1- Juggling your diet with hers. My wife is about 5'6" and 225lbs, so not huge, but definitely fat. I'm 5'11" and 180. I'm honestly finding it hard to give her access to the dense high calorie diet she needs without gaining weight myself. She's not really an intentional gainer; she just doesn't watch what she eats or exercise. One of my strategies is to bring her treats like bagels, donuts, or candy after I've been working out, and imply I had something myself when actually my breakfast was a banana and black coffee. Another good trick is liquid calories, my wife drinks two huge sugary coffees every morning which is a solid 700 calories every day. I'll make sure she gets a large soda as well whenever I'm picking up food for us to eat. Finally, a good trick is just staying active yourself. Other than these daily indulgences (which are a lot), she always gets the same portions I do of every meal. When I burn an extra 500 calories at the gym or on a walk and she stays home on the couch, that's equivalent to her eating that much more. 2- How physically large they are I feel like this was something I didn't realize when watching porn while I was younger. Like, you're into the sexy shape of these women, or watching them eat or whatever, but it's astonishing to actually feel their physical size in person. My wife is not especially big obviously, but even still- when she's on top during sex, I can't even reach my hands all the way around her ass or waist. I think a lot of us fantasize about sleeping with these giant 400+ pound women, but you forget how big even a "small" fat woman is. I'm curious to hear from others about living with fat women; what were some experiences that surprised you? How have you adjusted your lifestyle to accomodate hers? Pictured- not my wife lol, just Dors Feline, my first BBW crush.