Hey guys, as the title says, I scored a feedee and need advice. She is already fat, around 270 and 5'4, dosen't care about diet stuff or how much she eats, just accepted the gain. She probs has some hormonal problems that made her gain extremly easy, so she just accepted the gain one day and almost gained 60 pounds by herself, in a year. 10 since I came in the picture. Problem is, I don't want to encourage binging or excesive eating, because most of the time she gets body concious. I would also like some advice on how to make her feel better about her body (ofc i tell her day and night how sexy she is, but it dosen't stick in her head when she feels guilty over food).
We moved in together and settled on making her gain without a limit. Most of the time i cook for her, i tend to deep fry and make heavy foods, but i bet it's not a good long term solution for her digestion. I can't eat that daily, I bet she wont forever, so I need some advice on fattening recipes that are not bad long-term. Also she is lactose intolerant. I tend to use cheese, but sparingly. I did the basics, snacks everywhere in the house, fridge stocked 24/7.
As for her image, I bet the eating and gaining is purely sexual. She enjoys beeing fed and pampered, also loves the attention on her fat. I pushed her to feel good about her body and not to hide her belly in fear of judgement. I don't want her to end up feeling very bad for her gain one day, as she already feels bad for eating and gaining a lot, half the time after eating a big meal. How do I make her not feel so wrong about her pleasures and desires?