This might help you (and a lot of other wannabe feeders). Take notes. A guy just posted it to another very popular site:
I read a post with someone saying it's hard to date with this kink.
I stood in my own way for a little, and it was. Now it's not. So I'm going to share a few things that worked for me, and some hot stories (a little further down)!
You can boil all my advice down to be honest & sweet!
Pt.1 Let's start at the start. You meet someone. Now, I'm absolutely not complaining if their party dress was loose, and their tight date dress shows the start of a belly. Or their dating app pictures are from their formerly skinny days!
Regardless. Start slow, impress, woo — don't fetishise. If all you see is this kink, girls can tell, no-one wants that. So you treat girls wonderfully, ask thoughtful questions, truly listen, answer very honestly, don't rush to intimacy, make them feel safe above everything else!
Then, when you mention your kink you like and trust each other!
Pt.2 On the third date I tell the girl about my kink. I say, “I want to share something with you, that's a bit more personal, but I'd like to because I want to be completely myself. Then you know me more, and you can do whatever you like with this...” The way I frame it is, “I like a girl with an appetite! Someone who enjoys food. It's not something I think about all the time. But it's a puzzle piece that I want when I start feeling horny. Knowing that my girl is greedy.”
I'm not asking for anything. I'm trying to be honest and work out compatibility! I've shared this ten times and 0 out of 10 times I've got a bad reaction. I think that's because if I share it we've been on three dates, and we like each other. If she doesn't enjoy food or she's obsessed with her skinny body — I'm a bad fit. We're not for each other. And that's fine!
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