/gen/ - General Discussion

Bro just get a chubby GF, they can be healthy and are still hot. You can't just kick your preferences, instead embrace them and be happy. Quitting porn in general is a good idea though, but tips for that are plentiful.

You want to be free from an eternity of gooning? I have an offer for you. Fight. Become a Kamen Rider and fight until none others are left. Only then, will your wish be granted. What do you say, OP?

Visualize what and who you want to be. What would you be doing instead of this? Find a hobby, play an instrument. Have hope in yourself to be the man you want to be and pursue that path ferociously. Go easy on yourself when you slip. Make new choices. Choose in every moment what it is you actually want to be doing. It's not easy and it can be done. Get off the internet as much as you can. Fill your mind with good things and do good actions. Things will change for you bro.

If you couldn’t get hard I’m guessing you had a bigger issue then this fetish unless you couldn’t get hard just because she was too skinny or something

You're into this and suppressing it isn't gonna make you feel any better. I would just date larger women and be up front about what you are into early on. If they respond to what you like about this fetish in a bad way, then move on. Coming from experience, it'll save you time and heartache. Also, she doesn't have to already be into the fetish, just as long as she is receptive to try stuff or at the very least roleplay.

>>92435 Thats what im gonna do get an attractive chubby girl. I just need tips to give up this masturbation addiction >>92448 HELL NO lmao >>92451 Thing is i do but the dilemma is im a homebody. A gym practice calisthenics, work play guitar from time to time play video games but i always catch myself doing the deed when things are dry or quiet. I don’t really have the best social group in irl because of individualism which sucks also hard to make new lasting friends in London. I don’t struggle to find a partner but im just unable to do it because my sexual performance is nullified due to masturbation. Might be porn induced ED…. >>92452 Nah she was my type. Thinking about her now she was honestly great personality wise and banter wise. The retarded dark humour banter. I hope to God i don’t have bigger issues. I just hope its a neurological adaptation. Cause it can be adjusted. >>92463 I know. I just cant date cause im tryna moderate this habit of stroking the sword and its pretty difficult to be transparent about personal issues when dating cause again “individualism” Thanks for the feedback so far