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Should I try to live out this fetish in real life once Silvester 08/31/2025 (Sun) 08:41:51 Id:ad5611 No. 69845 [Reply]
(pic not related) I'm a guy in his early 30's being in a nice relationship of 5 years with girl that has a body you guys would like. Around 95kgs, nice belly. Perfect. Thing is; she's not into this fetish. She's kind of okay with her weight although she would prefer to loose a little and defenitely not gain. And 90% of the time, I agree with that. I also like to be healthy and do active things, so I wouldn't want a 200kg GF. But on the other hand her not sharing the fetish makes me feel kind of lonely at times. She doesn't really like when I play with her belly for example. At times I notice that leads me to chatting with random girls on Feabie, which makes me feel kind of guilty. I wonder what you guys would advice me to do in this situation. Accept it, since nothing in life is a 100% perfect, or should I change something?
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Maybe it's because I'm a bit naive and because my fetishes are relatively tame compared to many in this community, but for me the right woman will make you forget that you're not able to satisfy every single kink. Every time I'm on the edge of a relationship I have to gather my thoughts and ask myself is this how I want to live the next 50 years, if the answer is no, what is the point of keeping a relationship? Of course at the same time, is it realistic to find a partner that you are not only compatible with, but also is willing to devolve into your fetishes? Myself I have come to terms that I'm too picky for that to be a realistic requirement for a girlfriend. My current objective is just to sleep with as many fat girls as possible until I stumble over the right one so in your situation I'd end it and hope I'll find someone more compatible thru trial and error.
Short answer, yes. Long answer: It’s pretty complicated. I’m gonna share my experiences. First, I was befriended for almost a year with a pretty well known plus-size model who was for some time in the feederism scene. Friendship complicated things enormously because when I realized that she had opened an account to sell wg/feedism videos there was no going back for me. I asked her to get nudes, stuffing videos and more and we had quite a lot of FaceTime sex. Ofc I paid for all of that. Then we saw each other irl and had quite nice feeding/oral sex experiences. She introduced a pretty hot friend of hers to me (who btw also gained some kilos along her). Sounds like heaven, right? Well to some degree it was. I mean I’ve never been so horny in my life lol. Then things took a wrong turn. She realized that I had quite some money and I pushed her more and more towards having sex with me. Which we also ended up having when we saw each other a second time but boy did she and her friend manipulate me financially. I paid my ass off and lost control of how much money I was spending on them. I should add that I was in a pretty bad mental state when all of this was going on and she knew it. So far for our “friendship”. Before long she and her friend ended up just using me for money. On top of that she was now gaining weight and stuffing herself for guys who paid way less than me or even for free for guys she had a crush on. When the manipulation got so obvious that I literally had to laugh about it (like she wanted me to pay her rent or things like that) I finally went no contact. I had gotten some memorable experiences but paid really bad for it. Not only with money. It also really hurt to see that this person was probably never a friend to begin with. Would I do it again? Yes, but just under some strict conditions. As I said before, I think that things are way easier, and more controllable, if you just have a “business”-like relation with that feedee or model or whatever. Second, never do this if you’re not doing well mentally. As for my relationships, I’ve always been with chubby/fat girls and none of them was ever gaining weight (at least long term) for me. I always tried to introduce them to the kink of wg/feederism but… well they were not into it. However they almost all ended up gaining a few kilos for me for a short period of time, to make me happy. There you go. Sry for the long text. Hope it can give you some insights and advice when it comes to this kink.
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>>69924 What kind of food you got in Lillehammer?
Early 30s means you as a guy haven't aged out yet, so you have some time to play with. That said, it's not always easy to find a good woman. It's probably easier if you're not in a woke, western feminist country. If you want kids and your current gf is the one, don't mess it up. If you don't want children, or your current gf is definitely not "the one", then go out and get your feedee. You can mess around for a while and then make up your mind what you want. Good luck!
I don't want to say you're cooked with your current relationship, but you might be. For starters she doesn't share the same fetish/kink. Now that shouldn't be a problem if you're aren't fucked in the head and it gets in the way in the bedroom, but judging by what you said, you are fucked in the head and you are actually losing interest at this very moment. Why? You are talking to other women that share this fetish. Yes you feel guilty, but you're already in the steps of falling out of love because your GF doesn't share your sexual interests. Her not liking her belly touched is already a killer. If you already expressed about liking her body and being attracted to chubby girls for example, and that didn't help her feel good about it (I mean liking it more than she thought she would, letting you touch her belly without any problems, etc), then she won't change her mind. Reason she says she's fine with it because either she knows you like it and is just putting up with it, or too lazy to change it. You could try to talk about your kinks again with her again, but tbh this may be the beginning of the end of your relationship if you aren't sexually satisfied with her. Living out this fetish is possible I'll say that. That don't mean your girl has to be ginormous since that will be a pain, but like, every now and then doing stuffings, bloating her belly, long as it's not overdone it can happen. This fetish is niche (in the open world) I believe so it's just trial and error to find someone who actually interested in it. Most fat women hate being fat. Hell most models are in it just to make bank. Just to close this off and sorry for the yap btw, we aren't here to tell you what you should do with your relationship. You're a grown man and you have your own choices on if you want to keep going or not. But as stated you are falling out of love currently, with talking to other women and even questioning about your relationship here. You're doing her a disservice of not being honest with her. If you want to fix it, talk to her. If you want to leave, talk to her.

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Kavi videos Anonymous 10/25/2025 (Sat) 03:34:30 Id:0018eb No. 72333 [Reply]
Hi everyone, I'd like to know if you have any videos of Kavilicious or just Kavi. She used to have a YouTube channel and an OnlyFans page. But she permanently deleted her YouTube channel and OnlyFans account. I only found two videos that were accessible. Thanks.

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Whatever Happened To? Anonymous 07/26/2024 (Fri) 01:05:32 Id:e5212a No. 52191 [Reply] [Last]
Here’s a thread for models that seemed to drop off the face of the earth. Or if you’re wondering the status of someone, post here. I’ll go first: What happened to the red hair chick that modeled with Spanx Beluga?
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>>71420 She had wls years ago and she's smaller, still fat. She's married with a kid, football mom.
Anyone remember crazy Amber? What happened to her? Last I heard she was dumped by the feeder with a massive nose and dropped off the face of the earth. She used to scam people.
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>>52191 Anyone know whatever happened to Otoni, that really curvy/chubby Icelandic model? She was a stunner I wonder whatever happened with her.
>>71608 I know from her socials that she has been in a relationship for many years, seems to have a job that she really likes but has sadly lost quite some weight.
Curvy Sharon, what happened to her? I think her last content were from 2015-2016.

Boberry Thread 08/11/2025 (Mon) 21:53:09 Id:09948b No. 69138 [Reply] [Last]
Here's a new vid to start it with YUhSMGNITTZMeTl0WldkaExtNTZMMlpwYkdVdmNsTlNWMmhMUVdFamJIRkxOMXBrWVhKcVpXSnNlblV5VGtaME5YaHRlakJhWjJaaGVWbE9PVmhVWTNGSWNESlhNVUpGYnc9PQ==
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Does anyone know which vids these came from?
Does anyone have the livestream ?
any1 feel like posting some of her most recent updates from her site?
>>72225 Damn, I missed it.
So is there a new Boberry thread? This one has been mysteriously quiet lately.

Biggest Weight Gain You've Seen from Non Feedees Anonymous 10/20/2025 (Mon) 00:05:13 Id:1d3c9f No. 72113 [Reply]
What's the most amount of weight you've seen someone put on unintentionally? Can be someone online or even someone you've seen fist hand. SSBBWLadyJiggles has to be up there for me.
She is so pretty
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This lady in Brazil who put on 500lbs in about 5 years I mean hot damn https://youtu.be/NPvTOAYIHio?si=Dh22MiDm8rzRkioL
>>72113 she is super pretty her progress in gaining was good but now disappeared again :'(

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Data of feederism Anonymous 10/23/2025 (Thu) 03:54:26 Id:6a24c2 No. 72248 [Reply]
So I’m curious if anyone has some chart or graph that shows global population of those who have a kink of gaining weight and kink of liking fatness or feeding people. Do any of you fellow architects know?
>>72248 lmao what in the AI is that picture

Online spaces to meet BBWs ages 18-22 Anonymous 09/10/2025 (Wed) 17:02:21 Id:f8c7e9 No. 70230 [Reply]
Younger guy here. I've been wondering if anyone has any clue if there are spaces that have a higher chance of having bigger girls in them to meet? Obviously manga, comics, and DnD communities would be more likely to have at least chubby girls since they're "nerd" and "shut in" related hobbies (all of which I enjoy). But what about others? Someone has told me Tumblr, but I'm not willing to use it and I'm very sure Tumblr isn't as big as it used to be anyway. I'm sure Disicord has them too. Doesn't help that girls seem to be getting smaller (literally) and more afraid to be anything above 90 lbs. If anyone has any advice, it would be much appreciated!
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>>72159 This comment made me redownload Boo. I didnt know their was an Ai. Soon as I typed in fat or bbw, so many girls came up. I've fuck all luck on tinder, bumble and Woo. Here's hoping my mullet and fuckin mug don't scare em off 🤣
>>72201 I am glad you found it useful, that is the reason why I even bothered posting in this thread. Just a warning with B00 and given that you are in Australia. There are a lot of women, from SEA countries, like Indonesia specifically who I think are trying to get a boyfriend in a western country. I have matched with 4 so far, and while they seem alright do be aware of them potentially trying to use you for ulterior motives. But it is crazy, that you genuinely can start filtering the AI to sort by "bbw" or "ssbbw", and it finds women who match that most of the time just from their photos or profile descriptions. It does seem to help if you filter by exercise level to none and food as an interest then you do find more of the bigger ones. I do like that it doesn't lock those filters behind a paywall, so you can try to filter out women that you would never ever have common interest with and only get matched with ones who are generally close to what you are searching for. I also found a "bug" I guess, where you can spoof finding new matches for later changing your filters and having it bring a new match to you if you don't like the last woman you saw, then when your matches reopen after 12 hours, you put those filters in exactly to get that woman you where wanting to match with. >>72199 You should take your meds. I never said whatever the fuck it is you are trying to project. Also I did outright said I was getting matches in my two prior posts. I am not really sure what your problem is other than I said I was conservative and I don't like slutty women. Also none of this side discussion pertains to OP's topic. I only even mentioned my preferences because it is relevant to how I use those apps and who I want to match with. There are people out there who could care less about what I see as a red flag in a woman, it may even be a green flag. Especially if you are just wanting hook-ups, fwb, or open relationship crap that people are into. You only are derailing his thread more by raging at me.
>>72181 You sound like a neurotic faggot who couldn’t lift 50 pounds or outrun a turtle to save your life. No woman respects you because you’re a joke of a man, being an edge lord about racism or abortion or whatever will not make up for having a tiny penis no woman wants. Steroids, hair plugs, and a gym addiction is your best bet at manhood little dude. I hear Turkey is nice this time of year. Which is assuming you’re not broke, and dear lord little faggot, you sound entirely unemployable.
>>72181 And before you say “I’m not gay don’t call me a faggot”… A) you’re not straight, you’d have to touch a woman to be straught, all you touch is your own penis. GAY B) you are not a man. I don’t think homos would even find you fuckable.
>>72202 Holy shit that BBW AI search works incredibly well, been asking for such tool for years. I'm just imagining there's gonna be some monkeys paw scenario such as the app telling the person you matched with what prompt was used.

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How do feedism and fat fetishism work here Anonymous 09/07/2025 (Sun) 21:06:13 Id:0235a2 No. 70106 [Reply]
How do people into this stuff even find each other? Really curious to know since I know it is for sure stigmatized in Mainland China. China is a country opaque to outside observers though and even having Chinese friends doesn't help here because who the fuck asks their friend about how a fetish community manages to find its people in China without being socially destroyed? Any China bros here? How does this fetish work in China? Is the community size substantial?
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eh的这篇本子是我翻的,是我非常喜欢的一本作品和作者,评论区里有我的qq😌 >>70418
>>72086 老哥,当然可以! 不过qq号在这里透露,我不清楚安不安全😫 而且,既然你说中文了,那我也不装了😇。 我也打算做ai汉化呢,比如kip,bws他们的漫画,但是没什么时间,嵌字也挺麻烦的。kip那几个长篇,no lunch break,xx with sister系列,能翻译成中文,绝对是能造福国内这方面的爱好者的。 至于性癖上,二次元和三次元我都可以接受,只要是个大胃袋女性就可以,不过我接受不了刻意丑化的。良子的确给了咱们一个非常棒的遮羞布😁虽然他是个出生,但在这方面得封圣了。至少看不惯的人,攻击方式也不再是直球辱骂,而是变成了大胃袋这一块和二次元良子。 老哥你看贴吧吗?我贴吧id哈姆的哈贝特洛特,经常出没于动画相关贴吧,单机游戏尤其是魂游相关贴吧,在法环吧搜索我的名字,应该就能找到我了!我们贴吧私信!
>>71720 Hey, I'm happy to help clarify! Here are the answers to your questions based on my personal experience. 1. Regarding AI Censorship: You are absolutely right. The censorship is mostly done by AI, and it's both powerful and sometimes illogical. Let me give you a concrete example: on Baidu Pan (our cloud storage), if you upload a picture of a naked woman being penetrated by a penis, it will be "harmonized" (censored) 100% of the time. If you upload a 2D anime BBW picture, there's also a chance it will be censored. When a file is censored, you can't view it anymore; it just tells you the image "involves pornography".The strangest part, which I also find confusing, is that in the BBW field, 2D anime art has a much higher chance of being censored than real-life videos. 2. Regarding building a website (like Ilovefatties.cn): If I had the ability, I would definitely build it on a server outside of China. It would have zero chance of survival if hosted domestically. In China, any website must go through a government registration process called ICP Filing, which requires your real name and ID. A site with this kind of content would never pass the review. As for what would happen if you did it anyway... I dare not assume the exact consequences, but I can assure you it is absolutely not a "harmless" act. 3. Regarding the Great Firewall: Yes, you are correct again. For most sites like StufferDB or Kemono, we use VPNs. Interestingly, bbwchan itself is not blocked, so it's accessible without a VPN. However, the connection is extremely slow, making it almost impossible to load images or download videos. So, what I usually do is turn on my VPN when I need to download content, and then turn it off when I'm just leaving comments. I hope this helps you understand!
>>72091 Does China know who Kisame17 is?
>>72087 https://tieba.baidu.com/p/9100568415?share=9105&fr=sharewise&see_lz=0&share_from=post&sfc=copy&client_type=2&client_version=12.91.1.0&st=1760883664&is_video=false&unique=B61F4334CC2BBFFFE5F420D6D6BBA57D 老哥,可以来这个帖子找我!我就是楼主!

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When does Reality Start to Kick in Anonymous 10/15/2025 (Wed) 03:19:32 Id:01434b No. 71935 [Reply]
When I met my girlfriend several years ago she weighed 220lbs. I was never open about the fetish, but she was one of those social media/tumblr "fat acceptance, fat is beautiful" types so she was pretty comfortable with her size and even with grabbing her belly during sex. She had bad eating habits when we met but I think being with me, despite me not forcing her really enabled things. All of a sudden she's built up to eating massive portions nearly every single night and having fast food for lunch almost every day at work. Not to mention a constant stream of snacks throughout the day. She's blown up to 315lbs in just a couple years. She hit a wall briefly around 280-290lbs where the fat acceptance stuff seemed to wear off. I think going from the lower end of fat to very fat, jarred her a little. She started to question her comfort of her weight and size, even bought a gym membership which she didn't use one time. She plateaued for a bit. However, the poor eating didn't completely stop just slowed down and a few months ago she weighed in at 300lbs. I thought this might really effect her but somehow it did the opposite, she texted me right after "All my life I worried about hitting 300lbs but now that I have I realized I'm fat as hell but still sexy as hell." All of a sudden the eating picks right back up and within just a few months she gains another 15 lbs. However, now theres been another mentality change, she hasn't slowed down her eating or had issues with her appearance (quite the opposite still) but she has started to bring up fears of developing health issues. I was hoping that I'd see her blow up to massive proportions, however, now I'm wondering if she's hitting the point where the reality begins to set in. Right now she gets winded going up the stairs and when we have sex and she's burst out of all her clothes but that's the only real consequence. She's pretty smart and I'm sure she realizes that if she continues down this path she'll soon hit the extreme side of obesity and that's when the actual real issues come in. However, luckily due to her fat acceptance ideology stuff she is extremely anti-weight loss drugs. She also has no real concept of actual dieting, when she brings up eating healthier she only thinks of stopping eating take out/fast food she still plans to eat massive meals, just ones that she cooks. Am I cooked? What is the point when reality starts to set in for these fatties.
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>>71993 My girl got put on that sorta thing and unless you have a serious slob/scar fetishes careful with the feedings. It’s not like some of the guys here where were regularly cleaning out the tub or other things but she was LEAKING like when I housed a bag of sugar free cough drops, I mean stains on a couch we had to throw away level of gross.
>>71958 I think you’re fine, especially because you’ve taken the approach of being supportive no matter where she’s at with all this. That lets her food and weight ultimately be her choice. That’s that freeing part she’s after in the relationship. I don’t think there it’s possible to be an SSBBW without some lingering concerns about the risks. Totally normal and reasonable. Especially if she used to be much smaller, the shift in lifestyle to this size is going to be more notable to her. That said, if you keep making her life great, there really won’t be much need to “change” the way things are going.
>>71958 If you want her to still gain weight, cut out the sugars and saturated fats and instead focus on unsaturated fats. Massively more healthy way to live.
>>72029 Bingo
>>72013 With her now being about to be on this insulin assistant medicine to induce regular periods, I suspect that she'll lose some weight even if she's not trying due to the changes in her diet it will force. Unless she starts to just starts to eat like crazy on some of the foods she is able to eat. It would of been nice to see her hit on the SSBBW trajectory she was rapidly heading towards. At the end of the day, I really care about this girl and she's more than just a sack of fat. Plus on the bright side she's so sucked into the fat acceptance ideology she herself says she never wants to be skinny even if she does lose weight. So unless she has a drastic change of heart even if she has significant weight loss she'll likely always atleast be pretty thick. But who knows maybe she'll find ways to eat to her hearts content on these new drugs.

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Barely any way to find feedee/feeders in Australia John salmon 09/24/2025 (Wed) 12:38:22 Id:082aa2 No. 70885 [Reply]
I know it’s bigger in America but it’s very hard to find any one into this kink in Australia. Feabie also sucks balls Does anyone have suggestions?
surprising amount of women are into it, or at least open to it, and plenty of them aren't on feabie. just keep dating, be open about your preferences, only date women who are fat enough for your tastes and be open and respectful about the fetish, tell her sooner rather than later; don't waste her time. what state are you in? in my experience NSW isn't great, anecdotally melbourne has the biggest "community" but it's very hard to crack into. anyway, you'll find your feedee dream gal brother, just gotta put in the work!
I haven't had much luck with feabie and other sites in finding a feedee but I found getting a fat gf has been enough for me. As the other dude said let them know early on that you have a preference for fatties and as long as she is secure about herself than it'll be fine. After that you can always try and get her into it and try to get her to gain weight. I haven't asked my gf to start gaining but I told her I have a preference for fatties and she is fine with it and let's me play with her belly and stuff. If you're really desperate you can go gay and use groomr and use that for your fetish
For as hot as it gets, north queenlands has some huge chicks.
Could be worse. You could be in Tasmania. There is a total of 5 feedes
>>72032 I'm trying to move to Tassie for the nature... No fatties?? Feedees ideally but I'd take fatties.

For those of you who don't want your girls TOO big Anonymous 10/18/2025 (Sat) 07:32:12 Id:743a3b No. 72041 [Reply]
Do you ever date below your ideal weight since girls usually pack on pounds over time anyways? Kinda feels like I'm gaming the system picking slightly chubby babes knowing they'll be thicker without any effort on my end.
Yeah, but I also have a pretty long range of what I find attractive, from slim yet curvy to fucking massive, so weight loss or gain isn't too much sweat off my back

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Nothing grosser and horrible to look at than a Tummy tucks, and boob reduction Hector 09/07/2025 (Sun) 00:14:03 Id:fcbedb No. 70074 [Reply]
Tummy tucks and boob reductions are the grossest things a girl can ever do to their body. Even my friends who are only into thin girls agree with me on this. It’s like these fat girls want to be thin so bad they willingly go under the knife to have ugly cut up bodies. They end up looking like a corpse! And whats funny is not only do they now look disgusting to guys that only like fat girls but guys only into thin girls find them gross too because its fucking gross! 🤮 It’s a shame for both sides when a girl decides to cut up their body for both fat admirers and the guys not into fat girls. Nobody is going to find you sexy after that unless they’re extremely lonely and insecure about finding anyone ever. And even then they’ll secretly think you are gross to look at.
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You know what’s funny though? Some of these freaks that get the skin removal surgery gain all the weight back and they’re back to where they were before size wise except they now have creepy weird scars from their tummy tucks and its just an all around a disaster.
I’m sure I’m not the only that feels this way but why bother getting into this fetish if you plan on having this be the end result?
>>71811 Because the thought of a tummy tuck crosses their minds way after they get into this fetish. Usually by outside peer pressure. It's not something that they have planned as soon as they gain their first pound.
>>71811 99% of these women have 0 self respect. People with no self respect generally don't plan things out for the long term.
>>71872 Pretty much. That’s how I see girls that get tattoos on their necks and face. They’re idiots that just want a high in the moment and don’t think about how stupid as fuck they’re going to look in the future to everyone else.

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Gainers/Gaining thread Anonymous 07/28/2025 (Mon) 14:04:41 Id:c4509e No. 67904 [Reply]
Thread for people here who like to gain weight! Didnt see one and I think it would be nice to have one. Actively trying to gain weight myself and want a place to discuss it with people so fuck it why not!! for anyone of every gender and orientation too, fuck off if ur a bigot (just added some fat art i had saved for the picrel... breadwketchup on twitter shoutout to them)
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>>69696 Olive Oil is not so simple. Calories need to digest and too much oil can make foods go through you. Peanut butter and similar things are good though, I used a lot when I was making more simplistic weight gain shakes (With possibly unhealthy powders). Im wondering if I should stealth my way into some circle of fitness people to ask the shake question to.
Pasta and white rice. My wife is addicted to both and there are near=immediate results when she goes to hard with them.
>>69733 That's why you don't over do it with the Oil. For shakes, you can always add nuts to those. I believe cashews are calorie dense. 2 Handfuls should easily be nearly 500 Calories, mix them in with rom rolled oats and greek yogurt. And since you live in Canada like me, always use 3% milk, maybe even mix in some half and half. All this stuff is dirt cheap here in Ontario, you can get nuts and oats for a bargain at any of the major Bulk stores like the Bulk Zone. I know when I was putting on weight for weight lifting I did stuff like this, I don't know if it works the same for women (which I'm assuming you are).
Is this thread for models to join as well who are actually into the fetish and not just scamming us pretending to be into it for money?
I've recently become overweight, and it's only up from here. I'm at ~73kg (~161lbs), up from ~55kg (~121lbs) about two years ago. I am 168cm (5'6"), so I was overweight at 71kg. Does anyone have tips on how to speed things up a bit?

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How to navigate when your girl doesnt wanna get fat Anonymous 10/14/2025 (Tue) 10:06:21 Id:4716cf No. 71905 [Reply]
So, my fiancée has been putting on some weight. Probably gained 25-30lbs since I met her 4yrs ago but most of it has been in the last 6-7 months. I can mostly get away with telling her I like how she looks because a lot of it has gone to her ass, but she is getting a belly and she no longer wants to be on top during sex because of it. I tried the usual stuff, oh babe youre still hot, I love how you look, etc etc but she is stubborn and just won't do something that makes her uncomfortable. So I try to lean into it a little more. What could go wrong? I tell her that I'm basically obsessed with her body now. We could do any position and id still enjoy it. I love that her ass is bigger now. I love her curves. I tell her all that stuff. Now, she knows I used to fuck fatties. She stumbled on some saved pics on my phone when we first started dating, of a pretty massive girl thst I used to bang. So when I told her I like her body now, she said that doesnt make her feel.better at all, because she feels like she fits more into the fat girl body type that I "used to" go for. Which is correct, but not how I wanted her to take it. She then starts making jokes like "so what are you gonna start force feeding me milk shakes and putting extra frosting on all my desserts and making me have 2 desserts every night?" Which i have to admit, is pretty funny because its dead-on what i would be doing if she actually wanted to get fatter. I chose to deny that I was trying to make her fatter. Anyway, what the fuck do I do now? She does not want to be fat, and its messing with her confidence and what she's comfortable doing in bed. She works a lot and is too tired/lazy to go to the gym. She doesnt have enough self discipline to not snack at night. Last night I said I'd make myself a quick dinner at home but she took me to wawa for a sandwich because she wanted to get herself ice cream too. I am at a loss. The only good thing about this situation is that she has hypoglycemia and is convinced she will die if she takes a GLP-1.
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>>71905 You could try to assure her, more through subtle actions than words (actions really do speak louder than words when it comes to persuasion like this), that you enjoy her looking that way and hope that she begins to like herself that way and begins to feel more comfortable. Alternatively, you can just leave her be as is. She won't lose weight, she will probably gain some more with her habits. Sometimes you just can't do anything to help in that process and it's also easy to make the situation worse. It's the less optimal way but could end similarly with her eventually embracing her new body It's a shame she found the pics, because she's now comparing herself and that's never good, on many different levels. But that still can be fixed
I guess my first piece of advice could be put simpler as: make her FEEL sexy, don't just tell her that she is. She won't really listen to words when she's already convinced otherwise Also, if she's joking about you giving her shakes etc. maybe that's a good sign? Depends of course on the way she jokes about that
She wants you to show her you appreciate not just tell her. Get her favorite snacks, touch and grab the areas she's having issues with,make her dinner etc actions speak louder than words with women sh wants you to create a comfortable environment.
>>71969 Nope. You’re 200% wrong and obviously an incel. Fat women are most self conscious about being fat when they can’t pull tall athletic men. She’ll be fat and happy about it if it’s part of her dream boyfriend that’s otherwise out of her league.
>>71990 She's pretty aware that I appreciate her body haha. If I go out with my buddies or go fishing without her or something, she'll tell me to get her candy to make up for it. Pretty sure she knows ill.never turn down a chance to bring her food. >>71994 Facts, the girls that truly hate being fat IME are the ones that are fat and ugly. Any fat girl that doesnt have a problem getting laid is gonna tolerate her own size at the very least, and at most she'll learn to love being big.

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Mixed Fetishes (NO!!) Anonymous 09/11/2025 (Thu) 18:14:54 Id:785ec1 No. 70301 [Reply]
DO NOT WANT.  The newest update on PP is an otherwise attractive hirsute model, but that's enough to ruin it for me. Is anyone else sick of this??  Just because I like fat girls doesn't mean that I want every video to be Fet Salad. Seemingly every video nowadays has to be hirsute, smoking, armpit licking, foot stuff, pissing, farting, cuck, IR, alt., etc. - even on more mainstream sites like PP.  That's fine if it's what your into, but not fine if it's trojan horsied into everything without any separation.  I want to see bg-BBW content without any of the other crap.  Can I still get that??
>>70301 >Can I still get that?? Nope. PP manages to get some great women, but the content is awful. Almost every video I want to watch is ruined by IR (or that creepy weird bald white guy). News to me that they're doing pissing content now. Gross.
>>70301 I'm sick of this with vore, farting, and health play shit, I just want my clean really obese fantasy wife
I agree. I like hentai bbws and it's always farts slob feeding or futa. I just want to see some beautiful bbw hentai. Also why does hentai have to be futa?

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