/gen/ - General Discussion

why do so many americans have this weird pledging fetish? don't wanna kink shame, genuinely curious.

>>90940 We're a nation of lawyers, we love contracts.

>>90940 Their schools make them do it every morning. Of course that'll happen.

>>90683 I remember seeing a Japanese plus sized dating app called Pocha-Koi. Have you tried that out?

>>90688 That's wild! I've been searching for 2 months, but I've only met 4 or 5 girls, and they're all skinnier than my ex :< Japanese 'chubby' girls are way too skinny for me!! I wish I lived abroad... >>90725 Yeah, I've signed up for them. But there are almost no active users in western Japan where I live. I've heard that no matter where you look in the U.S., there are heavy girls everywhere... I'm so jealous of all the plus-sized girls over there.

>>90763 You certainly need to visit the US. I'll be back visiting a southern state soon and I am very excited. 97kg women is the norm there and it's not uncommon to see women far far heavier.

>>90683 that sounds very frustrating OP. of course there are a lot more fat women here in the USA than in japan. that much should be obvious. but it's important to remember that a lot of those women are still ugly, and for various reasons, fat women are more likely to be ugly regardless of their weight. it was still very difficult for me to find a fat girlfriend who was actually pretty, though i'm sure it would be much harder with japan's lower obesity rate. i've been with my girlfriend for a decade now and she weighs about 300 lbs (~140kg?). she's so pretty too. after we get married, she said she'd be willing to gain up to at least 350 lbs (~160kg?) for me as well since she loves eating anyway and gained 50 lbs after we got together and she stopped watching her weight. i wouldn't want her to get significantly above 400 lbs though since i actually love her and want her to live a long time with me, and it seems like above 400 lbs is when it seems to get very difficult to remain relatively healthy. but if i enabled her completely i don't know how big she'd get based on how she eats. i've never been above normal weight so it's wild to me. she does stuff like dip various chips and snacks in nacho cheese or nutella. she eats practically everything whereas i'm really picky. i also met her on a dating app--that's unfortunately just how things are nowadays. other than using the internet and seeking out larger population centers, i have no idea how i would seek out BBW/SSBBW in japan. i wish you luck though OP--japan's population is over 100 million in a relatively small area, so i'm sure there's a girl with a major thing for food somewhere around there just waiting for a guy like you who would enable her most excessive desires.

I'm also Japanese fat admirer. I think Japanese girls ur too skinny. I cat't find lover in Japan because my fav weight is over 600lbs.

>>90890 120lbs in a year is insane work. As unsexy as it is, get her a sleep study to check if she needs a CPAP machine. And get her swimming - it's a low impact activity that will help build a small amount of muscle and improve cardio. That'll help support any future gains.

>>90890 Old Navy has been very good recently. And a brand called Cider. Target occasionally. There's another very recent one that I'll try and remember to get the name of. She needs to get used to the additional weight, some muscle would do her some good. Perhaps avoid a chair until she's a real heavyweight otherwise she won't have the necessary foundations on which to build super obesity.

>>90895 Yes, we're in the Northeast US. I guess it's hyperbole to say we can't find ANYTHING in stores, but it's few and far between when shopping in public. We usually go to our local Torrid once a month and though shirts and underwear are generally available, jeans and shorts above a 22 are just impossible to find. She has a few pairs of 30s now that are pretty comfortable but are starting to get snug when she sits. I'll definitely check out online options soon though. We both prefer to shop in person, especially because she can be picky when it comes to clothes and how they look, but she'll get used to it. I once suggested Lane Bryant to her- apparently that's "40 year old mom clothes". >>90903 Thank you, we're both very proud! I suggested a sleep study to her and she seems very open to it... but the CPAP might take some getting used to. She absolutely has sleep arena, I've been listening to it for months. Her physical is coming up soon and I'm planning on addressing it then. Speaking of medical things... she was pre-diabetic when we met. I'm guessing she may be officially deemed Type 2 at the next appointment... with all that being said, does she qualify for a medical disability? Does anyone have experience with that? It would be nice if we could start parking in handicap spaces, because there have been a dozen times lately where we don't go to the store at that moment because there aren't any parking spaces close enough. My feedee loves to swim. Amazingly she's a better swimmer than me! But floating comes a lot more naturally to her. I know I need to get her some muscle but I'm always afraid of her losing weight. Any tips on finding a good balance? And advice for swimming in the Winter as broke uni kids? Lol

>>90915 Since the two of you are in university, see if you can get a discount for a local community recreation centre (specifically one that has a public pool) that's nearby. That's what I did when I was attending university and got a 75% discount for this rec centre that was a ten minute walk where I live. And depending on the area you two live in, local resorts have heated outdoor pools or indoor pools, though your mileage may vary on pricing. During the seasons when swimming isn't an option, yoga is another low impact activity she can do, for it can help with her cardio and have her build physical strength, especially when she needs to build up more muscles in order to support the fat she's going to gain. Make sure the routine is light and takes it slowly. For food intake, high calorie food and snacking in-between is essential. Rice and red meat (beef or pork), with the former being a relatively cheap food to bulk up with, are required. One cup of rice provides 200 calories, and is fairly calorie-dense in a single serving. Add butter and Parmesan cheese, scrambled eggs, or even something like crushed/shaved peanuts or cashews can make it into a whole meal. Speaking of which, nuts (almonds, cashews, peanuts, etc.) are great for snacking, and a handful of almonds provides around 170 calories. While lean cuts, like pork tenderloin, can be a nutrient-dense and protein-rich part of a balanced gaining plan, consider choosing fattier cuts, which provide more calories than leaner meats to help you take in extra calories. Homemade protein smoothies/shakes are both highly nutritious and an effective way to gain weight. Look up the ones that provide around 400-600 calories. You can add nut butter to a variety of snacks or dishes, such as smoothies, yogourts, and crackers, to turn them into a high calorie snack in no time. Also look into fruits that are fairly calorie-dense, such as avocados or dehydrated fruits. And if you're worried she is going to lose weight with the physical activity, don't be. Trust in the process, and she'll be right.

>>90903 Cpaps are unsexy? Nonsense!

>>90528 Watch Stuffy Bunny on youtube

^^ StuffyBunny's entire thing is that. On top of that she is just generally cute and funny. Myfatblondegf does really gluttonous, messy eating, like cereal in a salad bowl. However her entire demeanor makes her seem like she is mentally disabled. Lot of people here are into that, though.

>>90561 not so much she's disabled as much as it's her weirdo bf enabling her to fall into some weirdo incest/ddlg mindset where the only things she's capable of doing is mindlessly eating whatever he plops in front of her, her clapping like a skullfucked seal at said food, demanding "more" in the most monotone and semi bored voice i think anyone could manage and being groped while the shitty royalty free rap instrumental plays in the background all throughout (i hate that last aspect the most if you couldn't tell)

>>89133 No, we’ve never discussed this >>89256 She’s hates outgrowing her favorite clothes, but she loves shopping so she has mixed emotions about it. Recently I had to buy her a few pair of work pants because she broke the zipper on 2 of them

She’s starting to outgrow her tops also

>>89656 Can we get an update?

Did you track all the changing of her weight-in? As I told u before I'm having somwthing similar with a LDR filipina

Man, now I miss my ex... She was 4'12 and 55 kgs. I got her up to 68 kgs over the course of 1 1/2 years through the pandemic. Wasn't really a feedee or anything to do with this fetish. Just wanted to go along because I liked it. You're a lucky man... I haven't been able to find another one like her ever since.

>>90291 I finally got the guts to look her up, she died about a month and a half after we fucked and after looking back through my texts, she texted me a week before she died saying she missed me (while she was in hospice apparently). Fucking kill me.

>>90298 Damn,couldn't even send a reply smdh. Lowkey could have been one of the last few people she spoke to.

>>90298 You know, just take it as a lesson to either avoid that situation or to just be there and commit. Even though you where in it to just fuck her for her size, you still made an emotional bond. There is no such thing as sex without any emotional connection, so if your gonna stick your dick in her the least you could do is check a message and reply. God though, I can't express just how much I hate the "morbidity" of morbid obesity. Its so sad that the bigger they get, they get exponentially more health issues.

>>83457 Where do you even find people like this

>>90830 She was on feabie, I took a chance and messaged a grey profile pic because there aren't many people in my area. During the initial talking stage I had no idea she was that sick, she mentioned being a cancer survivor a few years back and that she needed to go back on chemo again, she gradually let on that it was worse than that but I didn't think she'd fucking die less than 2 months later or I'd have never gotten involved. >>90340 Rest assured learned my lesson, I stopped manwhoring after that. It also was very eye opening seeing someone in her late 40s body giving out because she was so god damned fat. It felt like I was fucking a pile of flesh from a Francis Bacon painting instead of a soft curvy woman. I felt disgusted and ashamed for being so fetish brained. My current girlfriend is in the mid 300s and I don't want her to get any bigger.

Kinda? I mean ik fetishes kinda suck because you get really picky when it comes to looks but if the figure of a person doesn't resemble a toothpick it's fine for me already idk bout y'all

You're viewing this through a lens of skinny = normal. You could apply your same logic to gays who don't find women attractive. You can't choose what gives you a stiffy and if fat women make you hard there's nothing wrong with that. At least you're not a nonce (Hopefully).

Life’s better when you date who you’re genuinely attracted to.

I know what you guys mean, I think sometimes it’s just hard to see how weight scales in porn too. I get off to girls mostly between 250-500 lbs but my girlfriend is like 5’4” probably 160-170 range and she’s plenty chunky for me. I would love for her to be fatter but I’m still super into her. Point being I don’t ever really find myself jerking off to chicks that small but I’m happy with it IRL.

I am able to recognize and appreciate the beauty of most women, but I feel zero lust for normal sized women. >>90490 Keep your porn consumption in check. Just as being porn-sick can skew your fetishes to the depraved, they can also skew them to the extreme. You can start by just liking very busty women, and then a few years later, you're starting a thread on this board about not being able to cum unless she's wearing her cpap and her nice mumu.

>>90630 Maybe someone can post a folder of her pics somewhere and kindly share the link?

>>90675 Nah nma few pics popped up here and there but theyve been cleaned out. The one that just got deleted was the last one. >>90738 Honestly hopefully not

>>90745 I'm sure someone will post her again, someone saved and shared an earlier pic in this thread. Surprised that made the rounds. She's too fat to leave the bbw world orbit.

Whoever got the bright idea to talk to sylv_sass, you fucked it up for the rest of us. Everything has been privated or it's been taken down.

>>90810 I knew this shit would happen again Fucking retards

this sucks, obviously, but a live platform where you pay to directly fatten women up..now that would be something

>>90795 Looks like shit.

This is jingling fucking keys.

So I got us a hot tub as it’s been so hot recently and she badly needed a way to cool down. For like 3 weeks now she gets back from work immediately gets into one of her bikinis which are all too small. Orders food and then just relaxes in the hot tub till the shade comes over the garden. And then goes onto make dinner etc. It’s been so hot watching her just exist in her bikinis. If you look close enough you can see she’s wearing bottoms in the pic lol. It’s also meant she’s still eating loads even tho it’s super hot.

>>88992 Getting engaged to a little blonde cow who gets her belly out for the photo, bro is living the dream, congrats. Hopefully after the wedding you keep fattening her up, reach her potential >>90018 The gut covering the bikini bottoms is great, if you've got any more please share. These pics are always great, I love the double chin

>>73494 My wife has gained 5 pounds a month consistently since stopping Mounjaro in June of last year. Her low weight was around 270 or so, she's up over 340 now. I work from home, and today when she came home for lunch she looked at the pan full of leftovers I was heating up for us to eat and declared "we can split this, I don't need it all." Before promptly eating it all. Obviously I'd love her to actively want to gain weight, but there's something super hot about being in total denial about it too. She was 370 when she started Mounjaro, so that's sort of my short-term personal goal for her. Her all time high was 400, which I'd like to beat by the end of next year.

>>90550 Before/after pics?

I’ve been dating my partner for a little over a year now. When I first met her she was a little on the thicker side and since then I would have to guess she has put on at least 20-25 pounds. I would venture to guess she’s in the 180-190 area. I’m mostly sure she isn’t putting on the weight on purpose, but I’m not fully convinced. I’ve never told her about my fetish but she’s asked me if I have the fetish or if I’m trying to fatten her up fairly frequently. I’m She just keeps eating her sweets though. Im genuinely not trying to make her fatter, but she just keeps on piling on the pounds. I just let her know how attractive I find her and I’m always touching her. She loves it. I only don’t tell her because I don’t want this stupid fetish to ruin our relationship. I care about her so much more last how good she looks with the extra weight. She would still be beautiful thin. Anyways. This weekend we did some hiking since we both love the outdoors. We went with a couple friends and she was out of breath quick and often and needed to stop more frequently than normal. Part of me felt bad for her since she loves hiking and it made me a little sad since I do love hiking with her. Another part of me was a little turned on though that she was struggling a bit. After our hike she briefly mentioned she just thought about how she needs to be eating better and taking care of her body, then like 5 minutes later she wanted to get some ice cream since we were in an unfamiliar area with new foods. I don’t know if she just can’t refuse a sweet treat even after struggling doing something she likes, or if maybe even she’s a secret feedee. I would be shocked if she was since she’s always talking about diabetes. I highly doubt that would happen, she would need to be at least double the weight I would think. I’m more writing this post to see if anyone has similar experiences with their partners. Asking if you have the fetish, eating sweets, regretting it, repeat.

>>90689 unfortunately, yes. you can't change how your body grows or stores fat, that's just how the body works. sorry if it's not in an ideal spot. that said, there are clothes that can potentially hide it, shapewear is a thing, but they aren't going to magically cause you stop gaining in one area and gain more in another.

>>90690 That person doesn’t know what they are talking about. Pleasantly plumps belly is super uneven now.

>>90588 https://www.instagram.com/pleasantlyplumpssbbw She is the best example of how to change your body shape ...don't trust the ragebait guy

>>90588 jus don't wear tight clothes and gain weight, if she can, you can change your body shape too

reply to this thread if you want to get blacked by a huge bbc

Literally just scrolled a looong way down to see if this had been posted before I did. Crap. Was kinda hoping for more. Can't believe it's only us chubby-chasers who have made/supported a "clubhouse". Bumping this back up hoping...

Simpcity has threads per model,and megathreads per topic. Tends to be good about longevity as people mirror things.

>>90622 > It has a BNWO subforum

had this in my bookmarks but can't vouch for the site as I've never really used it https://titsintops.com/phpBB2/

>>90622 Only issue is that registration is literally never open. It’s been months since you’ve been able to register for that site

>>90400 too lazy & busy rn

I just use Media Player Classic. >>90400

MPC-QT, the modern version of MPC-HC.

>>90433 im getting a security warning when i try to download it. is it safe?

>>90422 Very low IQ meme I'm afraid.

Exactly not all women are the same, makes me wonder if stuff like this is done by angry trolls who have issues with women. When not all women are the same. there are fat women who fantasize about banging fat men out there, it's hard to say how common it is but they are out there.

>>90633 >there are fat women who fantasize about banging fat men out there, it's hard to say how common it is but they are out there. It's hard to say how common it is because it is practically nonexistent. A woman being with a man despite him being fat and a woman liking fat men are two completely different things. The only scenario in which women like "fat men" is when the guy has a dad bod aka an incredibly muscular physique with a slightly higher bodyfat percentage. If you put an actual fat man on any dating app you will get 0 matches. You are delusional.

>>90406 I see this asked a lot on Tumblr and you'd be surprised how flagrantly selfish a lot of women in the online FA/Feedism community are when it comes to their size. Questions like, "would you be interested in dating fat men?" usually get translated to "would you be interested in mutual gain (or xwg)?"—in which case the answer is almost always an unequivocal "no." This whole 'fatness for me, but not for thee' mindset seems more common in cishet corners too, I think? Which at that point you can argue it adds yet another, painfully shallow layer to those weird sexual dimorphism debates wrt to straight women fetishizing tall men, etc.

>>90668 >in which case the answer is almost always an unequivocal "no." And to be fair, veteran models (especially of the SSBBW variety) are acutely aware of the logistics required just to maintain their size, relative good health and personal hygiene. It's often a nightmare for partners who aren't fat themselves; leaving open the possibility for them to develop those very same issues on top of that creates even more paths for tension to build in a relationship that already has its own unique constraints. So on the other hand, I understand why so many reflexively say, "no", but that doesn't mean I can't wish straight FFAs would make themselves more widely known.

>>90669 >wish straight FFAs would make themselves more widely known. Sometimes it genuinely feels like pic related.

Bump

>>88354 Nice, which region of the US were you finding these fatties? I've fucked two women over 600lbs. Unforgettable experiences for both but not the best sex I've ever had. At a certain size you aren't that much of a participant, you're just kind of there.

>>90547 Can you give a little more detail on what happened? How tall were each of them? How were they shaped? Did they want to get fed before/during/after? Were either of them immobile or close to it?

Yah I would argue having sex with a woman 350 lbs is more enjoyable than someone who is 600…. All with the exception of Boberry 😂

So anyone got any stories to share?