>>78230 Was she aware that you were into feeding her? And how did you first end up eating her out? Was that on the first time you hung out together like this, or did it come later?

My ex weighed like 240 pounds. We used to fuck a lot and it was always great. But for me the best sex was that time we were at my house, I had gotten together with my friends and she was there too. When it was all over I was left alone with her and we were getting ready to have sex, the thing is that she hadn't eaten anything that day and her belly was growling like crazy. She knew I was into feederism but she wasn't and I gave her an offer I told her I would have something to eat if she let me feed her sexually She told me "I'm so hungry and horny I'll do anything" So I went to my kitchen and got out a chocolate cake I had from earlier and a bottle of soda We were in bed, we both started making out and I gave her a piece of the cake You could see the pleasure on her face I kept giving her piece after piece, watching as her clothes got tighter and tighter She told me she was thirsty so I gave her a sip of the soda Her clothes looked like they couldn't hold up anymore so I unbuttoned her pants so she could keep eating I kept feeding her more and more and took off more clothes until eventually I gave her the whole cake and there she was completely naked and breathing heavily Her belly went from being soft like jelly to hard like a balloon, she looked pregnant and as if she was about to burst with how bloated her stomach was, which was now growling but of how full of gas she was I asked her if she was ready to fuck and she told me to wait a bit, her belly swelled and she let out a huge burp followed by a "much better"

My first and current gf, she started around 400 something and is now around 550. We met in high school when I was a senior and she a junior. She was in one of my classes and just happened to be at the place I worked at during one weekend, I was checking out her items making small talk then I did some corny shit after asking her name like “Well, it was nice to meet you _.” Lwky I thought I blew it lmao and I was like fuck. But the next time we were in class she was staring me down and smiling at me. I was like fuck yeah then I looked back and smiled at her. I was fucking pumped, never had a gf before, I used to be an incel but I glowed up over the summer but I still had some confidence issues. After class was over I talked to her again expressing interest as did she and I got her instagram which only had like 30 followers. She’s got a pretty face and at the time her build was amazing where her body fat is distributed all over in one of the best ways, similar to a build like dankii but bigger, with her belly fat distributed more to her ass and legs so it was more even all around. We talked and she’d never had a bf before and we had a lot of other things in common. The talking stage was a lot easier than I thought it would be tbh. Then we went on a couple of dates where we kissed and made out, lasting a couple of weeks. At school we got glares and people thought I was weird but I didn’t gaf. We talked about everything in a short period of time as far as dates go, including sex, which she wanted. Random day after school she wanted to hang out at her place again and she had that tone and mood about her, I said yeah and we went ive to her place. She started to get nervous asf when we got to her room but was smiling and touching me, and I knew it was that time. I went in for a kiss and we started to make out. Couple minutes in and I started to take my shirt off to initiate but she was still hella nervous so I got real close and told her something like “I love you” and took her breasts out and started to kiss and caress them. I had gained her trust and she was lwky surprised even still but after a minute of that I started to kiss her mouth again. She’d never had sex before so in hindsight I can see why she was nervous then. After that I looked at her and she fell in love. She got up and took off her clothes then same for me and then we got into bed. We made out again for more, then we got to penetration missionary style. It was an odd experience for the both of us say the least, I would go in but she’d respond in some pain but take pleasure out of it, more pain than pleasure tbh, but after something like 3 minutes we both came. It was awkward and not what I had imagined in my head leading up to this point, and she probably thought the same thing too. I had to go easy on her as well since she was wincing in pain every time I thrust. After we cuddled and embraced and kissed some more. We grew closer together and the next few times we banged, we found less awkwardness and much more communication and joy. She started to take my girthy 8 incher all the way in and I made her moan so loud to the neighbors could hear lol. The more we fucked to better I was at pleasing her and her pleasing me. Cutting it short here a little but as the year went by she started ti gain more weight, started with the belly. Not anything super noticeable but I happened to catch it. We talked before about her weight earlier in the relationship and I said I liked big women, which she took very well. By the time I graduated she was around 450 if I had to guess, she didn’t weigh herself so whenever I guess I’m just winging but after being on here for a couple years at this point I was pretty good at guessing weight based on height, with her being 5’3. Last time we hung out and banged before I left for college we promised each other to keep a long distance relationship until she came to my college, and she said that she could drive down and visit me once in a while. I left for college and until she visited me I laid on the low and didn’t cheat. During the long distance relationship we sent nudes and she told she’d gained weight, I could tell too but I thought she’d gained less than she had when I actually saw her irl, but either I couldn’t tell based on the nudes or I was distracted by work and classes. Needless to say she came to visit me, but the first thing I’d noticed was that one of her friends was driving her. We hasn’t visited in a long time due to different things but we were finally going to see each other, and damn I saw her alright. She must’ve used food to cope for me being gone for her, since she had gained some weight. Her belly had gone from minimal to HUUGE, making her head tilt slightly up since she had to carry all the fat there. Her belly not only protruded out but was up to her tits, which pushed them out to the side slightly. Her belly went down past her fupa too. She’d also gained in my legs which were like tree trunks and her arms which were flabs of meat. Shortly before I saw her standing she had trouble getting out the car and I could see why. We looked at each other lovingly then I went in for a hug and a looong kiss. We embraced for what felt like an hour, then we stopped and I told her she looked amazing. She smiled and blushed, then we went up to my dorm room. Walking up there and taking the elevator I noticed that she had gained A LOT of weight in her back and some in her ass, her back like two big pads with a crevice that came down the middle. The sides of her back fat came down the side and was connected to her tits. From the back it was like looking at FatMissT. From the couple minutes between we were outside and in my room taking our clothes off we were kissing telling each other how muched we loved each other. When she climbed into my bed from the small stairs that led up to it, I had to help her a little, making her giggle and smile some more. When we got down to it she took up the entirety of my bed and some more, leading to me taking down the guardrail next to the bed. To keep it short we kissed, did missionary with her laying sideways after finding out it was really hard to do it normal now with her belly in the way, then I cuddled on top of her with her waves of fat moving me every time she did. It was the best moment of our lives up to that point, and soon after the summer coming up she moved into the same dorm as mine, and we developed our relationship more and also banged more too, with the sex being the best and better and better as we go along, with last night being the best ever. Doggy in front of her mirror with her turning into rolls upon rolls of fat that I can grab and use to pull. Missionary with her being a massive blob going up and down. Cowgirl with her legs knealt down and her eyes closed with her going back and forth, trying to not lose her balance because of her belly with me helping her. All for 4 hours in the night. Moaning caressing yelling and cumming. She’s gained some between spring break and is now an absolute blubbered whale if she wasn’t already. Marriage and kids are something happening in the future. I’ve made it gents.

Why has this page turned into a bunch of virgin RP fanfiction stories… sorry but anyone who’s actually fucked a lot of fat women know this isn’t Willy wonka, they don’t enflate, bigger yes, but if they’re over 220 lbs their fat is so soft if the shit under it gets full, it will minimally cause things to get tight. Leave your fantasy stories in the RP chat page, this is a discussion board lmao

>>79730 Architect status. Exactly why dudes should be ‘out of the closet’ sooner than later.

Really depends on how much work you put in, and also probably genetics. And whether anything else is wrong with you. Two cases that show how weight alone is not really a determining factor: Amberlyn Reid used to be nearly immobile in the upper 500s because she was not getting up and moving. Then she got up and made a concerted effort to regain her mobility, and she did. She is probably about 30-40 lbs lighter now (maybe less) than she was at her peak, but seems to have no mobility problems. Another example is FatMissT. She is around 800lbs (or for sake of argument - i.e., so that nobody comes and tries to say she no longer that size as we have not had a weigh in in a hile - she used to be over 800), and she gets around great. My 600 Pound Life is a great place to see the variety of mobility at that weight: some people get around fine, and others cannot get out of bed. All comes back to how mobile they stayed while they gained the weight - and a lot of that I think is if they don't have someone to enable them, then they have to move around just to survive (like MissT) - then they can stay mobile at incredibly high weights, when others who weigh hundreds of pounds less have been allowed to be sedentary and lose their mobility. All that said, this is a really interesting question, and I am glad you posed it. The related issue I always wonder about is how women who are not into gaining feel when they eat themselves into needing a mobility scooter and how that does not become the wake-up call that they need to lose weight (as it is for a lot of women - for example, I would love it if my wife got that big and stayed that way, but I know that if she ever did get big enough that her mobility was compromised, even a bit, she would be going in for WLS, which would be a fate worse than death). There's a woman I know who has got to be in the upper 400s - she fluctuates and may get into the low 500s, though it is hard to tell exactly how big she is - and I know back in college she was probably around 300, and I would love to know how she allowed herself to get as big as she is and needing a scooter (she was already this big when we met her and her husband - man, I would love to wife swap with him!). If only I could ask!

Given what I'm reading on this thread it seems like it's super variable and that weight isn't even nessicary an important determining factor. I'm a guy and my weight is some around the upper bound of 300 and I have pretty good walking stamina. I live in a fairly mountainous region where I walk everywhere and I rarely get tired from walking on it's own. Last time I went on a long walk I only got tired after about two hours Standing also isn't super uncomfortable for me. In fact there are some situations where I find it preferable to stand, though admitted I can't hold the same pose for particularly long. The only thing that really gets me winded is going up stairs and even then I can usually tank one flight. I get this thread is primarily asking about women and their bodies probably deal with this type kf thing diffrently, but I though my input would be valuable. I think another good example of this would be Boberry who last I remeber was about ~700 lbs. and she seemingly has pretty high stamina while doing a decent amount of walking. Though I do understand that she is exceptional in this regard.

Spanxbeluga was navigating the airport system without a scooter when she was nearly 700lbs. That is one bad ass party girl

Age is a very important factor. Women might be quite mobile at 500 at 25, but mobility might be challenged by 35 and almost immobile by 45. How tall they are also plays a role. For example Vanilla Hippo remained mobile even at very high weights, but she is also very tall. How long you have been living with the weight also plays a role. If you have been hauling 500+lbs around for a significant amount of time, chances are that your cartilage is gone and you will be in too much pain too walk, even though you physically still could.

>>79627 Age is so overlooked. Most models have dropped off the scene by the time issues mount and when they don’t you get ones like MissFatBooty who surprises everyone when they see that the life of most super morbidly obese people after 40 starts to look a little sad. You can do all sorts of shit to yourself in your early 20s and not see immediate repercussions

>>79116 >>79117 I think it depends how they gain. Some women look fantastic as they get beyond huge - Boberry and Hayley are good examples of women who are over 600 and 700 lbs respectively and have still got attractive shapes. (FatMissT is another, if you are attracted by a belly like hers.) But then some women get all lumpy and look like a melted candle of fat: Echo is an example, and JuicyJackie may be getting that way (I still think she looks good, but those cankle rolls are not as nice as when she had a little more definition in her lower calves). Most of us here tend to like the bigger than big SSBBWs, but I know there are a lot who just like some nice, soft curves. There's room for everyone here!

>>79116 Moderate? Could me literally mean a dozen other things around her. Like I am a moderate for dating an SSBBW and helping her with her weight loss, encouraging her to exercise, and not trying to stuff her like those Taiwanese pigs? Or am I not a moderate because I think SSBBW Echo, Hailey the Big Noodle, USSBBW Supersoft, Juicy Jackie, and Juliet Summers (RIP bless yoursoul) are some of the hottest women in history and wish they could have reached double their largest/current size to be a literal blob girl like you would see on DeviantArt? Also with your chart. 2D fat is completely different from 3D. Sense of scale and volume are just lost in most artwork. Like that Tohru could be anywhere from the low 400s to low 600s depending on how tall she is meant to be, how much depth she has, and how much fat are in her calves.

In porn, no. In actual dating/relationships, yes. I don't seem to enjoy having sex with huge women as much as I do with smaller (200-275lbs, say) ones, and I don't like the idea of how much dating one would restrict our/my lifestyle. Having to plan to avoid much walking, for fitting into seating, severe curtailment of all kinds of active/outdoor activities etc. is not something I'm interested in. Ideally, I'd like a partner who'd enjoy lifting weights together (it's fun and swolefat is, IMHO, peak feminine physique). Weight loss is always disappointing, but I'm not totally coombrained so I understand that there's more to life. And lost weight tends to be regained anyway. It makes for a fun, horny cycle.

Looks-wise, I’m down all the way up the scale. Lifestyle-wise, I’d be annoyed to shit about having to redo my lifestyle. I own a unit in a big city pre-war doorman building that’s super old school nice but comes with all that means: smaller room dimensions, no parking. Car is kept at a garage down the street. I walk a lot (and fast), use transit, and I can’t imagine someone at 300+ finding any of this good. I also travel a lot and really like frictionless travel. I only pack what I can carry on, early check out has me thinking, fine I’ll just carry my backpack all day, that sort of thing. Needing all sorts of little preparations, to check luggage, having her ask “can’t we just take an Uber to the airport“ when I’m looking across the street at a subway station… it would have me seething, let alone the next stage where it’s a mobility scooter or something. It’s kind of fun and cute at the chubby end of the spectrum that they are in worse shape but still good for everything, but I know I’d eventually be saying stuff like “what you mean you want to be dropped off in front, it’s 3 fucking blocks” to someone super fat

Looking at it from the other direction, I've always wondered what my sons think of having a 350+ lb mom and if any of their friends have commented on her being so fat.

>>79498 At least one of your sons friends has a secret crush on your wife and she may even be their awakening

>>79504 Doubt that (given their choices to date), but they certainly would be genetically predisposed to loving fat women.

I feel your struggle.I was always too scared to ask a fat girl out, because as a shy and introvert person, the last thing I wanted to do was stand out from the crowd and being out of the norm. That's also why I stayed single for a long time. When I finally met and got together with my first girlfriend, my family and friends were of course anxious to see her. I immediately got those comments from my mom that she was big, and that I could do "better". She kept on making comments from time to time and remained negative about her. I think also one of my friends made some comments. Now, she had BPD and my family and friends were right that she was not good for me, but at some point it is difficult to differentiate between them being negative about her because of her appearance or because of her character. When I finally divorced her, their was a sigh a relief from my mom (and me!), but soon after she commented that she was glad that we divorced and that she knows that I don't mind if a woman is a bit bigger, but that she hoped that my next girlfriend would not be so big (she was about 5"5' and 300 lbs / 1.68m & 135 kg at her peak). That's when I told my mom very firmly that she could be glad for the divorce because she was an evil person, and that she can comment (within reason) if she really thinks someone is not right for me, but that what my girlfriend looks like is my choice, that I prefer that they are a bit bigger and that I don't want her to comment on that ever. My next gf was less big, but still BBW, but also had some mental issues (mainly depression). I could tell that my mom was not always happy with my choice, but she never made any comment. My current wife was quite big as well, but well educated, respectful job and mentally stable and my family really embraced her without comments. With regards to my friends: I have one really alpha male friend who is very vocal about his taste of women, and I think he may have made some comments in the beginning about my first gf, and she could feel how he didn't like her, but then again I can't really blame them for not liking her, I was just too binded myself. But shortly after me, another friend in our group showed up with a big gf and by now this alpha male has just accepted that his to closest friends just like a totally different type of women than he does. Long story short: tell your family and friends that they need to back off. They should judge her by who she is, not what she looks like. Tell them you like what you like, and that is some softness to cuddle. If they love you, they should be happy that you are happy, even if it is not their ideal.

>>79504 Seriously. When I was a kid, I absolutely remember the classmate with the fat mom. At Cub Scout events she’d chaperone, I used to keep tabs on where she was and would choose where stood in the group so I had a view of her lumbering around. I also remember all the parents discussing a potluck after the pinewood derby or some shit, and going a little crazy inside because there was a part where she was telling the others what food she was planning on bringing. I think I finally even asked the kid if they had a bigger toilet at home, which he didn’t seem to mind answering (no).

>>78172 She commented on how her sister used to be an high school athlete and steadily gained by eating, drinking, and smoking too much in her 20s. She also told me she wants to lose weight, but if she can’t, she hopes she never crosses 250. Right now she can kinda hide it, but in her mind 250 is when ppl start looking at you and thinking you’re fat as fuck. She has gained about 15 lb in the 2 years we’ve been together. So I guess at that rate she’d be 300 by age 30.

If the fetish really matters to you, find someone else. I'm 20+ years married to a chubby wife that has now decided to crash diet from her high of 236 with a goal of like 130. Do you know how miserable it is to be in a marriage with a woman that you have lost all phyiscal desire for because of weight loss Not to mention when you've been enjoying cooking, dining out, drinks with friends for taht long and she becomes hyper focused on weight loss - your life is now a living hell.

>>78211 I hear you! I don't get why we are the bad guys and are supposed to be supportive when - at least in my case - she was very fat when I met her, I was open the whole time (since day 1) about liking very fat women, and I have supported everything else she wanted to do. I cannot oppose the "getting healthy" part, but now that her numbers are balanced, stop already!

>>77856 Diabetes is absolutely awful and should be avoided at any cost. It's terrible for literally every part of the body and, to make things worse, scientists continue to discover new and horrifying effects. The good news is that it is reversable and since she is still PREdiabetic you should be able to avoid the worst of it entirely. The single best thing you can do to prevent or reverse diabetes is exercise. I have a family history too; my cousin's diabetes went into remission when pokemon go came out (sadly, it came back when he dropped the game), so it's not like you need to hit the gym and get shredded or anything. Cutting back on sugar wouldn't hurt either. Other guys have already pointed out that even if she loses some weight and gets healthier, its VERY unlikely that she'll ever be skinny

>>79495 >>78211 Being obese in your 20s and 30s is a lot more fun. At least you got the good years. If being a grandmother is more important than sex in her 40s and 50s this makes sense. In all honesty, 130 is unrealistic. She’ll probably lose to 145 and then gain back to 180-220 depending upon what’s motivating her loss.

>>77852 Those are works of art! Is adipositivity still going?

1) Katy Dierlam by Charles Gatewood 2) Janet Doman by Velvet D'Amour 3) ? by Jan Saudek >>79483 Last updates are from 2023: https://theadipositivityproject.zenfolio.com/all

I prevalently listen to alternative/indie rock music. My favourite bands are Muse and The Strokes

And also most of the old school dutch early hardcore and gabber,anything related to Thunderdome or 90s Gabber scene.

>>79437 Fr, all those songs are amazing. Pretty (Ugly Before)" is usually the one that gets me teary. XO and Basement usually fight for my fav.

For me it is Roots Reggae, Reggae, Dancehall, Soca, Calypso, Golden-Era Hip-Hop, mid 2000s to 2010s Hip-Hop, R&B, Blues, Jazz, Rock, Metal, Industrial, Trance and Drum N Bass, and Classical. I have seen in concert: - Cancer Bats - Ministry - Shaggy - Wu-Tang Clan - Jeru The Damaja - Farmer Nappy

I'd say I listen to a little bit of everything. But since this is not the anwser we're all here for I'll name a few dos and don'ts. What I don't like - most heavy/black metal etc. - uptempo, hardtekk - jazz - reggae - blues What I do listen to - Pop/Hip Hop music - certain Hardstyle remixes - (mild??) Techno - Classical Music - Jodel

>>79167 Spot on. Good advice regardless of length. I used to wonder if liking big chicks was something correlated with being well endowed precisely for this reason. But like anything involving millions of people, statistically I suppose you’re going to still have all types of physiologies.

>>79241 Anal penetration, with a pear-shaped BBW/SSBBW, is very possible. But you have to be patient. For one thing, you have to stay hard and take your time. You have to ease into it. Don't listen to guys that say just shove it in. Let her relax her anus, and she will let you in. And you will need her help probably too. If you are not so long, you may have to have her hold her cheeks open for you. That makes it a whole lot easier. And, unless she is really freaky, you will get more pleasure from it than she does. There is such a thing as an "ass-gasm", but don't count on it for her. She'll let you know though.

fucking talk her through it

>>79264 Re "ass job" my girl absolutely does!

>>78344 Do you lack arms, you fucking dumbass?

>>78743 As an update, I recently tried an AI tool out. Told it to replace the black guy with a white guy in an old IR BBW film with a POV angle, and it gave me 10 seconds of her being pounded by a white guy instead. I guess in a few years when it generate longer videos, we'll be able to completely remove shit we don't like.

>>79401 And hopefully someone will do something about all this fucking moderating of videos. So annoying to have limits, especially ones that seem to be so all over the place and inconsistent.

>>79401 Hell in 10 years you'll probably be able to create a virtual reality AI world where the same black guy isn't fucking your wife

>>79421 At some point, a safe haven for AI generation will open up without limits. It's happened with other kinds of tech over the years like torrents. It might even become more affordable and accessible to do it from home on budget hardware at some point. Just think, a small ASIC computer like a bitcoin miner, only instead it's sole purpose is to put your dick and body in the porno your watching. It's a trillion dollar idea, and you better believe someone out there is working on it.

>>79433 What I am looking forward to is when AI porn on the computer graduates to being VR porn. My god that will be fantastic.

>>77615 >>Tips to find 70 year old bbws Yeah, teleport to an alternate timeline where human cardiovascular system is naturally way stronger

>>77648 i work in healthcare. just yesterday i worked with a 72 year old man who was 249kg/about 550 pounds. He wasnt healthy but he was very much alive lol In fact, check the stats- old people are more likely to be obese than anyone else

>>77615 There was an anon here years ago who said he just did maintenance work for a few of them, and they would get really flirty and touchy. He was interested in the 50s range though.

>>77658 a lot of the "you're gonna die by age 50!!" posts that normies make are actually just wishful thinking.

>>77658 I wonder how old he was when he got to 500+ lbs. I am sure there must be different lifespans for a model who got to 500+ in her 20s and stays that way than some dude who was always chunky and loved eating and gradually ate to that size by his late 50s.

>>78261 Lmao I'm literally the exact guy you are describing here except I work out so I'm not scrawny and I can confidently tell you that's not the case.

This whole thread is just pot meet kettle

>>79387 I don't blame Discord for wanting user verification and bell to bell bans. I watched the Superbowl and it was safe. Sure enough the next games will be held in California again the Seahawks.

>>78287 It's wild that you believe "betas" and "gold diggers" are concretely real things and that relationships are so deterministic. Nobody who isn't repellent to women thinks much about or believes in any of this shit. We're just out here enjoying human company and good, freaky sex.

>>79486 Pathetic stuff. You're trapped in a prison of your own making.

Somebody knows if her OF is worth the Money?

https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fo/o91d7x95lqfy7dd0qf83k/AGn-u3kNs3YDp-wMjtimXI8?rlkey=3ivv0jj5en46twfrxswaxa2x3&st=0sbp3ee0&dl=0

Hey guys, do you know her or have any pic ? She was on feabie before she went by Shelovestoeat , her name is Phoebe she is 22-23

>>80427 Had a look thru her twitter, what a psycho lmao. She needs to spend some time away from the phone

>>81342 For real bro she’s fkn weird as hell

>>78880 Both things are true at the same time. Incels are triggered by tattoos on women because they represent independence, which incels are too weak to handle, AND simultaneously, belly tattoos are fucking repulsively hideous. All bbws who get them deserve to make no money whatsoever

>>78888 Agree. People who don’t like the slightest bit of ink on a woman are absolute faggots in my opinion. But there are good ones and bad ones. OPs photo is gross, Caroline Quinn’s is great. My girls got a belly tatt and I fucking love it

There's good belly tattoos, and then there's this.

>>78888 Yeah I love the dichotomy between people wanting pornstars to be pure. Such a hilarious lack of intelligence

>>79423 I think it's more about wanting them to be attractive, and not like they've just woken up from being passed out in a room with a toddler and a ballpoint pen.

Those stabilizer muscles respond really well to PT. Have her see an orthopedist ASAP to get set up with that. If she's never been in any kind of organized sports with a decent coach (i.e., learned how to exercise properly) she shouldn't be winging it. Anyone can seriously injure themselves if they don't know what they're doing and extra weight increases the chances considerably. Yes, this involves a bunch of research and grabbing free advice from wherever you can. (Like the PT who'll be working on her knees — I had a shoulder injury a while back and befriended my PT. He wound up giving me thousands in free training advice that had little or nothing to do with my shoulder.) I saw what you said about her being impatient, but her impulsivity is gonna put her out of the game long-term, or even permanently. Do what you have to do to get this into her head. You said she was smart and self-motivated so that's a good thing. Forget personal trainers though, as most are not professionals. By which I mean their certificates are bullshit, there's no regulation by any medical authority. I could get one no questions asked by the end of the week. There are exceptions but the really good trainers charge as much as a freelance physical therapist so if you've got that kind of cash hire one of them. The good news is that regular exercise boosts appetite and all things equal she won't lose much weight, and her curves will look better with some muscle underneath.

>>79398 She sounds like she is in a pretty similar situation to my wife. When we met, she was 295 lbs. Throughout our relationship and marriage, she got up to about 375 at her highest (never got to the 400+ I always dreamed of). Then she started having issues with her knees as well, and her blood sugar started getting too high, so she took tirzepatide (sp?). That has helped her numbers get to a good level, but unfortunately it has also suppressed her appetite a bit and she is down to somewhere in the 330s (she doesn't tell me and, and call me chicken, but I know better than to ask as it will lead to a discussion I don't want to have). It's why part of me would like to see her slide off her diet/exercise regimen and start gaining again (I think she has kinda plateaued, but not entirely sure), as I loved it more when she was fatter and enjoyed eating, and kinda not see that happen, as I fear if she gained too much back she might try more drastic measures. She also had some balance issues related to the stabilizer muscles around her knee - she fell twice in 2024-25, once on a cruise ship and once on our driveway. Those were what really got her started getting in shape. (Like your wife, she can be very focused on achieving an objective - the kind way of putting it, unfortunately the less kind, and more honest frankly, way of putting this trait of hers is that she is pig-headed and will not be able to see any other perspective except through he lens she sees things through). So she has been doing a modest exercise routine to work on her knees, and it seems to have worked. While I did enjoy her more limited mobility - we're not talking someone who could not walk more than 100 feet without needing to take a break (but oh, I wish she had gotten that big), but at lest one who you had to take into account her limitations when planning trips (e.g., take a bus tour instead of a walking tour). So that is kind of good (nice to have her join me in more activities when we are travelling), kind of bad (miss her being limited by her weight, esp. when she was gaining). She saw a physiotherapist for a while (as long as our insurance would pay) and she watches some on YouTube (like Bob & Brad) for the exercises she practices. And she sees a doctor for the occasional steroid shot for her knee (I think it's an orthopedic specialist - she did something to it this weekend and she is pretty sure she tore her meniscus, so is thinking about going in - dirty mind that I have, I am here wishing it would lay her up and she would be eating a lot and fatten back up, but I fear that ship has sailed). And together, these all work. So your wife will definitely be able to get herself back on track, with a little professional help, she'll get her knees back in shape. I just hope for you that she doesn't take it too far and lose more than she really needs. And be ready to mourn what was and will never come back. As a middle-aged dude, that to me is the worst of middle-age: things don't always get better, and I feel like my best days are behind me now. (Wow, what a depressing note to end on. :D)

This actually made me think of another one of the GOATs who I so wish had gone through with all the plans she talked about, but she always seemed to start things but not finish: Rebecca/Becky/Bex Bedford. She was a stunner, and nice and fat all over. Unfortunately, I think that despite all her fat positivity talk, she decided to lose weight. But thanks for the memories, Bex!

>>79345 I was just able to? I just go to the top of the index page of the board, type my stuff in, and push the post button. You need to make sure you have a subject as well. If that doesn't work, try removing your name when you start a thread. It's possible it was one of the anti-spam methods put in a year or so ago to stop bots from spamming boards with stuff. Cindy's video, isn't that the one with her and the guy and woman? Or is there another Cindy video I've never seen? She was great, it was just a shame that when she did all her work I was young. I first got exposed to her in Highschool when people posted her famous image to things like Funny Junk. And as for your images, man we had a thread over on /ssbbw/ for vintage stuff like this that I think you'd enjoy.

>>79367 Rebecca had not only a goddess tier body but a personality that shined. I miss her videos and hope she is still doing audiobooks.

>>79399 Thanks for the feedback! I'll have to try again. I tried three times one day, then another time the next, doing exactly what you note. But never worked. Not sure why, which is what makes it frustrating. The Cindy video is from 1990 and called Dicke, Fette Ficksau. Fortunately I speak German and could understand most of it (title is Fat, Fatty Fuck Sow), though quality is not great. And yeah, there was some older dude in it too. Lol! I have been on the thread you spoke of with vintage pics, and I posted some of Cheesecake there. I would love to have seen more of her, particularly if she continued to gain. I think she may be gone now - she would probably be in her 60s at this point, and at 600+ pounds, old age would unfortunately have been not all that likely. That's one thing I find in middle age: things come to an end and stuff does not always get better. (What a happy note to end on!)

>>79407 You could not be more right. She was one I would love to have met for those very reasons. I looked her up online and found a disturbingly thin facial pic on LinkedIn, which made me sad.