>>51020
These gfs were across san diego, SF, and portland, and nah, I'm not fat
Maybe I'm just extremely lucky, I don't think you should think this is a reflection of yourself, because yeah, it's one the biggest insecurities that exists in society.
To elaborate:
First offered to gain in the first few months, and was chill with the fetish but she had huge body issues, gained maybe 50 lbs over the 6 years unintentionally, but she worked out constantly to try not to be fat. Eventually discovered keto, lost it all and left me for someone way cooler.
Second had an ex that constantly pressured her to lose weight, then I gave her a free pass and she let herself gain from 160-263 in our 4 years. She got really into fat fetishism halfway through and always squished herself and thought about how fat she was when she fapped.
Third has an ex anorexic that originally had a thinspo blog. She initially wasn't into the kink but warmed up to it HARD. Would nonchalantly talk about hitting 200 (from 160) and seeing how she feels about 220 from there. Would say during sex, "WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TO ME? WHY IS THIS SO HOT?" and our sex talk revolved around that shit. She even said completely outside of sex or any horny situation, "...I wish you'd be more assertive in fattening me up." would say shit like, "i can't wait to be literal soft serve in your bed. Broke up because she was kinda fucked in the head. Hilarious and sweet person, but could go into these hysterical cry/anger fits for hours if something set her off.
Current girlfriend is also ex anorexic, like, some really rough shit. She does struggle with insecurity sometimes, but she has fun with it, explores it as a way to heal, gets turned on by it during sex, and jokes about it as she's my "DIY chubby girl burgis-pilled, squishmaxxer" she's gone from 110-145 in the past 2 years and when i told her my ex was around 160, she laughed and said, "rookie numbers"
All that being said, none of them were ever scared off by the kink, and all of them were willing to engage in at least some extent. As long as they love you, and know you love them a lot of girls are pretty open-minded