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Was thinking of making a feabie account or an account for another dating site. Then I realized I don't actually know how to talk to women.

>>87098 Ditto. I wished I knew how to date, let alone talk to a woman. I'm way too socially awkward and too much anxiety to even attempt it. My best bet is to continue watching from the sidelines or wait till ai robots become publicly avaliable XD.

>>87100 >wait till ai robots become publicly avaliable XD. Just imagine 250+ lbs robot girlfriends.

>>87105 They’re here. I’ve rigged up a couple hit water bottles and weighted blankets on my mom shakey workout platform.

Feabie Argentina is fucking miserable, it's all dudes and the women that actually have pictures are 5 women that are hot but don't use their accounts anymore, 2 anorexycs faking to be fat (literally happened to me once and the other one i investigated), 2 really ugly women, Diistorsion and Juicyangelbbw that of course aren't going to be responding messages are just promoting videos and lastly some tha already have boyfriends and lesbians

>>87118 Oh yeah i forgot about the troons

I specifically want to articulate a conclusion I came to a while ago but never considered it so simply. There are many people on this website who aren't interested in a conversation, and they're the type to message back one word replies if at all. Understanding when someone grew bored and doesn't care about engaging further is important. Know what else is the case? People who want to have conversations but have very poor abilities to keep a conversation going. They'll message back and they'll speak like they care in tone but are not good at keeping a conversation going or have nothing to say, these are likely good listeners types who just can't talk to save their lives. When girls in the profile say "don't just message me saying 'hey'", these are the kind of people they are referring to, but they're talking to you now (you probably messaged them first, if they reached out to you maybe you're hotter than me, idk). What I'm getting at is learn the difference between these two, one is intended to politely signal "I don't care" and the other one is not at all trying but needs to be hand held in a chat. Everyone's not the same person, blah blah, you get it.

I hate how Feabie doesn't work well as a hookup or dating site, it's success is all rooted in being a social media platform to follow fat content creators (ie Onlyfans/BigCuties models and the like). You can say I have no game, you can say I'm not hot, but I am not just talking to the 9/10 400lb 20 year olds with 1k followers, my net is pretty wide.

>>87118 > Feabie Argentina is fucking miserable WAKE UP, because Milei’s anarcho-capitalist chainsaw has completely atomized the *porteño* dating market into an economic psyop. Going out for *bife de chorizo* in Palermo isn’t a casual date anymore; it’s a high-risk structural capital expenditure requiring a literal fintech loan, because utility bills are up 800% and *¡AFUERA!* goes your disposable income. Five minutes into chatting on feabie, the ideological trauma begins: you’re either getting a pitch on how the ghost of Milei's dead mastiff, Conan, dictates macroeconomic policy from the astral plane, or you’re dodging a devastated Peronist crying into her *mate* because her public sector job got vaporized. There is no middle ground between a fatso clone of Ayn Rand and a professional *piquetero*—the invisible hand has officially decided that romance is a luxury asset class, so cease your investigations and protect your foreign reserves.

>>87118 >>88721 Kek. “My libertarian president’s dead dog’s ghost declared the free market can only be saved by making a hamburger cost more than a working-class daily wage. Why can’t I find any fat women to date.” Worlds most expensive Big Macs, 4x more expensive than a decade ago fyi: https://www.statista.com/statistics/869118/big-mac-price-index-argentina/

ive been trying to slide into emmathyst's dms but she's giving me no play. feels bad man.

>>88916 I don't know what you see in this woman.

>>88955 Yeah she looks the opposite of I woman I'd want to get to know closer...lol Plus she's skinny so she hasn't even got going for her.

>>88956 I would be the fat one in the relationship.

>>88721 Sadly my schizo Columbian friend. You're right

>>88984 Okay, what do you see in her?

Is it just me or has feabie's usebase declined in quality significantly? I used it briefly a few years ago because there were like two attractive women in my area on it at the time (city with around 600k pop in USA). Ended up doing much better on Tinder/irl and stopped using feabie completely after. The "normal" dating apps seem to be useless unless you pay now, so I have been browsing feabie again, and in the same area, there is not a single profile who meets the very low standard of being recently active, over 250 lbs, and having face pictures. I even checked bigger cities and it seemed like slim pickings everywhere.

This site is rough it’s just a buncha scammers tryna have you send them money or a buncha entitled girls who won’t give you the time of day unless you send them money. It’s truly impossible to have an actual conversation on this site

>>91244 They permanently banned a significant portion of their active attractive feedee women so now alls that’s left is uggos and scammers

>>91271 I was THIS close to scoring a 1st date with ChubbyChiquita when they permanently banned her for supporting this one random girl who got banned for something completely retarded and unnecessary

>>91271 Wtf really? Why did they do that

>>91302 Like the comment above yours says, all the feedee’s were supporting some random girl and all got banned in the process.

This site used to fucking rip, honestly its not as bad as a lot of people on here make it out to be, its the easiest way to find big, attractive women in your area. Sure a lot of them are gross and do suck, and 2016-2022 was probably as good as it ever got, I definitely got like well over 30 hookups in 10 years with some of the fattest women you could ever concieve of. If you don't get pussy on feabie, it's simply a skill issue.

>>91307 I feel like they’re all fake and only want online feeders they refuse to meet In person.

I’m fucking permabanned. Fuck that website and fuck that it’s the only place to find fatties.

Ok so this is about Fantasy Feeder rather than Feabie but I figure it'll do to post it here. Back in March I got talking to this girl on FF who was about 400lbs at the time. Once we hit it off, she closed her account and we carried on talking on Discord. We eventually met in June and had a great time. We carried on talking afterwards, she apparently gained another 30lbs, and we were making plans to meet again in October (we live about 200 miles apart) but about 2 weeks ago she suddenly stopped responding to messages and I've got no idea what happened to her. Obviously I'm not going to post her name on here, but if I say she's 24, lives in Shropshire and has blonde curly hair and a knockout body, does anyone here a) know who I'm talking about and b) know if she's ok?

>>91377 Honestly unless youre strictly looking for ussbbws the regular dating apps can be pretty productive. Almost every woman over 400 that I've fucked was from tinder. Plus the same fatties that have a god complex on feabie are just normal fat girls in other apps. Its crazy how they switch up their demeanor

>>91411 Truth

>>91307 Agree, most of the whiners are from people who want fat chat hot fatties from a thousand miles away. If you are semi local or actually intend to fly out “hey I’m actually heading to [city] next month” or whatever, it is easy. They want to be fed or fucked, not boring thirsty dudes they get millions of messages from with no intention of real life meetup. Just keep an account to check new users in area once in awhile, and if none then log out and come back. Not worth d gaging for the “social media” or “online friends” aspect unless it’s just to lurk and roll your eyes at the losers.

>>91400 Hate to say it but the simplest explanation is that she decided she doesn't wanna meet you and she ghosted you. I had this happen once and it turned out she had a bf the entire time we were talking and just wanted to hoe around on the internet, and then when it got too "real" she decided to jet. f7604a

anyone been banned from feabie/been asked for verification before? Got a temporary ban and an email from them asking me to send them a verification selfie and my ID or I’ll get a permanent ban. I don’t even use it frequently at all. It’s not a phishing email, but I lowkey don’t feel comfortable sending my ID especially via email as that doesn’t feel secure…

>>91411 I've never had any luck on Tinder... got tired of swiping by thousands of ugly skinny chicks.

>>76837 >How do you guys have success on here? Money. I'll spare you 'dating theory'; the dudes who get hit on the most are probably the most visible, or reiterate 'community values' or hit on a bunch in DMs and make them fight each other like Toddfather/Stefan. If you want to avoid the 'fake it to make it' crap like above... "Money". Otherwise you're welcome to entertain every nervous/shy DM from a hottie and give it like 100-200 lines and think 'he/shes cool, maybe we should move to better DMs and they wont go crazy??'. The conversation should tell you fairly quickly, but the trajectory upward is different; its a site full of people who were picked on, please do not set expectations to "female CEO" levels. Do not set them incredibly high. >>91564 In the beginning Feabie was fairly relaxed, but then they forced phone verification and then earlier; banning more than one account at a single household. Earlier there were a lot of predators, anyone making 'call out sheets' or making warnings about them, also got banned. All my favourite users are on Ofans now in several discretionary wipes where X user got banned, 10 people stood up for her, then they got banned too. Or some misguided moderator thing where user mentions 'content' and that ends up being flagged for 7 days. >>82051 "Lesser men have tried, Stronger men have cried" Feedist.net was a thing for the shortest amount of time. I think the admin wasn't making enough money off of it quickly enough so it ended maybe in less than a year Also Feabie is not located at Stefans house please dont go to Pearadise expecting that.

>>91637 I honestly didn't know it was possible, but I have somehow managed to get the tinder algorithm to show me fat chicks far away instead of local skinny girls. I guess because I rejected all skinny girls and only liked fat ones. Not that it really matter since I dont get any matches anyways. Better to just go to bars and cold approach fatties.

>>91637 I tried Tinder as experiment too, if you swipe too much right or too much left you get completely invisible, even if you pay a subscription. Result after 2 months, not a single match or like, not even from fake accounts. Absolutely not recommended. In my area the app Lovoo (popular in German speaking area) works quite good, I got around 10-15 likes within 2-3 weeks, without paying any subscription, mainly from fat women, the advantage is you can see where the likes come from and search the profile on the radar + the profile picture is only slightly blurred, so quite easy to find out. WooPlus is also not bad here if you invest a premium subscription, sadly not much happening here in Austria but you can see there who has a premium subscription and who not. If you have one you mean it serious and women using the subscription too are definitely active there. Also there I got some likes. Don’t know about Feabie, I‘m permanently blocked there after failing phone verification multiple times, never got an SMS to verify my phone number and no one from the service helped me.

>>92130 Never heard of Lovoo but I'll check it out, no matter how it goes, polishing my high school german wouldn't be a terrible idea. I have a hard time believing anyone under 35 is using wooplus however but I'd love to be proven wrong.

>>91277 i think i would actually kill myself if this happened to me

To continue the tinder train, they have definitely changed some things because I'm only getting fat chicks now. I hate it, it's so addicting to just browse all of these fat chicks and I don't match with a single one.

Feabie really isn’t that bad if you’re not a incel. If you’re not a time waster and actually know how to talk to women you’ll be able to find someone nearby pretty quick. Iv been talking to this lady who’s only 23 mins from me. I knew I can’t risk fucking this up, so Iv been as human and honest as possible. She told me not to but I sent her £40 for a takeaway one night. This atleast shows I’m serious. And her reaction shows she isn’t just in it for the money. So next week when we meet I’ll be doing all sorts cos she’s deeply into feeling full. I have been “scammed” like there’s a few I sent money to for food and just got a video or shit responses that clearly ain’t legit. But there easy to spot. You can usually tell after the first few convos if there a money grabber. Like I say if you have a brain and are a human you’ll be fine.

>>92986 I lolled so hard at this... >Feabie's fine if you're not an incel and know how to talk to women >I send women money so that they take me seriously Also >I've been scammed several times >Scammers are really easy to spot though I checked into Feabie last week just to see what it's like and the quality of users seems to be worse than ever. Literally everyone in my UK-wide search was ugly, mental, or a scammer/beggar. No exceptions. Also, no one who was really that big. And FWIW I have a feedee who I met online, she's 400+ and I haven't had to pay her a penny other than obviously buying food when we meet. Girls like her are one in a million though.

>>92986 Also 23 minutes is so weirdly specific

>>93025 You clearly don’t get it. If your on feabie amongst thousands of retarded men the girls are gonna be cautious and naturally not trust anyone. I don’t just send them money randomly. But if you serious about wanting a girlfriend who gains weight then it’s a pretty good move to buy them food…. You can’t tell me it don’t make them trust you that little bit more… not sure how paying for something is a incel move? That’s what men have done forever And okay I guess I sound contradictory about scammers but I’m just more of a gambler I guess. Like some times it’s been real obvious but I think why not it’s just 30£. What I was tryna say if you wanna be super cautious you can navigate around them pretty easily. And the guy saying no one’s that big?? There’s so many women over 350/400lb on there. If you want much bigger then that you’ll struggle anywhere in Europe?

>>93080 The way I see it, Feabie isn't really that different from other hookup apps. Tinder etc are also full of retarded men being creepy to hot women, but Feabie is the only site where the women seem to get away with demanding money. I guess it works for you though so fair play. Maybe I'm the retarded one because I cannot for the life of me find anyone on there who's a) English b) over 280lbs and c) available. Still, I've got my feedee so I'm happy.

I've had zero success on Feabie in anything beyond chatting. Been at it for years. I think the earlier poster is right that there are tons of socially inept guys on the site, so I'm sure the girls are very cautious and probably ignore 99% of their messages. It's also frustrating there are so many scammers making it worse. Still fun to chat there though when you do find a girl who will actually respond. Not gonna lie I'm kinda obsessed with CozyCat right now. I haven't seen her anywhere else. Wish she'd do modeling! For dating or hookups Tinder and meeting someone irl is probably best.

>>88955 >woman lel

>>93088 >>93080 You guys don’t get it either but you’re right about 1 thing, there are thousands of men on feabie trying to score a small number or non sex workers. I wanted feabie to work, and I made it work for me. You have to be able to stand out above 99.9% of men. It’s just that, once I had done that it was as 10x easier to get with kinky fat chicks from tinder and hinge. Also the women on feabie were crazy, abusive and frankly rarely more of a feedee than the women I’ve met in real life. The women on feabie are autistic and sex workers, normie women are too busy getting drunk and getting their backs broke to go online horny. Women don’t know what kinks they have and until an attractive man grabs their gut they have no clue if they like it.

>>93138 Is the attached woman supposed to be attractive or not? She’s fat but come on bro that face belongs in a Wax museum. But that’s feabie in a nutshell, mid women who found a sympathetic market of losers who can’t even score fat women.

>>93080 >I don’t just send them money randomly. But if you serious about wanting a girlfriend who gains weight then it’s a pretty good move to buy them food…. You can’t tell me it don’t make them trust you that little bit more… not sure how paying for something is a incel move? Idk I just post a shirtless torso pic and then trade photos in Snapchat. Are you like, ugly? God what’s it like to the fall in love with the stripper you’re paying to dance.

Has anyone had any luck meeting people off feabie in Australia?

>>93445 That really only works if your “classically handsome”.