I hooked up with a few different girls off of Feabie, two of which were local girls. One was a fairly famous model which was cool, I had her socials and hit her up when I was traveling for work. All three of them hit me up for a hookup without me prompting them. I had many many other women's socials that absolutely would have let me hit it if I was in their area, including one that was a big cities model (she offered to let me stay at her place if I flew there).
It's really not that hard, I am a mid ass autistic black dude so if I can do it so can you.
1. Post pics showing the best side of you. Get a haircut, get your mom to take a picture of you during golden your, go out for a hike and snap some pics so you look like you actually have a life and personality.
2. Be thoughtful in your replies. These girls get told they are beautiful 100 times a day, in your initial message pick out something in their profile and bring that up and say why you are interested in talking to them. Ask about their day, their thoughts on things, their interests.
3. Act normal. They also get called fat pigs 100 times a day, don't bring up their weight unless they do, and even then play it cool, act like them being fat is one of the reasons why you're interested. Don't double message, if they stop responding move on. Sometimes people get overwhelmed and just don't want to talk, or they are interested in someone and don't want to flirt. More than a few times they have swung back around in a month and continued the conversation.
And yes feabie is on the whole awful, but for all the scammers and women who think they deserve to be paid for the privilege of having a conversation, there's plenty that are looking for a real connection with someone who appreciates their weight.