/gen/ - General Discussion

My brother is into fat chicks I know this for a fact, so maybe there is some genetic component but it could also be simply because we grew up in the same household. Probably worth mentioning none of the prominent women in either of our lives are fat in any way. I have a suspicion my cousin on my dads side is into it as his girlfriend is pretty fat but nothing concrete. Overall I'd lean on it being a mix of both, where certain people are probably more predisposed to this fetish, as basically everything about you is determined by your genetics in some sense, however someone's Circumstances can push someone towards feederism also.

>>88858 Did you both grow up with the same mamma? Just saying I think nice fat moms, or mean skinny moms are more of a common denominator than genes.

A topic i can weigh in on haha! So i have a sister who i suspect is also into this fetish, but i have obviously never asked because thats just really weird. But like 5 years ago she started dating her boyfriend, and since they have gotten together she absolutely ballooned. Like she used to be in like decent shape, but is now obese. Seeing that unfold in front of me was pretty wild, and i have a very big suspicion she is a gainer/feedee and her bf is a feeder.

The existence of Jamaicans proves undoubtably that it is indeed heritable

I have had a lifelong attraction for the extreme side of obesity. And as far as I know I am the only one in my family with this attraction. Every other guy on both sides of my family have only been with thin women and I am the only one with a fat wife.

this would be an interesting question for people who study genetics, but anonymous anecdotes are cool too.

My sister is a model so probably yes.

>>88913 No way! How big of a model is she? (both in popularity and size)

>>88899 Same same

>>88855 Autists get dissilusioned with society easily, therefore predisposed to fetish related to taboo shit

>>88936 I think she was more popular a couple years ago, averages a few thousand views on her curvage files, she’s moderately active on curvage not sure about OF I don’t really wanna see lol. If I had to estimate she’s in the 280+ range based on shorter height.

>>89030 Bro what. I wanna know more 😂

>>89092 What would you like to know and I’ll see if I can answer lol

>>89254 Do you think she really likes this stuff or is just cashing in? Does she have a bf?

I once dug around my first cousin once removeds closet and found bbw mags. Later in life I found he was following bbw pages on facebook lol but no blood relation. I have a sister though who I think likes fat men

>>88855 >being a fatty fucker and a sperg The answer is no, and you remind of an anon from waaaaay the hell back in '24 who clogged an entire civil discussion thread on /draw/ by going on and on about how Whites are predisposed to developing autism. When it was pointed out that vaccines cause tism, he lost his shit in the funniest way possible.

>>89291 I myself am something of an autism denialist. "Oh the kinda awkward guy who's really into stuff is the same as a shit-tossing retard" - boil psychologists alive

>>89273 Yes she has a bf. As to the other question I’m not too sure, I haven’t consumed any of her content but generally speaking to how I know her she really likes money so at least partially cashing in I’d say. I don’t think she’s actively gained any meaningful weight in a couple years so who knows

>>89308 How popular would you say she is on curvage? That shit is so over saturated now

>>89306 Schools are given bonuses for having more special kids, hence there was a metric shitton of incorrect diagnosis starting with the turn of the millennium. If a teacher says someone is autistic and the guy isn't going on and on about bionicle/mlp/pokemon/sonic/transformers, that teacher is a lying faggot

>>88855 >humans evolve to know that thicker = success >humans evolve an inate fear of (unnaturally) pale + skeletal = bad/scary >idiots still go "hmmm could this be...genetic?" we literally have ancient pottery depicting this

>>88907 So afraid of blood, immutability, fate. An anxious soul holding back the tide.

>>89310 She doesn’t post all too much, lately once ever two months. She has around 8k followers on there but her views declined to around 5k on her files and such, not sure how curvage works but I don’t think views equate to purchases

>>89386 That’s pretty good for there tbh. Have you got or viewed any of her vids? Be honest 🤣

>>89402 Skimmed through a comp on YouTube one time which is how I figured out she was a model, other than browsing her curvage files out of curiosity nah I haven’t. Kinda grosses me out tbh but I’m sure you guys would enjoy lol

>>88882 It is not because she became obese that she is in the fetish. Many women gain relationship weight and 99.99999% of the time that is not because they like it and even less because they wanted it.

I certainly did not inherit it from my father. Even at his old age when he first had a laptop but did not know how to hide his search history, I found out he only looked up skinny girls. My brother has mainly been with skinny girls as well. His wife used to be a bit chubbier, lost 20kg and became really skinny. He never compqlained about that or tried to reverse it. Now after his divorce he is back with someone a bit chubbier as well, but I wouldn’t call him a FA. I don’t think it is inherited. I think it is probably something relatively insignificant that happened in our early childhood that triggered something. My mother was skinny, but maybe something bad happened and I was comforted by a big soft teacher or carer or so that triggered something? No idea, but I think it is something along these. lines.

>>89315 Defeated by Lord Heroin Chic

From my experience, the whole feederism thing is mainly developed from your family. It's pretty easy to point out that a chubby chaser has a fat parent or a fat family member that influenced their love for fat. It's something you grow up with and becomes normalised. It's normal for your mom to be fat, so you will probably copy that in your adult life. Plus if you have a fat parent, chances are the other one isn't helping them stay fit. For example, my mom is the huge one, and gives a lot of importance to food and preparing it, so naturaly i like fatties and consider feeding them close to a love language. It's how i show i love them. On the other hand i am on the spectrum and i do think a fat belly is easily the best stress toy to have around. I am simply dependent to having a huge chick, I have not tried living more than a few weeks without a huge girl for 3-4 years. Another example is my actual gf. Huge porker, my first really dedicated feedee. She gains like she breathes. Almost 300 pounds, the biggest i ever had, (or seen) around here. Her grandparents always spoiled her rotten with so much food from an early age, she inevitably made a loving connection with food and stuffing excesively. But her mom (even if she is a bit chunky and probably the catalyst for the fatty gene in my gf) hates with a burning passion fatness, and tried all she could to prevent my gf's inevitable balooning. So, she started eating in secret and binging, forming a taboo and risque side to eating, so it became something she deeply enjoyed eroticaly in secret. (She gets very wet when i stuff her) All this text just to point out that her little sister goes on the same path. She is smaller but started to get chunky the same way, has a bf who likes her like that and started talking with my gf about gaining and liking the fatness. So I consider this to be heritable, just thinking about the posibility of me having kids with my gf, they will grow up with a huge mom who eats all day from pops hand and moans a bit. I think they will grow up to love fats too.

Idk if it was the same for anyone else, but i think mine came from seeing pregnant women when I was young. I have a decent amount of very specific memories of just being unable to look away from some massive pregnant chick. Somewhere along the line it morphed into just obese women (still finding pregnancy to be incredibly hot ofc). Actually now that I think about it, the switch from pregnancy to obesity probably probably came from a middle school teacher, mid twenties, probably 400 pounds, with a giant apron belly she’d always tuck into stretchy jeans. Definitely not genetic though, as far as I know none of my brothers have it, they’re all dating skinny chicks, and both of my parents are health nuts.

For me, personally, no, no family members I've aware had an appreciation for fat. I'm also not on a spectrum that I'm aware of. For me, I was shy, awkward, nerdy little kid and the first girl I ever dated seriously was probably 250. She was the first woman who ever just actually embraced me for who I was at that point. We'd go to movies and she'd put her arm around MY shoulders. She would be the big spoon when cuddling. She did literally everything she could to make me absolutely adore the touch of a big woman. And that was just.. it? I never looked back. I'm 40 years old now. I've been running this site for 10 years, but I've been into fatties since I was 15-16, maybe as bit earlier but didn't know it. So for me, nah, nothing genetic, nothing familial, I just had an amazing experience with a fat girl when I was young and I've been chasing that dragon ever since.

My mom was huge. I think at her big she must have been well over 500 if not pushing 600 lbs. Being with and around her a lot really, really, really shaped my taste in women. And when she was at her biggest and really started having issues too, both mobility and health, was right around the time I was hitting puberty and everything. So all that death-feedism stuff really intertwined in my mind and sexuality and became such a core part of my persona that I can't ever escape. And now my sister is really starting to pack on the pounds. So I think she will be following down the same path, probably for the same reason.