/gen/ - General Discussion

There's a lot of factors in how "socially acceptable" fat people are, including how old you are, your country, your gender, if you're gay (definitely a lot of fatphobia in gay communities even in america), your family, etc I don't know what culture is like in Argentina, but if you're actually an Argentinian man above like 25, chances are no one in public is gonna give af other than the rare dickhead if the obesity rates posted online are to be believed. Comments and looks do really suck, but you will feel so much happier generally when you're in the body that aligns with yourself. And that's to say nothing of the whole fetish and sexual fulfillment aspect of it. The amount of people who will want to date you will be smaller, it's true, but would you really want to end up with someone who doesn't like you fat and wants you to stay fit? There will be comments, there will be uncomfortable moments, but they'll just be a drop in the pond. Once you're fat, those moments will feel much less anxiety provoking over time. Unless someone in your life is constantly making you feel like shit over it, I don't really see why you wouldn't. You could die tomorrow as well! I firmly believe in living without regrets. And finally from a gooning perspective, you're already in too deep it sounds like... one day the dam is gonna break and you wont be able to help yourself anymore. You're GOING to end up fat as fuck one day, why not just make it happen sooner? You clearly want it so bad...

It's better be on the "safe zone" from what you comment don't gain weight

Don’t know what you should do but I can relate. The thought is so fun but the actual impact on my life would be so not worth it. The dream is to go work somewhere new for a couple months and live it out and (try to) lose it before going back

I'm like you but in the other "side of the history" I wouldn't let the woman that I like get obese I'm not that sick yet

>>91304 >Gaining weight means going full retard and putting on 300lbs, no exceptions You know you can explore your curiosity by putting on just 20 pounds, right? Are you a simpleton anon?

>>91359 I already did that, moron. That's why I'm asking here.

You can gain weight if you want but tbh from my experience, very few people get the fat they like. Mostly because the fat that attracts us tends to be gained in adolescence, where you can trigger epigenetic hormonal responses that will give you fluffy soft rolls of adipose. The most beautiful fat bodies I've ever seen were people who were morbidly obese before puberty.

I know how you feel, I've battled with the same thoughts. Its a tough thing to think about because yes it would be enjoyable but there are a lot of downsides. Sure you can toy around with being chubby but in social situations I would rather be skinny but outside of that I would rather be fatter. I simply don't want to go all in on being fat because at a certain point there is no going back you are going to have permanent changes to your body such as loose skin if you got too fat. This isn't even mentioning the major downsides of gaining weight, your health will be impacted in various different ways, your life will be shorter, life in general will be harder since a lot of places aren't made to accommodate the morbidly obese + simple things that feel effortless now will become exhausting, you will struggle to reach parts of your body. Its a lot to consider especially when reversing it would not only be difficult but would have permanent damage. Sorry that I can't help you but simply put you have to be brave enough to accept that you will get judged to some extent (mostly silently) and that you're probably not going to be skinny ever again.

>>92700 The alternative is never feeling complete in your own body. Extending your life at the price of unending dysphoria. It's not better. The irreversibility is a feature when you're wired this way. Removing access to a thin body, permanently relieves the pressure to perform. You cannot. It is incredibly freeing. Go for it OP. A life consistent with you internal identity is 10/10 better. The trade offs are obviously worth it in hindsight. You live with authentic integrity, instead of wondering every day what if?

Being “Authentic” or whatever is overrated, contentment and peace are just as good as happiness. obviously every chanboard bbw porn addict is gonna think that being fat is the greatest thing ever and you’ll live happily ever after. The truth is that horniness is not happiness, it’s a fleeing feeling like all other emotions and chasing it all the time will drive you crazy. This is the same as asking should I Try and be anorexic cause porn cartoons gives me a boner. Try being a more well rounded person ( get it lol ) and have more interests and bodies outside of yourself other than just your sex life. Your happiness should not rely on numbers going up, it will never be enough. I think you you should just accept life as it is but I’m retarded

>>92783 >I think you you should just accept life as it is Modern life ain't edgy enough for me.