/gen/ - General Discussion

>>83305 2010 okcupid was quite the best time in human history for a bookish introverted FA to meet bookish introverted fat girls. You go on there and swap 5 thousand word messages back and forth and then move in together on the third date. Thank God I'm not single because I would be fucking lost right now with the current dating app Match group monopoly dominated bullshit

>>76041 I like things that remind me that my partner is fat algorithm

Don’t think it’s a common enough trope but confident fatness is always great There’s just much better vibes from someone intentionally fat. More personality, better fashion, leans into the kink more, and so on

>>89252 Yeah shy/insecure fatties are fun in stories, but confident fat girls are way better when it comes to dating irl.

>>76041 My favourite weight gain scenario is a skinny character indulging a little too much until they begin to realise how fat they're getting, cautiously decide they've had enough and try to leave, only to find they can't fit through the door anymore. When they realise they're trapped, they're forced back inside and fattened up even more against their will, to the point of immobility. Has the best of both worlds for me: wholesome overindulgence, and forced feeding to punish said overindulgence. Also, sloshing noises, like when a character rolls over on their back and the massive weight of their belly shifts and makes a sound like a giant water balloon. But it needs to sound muffled, low in pitch, and kind of gelatinous in texture. There are videos out there with belly sloshing added that sounds like stereo underwater ambience and they always get it wrong, in my opinion. But that's all fantasy stuff. IRL just seeing subtle body changes over time, and someone adjusting clothes that used to fit but are obviously too tight (e.g. shirt keeps riding up and they pull it down), is enough for me.

>>84422 Incest is heavily praised by instagram micro exotic bully breeders.

Common or not in advertising... It's quite a weird situation to be seen as a creepy weirdo for simply liking fat women by a bunch of people who liked to get tied up and choked and suffocated and beaten with baseball bats and whips. Even weirder that they get away with talking about it in normal conversation. But if I like a fat ass? That's just too much apparently I get that the bdsm people can take the ropes off and the fat girl can't take her fat off ... But still.

>>84392 That’s because mainstream culture is obesephobic

I don’t think it’s because society hates fat people or whatever ( at least not the US ), it just that somebody liking toes is funnier than somebody liking big girls. If you look, there are plenty of plus size people in ads now, but it’s a lot more creepy to sexualize them in ads because fat covers basically the whole body and feet are just feet. Also the left might get mad if you treat being into fatties as a joke when it’s very serious business, chud.

>>84392 This is Dr. Phil's fault.

>>89352 >paying to get into a disc*rd server He's gonna start begging you for Google Play gift cards. Then, when you buy him the gift cards and give him the codes, he'll promise to get you into the server. But, you'll be left with no response from him after's got the money and you'll be left wondering if the server even existed in the first place.

>>89352 🍯

>>87921 >i found a way to consistently give girls orgasms through belly rubs and i feel like everyone having regular missionary sex whos into this kink needs to hear that its possible to do that so they can tell the people in the back that dont realize they dont want that kind of sex that theres more then one way to fuck How is it that you do that?

>>87927 The trick is some lady’s can get stimulation from the pressure of a full stomach. It’s part biology part psychology

>>87931 that can be a part of it but not even all the girls ive "fucked" are into that, just my two feedee girlfriends who play into my burping kink and especially like belly button play. with bellybutton stuff it can activate the same fullness and insides shifting feeling and they tell me its a full body experience when i do it right, now with moving the belly button too much i try to be gentle with rotations because sometimes the skin clicks and folds onto itself in a way that stings and pinches and so thrusting motions and small pulses are safer for beginners to not hurt them. with belly button play its mostly hot/cold reading what the other person wants because i dont like when its touched on me. also belly buttons make for a new "hole" so if they have problems with their genitalia you can "eat her out" right there in the tummy and it can really be comforting and safe with how alot of those actions and technique mirror what you would do with a pussy. >>87927 okay so i can talk about this more and answer questions but ive been trying to learn to talk about this in more of a tutorial style because i feel like of all the porn ive looked at it never captured alot of the tecniques i really just coined myself interacting with a large varriaty of women and still somehow figureing out how to push their buttons no matter what genitalia they have, how skinny they where or what kind of fat they have on them. one girl in particular had a botched c section so she said that her entire genitalia felt numb and sex was awful past that point and then i would grab her massive folds and shake them around and it let her have orgasms even fully clothed and standing when we have two seconds leaveing the car to have a "quick fuck" so for basics that i think are fairly consistent there are some pressure points that really matter. so i drew some crude ms paint drawings that give a general outline of what points people tend to like, now the orange is good for fishing out a good spot for them. you CAN grab at these spots but in this example this is where i know all the long presses work. other places in the body especially where fat sits nicely on a place that would otherwise be bone like love handles are good to grab but that is extremely dependent on size and if it is visceral fat vs subcutaneous fat and how supple the skin is to even be grabbed. so going back to my little demonstration we have the orange lines and they thin out right before touching the genitalia because remember, we are not touching any of that in this tecnique, this is going to go around it so right below the belly button you are going to trace where hair just stops forming, if you touch hair you are too low and none of the long presses are going to be that far into the low intestines anyway without it being more of a kneeing motion. what you want to do is move your hand from that low point and find the dip where the hip bone meets the leg and THATS the real hold spot. you can dig your fingers in there like you would treat a pussy or rim an asshole or you can go up to the next spot that is good to just press and hold where the hip bone has about an inch of distance between the rib cage. see these blue dots i drew, thats what im talking about. now the one dot on the side is different from the dot on the back. the pressure point on the back i figured out myself when feeling sick one day and it turns out it affects the stomach alot more then you would think. the spot on the back can feel good even with a skinny empty stomach but ESPECIALLY gets activated when she is bloated. finding where to place your fingers is critical and might take some trial and error but once you find that spot on the back in between the ribs you are golden.

>>87921 how would u recommend meeting women irl, anon. Thanks in advice.

>>85767 fat bitch dating algorithm

>>88635 I haven't been that successful on either. Are their any notable signs that a woman is willing to hookup that I should look out for?

Feabie is really the easiest way to find someone who fits your preferences, but it can be really difficult to break through the mass of weirdo simps talking to every reasonably attractive girl over 400 lbs. It can be difficult to tell if the person you're talking to is well adjusted or a basement dweller, but if you're just trying to score with someone in the ssbbw range, this will always be your best shot. WooPlus has only worked for me once and gave me someone 200 miles away. That being said, she was really pretty, super horny, and willing to drive 4 hours to hook up. I think i just got really lucky tbh, other than that its a trash app. Tinder basically hasn't worked since 2021 lol, fuck whoever runs that shit. Hinge is the only app that really worked for me. If you exclusively choose only larger women, the app will learn and start sending you every reasonably attractive fat girl in your area. I've gone on dates with around dozen girls in the 200-400 lb range over the course of 3 years and I don't live in that populated of an area. All of them were employed, most were relatively normal, easily the highest quality in terms of personality. It didn't always work out, but god know it isn'talways supposed to. I found my current partner there, one rose and a reasonably worded message and now I'm in the happiest spot I've ever been. Dating is hard, im not gonna pretend its easy for anyone these days. People are less likely to meet up, and it can be hard to get past the messages. Just don't worry too much about trying to make everything work. Stay interested and try using voice messages if available, it makes the conversation memorable and you'll stick out a lot more than a one sentence text.

I'm occasionally attracted to slimmed/buffer body types (current gf is thin but she is the sexiest girl in the world to me), but man Tinder/Bumble/Hinge was tough cause none of the bigger girls (of which there are fewer in my area) were really that interested compared to the slimmer ones. For reference I'm 6ft 2 and am told I have a conventionally attractive face, but I also don't think I take the best photos tbf.

I pump and dump fat old women from dating apps like FB datings, wooplus, hinge, and sometimes tinder. They are more passionate due to being affectionately neglected and are much sluttier, willing to do what you want, and are usually open to fat play. I already have a thing for fat milfs. Im probably the reason their taste and standards in men become outrageously higher and killing the game, but I assure you theyre nothing but ugly fat old pigs that no one will actually want to settle down with lol. Gotta keep em delusional. Me? I am just super fucking horny.

>>89337 Im into BBW milfs as well, but I've had no luck. Any advice when trying to get one to bang on Facebook dating

Like bro said it may be a chance that she's tryna bulk. Is she a gym girl gym girl? Because if that's the case more than likely she's trying to gain more muscle as opposed to fat. On the other hand if she's eating a lot with you and initiating belly rubbing, then there's also a chance that she may secretly be a feedee, or wants to be? I'll just try to look into it more and bring up the feederism topic once you feel comfortable enough.

>>89279 >>89296 She’s not a gym gym girl. She will track calories and stuff but she’s isn’t trying to bulk. She always claims how she trying to lose weight but she’s put on 10 pounds this year because of me;)

>>89301 If you want to date a fat girl, do it. She wants to be thin. 10 pounds is nothing, her body shifting slightly. Don't waste your time if that's not what you want. Even if she suddenly gains 100 pounds, she'll hate her body and the sex will be shit.

>>89302 >>89302 true that. I was actually with 2 feedees prior to her and the sex was amazing. But I have a great personal connection with her rn. I’m in a crossroads and feel like I should priortize her. I think my imagination is getting to the best of me and I want her to have feedee like tendencies

>>89272 Imo if there is one strong indicator is that she let's you rub her belly.

>>88937 Now that vibecoding is a thing how long is it until someone moderately talented in web design with money to spare on a server drops an actually usable free site and nukes all of this awful Feabie FF bullshit into oblivion

>>88878 I gave up on that site many years ago, I can read all the fat/weight gain stories I want on fur affinity.

>>88941 The vibe coding thing kinda implies AI slop filling in the content part of the site. There's a feederism.org, and it's def vibe coded, full of AI articles. The forums on FF have some bangers. Wife finally a feedee is a hot thread tbh. I like reading porn, but I tend to stick to DA and curvage these days anyway. The Beeboz pregnancy stories were hot on FF, and there are other stories that are bangers, but I don't think anything of immense value will be lost here.

>>89021 Realist shit ever, plus furry stories lowk better anyways

>>89331 >mfw find a story about an anthro female gaining weight/inflating written by someone with actual skill >mfw it isn't DA promptfag slop

>>89071 Invites have always been semi broken and now you need to crop out watermarks

>>89074 I’ve always cropped out/censored watermarks and I’ve never posted anyone that’s actively posting content. Haven’t listed their names or anything. My messages, invites and comments all don’t go through.

piece of rhino shit site anyway, 90% of vids fat fetish related or not are locked and only viewable by friends that the uploader doesn't have, not to mention that not only are there sometimes exact copy vids that AREN'T locked so locking them initially was a waste of time, from the thumbnails i can tell that the vids being gatekept are already fetish vids i can find on somewhere like erome or spankbang, so please direct your attention, time and energy to a porn site that deserves them

What are other alternatives? I don't see Thisvid lasting past new years.

>>89086 Agreed, also looking for alternatives

Yes. I have an amazing source. That I am never sharing with you. Because posts like these don't need their own threads. Fuck you, retard.

its rude to talk to a newcomer like that

im just here to sail the 7 seven seas, i have no time to argue with a bigot like you

>>87441 Lol

>>87441 >OP asks for comics >could've very easily begged for them in the /bbwdraw/ beg thread >likely doesn't know how to navigate the site, let alone the home page that has ALL the boards on display Stupid bitch.

This is some of the most embarrassing shit I've read in my life.

>>86781 And yet you're still here reading?

>>86197 >They want to talk about knitting > When have like any of these models talked about knitting, i bet most of the time they’re talking about like the best way to study evil or something

>>86701 lol

>>84428 >95% of the world FTFY

https://gofile.io/d/wShn6Moz

>>91397 God I love Kayla so much she is so fucking sexy! Thank you for those videos do you know how old they are? I joined her onlyfans after watching these because I’m too obsessed and want more of her and holy fuck her last picture post turned me on so much! I’m not rich so I can’t buy all her videos but i’m waiting to save up for when she decides to post more sexy bloated belly play videos like the ones you posted. She truly is a goddess and deserves good dick. She truly does get way hotter the fatter she gets 😍

>>91448 I love her. Do you have latest content of her ? I wonder how she is and how gain progressing

>>91535 Dude I love Kayla so much! She’s absolutely gorgeous, i’m so desperate for updates on her I periodically coming to bbw chan hoping there’s some brand new news or an update about her since she hardly updates on her onlyfans or curvage. The last thing I saw from this goddess was on September 23rd, when she posted a short clip of herself taking a few bites out of a stick of butter. She’s seriously so beautiful and sexy, and I just wish she posted more often because I’m always looking for more of her! I shouldn’t have to go searching around BBW Chan just to find updates on her when I’m subscribed to her onlyfans and follow her on curvage lol. I miss seeing her doing live streams and regretting missing so many of them back when she was more active on onlyfans.

>>85806 >Women are hypocrites Tell me something I don't know genius, and that doesn't change the fact that fat guys consistently score less than fit men. Either deal with it and get in shape or kill yourself

I'm the husband to a model on OF called "Feedmemommy" We've been married for 2 years, we met on feabie and it was kind of a roller coaster. Things moved fast and we haven't looked back. I've gained about 150 pounds since we got together with no end in sight.

I wouldn't say "dated", but I used to know a couple women online from the community who were into big guys Honestly, it was pretty gratifying. I've never had anyone be so attracted to my size or even the little things like how my old chair would creak as I moved around during VC. She was a gainer herself and would often encourage me to try it, which I eventually did and kept up with for a while after falling out of contact with her I still think about her from time to time, even if I haven't kept up with the gaining myself lately

>>84538 I’ve definitely dated a few individuals that had feedist tendencies all of those relationships felt like each was sort of navigating those tendencies as best they could also or something

No. Women hate fat men. Especially fat women.

>>86987 For real though like why tf is OP even here lmao OP be like: "I prefer a tiny bit of muscle on my girls, but my lady is simply well toned. I know! I'm gonna go to the lean beef patty forum dedicated to muscle mommies sharing bulking tips and ask them what I should do"

Yeah that guy sucks.

>>86937 Bro is onto nothing

>>86937 I think your imagining that individual gaining some weight is what you’re imagining

Keep her awake for 4-5 straight days &nights and brainwash her into knowing she's gotta gain. Put her on the vibe too

If body fat proportion is typical (ie not athletic) it’s probably pushing up toward 30% and in the normal world it’s getting up there. Of course to our perverted eyes it barely registers, so just enjoy the thought for now that regular (especially trim) people are likely starting to notice.

>>88881 If you're tall it's worse. If we exclusively rely on BMI (which you shouldn't), even at 5'11" medical obesity starts at >220lbs; 'healthy' weight is anywhere between 160-180ish. Currently, I weigh slightly more than that and barely look chubby.