/gen/ - General Discussion

i kinda did it, we were both feedees and feeders to eachother. Both started pretty skinny and wanted eachother to get "thicker" but not like huge but 5 years later both put on around 150 pounds each, id say its the easiest to get carried away when your both gaining/if she is feeding you and she is rlly enjoying it its gonna be hard to get her to stop so if your partner is rlly into it you can put your foot down and tell them you dont want to get that big or just accept it

My past gf liked how big my thighs were and noted that I was starting to get a belly (this was when my metabolism was starting to slip, so I couldn't just eat whatever). My current gf prefers me fat and we both want the other to gain so we've enabled eachother. I didn't intend to get fat but her cooking and baking (as well as grabbing my belly in sex and calling me her fat piggy) have made me happy to gain more. She also keeps squeezing my butt and thighs so I guess she likes how bottom heavy I am. Right now I'm 117kgs (1.78m) and she's 96kgs (1.6m). I'm happy to gain more but I may call it at 130kgs (if I can). As for how we met, it was with tinder as that's the only way a sperg who doesn't know how to talk to strangers can meet girls. Just be honest and at least you'll have a chance of meeting the right girl. It may take a while but if it's to happen at all it must be done with sincerity.

>>84558 Did you mention feederism on your profile?

>>84558 You clearly have no self-respect.

>>84565 i mean judging ppl for what they get off to is so pointless unless its like illegal or something bc everyone has diffrent kinks and most couples do "werid" stuff and just dont tell ppl

I would have to say that I have always dated women who were attracted to me in spite of my size rather than because of it. I don't mean to say that they thought I was physically unattractive, but just that it was not something that turned them on. Much to my chagrin. I would have loved to meet a woman who was turned on by my body and worshipped it like I do an SSBBW. (Hell, I would have been a willing feedee if someone had wanted it.)

>>84563 No, I just had a brief description about myself and my hobbies along with the question "if we match, tell me your favourite war crimes". It was a good way of filtering out women who lacked a sense of humour. I wasn't looking for a feeder or a feedee but I was direct about preferring plump girls as I didn't want to date for months only to be outed as a chubby chaser and have a messy breakup. Save hers are your time and be honest from the start. My current gf was already plump when we met and her eating rubbed of on me, so now we're both enablers. The mutual gain sprang naturally without us discussing it.

>>84565 > You clearly have no self-respect. Exactly that’s why he’s getting laid and your dick is dry. Cause you got so much more self respects

>>84613 Cope all you want but in-shape guys can pull a far higher percentage of fat women than fat guys can.

>>84663 That's partly because a lot of fat girls are also hypocrites. "Body positivity and acceptance for me but not for thee". They just sugar coat it with phrases like "Into 'body contrast' "so they can absolve themselves of acting as shitty as they claim 'average dudebros' are who overlook them just because they're fat. They act the same as the dudes they hate lol

>>85806 Fat girls can have preferences too lol its not a crime for then to not like fat guys. Literally everyone is allowed to prefer certain body types... doesnt mean their preferences have to like them back.

>>85811 You are 100% right. As a husky dude, it sucks when an SSBBW rejects me because I am too fat. On the other hand, who am I to criticize when I would reject a 300 lb woman as too thin?

>>85811 That was part of my point. Girl says she doesn't like fat guys = everyone is supportive and says people just like what they like, valid kween. But a guy tells that same fat girl he doesn't like fat girls and instead gets dogpiled, called a bodyshaming incel/ shallow etc. My issue is that they want to have their own preferences but name call when someone else has preferences too. Of course everyone is entitled to their preferences, I just wish they wouldn't flip out on gymbros who say they don't like fat girls and then turn around and act the same way to others.

>>85883 I can tell you don't get much IRL social interactions if you think this is how it actually goes down. Touch grass my friend, please. Youve built a false reality for yourself in your isolation

>>85886 100% not how the real world works. Funny and confident fat guys get more butt than a toilet and pull women in all weight classes. These guys think being a fat loser is the same thing, and because no one can improve their small dick energy people focus on the weight. Plenty of fat girls do like fit men, plenty don’t, it’s not a scandal that women who are fat but otherwise normal have normie preferences, in fact it’s why half the feedees exist in the first place to get with a fit feeder. Complaining about fat women being able to pull their preferences makes it clear how much a sandy vagina fat boy loser this guy is (same one from the other threads?)

>>85806 >Women are hypocrites Tell me something I don't know genius, and that doesn't change the fact that fat guys consistently score less than fit men. Either deal with it and get in shape or kill yourself

I'm the husband to a model on OF called "Feedmemommy" We've been married for 2 years, we met on feabie and it was kind of a roller coaster. Things moved fast and we haven't looked back. I've gained about 150 pounds since we got together with no end in sight.

I wouldn't say "dated", but I used to know a couple women online from the community who were into big guys Honestly, it was pretty gratifying. I've never had anyone be so attracted to my size or even the little things like how my old chair would creak as I moved around during VC. She was a gainer herself and would often encourage me to try it, which I eventually did and kept up with for a while after falling out of contact with her I still think about her from time to time, even if I haven't kept up with the gaining myself lately

>>84538 I’ve definitely dated a few individuals that had feedist tendencies all of those relationships felt like each was sort of navigating those tendencies as best they could also or something

No. Women hate fat men. Especially fat women.