I've been using feabie for nearly 10 years
If ur a fella and the sweetest woman messages you with a compliment on one of your photos and shes your type, do everything in your power to date that woman and possibly marry her, She is not the norm and a diamond; Otherwise feabie is a shitsandwich, where having money unlocks everything you could possibly imagine, and everyone else on it is absolutely rotten. The sooner you see what it really is: A WEBSITE, and not the shades of 'community' and 'inclusion' and all the crap they've colored it as, you will be far better off at figuring this out
A lot of women on Feabie are dumb. Not just the women but the guys too? But the former have a really strange expectation for some of the guys, and lack the ability to express that properly in a big way, and a lot of them are hustling.
Feabie is awful because money is the cheat code there and if you don't have it you're stuck interacting with lowlifes, hoodrats, poor personalties etc. Getting someone dinner isn't the only way to interact but my god; they react far better than sending a small interaction like "Hi"; none of the women are going to talk to you with "Hi". The majority want -- "Hi, can I buy you dinner". So it should stand to reason YOU WANT TO STAY AWAY FROM THE MAJORIITY OF PEOPLE ON THIS WEBSITE.
I don't like Feabie, I don't like the people on there, the tone of the site has changed in 10 years from a haven for fat people AND "the fetishes" to mostly a site about fat people; most of the core OG members have been banned, quit, or are also Hustling on twitter, socialmedia etc.
The worst part is that the majority of regular users have done so much to alienate newcomers they become apart of this groupthink chain, and none of them are being bought dinner by anyone, or for anyone -- They just pick apart new users and comments like birds on a wire looking for worms cuz they have nothing else to do.
Try to find a new user who hasn't been transformed by the Feabie Incel (Male and Female) cult and get the fuck off. There is no community, just a bunch of pissants who believe they're better than everyone else.