/gen/ - General Discussion

You can expect every comment in this thread to beg for pics of her I'll start

Larp unless there's pics

No larp this time

>>91261 Age? And 550 pounds is relatively light to be immobile so I wonder what happened.

31, and she got covid and had to be hospitalized for 7 weeks on a ventilator and lost all her muscle mass:(

>>91264 Holy shit, is that the TikTok girl? Brina? Yo you lucked OUT, she's fine as hell! I thought she was getting her mobility back?

>>91265 mayhaps,and she's working on it!

>>91266 Honestly didn't think she'd be down with dating an FA. Does she let you stuff her or is she weird about being fat? Fuck if I were in your shoes I would put her on the Adeline diet SO hard. Really make mobility seem like too much trouble, y'know?

Also my condolences for her being on Wegovy, that's a downer in my book. Guess I answered my own question. Did she ever share her max weight?

>>91265 Do you have a link to the Tiktok?

Nothing yet, but I don't want to make her uncomfortable or anything and I do love her and want her to be happy. She has not

Well, you answered my shit so I may as well contribute what I know. Never dated anyone immobile but I have dated someone who was pretty much housebound, took maybe less than 250 steps a day & was planted on her couch for most of it. I love USSBBWs and I will always be a connoisseur of those ladies, but I'm with someone who can shop at Old Navy these days and can honestly say I'm fine with leaving it as a fetish online. She's going to be bored. A lot. You will be responsible for providing a lot of her entertainment, whether that's curiosities, games, or forms of media to enjoy. Expect a lot of movies & TV with her - it's not like she's going anywhere. Assuming you two have met and this is a physical relationship, this is going to be one-sided as you will be more of a caretaker than an equal partner. It's not a drag on her, it's just reality - she can't cook for you, help with small tasks, hell she is going to depend on you to help her with pretty much everything. Not all at once and certainly not at first - you're not going to wipe her ass. But eventually you'll start helping to dress her if you haven't already. Next you may need to help her dress a wound or apply balm. Long term, it'll be ass wiping. You'll need to mentally prepare yourself to be a bit of a CNA. She's going to get depressed. You've probably already been exposed to this already, it comes hand in hand with the boredom. She's going to be 32 and she hasn't left her bed in years, she almost died, and she's over 500lbs. Honestly that's a damn low spot for anyone in her position. You can be as supportive as you want, it's still going to happen and she may latch to you for emotional support. How you decide to handle that is your business, I would just be prepared to put on a therapist hat. It's going to be different than any relationship you've had in the past because she's not independent, not one bit. I'm happy you two are in love, I'm not trying to rain on your parade here. Hope you like Instagram reels and TikTok, because that's going to be her love language since going on walks or out to dinner or even sitting on the porch smoking a J is out of the question.

>>91281 Nice, sounds like hell.

>>91281 Ideally they could play video games together.

>>91282 If that's how you feel about it, then imagine how she feels and why she doesn't want to just eat herself to death. Girl has such little mobility and she's already fighting an uphill battle being crazy obese to improve. Immobility being sexy only works in fantasy.

My wife was over 600 when we met. She was very mobile then so I didn’t have that aspect I can comment on. But I can tell you some things you might not think about. She was ALMOST too big to fit in my Ford Escape. It was like you had to slam the door on her and her fat squished in, and when the door opened it was like opening a can of biscuits and flew open. And she needed a seat belt extender which we didn’t even know they made until after a few months so she usually just buckled it with the belt under her. She broke a crazy amount of furniture - beds, heavy duty rated camping chairs, a power reclining loveseat, my office chair. And it’s hard to overestimate just how much food a girl that size can and will eat. Your food bill will multiply exponentially.

>>91290 That does sound like fun... I'm often interested about the social aspect of being with someone so fat. How do family, friends and colleagues react whenever you turn up with a woman too large to fit into the average compact crossover SUV. My own GF is 360 lb and I have yet to encounter anything another than the usual 'she should be careful' comments from my mum. Although most people know that I have long been obsessed with fat women...

>>91294 I honestly don’t have much of a social life so can’t really answer that question. My mom was horrified at first but seems to have accepted having a giant daughter in law. I work remotely so coworkers etc never see her.

>>91312 Who needs a social life when you have several hundred pounds of woman to plough!

>>91290 she never broke a couch? what couches do you own?

>>91442 We have a huge sectional that is collapsed on the end where she plops down. Some of the wood under that part is broken but not to the point it’s uncomfortable. She did break her couch before we were together though.