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why do i always keep fumbling on dating sites (wooplus, fb dating, hinge) fumbleanon 05/15/2026 (Fri) 00:28:00 Id:6a17d8 No. 85767
hey everyone, longtime lurker, first post here. started talking to picrel about an hour ago off WooPlus. convo started normal then got casual then suddenly went completely off the rails despite her innocent profile she’s lowkey a total freak. asking about positions, what i’m into, all that. thing is i think i fumbled. she said she’d send all her nudes and shit if i sent a dick pic first. i’m pretty decent sized down there so it’s not even insecurity really, i just don’t feel comfortable sending pics like that to some girl i met the same day. what’s bothering me is this keeps happening. in the last month i’ve probably had like 4 different girls where i could’ve fucked something up somehow and i either flake, hesitate, or mess it up right when things start getting real. i’m still a virgin btw so maybe that’s part of it. now she’s replying slower and it’s been like 20 mins since the last message and my brain is already convincing me i blew it fuck man her ass is so thick too, it’s weird because her profile looks innocent as hell but she’s a total freak once you start talking to her. what should i do? i’m like 6'5, 235 lbs rn around 23% bf if that matters. I normally got an afro but got it cut off because of some family gathering thing.
bro id say you shouldnt over think about one girl on a dating site and its normal to not want to send nudes to a girl you just met
Also, be careful because something are scammer. Sometime they will send pic or video but they get it from random site. They want your Pic so they can either extort you for money. So never send Pic like that because that is a tool they can use.
Whatever happened to meeting in person before exchanging nude pics? This new generation of niggas are dumber than ever...
>>>>85776 i didn't send her nothing i've still been left on delivered
>>85777 Here's a solution: Go out and actually meet someone instead of messing around with dating apps. How the fuck are you 6'5, black and still can't get a date?
>>85782 You forgot virgin
> i’m like 6'5, 235 lbs rn around 23% bf That’s way too fat and weak to be pulling women online. Also you need to stop being such a neurotic people pleasing loser. You’re scaring them off by texting them like their gay best freind and getting obsessed with how quickly she responds. Low value behavior. Set up a IRL coffee or weeknight bar date and see if you have chemistry.
>>85782 >>85789 I can get dates, It's kinda easier on apps tho, I don't really know how i'd approach a girl irl, most of my irl dates have been from girls i've already known through groups and shi >>85800 Damn, I'm not weak, I can squat 3pl, I'm not obsessed, I just blocked her, think it might have been a scammer idk really
>>85807 > Damn, I'm not weak, I can squat 3pl, I'm not obsessed, I just blocked her, think it might have been a scammer idk really Not only are you a soft body with bitch tits and no visible abs, you’ve also got a soft mind. This sort of neurotic bitching because you got called a fat boy with no game isn’t going to help you stop being a fat boy that cry’s on bbwchan because the random woman he doesn’t know isn’t responding to his texts. You’re not fooling anyone big boy. Blocking her just looks like a bigger bitch move than just forgetting about it.
>>85812 why are u so angry? bro's just asking for advice.
>>85819 The last place that anyone should be asking life advice from is a chan site.
>>85819 Not really angry just seems like lil bro needed a reality check or else he will throw away his life being a bitch.
>>85812 >>85831 ok anons what's your advice?

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