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us at what weight is a woman a bbw Anonymous No. 85925 Reply

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how heavy and tall does a woman have to be for her to be considered a bbw? and at what height and what weight does she become a ssbbw?
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Does she need to wear underwear to stay decent, or does her belly do the job all by itself? This question usually answers it pretty quickly. Can you tell she's wearing shorts without her lifting up her folds?
>>85925 Fat fetish four h algorithm
>>85925 The answer to that is entirely subjective and will vary from person to person. And that's okay. My semi-rules for it are: When you can't see bones through her skin, she is thick/plump. When her belly folds over above her groin, she is a BBW. When she can't sprint, she's a SSBBW. And when she has mobility issues, she's a USSBBW. Accept them, reject them, discuss them, ignore them, whatever. I might do that to them tomorrow. Like I said, it's all subjective and personal.
Body fat percentage is a much more reliable metric for categorizing fatties, but it's also more difficult to measure accurately.
Every woman becomes hotter when they hit 215 lbs

us Best clothing brands for the big girls Anonymous No. 89561 Reply
My girl is is getting fatter and outgrowing most of her clothes. Obviously this drive me wild but every girl wants nice clothes to wear. What are some good clothing brands for the bigger girls?

tr Tall bbw - ssbbw Anonymous No. 86277 Reply

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There was a topic before but it was closed, where are the long ssbbw-bbws? Help me, I'm new here. Even if I did something wrong or broke the rules, I'm sorry, I don't know how to use this place.
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>>89491 Where did you get that 5000 stat? Also I’d be curious to see Tracey vs Boberry because while yes Tracey is stronger at least lb for lb, Boberry is basically 300lbs heavier. 600 to Tracey’s 300. Boberry is one of a kind tho and I think she’s the strongest of the ssbbw “models” (porn stars) besides maybe Plump Princess
>>89511 https://www.openpowerlifting.org/rankings/women/by-total The strongest big women are competing in powerlifting and strongman. Always fun to watch them at the rogue invitational or Arnold classic strongman events.
>>89511 Maybe it doesn't fit the fantasy, but any woman over 600 pounds is fragile. Boberry is doing better than most. She's over forty too. The moving she can do is monumental. But the functional reserve needed beyond that, to do something as physically demanding as wrestle, is far far away. The open question for her is how long can she continue to defy the odds around being bed bound, not what athlete could she take.

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Shocked no one has posted about Amazon Amanda yet! Has anyone survived a squashing from her?

it Is Cecehectori gaining again? Is Cecehectori gaining again? No. 79696 Reply
I know she used to be fatter in the past and actively gained, but recently on her posts on Tumblr she at least to me seems to be looking fatter, also she started put the "feedee" tag on her posts, anyone know for sure?
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>>87736 She musta crawled under there for warmth.
>>87736 Like we haven't heard that one before. Go fuck off to Disney and neglect your kids, Kayla.
>>87771 You are a motherfucking king my man
>>87736 And you abandoned your child and abuse every rebound that is stupid enough to get with you so lets not start with this shit maam

us Who r the meanest vs nicest bbw models? Anonymous No. 87702 Reply

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Which models are the worst in the community and which ones are the nicest? Who are the best feedee’s and who are scammers? I want details and lots of it! I don’t want to waste my money on a fake feedee model. I want to pay for actual gains and not for some fake model taking Ozempic behind closed doors. Want to avoid paying for models like Jae, Reina pop, Lauren lush and others like them. Would love to know who I should invest in and who I shouldn’t bother with.
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Ive sessioned with alot of SSBBW's. Vivenne rose stands out as chill and nice
>>88016 I hooked up with Layla during her us tour. It was ok. Some of it was amazing and some kinda scaring. What she did to that hotels shower is a war crime. But all in all, I’d do it again.
>>89437 Why, what does she do to showers?
>>89441 It’s gotta be weird being from Italy not knowing what American sized women are like irl. I took my girl to Rome at one point and suffice to say she fit on half the toilets and straight up couldn’t fit into a quarter of the water closets.
Kayla Peach is disgusting af. She smells like shit because she doesn’t wipe her ass ever. Grossest model I have ever had the displeasure of coming across. Do not recommend unless you are into poop.

us Bigcutie Marylin Anonymous No. 85832 Reply
https://onlyfans.com/marilynmorexoxo Looks like she made the leap, wonder how long until the remaining Bigcuties models jump.
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>>89452 Not Stefan, a bystander who doesn’t want to see Marilyn get sucked into the world of drama Kayla exists in
>>89454 All the models have drama in their lives. You are a weirdo porno addict on a porn site that gives content for free smearing people you don’t know. Stfu and let her make up her own mind about kayla you fucking psychopath.
>>89457 It’s a little weird you’re getting this triggered over me saying she shouldn’t work with someone who’s clearly a batshit insane headcase
>>89452 >>89457 Troy!! How's it going man. I gotta hand it to you - living in an RV with a BBW and traveling around does look fun, even though Kayla has clearly lost like 60 pounds. Does she know you hit on Miley relentlessly the entire friendship, or do you keep that from her? Are you the one who wants Kayla to work with Marylin so badly, so you can try to fuck Marylin too? I can't tell if you guys are open or if you just lie to Kayla nonstop 24/7. Either way, I genuinely wish you the worst!
>>89469 This is hilarious. Dude wrote an entire Netflix drama about people he doesn’t even know and somehow convinced himself it was a documentary.

us How do women get this fetish? Anonymous No. 89345 Reply
I'm not talking about your girlfriend or wife who you convinced to start gaining for you. I'm talking about the women who fantasize about getting as big as possible (whether or not they actually act upon this depends). Is it like us where they might get it from a cartoon episode, a documentary they might see on TV, the Guinness World Record books, fetish art or a fetish model clip that breaks containment? Have you noticed any differences between the ones that are actually fat versus the ones that just talk about wanting to be fat?
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>>89345 Write great weight gain stories, ones that intrigue women, pull them in and make them touch themselves while thoughts of gaining run through their head.
>>89350 I can’t really remember. I know I was on deviantart searching fat girls at 9 years old and copy pasting dimensions stories into my notes app on my iPod touch 💀 I think searching generic fat terms on YouTube led me to videos with feedee/feeder in the title and that’s when I realised what it was called, maybe? Can’t remember. I’d been roaming tumblr from 13-21 without making an account, and then one day randomly decided to get on feabie and make a tumblr account and start posting myself. Posting has definitely given me confidence. But it’s taken me a very long time to accept it, and I still unfortunately have deep rooted fatphobia that I’m trying to work on. I still care what people think about me, and I feel that is the hardest part to overcome, for me at least. Even after realising this was a part of me and it was never going away, I still couldn’t accept it. It’s just gradually come along over the years. I’m only ~110kg and don’t get many, if any, comments on my weight from people in my life or strangers, so I think that’s helped as well
>>89345 My gf had always been a bit chubby and insecure about it. I knew it and didn't push her for anything, just showed appreciation for her figure. When I opened up about it was a bit scared what the reaction would be... But she loved the idea. She has gained kinda lot since then (65-> 77kg in 2 years) and she is crazy for roleplaying (sometimes she has even more extreme fantasies than I).>>89345
Pretty sure we get it like guys do – it’s just a -thing- that you’re vaguely into from a young age, and then you have a bunch of life experiences that push it in a certain direction. I think there’s a lot more interaction with family and social expectations for us though, because that’s the world that women have to live in (or it was for me at least). Like growing up in the mid / late 00s with the remnants of size zero culture and having a very health conscious mum and competitive sisters made it feel a lot more relevant than it probably should have done.
>>89428 If posting gives you confidence you should post here well root out that internalized fatphobia

us how to feel fatter without gaining weight? Anonymous No. 89056 Reply
Certain health problems run in my family, and because of that, gaining weight would be a bad idea. In fact, I need to LOSE weight, but I want to satisfy the fantasy without having it effect my real life. So far, all I could think of are intentionally wearing clothes that are too small and intentionally weakening seams and buttons so they're more likely to tear, and fake "weigh ins" where I put rocks in my pockets or something so the number is higher that it should be. Do any of you guys have experience in this? Thanks in advance.
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>>89282 Holy LARP
>>89294 Jealous?
>>89282 I’ve had boyfriends get to similar size and they said some of the same things.
>>89340 They’re jealous. I’m not gay but I think the fetish kinda makes you stop caring about gender when someone’s massively obese and gaining. Especially hippy jiggle fat boys. But like I said, not gay. It’s weird.
>>89340 I don’t think there’s anything that gross about taking a BM in the shower. Plenty of fat people do it and have always done it. Hell I think that’s why the drain is designed how it is to make it easier.

us Weight gain tropes No. 76041 Reply Last 50

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In your opinion, what’s your favorite trope about this fetish? Me personally I enjoy when they break furniture, can’t fit in doorways and struggle climbing stairs
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>>83305 2010 okcupid was quite the best time in human history for a bookish introverted FA to meet bookish introverted fat girls. You go on there and swap 5 thousand word messages back and forth and then move in together on the third date. Thank God I'm not single because I would be fucking lost right now with the current dating app Match group monopoly dominated bullshit
>>76041 I like things that remind me that my partner is fat algorithm
Don’t think it’s a common enough trope but confident fatness is always great There’s just much better vibes from someone intentionally fat. More personality, better fashion, leans into the kink more, and so on
>>89252 Yeah shy/insecure fatties are fun in stories, but confident fat girls are way better when it comes to dating irl.
>>76041 My favourite weight gain scenario is a skinny character indulging a little too much until they begin to realise how fat they're getting, cautiously decide they've had enough and try to leave, only to find they can't fit through the door anymore. When they realise they're trapped, they're forced back inside and fattened up even more against their will, to the point of immobility. Has the best of both worlds for me: wholesome overindulgence, and forced feeding to punish said overindulgence. Also, sloshing noises, like when a character rolls over on their back and the massive weight of their belly shifts and makes a sound like a giant water balloon. But it needs to sound muffled, low in pitch, and kind of gelatinous in texture. There are videos out there with belly sloshing added that sounds like stereo underwater ambience and they always get it wrong, in my opinion. But that's all fantasy stuff. IRL just seeing subtle body changes over time, and someone adjusting clothes that used to fit but are obviously too tight (e.g. shirt keeps riding up and they pull it down), is enough for me.

us Anonymous No. 84392 Reply

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Don't you think it's odd how corporate advertising is allowed to have references to BDSM, foot fetish, ageplay, incest, petplay, etc., but you never see references to fat fetish, despite the fact it's probably just as common as the other "mainstream" fetishes? Why is that?
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>>84422 Incest is heavily praised by instagram micro exotic bully breeders.
Common or not in advertising... It's quite a weird situation to be seen as a creepy weirdo for simply liking fat women by a bunch of people who liked to get tied up and choked and suffocated and beaten with baseball bats and whips. Even weirder that they get away with talking about it in normal conversation. But if I like a fat ass? That's just too much apparently I get that the bdsm people can take the ropes off and the fat girl can't take her fat off ... But still.
>>84392 That’s because mainstream culture is obesephobic
I don’t think it’s because society hates fat people or whatever ( at least not the US ), it just that somebody liking toes is funnier than somebody liking big girls. If you look, there are plenty of plus size people in ads now, but it’s a lot more creepy to sexualize them in ads because fat covers basically the whole body and feet are just feet. Also the left might get mad if you treat being into fatties as a joke when it’s very serious business, chud.
>>84392 This is Dr. Phil's fault.

us I think I'm finally free Anonymous No. 89342 Reply
Went to a public beach today and realized just how nasty most fat chicks are. For now at least, I'm free from this fetish. With any luck, I'll meet a nice woman at a a healthy weight who strikes my fancy, start a family with her, she eventually puts on pounds as is natural for people her age, and then the old fetish reawakens as I ravage her plump pussy with newfound enthusiasm. For now, chicks under 200 pounds for me plz.
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>>89342 You keep telling yourself that. There's no denying the cellulite, the girth and roundness of bellies and butts and thighs, the bounce, the jiggle. You'll be looking for your 350+ lb queen in a few weeks

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>>89342 You'll be back. The sooner you realize it, the less time you waste searching for women your hear and dick don't want.
>>89342 See ya in a week buddy
OP, have you ever actually fucked a fat woman?
>>89413 Premarital sex? What kind of retard do you take me for?

mx Anonymous No. 89352 Reply
I just got contacted by some rando on discord trying to get me to join this private discord server. Problem is, you have to pay to get in but according to this person you can find feeders who'll actually pay for food. I'm 99% sure it's a scam but just to be sure, has anyone heard of or is even part of this server? Is it legit?
>>89352 >paying to get into a disc*rd server He's gonna start begging you for Google Play gift cards. Then, when you buy him the gift cards and give him the codes, he'll promise to get you into the server. But, you'll be left with no response from him after's got the money and you'll be left wondering if the server even existed in the first place.
>>89352 🍯

us why do i always keep fumbling on dating sites (wooplus, fb dating, hinge) fumbleanon No. 85767 Reply

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hey everyone, longtime lurker, first post here. started talking to picrel about an hour ago off WooPlus. convo started normal then got casual then suddenly went completely off the rails despite her innocent profile she’s lowkey a total freak. asking about positions, what i’m into, all that. thing is i think i fumbled. she said she’d send all her nudes and shit if i sent a dick pic first. i’m pretty decent sized down there so it’s not even insecurity really, i just don’t feel comfortable sending pics like that to some girl i met the same day. what’s bothering me is this keeps happening. in the last month i’ve probably had like 4 different girls where i could’ve fucked something up somehow and i either flake, hesitate, or mess it up right when things start getting real. i’m still a virgin btw so maybe that’s part of it. now she’s replying slower and it’s been like 20 mins since the last message and my brain is already convincing me i blew it fuck man her ass is so thick too, it’s weird because her profile looks innocent as hell but she’s a total freak once you start talking to her. what should i do? i’m like 6'5, 235 lbs rn around 23% bf if that matters. I normally got an afro but got it cut off because of some family gathering thing.
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>>87921 >i found a way to consistently give girls orgasms through belly rubs and i feel like everyone having regular missionary sex whos into this kink needs to hear that its possible to do that so they can tell the people in the back that dont realize they dont want that kind of sex that theres more then one way to fuck How is it that you do that?
>>87927 The trick is some lady’s can get stimulation from the pressure of a full stomach. It’s part biology part psychology

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>>87931 that can be a part of it but not even all the girls ive "fucked" are into that, just my two feedee girlfriends who play into my burping kink and especially like belly button play. with bellybutton stuff it can activate the same fullness and insides shifting feeling and they tell me its a full body experience when i do it right, now with moving the belly button too much i try to be gentle with rotations because sometimes the skin clicks and folds onto itself in a way that stings and pinches and so thrusting motions and small pulses are safer for beginners to not hurt them. with belly button play its mostly hot/cold reading what the other person wants because i dont like when its touched on me. also belly buttons make for a new "hole" so if they have problems with their genitalia you can "eat her out" right there in the tummy and it can really be comforting and safe with how alot of those actions and technique mirror what you would do with a pussy. >>87927 okay so i can talk about this more and answer questions but ive been trying to learn to talk about this in more of a tutorial style because i feel like of all the porn ive looked at it never captured alot of the tecniques i really just coined myself interacting with a large varriaty of women and still somehow figureing out how to push their buttons no matter what genitalia they have, how skinny they where or what kind of fat they have on them. one girl in particular had a botched c section so she said that her entire genitalia felt numb and sex was awful past that point and then i would grab her massive folds and shake them around and it let her have orgasms even fully clothed and standing when we have two seconds leaveing the car to have a "quick fuck" so for basics that i think are fairly consistent there are some pressure points that really matter. so i drew some crude ms paint drawings that give a general outline of what points people tend to like, now the orange is good for fishing out a good spot for them. you CAN grab at these spots but in this example this is where i know all the long presses work. other places in the body especially where fat sits nicely on a place that would otherwise be bone like love handles are good to grab but that is extremely dependent on size and if it is visceral fat vs subcutaneous fat and how supple the skin is to even be grabbed. so going back to my little demonstration we have the orange lines and they thin out right before touching the genitalia because remember, we are not touching any of that in this tecnique, this is going to go around it so right below the belly button you are going to trace where hair just stops forming, if you touch hair you are too low and none of the long presses are going to be that far into the low intestines anyway without it being more of a kneeing motion. what you want to do is move your hand from that low point and find the dip where the hip bone meets the leg and THATS the real hold spot. you can dig your fingers in there like you would treat a pussy or rim an asshole or you can go up to the next spot that is good to just press and hold where the hip bone has about an inch of distance between the rib cage. see these blue dots i drew, thats what im talking about. now the one dot on the side is different from the dot on the back. the pressure point on the back i figured out myself when feeling sick one day and it turns out it affects the stomach alot more then you would think. the spot on the back can feel good even with a skinny empty stomach but ESPECIALLY gets activated when she is bloated. finding where to place your fingers is critical and might take some trial and error but once you find that spot on the back in between the ribs you are golden.
>>87921 how would u recommend meeting women irl, anon. Thanks in advice.
>>85767 fat bitch dating algorithm

us Experience with BBWs on dating apps Anonymous No. 84534 Reply
Just wanted to read some of your experiences with matching with BBWs on dating apps and share my own. >A while back, someone suggested I try Facebook Dating if I want to find more fat chicks and BBW >Make a new account and wait 1-2 months before Facebook gives me access to the Dating app >To my surprise, the algorithm shows me BBWs or chubby women of various ages 90% of the time. Unlike Tinder. >Match with a couple, but barely get a response or conversation most of the time I know I suck at flirting, but after multiple attempts and trying different strategies, I'm feeling kinda done with it.
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>>88635 I haven't been that successful on either. Are their any notable signs that a woman is willing to hookup that I should look out for?
Feabie is really the easiest way to find someone who fits your preferences, but it can be really difficult to break through the mass of weirdo simps talking to every reasonably attractive girl over 400 lbs. It can be difficult to tell if the person you're talking to is well adjusted or a basement dweller, but if you're just trying to score with someone in the ssbbw range, this will always be your best shot. WooPlus has only worked for me once and gave me someone 200 miles away. That being said, she was really pretty, super horny, and willing to drive 4 hours to hook up. I think i just got really lucky tbh, other than that its a trash app. Tinder basically hasn't worked since 2021 lol, fuck whoever runs that shit. Hinge is the only app that really worked for me. If you exclusively choose only larger women, the app will learn and start sending you every reasonably attractive fat girl in your area. I've gone on dates with around dozen girls in the 200-400 lb range over the course of 3 years and I don't live in that populated of an area. All of them were employed, most were relatively normal, easily the highest quality in terms of personality. It didn't always work out, but god know it isn'talways supposed to. I found my current partner there, one rose and a reasonably worded message and now I'm in the happiest spot I've ever been. Dating is hard, im not gonna pretend its easy for anyone these days. People are less likely to meet up, and it can be hard to get past the messages. Just don't worry too much about trying to make everything work. Stay interested and try using voice messages if available, it makes the conversation memorable and you'll stick out a lot more than a one sentence text.
I'm occasionally attracted to slimmed/buffer body types (current gf is thin but she is the sexiest girl in the world to me), but man Tinder/Bumble/Hinge was tough cause none of the bigger girls (of which there are fewer in my area) were really that interested compared to the slimmer ones. For reference I'm 6ft 2 and am told I have a conventionally attractive face, but I also don't think I take the best photos tbf.
I pump and dump fat old women from dating apps like FB datings, wooplus, hinge, and sometimes tinder. They are more passionate due to being affectionately neglected and are much sluttier, willing to do what you want, and are usually open to fat play. I already have a thing for fat milfs. Im probably the reason their taste and standards in men become outrageously higher and killing the game, but I assure you theyre nothing but ugly fat old pigs that no one will actually want to settle down with lol. Gotta keep em delusional. Me? I am just super fucking horny.
>>89337 Im into BBW milfs as well, but I've had no luck. Any advice when trying to get one to bang on Facebook dating

us is my girlfriend a feedee? hopefulfeeder No. 89272 Reply

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My girlfriend is a skinny girl who goes to the gym and tracks her calories to stay skinny. Whenever we see each other on the weekend she mentions how she feels so free to eat and wants to eat everything in the world in front of me. She seriously starts to pig out with me. She will mention how she feels fat and then proceed to eat more. She also mentions how I make her fat and she feels so free to eat in front of me. When we cuddle at night after a big day of eating she will let me rub her belly. I haven’t told her ima a feeder but I’m wondering if I should. She always mentions how she only enjoys eating a shit ton with me Here is a pic of a meal she makes me get when we see each other.
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Like bro said it may be a chance that she's tryna bulk. Is she a gym girl gym girl? Because if that's the case more than likely she's trying to gain more muscle as opposed to fat. On the other hand if she's eating a lot with you and initiating belly rubbing, then there's also a chance that she may secretly be a feedee, or wants to be? I'll just try to look into it more and bring up the feederism topic once you feel comfortable enough.
>>89279 >>89296 She’s not a gym gym girl. She will track calories and stuff but she’s isn’t trying to bulk. She always claims how she trying to lose weight but she’s put on 10 pounds this year because of me;)
>>89301 If you want to date a fat girl, do it. She wants to be thin. 10 pounds is nothing, her body shifting slightly. Don't waste your time if that's not what you want. Even if she suddenly gains 100 pounds, she'll hate her body and the sex will be shit.
>>89302 >>89302 true that. I was actually with 2 feedees prior to her and the sex was amazing. But I have a great personal connection with her rn. I’m in a crossroads and feel like I should priortize her. I think my imagination is getting to the best of me and I want her to have feedee like tendencies
>>89272 Imo if there is one strong indicator is that she let's you rub her belly.