/gen/ - General Discussion

bro id say you shouldnt over think about one girl on a dating site and its normal to not want to send nudes to a girl you just met

Also, be careful because something are scammer. Sometime they will send pic or video but they get it from random site. They want your Pic so they can either extort you for money. So never send Pic like that because that is a tool they can use.

Whatever happened to meeting in person before exchanging nude pics? This new generation of niggas are dumber than ever...

>>>>85776 i didn't send her nothing i've still been left on delivered

>>85777 Here's a solution: Go out and actually meet someone instead of messing around with dating apps. How the fuck are you 6'5, black and still can't get a date?

>>85782 You forgot virgin

> i’m like 6'5, 235 lbs rn around 23% bf That’s way too fat and weak to be pulling women online. Also you need to stop being such a neurotic people pleasing loser. You’re scaring them off by texting them like their gay best freind and getting obsessed with how quickly she responds. Low value behavior. Set up a IRL coffee or weeknight bar date and see if you have chemistry.

>>85782 >>85789 I can get dates, It's kinda easier on apps tho, I don't really know how i'd approach a girl irl, most of my irl dates have been from girls i've already known through groups and shi >>85800 Damn, I'm not weak, I can squat 3pl, I'm not obsessed, I just blocked her, think it might have been a scammer idk really

>>85807 > Damn, I'm not weak, I can squat 3pl, I'm not obsessed, I just blocked her, think it might have been a scammer idk really Not only are you a soft body with bitch tits and no visible abs, you’ve also got a soft mind. This sort of neurotic bitching because you got called a fat boy with no game isn’t going to help you stop being a fat boy that cry’s on bbwchan because the random woman he doesn’t know isn’t responding to his texts. You’re not fooling anyone big boy. Blocking her just looks like a bigger bitch move than just forgetting about it.

>>85812 why are u so angry? bro's just asking for advice.

>>85819 The last place that anyone should be asking life advice from is a chan site.

>>85819 Not really angry just seems like lil bro needed a reality check or else he will throw away his life being a bitch.

>>85812 >>85831 ok anons what's your advice?

>>85842 Stop being delusional. Then follow step 1 (be attractive) step 2 (don’t act unattractive). Step 1: lose weight, fix style, get abs and biceps Step 2: stop being an insecure loser (this may be a bridge too far considering how poorly he took a Chan member calling his-obese-self a soft fat boy)

>>85849 Well, point proven about him being a delusion and insecure little bitch.

good thing is that you avoided a trap. any freaked out bitch that tells you send a nude first very high chance they're going to sextort you also, good thing you fumbled. your first time should not be with someone like this. you think you fumbled now, wait til a fat ass freaky bitch finishes you in 20 seconds and now youre gonna spend the rest of young adult life chasing that high again, getting even more frustrated that she's not picking up anymore because she knows you fuck like it's your first time.

>>85979 I'll be better >>86034 Thanks, anon

>>86145 Only coming down hard on you because you’ve got potential. You’re tall with a strong core/legs. That’s good. Fix the diet (cut the carbs, up the protein and fiber) and add enough arm/back workouts to the regimen to not look bottom heavy. Next up is getting over the attachment issues. Destroy your ability to pair bond. Stay busy; and by that I mean fucking (use protection). They might not be as good looking or smart as the women you want to date but regularly getting action will make you act like less of an insecure clinger. When you meet a woman you want to date date: get from match to date quickly without a ton of texting (takes away from the first date convo, it’s awkward to meet someone for the first time when you know them intimately anyway). You won’t become someone’s #1 priority for texting in a day or a week. She’s got other dudes she’s talking to and will get turned off if you don’t act the same. Yes, I hate the game; yes this is dehumanizing. Yes it’s the best way to find a caring considerate partner long term. You don’t sound like a real idiot, get a degree, associates in the trades is a good life if you’re no Einstein. Earning potential is important to women.

>>86220 thanks anon i just graduated college, if i ever do ascend i'll probably make an update post here, until then fren

I want to just share my story here to give people perspective and also to give ideas to people who are more conventional when it comes to dating. I get not wanting to share a dick pic so soon because a hardline rule for me is i dont share my genitalia at all. if we are in bed, its fully clothed i found a way to consistently give girls orgasms through belly rubs and i feel like everyone having regular missionary sex whos into this kink needs to hear that its possible to do that so they can tell the people in the back that dont realize they dont want that kind of sex that theres more then one way to fuck i feel weird going on these dating apps because i just want to fuck women my way so the only way that works for me in finding people is going to comic conventions, bdsm munches and just having the word of mouth being polyamarous where now people brag to their friends of my skills and i can help serve a very specific niche i think that dating apps get really strict about unspoken "rules of engagement" because of this weird isolation that the screen gives. its alot of very frequent very quick meets that often leave everyone feeling empty and not really giving way for a true "chance" if you take a slower route to find people in real life and sending signals that they are apart of your niche you will be surprised how many freaks are out here willing to let you touch their tummy.

>>87921 >i found a way to consistently give girls orgasms through belly rubs and i feel like everyone having regular missionary sex whos into this kink needs to hear that its possible to do that so they can tell the people in the back that dont realize they dont want that kind of sex that theres more then one way to fuck How is it that you do that?

>>87927 The trick is some lady’s can get stimulation from the pressure of a full stomach. It’s part biology part psychology

>>87931 that can be a part of it but not even all the girls ive "fucked" are into that, just my two feedee girlfriends who play into my burping kink and especially like belly button play. with bellybutton stuff it can activate the same fullness and insides shifting feeling and they tell me its a full body experience when i do it right, now with moving the belly button too much i try to be gentle with rotations because sometimes the skin clicks and folds onto itself in a way that stings and pinches and so thrusting motions and small pulses are safer for beginners to not hurt them. with belly button play its mostly hot/cold reading what the other person wants because i dont like when its touched on me. also belly buttons make for a new "hole" so if they have problems with their genitalia you can "eat her out" right there in the tummy and it can really be comforting and safe with how alot of those actions and technique mirror what you would do with a pussy. >>87927 okay so i can talk about this more and answer questions but ive been trying to learn to talk about this in more of a tutorial style because i feel like of all the porn ive looked at it never captured alot of the tecniques i really just coined myself interacting with a large varriaty of women and still somehow figureing out how to push their buttons no matter what genitalia they have, how skinny they where or what kind of fat they have on them. one girl in particular had a botched c section so she said that her entire genitalia felt numb and sex was awful past that point and then i would grab her massive folds and shake them around and it let her have orgasms even fully clothed and standing when we have two seconds leaveing the car to have a "quick fuck" so for basics that i think are fairly consistent there are some pressure points that really matter. so i drew some crude ms paint drawings that give a general outline of what points people tend to like, now the orange is good for fishing out a good spot for them. you CAN grab at these spots but in this example this is where i know all the long presses work. other places in the body especially where fat sits nicely on a place that would otherwise be bone like love handles are good to grab but that is extremely dependent on size and if it is visceral fat vs subcutaneous fat and how supple the skin is to even be grabbed. so going back to my little demonstration we have the orange lines and they thin out right before touching the genitalia because remember, we are not touching any of that in this tecnique, this is going to go around it so right below the belly button you are going to trace where hair just stops forming, if you touch hair you are too low and none of the long presses are going to be that far into the low intestines anyway without it being more of a kneeing motion. what you want to do is move your hand from that low point and find the dip where the hip bone meets the leg and THATS the real hold spot. you can dig your fingers in there like you would treat a pussy or rim an asshole or you can go up to the next spot that is good to just press and hold where the hip bone has about an inch of distance between the rib cage. see these blue dots i drew, thats what im talking about. now the one dot on the side is different from the dot on the back. the pressure point on the back i figured out myself when feeling sick one day and it turns out it affects the stomach alot more then you would think. the spot on the back can feel good even with a skinny empty stomach but ESPECIALLY gets activated when she is bloated. finding where to place your fingers is critical and might take some trial and error but once you find that spot on the back in between the ribs you are golden.

>>87921 how would u recommend meeting women irl, anon. Thanks in advice.

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