/gen/ - General Discussion

Your ex has a fantastic belly, an unfortunately rare sight in Japan. Good luck in finding someone fat enough for you, but it is possible. I was dating (now ex) a 130kg girl when I was living in Japan for a while, especially amusing given that her name was the same as a plant known for its delicateness. We met on Tinder, she only had one photo of herself, just her face. But I could tell she was chubby. Much to my delight when I came to meet her at the station her size far exceeded my expectations! My girlfriend is currently 170kg (and gaining) and I think she gets more attention in public than much slimmer, conventionally attractive girlfriends I've had. I have often suspected that fat woman get a lot more attention than most people would assume.

>>90683 I remember seeing a Japanese plus sized dating app called Pocha-Koi. Have you tried that out?

>>90688 That's wild! I've been searching for 2 months, but I've only met 4 or 5 girls, and they're all skinnier than my ex :< Japanese 'chubby' girls are way too skinny for me!! I wish I lived abroad... >>90725 Yeah, I've signed up for them. But there are almost no active users in western Japan where I live. I've heard that no matter where you look in the U.S., there are heavy girls everywhere... I'm so jealous of all the plus-sized girls over there.

>>90763 You certainly need to visit the US. I'll be back visiting a southern state soon and I am very excited. 97kg women is the norm there and it's not uncommon to see women far far heavier.

>>90683 that sounds very frustrating OP. of course there are a lot more fat women here in the USA than in japan. that much should be obvious. but it's important to remember that a lot of those women are still ugly, and for various reasons, fat women are more likely to be ugly regardless of their weight. it was still very difficult for me to find a fat girlfriend who was actually pretty, though i'm sure it would be much harder with japan's lower obesity rate. i've been with my girlfriend for a decade now and she weighs about 300 lbs (~140kg?). she's so pretty too. after we get married, she said she'd be willing to gain up to at least 350 lbs (~160kg?) for me as well since she loves eating anyway and gained 50 lbs after we got together and she stopped watching her weight. i wouldn't want her to get significantly above 400 lbs though since i actually love her and want her to live a long time with me, and it seems like above 400 lbs is when it seems to get very difficult to remain relatively healthy. but if i enabled her completely i don't know how big she'd get based on how she eats. i've never been above normal weight so it's wild to me. she does stuff like dip various chips and snacks in nacho cheese or nutella. she eats practically everything whereas i'm really picky. i also met her on a dating app--that's unfortunately just how things are nowadays. other than using the internet and seeking out larger population centers, i have no idea how i would seek out BBW/SSBBW in japan. i wish you luck though OP--japan's population is over 100 million in a relatively small area, so i'm sure there's a girl with a major thing for food somewhere around there just waiting for a guy like you who would enable her most excessive desires.