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Advice on fattening up my gf Anonymous 06/04/2026 (Thu) 13:03:24 Id:0d0391 No. 87336
Hey guys, as the title says, I scored a feedee and need advice. She is already fat, around 270 and 5'4, dosen't care about diet stuff or how much she eats, just accepted the gain. She probs has some hormonal problems that made her gain extremly easy, so she just accepted the gain one day and almost gained 60 pounds by herself, in a year. 10 since I came in the picture. Problem is, I don't want to encourage binging or excesive eating, because most of the time she gets body concious. I would also like some advice on how to make her feel better about her body (ofc i tell her day and night how sexy she is, but it dosen't stick in her head when she feels guilty over food). We moved in together and settled on making her gain without a limit. Most of the time i cook for her, i tend to deep fry and make heavy foods, but i bet it's not a good long term solution for her digestion. I can't eat that daily, I bet she wont forever, so I need some advice on fattening recipes that are not bad long-term. Also she is lactose intolerant. I tend to use cheese, but sparingly. I did the basics, snacks everywhere in the house, fridge stocked 24/7. As for her image, I bet the eating and gaining is purely sexual. She enjoys beeing fed and pampered, also loves the attention on her fat. I pushed her to feel good about her body and not to hide her belly in fear of judgement. I don't want her to end up feeling very bad for her gain one day, as she already feels bad for eating and gaining a lot, half the time after eating a big meal. How do I make her not feel so wrong about her pleasures and desires?
Anonymous 06/05/2026 (Fri) 17:18:36 Id:199e2d No. 87415
Keep pampering her and show that you love her fat by keep telling her that you do, touch and play with her belly, etc. If a woman likes you, then she'll grow to be fine and even like herself. 2 of my past girlfriends (both chubby) were like that; both initially hated their bodies and grew to either feel neutral or even like their bodies. Most women hate their bodies, skinny or fat, and part of them liking themselves is if their man likes their bodies. Not just for sexual purposes, but truly love it. Worry about the feeding and fattening later, and focus on getting her to be fine and actually like aspects of herself. If she knows you love it, you can condition her into loving it too.
Anonymous 06/05/2026 (Fri) 23:02:57 Id:0d0391 No. 87446
>>87415 Good point, she seems to like it a lot more when I point out her gain or how much I like it, instead of her telling me how large she feels. Probably the constant change dosen't make the adjustment easier, reinforcement could make the accepting part easier
Anonymous 06/06/2026 (Sat) 02:22:20 Id:d6c7e1 No. 87459
>>87415 Question, ive recently gotten into a relationship, and my GF has been okay with gaining weight for me She's tried to gain a bit of weight, but shes mainly stuck at 146lbs for about a couple months now. She's not really in a position to eat a lot of food, and she tends to have a very small appetite, but shes said she gains weight quickly I mainly wanted to ask, should I just wait until I can move in with her to really push her into the fetish? She's okay with it now, but shes slowly accepting bits of it, recently shes become a very big fan of tummy rubs, and Ive been saying how she can get bigger during sex, though that may be too much right now. Whaddu guys think I should do to help her gain weight at her own pace?
Anonymous 06/06/2026 (Sat) 05:14:15 Id:199e2d No. 87474
>>87446 Whenever she mentions it herself, try to make it a positive without pointing out the obvious. It's good that she likes that you point stuff out to her, she just need that reinforcement often enough for her to be okay with it. >>87459 You could try to build her appetite up. She'll either be a stuffer (eats large portions at a time) or a grazer (eats small portions throughout the day). Grazer way seems to be good to start, just send her random shit to eat on and support her if she can't do it herself. For the most part let her go at her own pace to not be too controlling, but definitely try to contribute into buying her food every now and then.
Anonymous 06/06/2026 (Sat) 07:27:44 Id:fec65e No. 87478
>>87474 True, most people that gain a shit ton of weight are grazers, though if you/your gf want her to gain weight slower maybe try having her get into more of a stuffing eating routine, though that'll have her gain weight either way, even if it's less. If you don't want her to get into full blown stuffings just have her eat one less meal a day, but make it a bigger meal.
Anonymous 06/06/2026 (Sat) 11:25:04 Id:909124 No. 87483
>>87474 >>87478 She is defo a grazer and likes the constant food and pressure to eat, plus she likes to be dominated via food and pushed to gain. She just has moments after eating a lot where she thinks she will be more and more judged by the weight. Ofc it's in her head most of the time but still, I don't want her to rollercoaster through opinions about her body that often. She eats around 4000 calories a day, fantasizes about becoming imobile, then she has a reality check and sees how fat she gets and starts to panic a bit.
Anonymous 06/06/2026 (Sat) 11:53:16 Id:d6c7e1 No. 87487
>>87474 Thank you! What sorts of stuff should I get her to eat throughout the day? And how much? She really likes snacks, but im a little concerned if she won't have an appetite for dinner or lunch. Also, she says she'd maybe wanna get to 200lbs, but she originally said that she'd only wanna get to 175lbs, but she really wants to just play it be ear based on how she looks. Do you guys think she'll want to end up gaining 200+lbs? She seems to be really getting into the idea of being soft and comfy
Anonymous 06/06/2026 (Sat) 11:59:14 Id:d6c7e1 No. 87489
>>87478 My GF is a pretty picky eater along with having a very small appetite, so im not sure how im gonna introduce her to stuffing I'd like her to gain at a consistent rate, shes been stuck at 145 to 150lbs for a while now. And while I dont care that much because I do love her, I just wish she was a bit more thick
Anonymous 06/07/2026 (Sun) 01:02:26 Id:0b411a No. 87537
>>87489 Stuffing once in a while isn't going to do much, aside from being really hot to see. The real important thing is making sure she's on a daily calorie surplus. Just make sure she's eating enough so that her intake is over 2200-2500 calories and the pounds will start coming quickly. If she's got a low appetite and barely breaks even with calories then a stuffing once in a while isn't going to do much. A consistent calorie surplus is. I make sure mine's in a surplus every day and she's gained 50lbs over the past three years.
Anonymous 06/07/2026 (Sun) 15:16:49 Id:1cc2f6 No. 87566
I’ve noticed anxiety about it usually comes from a couple key things, for us it was comments from family, the scale number and her not fitting into clothes she likes. She already cut off toxic people, we threw the scale out, and we only buy stretchy clothes. Since doing all this she went from 190 back up to 240. I think it’s important to enjoy the journey of pampering her, focusing on goals can make it be not fun anymore. Make her O only when she’s really full.
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