaking forums

>>82155 Exactly. At least in Germany the situation looks better, but as I'm living on the other side of Austria its not really interesting for me and I guess for them neither, better look towards Hungarian community in my case. They are sites like rubensfan or Deutschlands dicke Seiten, but they are barely active or also here most women are age 40+, also on Joyce they are some BBW/SSBBW communities to talk with but also here most are age 40+. In the past also derbauchvergleich existed, but it seems to have ceased forever in late 2025. Austria unfortunately (except Vienna, but still less selection than in Germany) is still a quiet conservative country where our fat fetish isn't widely known and the only influencer I know from our country is a mass target of haters,

>>82141 Faggoty shit. I’m not dating fat women to put them on a pedestal. I plan on calling them a fat hog and playing out humiliating and disgusting fetish play and they like it.

>>83755 yeah, I'll be honest, I agree. I went into feabie YEARS back thinking I would find a feedee and settle down, fucked a couple of "models"(lmao), and pretty quickly figured out these are not women who should be near kids. Maybe some guys on here had some good experiences, I'm sure it varies a lot by city, but even the girls who weren't "models" that I fucked were RAN THROUGH and it fucked their heads up. If you are going on feabie (wouldn't reccomend) plan to fuck and chuck, and don't give them your real name.

>>83760 >these are not women who should be near kids Why?

>>83770 Narcissistic or Borderline personality disorder rampant or autism or abuse driving the overeating. Ran the fuck through. Either before or after losing touch with reality. Fine women to fuck and stuff, but honestly few were as much of feedees as random fat women I met on the apps who were self described foodies.

>>83755 Hey man that's your prerogative, but of course the women who are into being degraded fuck hogs are going to be mentally ill trainwrecks.

>>83823 > the women who are into being degraded fuck hogs are going to be mentally ill trainwrecks. Honestly the opposite true. It’s the women who want to be skinny and aren’t into feedism but CANT CONTROL THEMSELVES who are crazy. Normal kinky women will be fine being fat and may like the kinky shit that comes with it.

>>76846 It's a crapshoot and other then tactfully reading the room there is nothing you can do, but some people want to meet up asap, some people want to build a report, and some don't know what they want. I'm in a "everything is fucked" mood about it.

I'm thinking about trying out Feabie after lurking for years. What's the site's etiquette like? Is it considered rude to randomly message women, or are you expected to engage with her statuses first?

>>86149 Well try to write something engaging and have some good pictures on your profile. Just like on any other dating site.

>>86149 Neither. Either she messages you or you offer to pay for a convo in the first message.

Listen to this dude, this guy fucks! >>82141 I would also say that sending money early on is not a good idea. It does catch attention, but makes the whole thing very transactional. As for me, I'm actually going to meet up with a 500lbs Feabie girl next week (fingers crossed, don't want to jinx it) - you can't believe how excited I am. Her profile was pretty much empty but she's just 2h away by train and did put her weight in, so I tried my luck. She actually replied, we chatted a bit an and she said she's pretty new to the Feedism thing and quite insecure about her weight it seems. She did send me a picture of only her face. We chatted a bit about Feedism, her favorite snacks and how I'd spoil her and she liked it. So I asked when I can come visit her and she actually said a date! Now I'm sitting on burning coals, I really don't want to fumble it and scare her away. We exchange messages daily but it takes her several hours to reply, but the replies are always warm and friendly so that's reassuring. I don't know how hard I should try to feed her on the first date, I'll try to be gentle and not force it unless she tells me to - don't want to overwhelm her. Feels a bit like a once in a lifetime chance - patience really is key. I've talked to other girls on Feabie before and they nothing came out of it, quite often they were also batshit insane. This one seems like a cosy NEET but from whom she follows she seems to be into quite some proper stuffing. I know she likes to snack but she never engaged in any fat chat. Anyway, enough of the rambling - let's see where this goes, wish me luck!

Bro I've been on feabie since i started university, and I live in Europe, I promise you hooking up with girls on feabie is feasible, you just gotta be consistent with it. I've met up with around 6 girls i met on feabie, and have been hooking up with 3 of them, one of them is a quite famous model in the space so we get to make content together.

my best advice is to chat for a few messages, and then get their instagram and move there. the number one reason they reject guys (excluding the girls looking for handouts) is because theyre afraid/weary of meeting a man from a fetish site, so they end up ghosting. once your on instagram, your just a normal guy in her dm's, and they become much more likely to be willing to meet up. Also imo never send or give money, i've never sent a dime to any of them because it just sets the wrong precedent. just be flirty, don't talk about the fetish too much, and you'll be good.

>>86184 > She did send me a picture of only her face. > We exchange messages daily but it takes her several hours to reply, but the replies are always warm and friendly so that's reassuring. God I know native germans are basically retarded but for real. Why don’t you send her some cash right now to sweeten the deal. I trust your judgement, you’re not some kinda retard that’s gonna spend 4 hours on a train to try to meet up with a lady who sometimes reply’s to your texts and has sent your an entire photo of someone’s face.

>>86214 I can assure you that she was indeed very real - just very shy (and very fat). She does sleep a lot though, that explains the sporadic messaging. We did spend the weekend cuddling and I did get to feed her.

Was thinking of making a feabie account or an account for another dating site. Then I realized I don't actually know how to talk to women.

>>87098 Ditto. I wished I knew how to date, let alone talk to a woman. I'm way too socially awkward and too much anxiety to even attempt it. My best bet is to continue watching from the sidelines or wait till ai robots become publicly avaliable XD.

>>87100 >wait till ai robots become publicly avaliable XD. Just imagine 250+ lbs robot girlfriends.

>>87105 They’re here. I’ve rigged up a couple hit water bottles and weighted blankets on my mom shakey workout platform.

Feabie Argentina is fucking miserable, it's all dudes and the women that actually have pictures are 5 women that are hot but don't use their accounts anymore, 2 anorexycs faking to be fat (literally happened to me once and the other one i investigated), 2 really ugly women, Diistorsion and Juicyangelbbw that of course aren't going to be responding messages are just promoting videos and lastly some tha already have boyfriends and lesbians

>>87118 Oh yeah i forgot about the troons

I specifically want to articulate a conclusion I came to a while ago but never considered it so simply. There are many people on this website who aren't interested in a conversation, and they're the type to message back one word replies if at all. Understanding when someone grew bored and doesn't care about engaging further is important. Know what else is the case? People who want to have conversations but have very poor abilities to keep a conversation going. They'll message back and they'll speak like they care in tone but are not good at keeping a conversation going or have nothing to say, these are likely good listeners types who just can't talk to save their lives. When girls in the profile say "don't just message me saying 'hey'", these are the kind of people they are referring to, but they're talking to you now (you probably messaged them first, if they reached out to you maybe you're hotter than me, idk). What I'm getting at is learn the difference between these two, one is intended to politely signal "I don't care" and the other one is not at all trying but needs to be hand held in a chat. Everyone's not the same person, blah blah, you get it.

I hate how Feabie doesn't work well as a hookup or dating site, it's success is all rooted in being a social media platform to follow fat content creators (ie Onlyfans/BigCuties models and the like). You can say I have no game, you can say I'm not hot, but I am not just talking to the 9/10 400lb 20 year olds with 1k followers, my net is pretty wide.

>>87118 > Feabie Argentina is fucking miserable WAKE UP, because Milei’s anarcho-capitalist chainsaw has completely atomized the *porteño* dating market into an economic psyop. Going out for *bife de chorizo* in Palermo isn’t a casual date anymore; it’s a high-risk structural capital expenditure requiring a literal fintech loan, because utility bills are up 800% and *¡AFUERA!* goes your disposable income. Five minutes into chatting on feabie, the ideological trauma begins: you’re either getting a pitch on how the ghost of Milei's dead mastiff, Conan, dictates macroeconomic policy from the astral plane, or you’re dodging a devastated Peronist crying into her *mate* because her public sector job got vaporized. There is no middle ground between a fatso clone of Ayn Rand and a professional *piquetero*—the invisible hand has officially decided that romance is a luxury asset class, so cease your investigations and protect your foreign reserves.

>>87118 >>88721 Kek. “My libertarian president’s dead dog’s ghost declared the free market can only be saved by making a hamburger cost more than a working-class daily wage. Why can’t I find any fat women to date.” Worlds most expensive Big Macs, 4x more expensive than a decade ago fyi: https://www.statista.com/statistics/869118/big-mac-price-index-argentina/

ive been trying to slide into emmathyst's dms but she's giving me no play. feels bad man.

>>88916 I don't know what you see in this woman.

>>88955 Yeah she looks the opposite of I woman I'd want to get to know closer...lol Plus she's skinny so she hasn't even got going for her.

>>88956 I would be the fat one in the relationship.

>>88721 Sadly my schizo Columbian friend. You're right

>>88984 Okay, what do you see in her?

Is it just me or has feabie's usebase declined in quality significantly? I used it briefly a few years ago because there were like two attractive women in my area on it at the time (city with around 600k pop in USA). Ended up doing much better on Tinder/irl and stopped using feabie completely after. The "normal" dating apps seem to be useless unless you pay now, so I have been browsing feabie again, and in the same area, there is not a single profile who meets the very low standard of being recently active, over 250 lbs, and having face pictures. I even checked bigger cities and it seemed like slim pickings everywhere.

This site is rough it’s just a buncha scammers tryna have you send them money or a buncha entitled girls who won’t give you the time of day unless you send them money. It’s truly impossible to have an actual conversation on this site

>>91244 They permanently banned a significant portion of their active attractive feedee women so now alls that’s left is uggos and scammers

>>91271 I was THIS close to scoring a 1st date with ChubbyChiquita when they permanently banned her for supporting this one random girl who got banned for something completely retarded and unnecessary

>>91271 Wtf really? Why did they do that

>>91302 Like the comment above yours says, all the feedee’s were supporting some random girl and all got banned in the process.

This site used to fucking rip, honestly its not as bad as a lot of people on here make it out to be, its the easiest way to find big, attractive women in your area. Sure a lot of them are gross and do suck, and 2016-2022 was probably as good as it ever got, I definitely got like well over 30 hookups in 10 years with some of the fattest women you could ever concieve of. If you don't get pussy on feabie, it's simply a skill issue.

>>91307 I feel like they’re all fake and only want online feeders they refuse to meet In person.

I’m fucking permabanned. Fuck that website and fuck that it’s the only place to find fatties.

Ok so this is about Fantasy Feeder rather than Feabie but I figure it'll do to post it here. Back in March I got talking to this girl on FF who was about 400lbs at the time. Once we hit it off, she closed her account and we carried on talking on Discord. We eventually met in June and had a great time. We carried on talking afterwards, she apparently gained another 30lbs, and we were making plans to meet again in October (we live about 200 miles apart) but about 2 weeks ago she suddenly stopped responding to messages and I've got no idea what happened to her. Obviously I'm not going to post her name on here, but if I say she's 24, lives in Shropshire and has blonde curly hair and a knockout body, does anyone here a) know who I'm talking about and b) know if she's ok?

>>91377 Honestly unless youre strictly looking for ussbbws the regular dating apps can be pretty productive. Almost every woman over 400 that I've fucked was from tinder. Plus the same fatties that have a god complex on feabie are just normal fat girls in other apps. Its crazy how they switch up their demeanor

>>91411 Truth

>>91307 Agree, most of the whiners are from people who want fat chat hot fatties from a thousand miles away. If you are semi local or actually intend to fly out “hey I’m actually heading to [city] next month” or whatever, it is easy. They want to be fed or fucked, not boring thirsty dudes they get millions of messages from with no intention of real life meetup. Just keep an account to check new users in area once in awhile, and if none then log out and come back. Not worth d gaging for the “social media” or “online friends” aspect unless it’s just to lurk and roll your eyes at the losers.

>>91400 Hate to say it but the simplest explanation is that she decided she doesn't wanna meet you and she ghosted you. I had this happen once and it turned out she had a bf the entire time we were talking and just wanted to hoe around on the internet, and then when it got too "real" she decided to jet. f7604a

anyone been banned from feabie/been asked for verification before? Got a temporary ban and an email from them asking me to send them a verification selfie and my ID or I’ll get a permanent ban. I don’t even use it frequently at all. It’s not a phishing email, but I lowkey don’t feel comfortable sending my ID especially via email as that doesn’t feel secure…